NewStats: 3,265,295 , 8,186,290 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 10:20 AM 6e1h1j

Greetings, I have 140k.

timidapsin:
Still available

The truth is, you must go through the emotional pain of knowing you've been betrayed by a lady you loved and gave everything to. I know this because I have gone through something similar, although not as similar as yours, but it involved paternity fraud, but we weren't married.

You've done well by taking her out of your home. A move very necessary for your mental health. I will add this - a woman whom you caught cheating on you, if you still maintain whatever relationship existing between you both, such a woman will never respect you. Subconsciously, she would always see you as that guy who will accept the lowest of lows. Such a woman will never love you genuinely because she doesn't feel and see you as a superior man. In fact, the very fact that she cheated on you, bore another man's child while being with you should tell you that she does not rate you. You shouldn't be with a lady that doesn't rate you.

It's also time to get closer to God. Ask God in prayer to lift this heavy burden of pain off your chest. This is the only therapy that can help you.

In closing, you will be fine if you don't harm yourself. Today I'm in a better place emotionally than I was 5 or 6 years back. Life will always get better with time.

Coming from a person who has been through the things you described, what you did is childish.

If a lady doesn't like you because she thinks she has found a better man, allow her be. Yea it's painful; especially when you've spent years with the lady, made sacrifices for the relationship, gotten to accept her flaws and you see a real future with her.

You need to mature to a level where you can love a person while understanding that it's okay for her to leave anytime she wants to, and you'd be fine.

You actually gift yourself a superpower if you can manage to get over a lady whom you love, but who wants out because she loves you no more.

I actually read your posts, and you come across as being an interesting & educated lady. Ohhh..you're also a health worker (nurse), I really would love to get to know you. I did send a dm.

Vijuchoco:
I doubt it

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imagrg:
That's preposterous!
You thrust your preek in that stinking hole? Go for a test my boy!

I'd welcome beautiful friends

Poverty na bastard.

Aboki

Smile4mee01:
I'm a single 39yr old Nigeria guy in diaspora trying to settle down and going to Nigeria to marry is not an option.

I'm an introvert who has been through some childhood trauma in my family and really fear marriage because of what I have seen and how bad it can be sometimes.

However, an old female friend and colleague of mine who we worked together in Nigeria and now in canada recently ed me and she is also single and not had children. She is doing well for herself and now a citizen there while I'm not. A part of me is concerned about

1. Fertility : I desire children. However, can she have me healthy children @ 39. How many can she have? I discussed us trying for a child , she appears to want a.marriage first. But what gurantees do I have to have children.


Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.



Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.

crowniran:
Hi guys what can I do differently? I am going for my 5th attempt. My 3rd and 4th attempt, I had a finding that covers 31k out of 52k. However, I am going with another school with 79k+ out of 108k. These are MBA programs. I need your help, thank you.

Pink pill thread? The fuq never heard about it. These folks are something else.

luminouz:


They have their own pink pill thread. I don't think any redpiller ever went there to say shiit. We just don't give a fuq. But women can't stop interrupting our convos here and you always wonder why. You don't like something? Then stay away and do you. We always handle them here by ignoring them.

Kindly refrain from quoting any f moniker on the thread. We don't need their attention, and we won't engage them in conversation, lest the thread be closed down by the owner of Nairaland. That's the holy grail of desire from the feminists on NL

As much as you people pour spittle on this thread, you always come around to read posts from this thread y'all like to call useless.
The redpillers do their dealings here, they mind their business, they don't go outside of their redpill thread talking down on other folks, yet you people would come to their thread to look for what you've not misplaced.

But then, i can't blame you for this behaviour as it's something you have control over..

Ishilove:

So how to successfully bed women is the "most powerful thread" on Nairaland??

This is a new year, you better change your priorities from obo to owo. Smh

*Unfollows thread.

Zero tolerance for nonsense in 2024

If this present lady is stressing you mentally, look for someone else.

If my opinion of Kanu is correct, Kanu will never sign anything presented to him that doesn't advance his goal of referendum. I think he accepts that the advancement of a Biafra state is the sole reason he is on earth.

AK481:
At times I wonder why the government isn't interested in peace in the SE, the peace in the SE is a very low hanging fruit but wickedness prevents common sense .

Igboho was released with connivance from tinubu ,yet MNK is still in jail .

Just because of one man the security forces are dying like flies in SE, how much is MNK life worth ?

If statistics shows that the next soldiers to die in SE can be prevented by the release of MNK, why not release him?

Get him sign an undertaking of peace like uwazurike and everyone goes home happy .

Let me predict that some low thinking individual here will quote me and start writing without critical reasoning .

I will gladly welcome a beautiful friends.

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