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lexy2014: Oga, I am not here to discuss Buhari. As he came he will also go but Nigeria remains. Very sad that the average Nigerian is willing to take and talk trash about their country just because they do not like the leader. 1 Like |
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SMH ...and the Nigerians in the class kept quiet or most likely ed the idiot faculty. So they have run out of bad leaders in Europe to go as far as Africa to get an example? SMDH |
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I am not sure I see what the fuss is about. These days the difference between a student who comes first and one who comes 5th may be 0.5%. It is possible to have a student perform very well but come a distant 19th. It is quite common, especially in lower classes like Nursery. Edit: Just saw that the child averaged 1st to 3rd in all subjects. Yeah, the 19th position is a stretch. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Your husband had been a womanizer before you married him and his actions after your marriage indicate that he had no intention of putting that lifestyle behind him. This alone, in my view, is grounds for an annulment unless you were aware of his kind of person. I am not sure how you missed it in the 6 years he was your boyfriend, but what you do going forward depends solely on you. The fact that you guys have a child together does not make the union valid. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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Can you prove what your eyes saw without resulting to a 'he said and I said' arguement? If you do the present the matter to your direct manager and let him or her decide what happens. If you keep it to yourself you therefore assume a role you were not employed for, and it is very possible that the good you think you want to do may come back to hunt you. |
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When something bad happens, "He is Nigerian" but when it is good, "He is a citizen". SMH.
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Gravatar: I don't think the airbags deployed, at least that of the dude in the hospital did not, otherwise he would not have hit his head against the steering wheel. |
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Sainturch1: Lagos. |
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Sinachi100: Thanks. The N95k includes the delivery fee to anywhere in Nigeria. You may call to negotiate PS: Still available. |
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Dawn91: Thanks, but I just purchased a new phone. PS: Still available. |
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Hi, I recently upgraded and want to sell. Price: N95k The receipt and everything in the pack are available.
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She should ensure the papers are in her name o. When kasala burst, the first thing to go are the very expensive gifts.
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Great development. I hope they include the sculptors of those who also died in that crash. You are missed Kobe. 1 Like |
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Realchairmann: I find myself in a similar situation but with a little twist (I am not inclined to relocating abroad). I do want my wife to go for further studies abroad to help with the kids schooling (if they choose to study abroad), but (like your wife) she is reluctant because of the wonderful bond we share. I understand her position and we are currently trying to see how we can reach a compromise. I am not sure what that is yet but it is something we are working on. If you find a workable solution, maybe you could share and help me learn from your experience. |
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Ayoshewa12: Wow. Your post just made my day. I you in thanking God. |
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Ayoshewa12: Okay. Is the little one we celebrate today the same as the beautiful and strong baby you mentioned earlier? The one born at 1.5kg? If not, I hope she is okay and doing very well? Please feel free not to answer if the subject is touchy. For all that it is worth, I think you are very strong. I was with my wife at the labour room for our two boys and I know first hand that the process is never easy. I cannot believe how she would have done it all alone. You did and came here to tell your story. I cannot begin to imagine all that you went through. My respect ma. 4 Likes |
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Very touching. Happy birthday little one. I would have loved to ask but would rather not. I am very glad everything turned out alright. 1 Like |
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You are very brave. I would prefer to be with my wife than have her be in some remote location. Just thinking out loud: what has your wife being Igbo got to do with anything? ![]() 74 Likes 2 Shares |
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Mehn...you are thinking too much about yourself. My thoughts... Getting fat is expected during pregnancy. I am a bit puzzled why that should bother you. I am no doctor but I am almost sure that making her too conscious of her appearance may have some psychological effects which in turn may affect the development of the baby. Whenever my wife get's pregnant I add a few pounds because I eat almost everything she craves for. We grow fat together during pregnancy and after birth we go on a weight loss journey together. This has been working for us. You wife may not be as lazy as you think. It takes a lot of skills to be good at making up. If she does that very well, you may want to help her see the need to commercialize that talent. Becoming a make-up artiste may just be a way for her to put what you consider negative into positive use. I don't think calling your wife "lazy" is cool though. I would strongly recommend that you do not make your wife a promise you do not intend to keep, or make your gift to her contingent on something you want her to do or not do. Getting her a vehicle because you are tired of her using the 'family vehicle' doesn't sound right. If you buy the vehicle, but she still decides to continue using the current vehicle, what next? In my household I consider all our vehicles as 'pool cars'. Everyone has the right to use any whenever they feel like. Matter of fact, my wife's right to use any of the vehicles comes first before mine. Not sure I touched on all the points...tired of typing. ![]() 1 Like |
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Aduke23: Hmmmmm... Yours is coming early. I felt exactly that way after I concluded my first degree exams. I am not sure what triggered it. Probably fear of the unknown, but I channeled that fear into creating positive energy which propelled me to achieve a bit more than I deserved. I am sure you will be fine. 1 Like |
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CSTRR: Tough. ![]() |
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Imjustagirl: Very much appreciated. 1 Like |
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Hilariousfacto: You are very brave. Please a question... With the beating, aren't you scared your kids may become afraid of you and in the process get disconnected into adulthood? I love my dad dearly but he was not one to spare the rod. Overtime we got closer to our mum (our defender of the Universe back then) while our relationship with our dad became strained. For almost two years I did not inflict any form of 'corporal punishment' on my 2 year old, but I noticed that he now exhibits some traits that require correction. I, very recently, started 'spanking' the dude, but noticed that he gets 'uncomfortable' around me whenever I am 'not happy' with him. I am a bit uncomfortable with this. Does that happen in your case, and how do you deal with it? I guess this makes it three questions. Thanks. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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Not sure why you would suspect your wife of something I consider terrible. ...but really, if she hid this source of income from you then I presume you have some explaining to do. Anyways, it is possible the cash is not hers. |
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daddytime: Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
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daddytime: Me like your post very much. A bit curious though at response 1. Age 3? I have a 2 year old that is fast becoming my very own "follow-come charger". Likes to be everywhere with me. I thought it was already late introducing him to his own bedroom. Seeing your post suggests age 3 may just be the right time to do this. Is that correct, or I should start now? 5 Likes 4 Shares |
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