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Lordfranklin:

Exactly. Your personal text is the perfect summary of my kind of behaviour

Wow. And you know one of my biggest challenges. Communication with average Nigerian ladies. They seem to hate intellectual discussions, they find it very boring and out of their league. They want you to talk about love, Bbnaija, gossips. Only few cope with deep interactions

Lordfranklin:
We're in the same shoes bro. My own worse gan! I've not been able to keep a girlfriend till date. There was one I asked out the other day and she accepted. Immediately she did I lost interest and now she's dating herself.
She's a typical example of many past relationships I've had before. As long as I'm in a relationship with you just know that I'll be the one to initiate the break up. I won't lie I have met beautiful souls. I've always had the good fortune of dating well-mannered ladies. The problem is always from me. I dunno but I'm not proud of my character. Lots of ladies see me as one hell of an intelligent chap and hell yes, I'm also a sweet talker; not the loquacious type. I emit signals unconsciously, signals that draw them to my persona. Most times they'd say, "Hey! You've got a melodious baritone, a confident poise, a captivating smile and a tongue laced with saccharine"
And before you know it they fall in love and that's when crazy me takes over. I don't know if I can ever get married with this attitude

Yes. That's the point. You attract a lot but struggle to keep any. I think it's not about pride or ego. Its behavioral

Katsuke:
Same happened to me , focus more on your career, with time, you'll start getting the feelings back.

I for one had to date multiple girls, had to go through peaceful breakups because I wasn't deep into the relationship.
Today I hype the lady, get her attention, talk to her and we got cool,,,Tomorrow I get tired of the lady and life goes on. I just focused on building my life en career and I just started having those feelings back. Now she means alot to me and she broke that habit of mine forcefully with her constant love and care....

Op you ain't a Robot.... The feelings will definitely come back.
My 10cents

Exactly, nobody is immune to love. I hope I can get that connection with a lady soon

Ugaboy:
We are in the same shoe...U are an introvert i guess...in my compound we have more single ladies than guys, once im back from work or lecture...i lock myself in, u'll neva notice my presence at home
...i hate ladies company, i dont acept visiting or visiting em, i dont pay attention to green light or sexual advances...calling or wanting to converse on fb for a long time, it a no for me
...someone once asked me, u no dey f*ck, i just laugh, person like me b*ng ur babe, nah after 10yrs u know, bcus i dont discuss my love and sex with people
...the craziest is that i dont smile
...i dont see my attitude as an issue, i got to undastand i tend to save more, focus more on important things than wasting positive chasings ladies.
once i hit my goal, i will have fun. calm down, u are doing the rite thing.

Nice bro. I think i share some behavioral traits with you

I have been struggling with some attitudes. I find out that I struggle to love or be in love. I might ask a girl out today. Chat and call her for few days and start losing interest. Mind you, its not because she is not reciprocating, it is just me. I once had a girlfriend who thought I was cheating or not serious with her just because I don't call always. I might be online but don't chat her up. Sometimes I will just be viewing status

When people leave, i don't miss them. I might just experience an emptiness for few days especially if you are close to me, and that's all.

Why

Egungun be careful na express you dey go so


So of all the women, it is her brother's wife he wants

Ipromote:
Good one!
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How can i get it

joceey:




In some part of this world, you been in love with your cousin or your cousin been in love with you can be seen a normal thing not this part of the world Africa and an we carry religion and bible for head even in the bible they are people that got married to their cousins e.g Zelophehad's daughters, Mahlah, Tirzah, Hoglah, Milcah and Noah, married their cousins on their father's side to obey Lord's command. Lord said: "no inheritance shall be transferred from one tribe to another. This is a complete list of the marriages that God forbids. This list includes those found in Leviticus 20:11-21; Deuteronomy 22:30; Deuteronomy 27:20-23; and 1 Corinthians 5:1. But marriage with a first cousin is not prohibited. It should be noted that God does not prohibit marriage with a brother’s wife in the case of Levirate marriage (Deuteronomy 25:10). Before God established these laws, marriage between brothers and sisters was allowed. For example, Abraham married his half-sister (Genesis 20:12). Scripture does not prohibit marriage between first-cousins. Yet, there are several things to consider. First, it would be a serious error to say more than what scripture has said or to add to scripture.

This one dey quote Bible to incest.

The problem is not about your girlfriend living as a couple with the guy in the past. The real issue is that she is still in love with the guy. Trust me, she can still go behind and cheat with him. Okafor's Law is f**king real

From the way you are sounding, you seem to love her so much that's why you are feeling so bad. I will advice you to thread carefully.

Their problems

zed7:
Another childish post. Your hustling is to attract puss? Not to live a comfortable life, not to add value to the life of family and other people in need?
Anyone with self esteem will be ashamed to know women are only attracted to him just because of money. Actually, they are not even attracted to him, they are attracted to the money.
I never spent any money on a lady I was asking out. If you find me attractive and decide to date me, only then will I open the wallet and trust me, I know how to spoil my women.
Boys learn, money will not bring you women, what you will get are hustlers, gold diggers and ho's. Hustle so you can live in comfort and afford stuff without begging or borrowing nor because you want leeches around.
Women who have self worth will always still turn down a 'money miss road'. I have seen loads of women turn down rich guys with poor personalities.

With all his audio money

Nigerian businessman Aliko Dangote has hinted he could buy Arsenal in 2021, if a number of multi-billion dollar projects for his company are completed on time.

The 62-year-old founded the Dangote Group - the largest conglomerate in West Africa - in 1981, which deals with the manufacturing and production of a number of consumer goods including sugar, cement, rice, flour and fisheries.

Dangote has a net worth of more than £8.5 billion ($11 billion) and has been heavily linked with a takeover at Arsenal in the past, with the club currently owned by Kroenke Sports & Entertainment.

Stan Kroenke is the majority shareholder at Emirates Stadium, but Dangote could be in a position to buy him out by next year, with his company set to begin the production of the largest single-train refinery in the world later this year in Lekki, Lagos State.

Africa's richest man is concentrating on that business venture at the moment, but says he plans to buy Arsenal when the Dangote refinery is finished.

"It is a team that, yes, I would like to buy someday, but what I keep saying is we have $20 billion (£15 billion) worth of projects and that's what I really want to concentrate on," Dangote told the David Rubenstein Show.

"I'm trying to finish building the company and then, after we finish, maybe sometime in 2021 we can.

"I'm not buying Arsenal right now, I'm buying Arsenal when I finish all these projects because I'm trying to take the company to the next level."

The Gunners are very much in the middle of a transitional period at the moment, with the 2019-20 campaign disrupted by significant changes in the dugout.

Unai Emery was sacked in November after just over a year in charge of the first team, with his assistant Freddie Ljungberg then asked to step up to the role of head coach on an interim basis.

Arsenal took their time before appointing Emery's permanent successor, and eventually identified Manchester City No.2 Mikel Arteta as the right man to take the club forward.

The former Gunners captain signed a three-and-a-half-year deal at the Emirates on December 20, with his appointment largely welcomed by ers and experts.

Arsenal have won two of their last three matches under Arteta , with a crucial Premier League fixture at home to Sheffield United up next on Saturday.

The north London outfit are 10th in the standings at the moment, 11 points behind fourth-placed Chelsea in the race for the final Champions League spot

https://www.goal.com/en/news/african-billionaire-aliko-dangote-buying-arsenal-2021/cq374dze8t5x1uke1fwkqggvf

My skepticism towards marriage disappear when I see happy family like this

When he had sense

SendAbroad:


How did you confirm it's a lady and not Yahoo Yahoo using ladies pictures?

Lol. They are real people I meet not online shit

Rosay15:
Must you generalize
Smh

No disrespect to the few hard-working ladies

It is difficult not to generalize since far too many girls are guilty of this. Just as it is difficult not to generalize that Nigeria is corrupt

seniorgozman:

I don't think so, guys own dey annoying that when you decline to help, they will try to victimise you by saying because I am not a girl.

Playing the victim card

anonymuz:
@ op ur head dey there. Just met a lady on Wednesday, next thing was..i want to make my hair, just laughed,just less than 30 minutes of talking o.

Exactly. After hair, the next will be house rent, subscription

Offpoint:
The rate at which guys create thread here whining about the female folks, if we can channel same energy into creating business idea threads... half of the guy's here woulda been millionaires.

Until you are a victim of this, you won't understand

seniorgozman:
It's not only ladies, guys are also guilty of the begging

I bet you there are too many ladies than guys

The rate of begging is just too much. You people should strive to work for your own money and stop spending all your life on Snapchat, Facebook and Instagram looking for cheap likes as if your life depends on it.

It has gotten to the extent that any time I see a lady chat me up (they will never chat u until they need help). I will jejely ignore the chat. If you dare reply the simple, watsup?, the next message will be demands. So typical!

Hard to see an independent and self made lady. It is even harder to see anyone with any thing in their head apart from their ugly make up.

This is an insult to boobs

Cc: Cossy orjiakor

Ilamina, wake up from confusion

Another serial killer

My only problem with the university is that the congregation whose contributions built the school cannot even afford the school fees

Free the sheeple

Fine child. You are now becoming responsible

Ndi slay queen Are you trying to tell us you are beautiful when we cannot see your real face. Remove that layers of paint from your face

Slay queen that cannot even spell "business" or construct a meaningful sentence, is that one a slay queen