NewStats: 3,264,785 , 8,184,703 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 11:21 AM 5p4dq

Yomit71:

by cutting off the head and buying a new one right?

Lol sarcasm

silibaba:
baseless sis

Don't worry, that's fine
But I'm talking from facts and data's which is more effective than sentiments...

Bunkbars:
This is a very bad mentality.

Nah
I'm just being practical
If you wait for karma to fight your cause,it might just fight it in your next generation, I hope you get my cause..
So instead of waiting for karma,just keep living your life...

NOwazobia:
Karma doesn't necessarily mean receiving in the fashion you gave, and neither does it necessarily mean being undertaken by same person it was done to.

Yes! Karma is real. If you could dig deeper about the positive or negative state of some persons today, it will shock you to know that it was as result of what they did in time past.

Also, Karma is not necessarily negative, it could also be positive. It simply means you receive whatsoever you give, it could even be through indirect means i.e the people and things you hold dearly.

Karma is simply the law of Cause & Effect.. This is just one of the 12 laws of Karma.

The issue is that karma can be hindered but our sole believe on karma happening most times is born from dissatisfaction of happenings and expecting something superficial to justify our cause and fight for us in the same measures...

jaxxy:



It’s not about being a bitch or having sm bitch in u that makes ur character less tasteful rather about knowing how to differentiate good from bad in relationships.

I know many gals with the little bitch in them and even worse behavior bt they still get dealt with by baddos day in and out. Their bad bitch behavior infact only drives of the good guys and leaves them with a bunch of wolves to choose from. At the end it’s still tears.

Bad bitch or not u better know how to spot the good from the bad or it’s same outcome. I’ve seen good gals get what they want also cos they knew how to identify it.

Yh I get you
What I was saying is that being a good girl has to come with strategizing at times, something's might be out of your books to do as a good girl but you have to do it if you want what you want..

alexmakaay:



Sis.. Law of karma is a human attempt to describe the natural principles of the universe, it is not far from from law of gravity. It is never to suit their predicament. Aside that, your submissions is simply your view or another attempt to describe the same law of karma albeit unknowingly.

Nah nah
Law of karma is just something propounded by man to make him feel better

Mitsurugi:




No. She was shocked. The gifts were given to me in 2009. I still had them in 2021. Don't be impish.

ghen ghennn ghen ghennn
Put them in a Glass Bottle or a wooden Box and keep as one of Family's treasures, something your kids can ponder about.

Choilila:


I got the information from the [horse mouth ]ur dad

Nigerian men are cheap and useless.

Ahn ahnnn
Be calming down
Kole toyi

Mitsurugi:



All relationships mustn't work out the way we want (sometimes death or even genotype might test even the best) so it's better to share true and happy moments. Such outlast relationships. Strange I've gotten jobs from some of my exes.

Not strange
They're just good women you've been with

Mitsurugi:
Cuff links and a pair of shades. She's married now with 3 kids. She was shocked.

Mine is a Sea Shell,cream and brown,has a ceramic feel to it .
We got a pair at a Beach ,strapped to leather like neck ropes with a hole burrowed to the bottom.
My leather strap is gone but my Sea Shell's still looking new.
I don't know if he's still got his,but I'd just leave mine as an Antique.
It's the most significant piece we shared to me.

Nope

autofreak2020:
I'm tryna document my journey in this industry as Cryptocurrency and blockchain content creator.

How u see am?

Can I work for you for like 3 days?
Don't worry
You don't need to pay me.
Please tell me if you're interested.
Thank you.

Any other person interested in this offer
Let me know
Note:You don't need to pay me.

GirishTibor:
Content writers needed
If interested DM 0 7 0 5 4 0 1 1 4 5 4

I ed you
Don't worry I have nothing to hide..
Your work ethic isn't nice..
It's a public forum
Just be nice next time
Lot's of what you said were pretty wrong.
Trying to shame me for ing you....hmmn..
Trying to justify for not elucidating....hmmnnn
Going all "I'm a Nigerian with me....hmmn
Just try to be more thoughtful..
Merry Christmas in Advance.

Ixua:

Which love? The love that is dependent on what you offer?....your money?....Ladies love men because of what the have to offer. A man can love a woman unconditionally and when he is asked what has attracted him to her, he says, I just love her.

When you come across a woman that "loves" you, you'll know.
All these you wrote isn't love.
No she likes your money or stuffs you've acquired.
A woman that loves you mostly look beyond your pocket.
Too bad most of them are taken for granted by their men.

SundayNightGist:


Thank you jari my sister.

You welcome

SundayNightGist:


Hmmn
Meaning his avoidance of sex should have made him more focused and therefore more successful, otherwise baba don lose all be that.
Deep

Yes now

Ixua:


Nne, na lie be this.....o. And you know it.
Money, more money and more money is what females want. And even with the money sef, they will never be satisfied. You know that thing they say in economics that Human wants are insatiable, if those guys really want to tell you the truth about that stuff, you would know they were referring to women.
People should just learn how to discipline their emotions so that would see clearly.

Love balances the insatiability

BeeBeeOoh:


I dey Man U today, at least make area cool for like 2-3days.

You know noise pollution is not good to human health? Abii I lie?

I saw what you did there
Brutal

flexyrule:
This Alonso should just retire from football and go into fish farming.

Hudson Odoi should be a bank teller.

Timo Werner should take up a career in hunting. With that, the world's widlive would be save coz the fellow is very good at missing. He won't shoot an elephant even at close range.

Jorghino should be in jail.

Why are you wicked
Lolllll

yomi007k:


Nne na lie be that thing oo....

No be lie ,hear ram
No be lie ...

yomi007k:


You need love becos it is oxygen,blood or food?

You don't know the meaning of the word "need".

Don't we all need love?
We need healthy companionship
It's a good therapy for calmness

Jayzel:
But like seriously
Why can't we just be happier in a relationship ?
What do we seriously need to do that can make a relationship have a happy ending, even if we need to separate must we end it in sorrow and hatred all the time ?
I do imagine all this question and most times i get over it but telling myself maybe she's not the right one 4 me but NO ! damn fucking no bro.
we most times don't find d right word's to decribe what really cuz breakup's in most relationship's we do create wit our partner's, we get older everyday by day, and yet we do jump into relationship to another relationship within some month's or yrs. but wat really causes it, is it lack of money,understand,not satisfying each other on sexual needs or any of the above wat jus it the damn fucking problem to our early breakup's ? is this how we gonna train ourselves for marriage becuz no relationship no fucking marriage !! u can't just jump into marriage conclusion without understanding if ur partner is really down 4 it . JAH BLESS 4 NOW.

I guess it's sense
Some people don't use their sense,so they go into a relationship without reasoning why.

Tabling out the qualities and sticking to it,analysing that their option is just fit.

So they enter without a reason and keep feeling something is off and see no reason but to come out.

SundayNightGist:
Society has a way of making the older virgin guys look stupid and weird for staying away from sex for so long. From nasty assumptions that such a man is gay to outright rejection by females for thinking he will be incapable of sex, there are so many kinds of stigma attached to the male virgin who is in his late 30s.
 
In fact, the older the male gets as a virgin, the harder his chances of getting laid.
 
See are we now saying that being a virgin at 38 or anywhere near 40 and beyond as a guy is an abnormal thing?

I guess the real issue will be if he is a broke virgin at that age.
Then really, it's not worth it.
Let him just keep being a Virgin.

IamKizzbrown10:
LET’S TALK!! Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Poverty Of Their Boyfriend?


A Nigerian man has taken to social media to pose a controversial question to women about their mindsets while going into relationships.
It is no strange knowledge that women often mention financial stability when mentioning a man they would love to date or marry. Others specifically say they would never date a broke or struggling guy.

Well, wading in on the matter, a Twitter with name @henryruckus1 has asked why women are okay with enduring the poverty they were born into but can’t do same with their boyfriends.

He wrote:

”Pls I have a question. Why do ladies endure poverty of their parent but can not endure poverty of their boyfriend”

The post has since generated divergent views with some ladies saying that they had no choice with their parents because that’s the family they were born into, but with a boyfriend, you have the option of not ‘suffering’ with him.

So Nairaland what’s your take?

Simple answer
They had no choice to choose their Parents but they have a Choice to choose their Boyfriends.

Cokahot:
Yes,I almost killed someone yesterday. First was this useless bastard edo boy I had known for quite sometime. After staying with me for someday,I noticed he has been searching my stuffs,he spoilt my dstv decoder and acted like nothing happened. I walked him out of my house and then he starts to raise his useless voice at me. For someone I feed and dash things too. I was so shocked and angry and wished I had a gun. As if that was not even,two hours later,someone ran intomy rear bumper by 7pm and was still claiming right. I wanted to beat up the driver and his madam for fucking up my paint,but then I rem what my bro told me,that I should never lay my hands on anyone,what if they dropped dead .I left everything to God, God saw my heart. Nigerians are just ungrateful,help someone today and that same person's yells at you and tells you what have u done for him or her. U can imagine. I have become totally anti social right now

You need love in your life.
Love is patient,love is kind.
Get yourself a Baby, you'll know what perseverance is like and putting your temperance in check.
Merry Christmas in Advance.
Sorry about the bashings
Try not to be too careful,at times we attract what we fear.

Mamayam:

A process since 2017?

You have to personally be willing to heal
Personally try to get better
Cause asides drugs and all,the day you'll have short comings, you'll get depressed again,best drug or not.

So first,work on your immunity to depression

MisterKennedy:


Thank you so much baby. Merry Christmas to you too.

Sweetie please send me a message on Whatsapp 08100553547

Your Wife won't like it

Mamayam:

I am actually more interested in the "antidepressant" effects of psilocybinn. From my reading, the effect comes fast unlike traditional antidepressants.
I really want to see which of my cognitive deficits will improve with the "depression". Because my cognitive issues have improved temporarily/permanently in matter of minutes and hours, just like a switch. Yet the antidepressants are supposed to take time(years?) before they start to work?

Antidepressants are not magics you know.
It's a process
You have to take consistent medications.
With time you can stop or not.
As you take it,getting active and working on staying happy will help quicken the process.

OlapejuB:



Smile....
Let’s help them with our prayers!

Ehn ehnn

MisterKennedy:

You're right dear

Merry Christmas in Advance

Mamayam:

Of course, it is a disorder. A serious one.
The problem is not the sound. The same cricket, generator sounds etc that were nothing 10 years ago suddenly have pattern to them. I think there is an overactivity somewhere in the brain. I have the visual one too. I enter a room, look at a "smooth wall" and the millions of dirts, bits of cement, holes immediately form a facial pattern. These patterns would take hours to catch before. Same as the sound patterns. The symptom has improved before. Some of those patterns become less obvious. If my condition worsens, I immediately hear new patterns I was oblivious to.
It is a serious disorder no one has to endure. It is sole reason I am not able to read to comprehend. I can only do scanning/skimming. I have been unable to study anything since 2017!

So it's one of these two
Either get involved in things and people more or reduce it.
Getting involved helps with an healthy distraction.
Next is to trick your mind
When shapes starts to form like a human face or an anomalous form,tell yourself "it is nothing" and remove your eyes from it.
You have to trick your mind.
It all starts inside your head.
As for the sound's,if you've not been given meds to balance the cerebral part that might be causing that.
For now,when you hear them, just say it's nothing, you're just fine,then you can go ahead to use your earpiece in playing music.

When everywhere is quiet,play rhythm and Blues.
Play Country music.
There's this Nigerian old school that's just like Apala,slow tunes.
Play them.

Music doesn't just soothe the soul alone,it helps soothe the mind too.

Replace abnormal rhythm with soothing one's,for now ,make sure nowhere is completely quiet.
Try your best to calm your mind,trick it to "all is well"
You'll be fine.
Merry Christmas in advance.

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

Lol. You're kind-hearted.

Thank you