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I cant the last time I bought anything from computer village. Avoid that place like a plague. Na thieves and fraudsters full there. At least like 95% of the ppl there anyway. Why did you not advice your client to buy directly from starlink? Starlink only sells to individuals or corporations so if you're buying from computer village, you're buying a pre ed device. After all, they ask for your NIN when you order as well. You are also at fault for dealing with ppl you don't trust or know their parents house. 400k is not change in this era. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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This is disgraceful parenting.
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I will advise you to breakup with him. Can he not help the ex wife with the rent? After all. His kids are there. The guy nor get shame sef. Use your head as well. Nor be everything una go type.
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Patronize your brother. If the prices he is giving you is higher than your quote to the company. Buy like 50percent from him and buy the rest somewhere else in order for you to get some profit. Also recommend your suppliers to him so that he can sell at better prices to other customers as well. Dont sideline your brother because of money. Nobody knows tomorrow. I remeber my neigbour back then. He quarelled with his brother because of his wife. Now him and his wife are dead and they left 3 kids behind. Na the same brother go still look after them. Anyway, think beyond profit margin.
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You're joking right? These ppl have been producing oil since 1933. The royal family has not changed hands since. Money stays in one place and their system works wonders for them. To my mind. The Arad royals are the riches in the world. ARAMCO IS WORTH 7 TRILLION DOLLARS.
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It's an unfortunate incident. I plead with everyone to learn from this. Because the MD should know that there is no way the ant will make that transfer without someone giving the go ahead. Always ask for confirmation, something similar almost happened to me in my former work place but I thank God for my xiaomi mi 6. I recorded the phone call and played for my boss. Then. He still blamed me but at least I had proof.
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People nor really get problem for this life Sha.
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I honestly don't see why somebody in this economy, making minimum of 5k a day, would decide to dump it and go for another degree, when the first degree was practically useless to her. Anyway, like Elon Musk will say, people go to college because they don't know what they want to do. My brother, continue making your money and expand. Today its POS, tomorrow you will add more to your portfolio. If you are in Lagos, just buzz me, you are a correct person and thinker.
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Also, don't live life to please a woman, You will end up disliking her once your eye clear.
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Hello bro, most women only learn from experience. Just let her go and do the Masters, she go still use am apply for Job wey nor dey, then her eye go open say na time she waste. Regards.
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Bro, don't allow any child to be vaccinated in your school o. Some kids react badly to vaccine and might develop fever or other side effects. What you can do is tell the parents to ensure they vaccinate their child either at home or at the hospital. I those days. The workers go house to house, discuss with the parents then vaccinate their children. Not one random women that decides to tear off her data page to prevent any communication whatsoever. Be careful ND you are liable if anything happens to those kids. Regardless of whether or not your intentions were good.
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Hello Poster, it would have been better if you included your age in the equation. That way the advice will be tailored accordingly. If the age difference is not much, for example, if you are 35+ and she is between 40 to 44, I do not see anything wrong with it. If she truly makes you feel all these things that you have typed, you will regret for the rest of your life that you did not at least, let her know how you feel about her. Regards.
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Wow, a poor man's life in this country can only go from bad to worse. He will be arrested at the end of the day and he will probably be jailed for the rest of his life. The neighbour that mentioned the unfounded allegation to him should also be arrested and prosecuted as an accomplice. Which kind death be this for 2022 sef.
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She has made sacrifices for me too. she even assisted me when i wanted to buy my first car back then. If you find the right lady, you will enjoy life and those things that you are seeing as work and sacrifice will be nothing.
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I feel for you my brother. That’s why I advise my friends not to rush into marriage if you cannot comfortably take care of two ppl. May I ask, is she a graduate? Why can she not apply for jobs. Before I got married to my wife l, we made sure we worked her nysc to Lagos and I drove her to almost all the interviews she had and she finally got a job. By the time we got married, I collected her cv and started sending to better companies and she’s now earning well and doesn’t disturb me for 1 naira. I’m even sure her salary my own sef. What I’m saying is, if the business is too hard for her, dust her cv and look for job. Except she’s not a graduate. One more thing , forget about kids for now. Trust me they are more expensive than adult.
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OP. Sorry for your predicament, the heart wants what the heart wants. My advice is for you to remind yourself that you cannot give her what she wants at the moment. She is 26 years and will probably turn 27 soon, what a lady at that stage is looking for is a potential husband. On why she keeps calling you? she probably likes your company and but you have to accept that you simply cannot give what you dont have. At the moment, i would also suggest that you focus on your job and try to make more money. You have many years of dating ahead of you.
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There is nothing to be scared for jare. Abi you dont want to know if he is your father too?
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You nor get money and you dey feed dog? Anyway, go yo hospital and do test sha, self medication is bad.
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Stop sleeping with women that can handle themselves after sex. Na unwanted pregnancy e dey lead to. It's possible you are the father as the pregnancy is calculated in weeks and not months. You suppose know the lady small to deduce whether she's capable of giving you another man's child. I understand your predicament to an extent and advise that you carry out a dna test at the end. If you have health insurance, sharply Include her in your plan to avoid paying any bill. May the God you serve keep you and her safe for the baby.
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Well, we have have a t and we contribute monthly for house expenses and children savings (shares). Both of us have personal s.
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Brother, the three years of your life is not wasted. You have started the learning process. Kindly relocate to the country and start all over because you will still have to write exams to practice in these countires. Also, Doctors are not well treated in Nigeria, in fact, i cant think of countries that treat them worse than Nigeria. Better use that big Brain that God gave you and chose wisely. May your days be long.
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Super story. We will soon start asking ppl to attach pictures. This lie not make sense. You just want attention.
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OP, Your situation is not a strange one. It is almost impossible for a straight single guy to live with an attractive woman for 3 months without catching small feelings. My advice for you is to evaluate the feelings you have for her and let her know how you feel about her and how she makes you feel. If she doesn't give you the response you want. Kindly try your best to continue living your life and continue to be nice to her. You can also try to make more friends in your area so you have other people to talk to and mingle with. In case of next time, don't ever tell a lady in her late 20s or early 30s that you want to be FWB. If they want it, just roll with it, don't say it. Its like saying to a girl, I want to be fucking you without any commitment to you whatsoever. Which lady in their right mind will agree to that kind of arrangement? maybe if you have plenty money that's possible but in this current situation, I don't believe you are that rich. Finally, forget about sex for now, focus your energy on making enough money to leave this country. Trust me, this is the right way to go. 6 Likes |
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OP, how old is the girl and what was she like when she arrived at your place? While I understand your decision, I do not fully agree with it. Firstly, you're family friends. You should have called your parents to call her own parents to tell them what's happening. Then they'll probably call her and talk to her. Also, never love your neighbour more than yourself. They will take advantage of you. Let her back in as long as you allowed her stay in your place, you are technically her guardian. If anything happens you will be held responsible. If I were in your shoes, I'll probably not give up the bed or we will rotate at least. Fully relegating your self as a boy boy before another person will subconsciously make them treat you like one. On the water issue, if there was alternative source, you could have mentioned it to her, if there isn't, buying water would have been the next plausible solution. Anyway, let her back in to take her stuff and also decide if she wants to continue living in your apartment. Anyway, Goodluck. 3 Likes |
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Lol. Tell her taking care of a child is not beans. If she's not ready, she better do the needful. How can you be having unprotected sex and not know how to handle yourself after. Abeg. Infact, this post is looking fake. |
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Don't send your kids to boarding school. I went to one and I will not send mine there, if you're too busy to train your child, don't have one.
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As a married man, I will advise you not to marry her. Your expenses will increase 4 folds when you marry. No need to do it with a parasite. My 2 cents. |
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Execute the business plan with her, if possible sit her down and tell her you want to invest. Be there strictly as an investor. If not she will see it as dash money. Anyway, are you ready to wife her if she says yes?
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