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I just hope the guy cannot read and write

Jeboy:
I disagree with due respect.

The dance may have been the reference point of link or attraction but the decision to wife her must have come from deep and core reasons.

They have been friends/courting for a year

Are you kidding

The supposed connecting video was posted Jan. 20th 2023........

If I'm not mistaken, today is 21st, January 2024.

Jeboy:
I disagree with due respect.

The dance may have been the reference point of link or attraction but the decision to wife her must have come from deep and core reasons.

They have been friends/courting for a year

Are you kidding

The supposed connecting video was posted Jan. 20th 2023......

Jeboy:
I disagree with due respect.

The dance may have been the reference point of link or attraction but the decision to wife her must have come from deep and core reasons.

They have been friends/courting for a year

Are you kidding

The supposed connecting video was posted Jan. 2023......

Foundation was based on myth

BigDickProblems:
How someone will graduate with 5.0 CGPA in a Nigerian university baffles me. Somehow it feels fake.

I don't really believe it.

Before you come for me, I graduated with 1st class and was the top of my class in Engineering as well.

And it's always from this particular school. I feel they just inflate their students result.

How can you have 5.0 CGPA after Technical Drawing, Thermodynamics, Fluid mechanics, ODE, Engineering Maths, Statics, Dynamics etc, and none of them gave you a B? Haba

That 5.0CGPA in Engineering is fake.


In 2019, the best graduating law school student was a 2:1 student from Babcock. Now, where were the Inflated First-class students from Unilag that year?

I agree with you on the 5.0 from engineering department.... especially when s/her did engine drawings

At the quoted....there are many best WEAC students that couldn't their Jambs and Post UTME........

My reservation about on the documentary is the choice of the researcher to choose only those that fall out with TB Joshua......like what was he expecting ?


I was surprised that the documentary trend................ those revelations are not news.

The belt and it's adjuster is really a thing......

I had this noise coming from my car, I thought it was the leg, I changed the two front bearings, the back hub but the noise remain consistent....until the other mechanic discovered the noise is from the belt adjuster.....

I changed adjuster and the noise stop for like two weeks.....but it has started again....the spare parts seller said I'm using the wrong belt....he said my car belt is 2130.

I don fine 2130 tire I no see
I'm using Honda civic 2007

Freethought:



Well, this is it, the car i bought that was sold was for me, the 1.5 i got after selling is still for me to save more to buy a car for me(not for my wife), even dou I'm still gon tag it family car, we both using it.

Now if i drop the money. How long before i save again to actually get a car of my own, considering there are other responsibilities, also the he brother will think he got his sister the car, making him have some kinda say on how the car is used... You know humans can be funny.. I know my wife to some extent but the boy is just my in law, I don't know what he's capable of.

Please don't go ahead with this plan

You can't predict a woman (forget that she is your wife)

Besides, between you and your wife who need the car the more ?
Don't allow a third party take a major decision for your family......it is dangerous...

Your wife does not respect you that much......what could be the reason(s) she didn't come out clean to her own brother ?

Who decided the type and model of car to buy for your family ?

Did you have information about this 5m car ?

If you're going ahead, whose name will be on the car document ?

Your peace of mind is responsible for the stability in marriage and family, don't do t purchase of a supposed family car..........your peace of mind is more valuable that the joy the car will give to your wife.

If you're providing about 90% of the cost of the car.......the situation would have been different.

In fact, for your wife to have claimed ownership of the 1.5m to her brother would have been the deal-breaker for me.

Gerrard59:


That is not entirely true. Even elite Chinese and Indians migrate to the west. Exchange rate is not the only incentive. I am sure you have never lived abroad.



Only people who failed at economics do the bold.



That is your uncle's fault. I am sure he migrated on a visit visa rather than via education of American Lottery or standard work visa. Nigerians in the US on standard visas are doing extremely well. You can use his condition to console yourself though, if it makes you happy.

People migrants to the west for different reasons.......Chinese are migrating everywhere...... Chinese government is strategically staking their resources in every potential economy in the world

Indians issue are a different kettle of fish.....

Citizens you can compare to Nigeria in of migration to the west outside Africa are mexicans, Lebanese, Jamaicans and Brazilians........

I have visited your so called abroad many times but not planning to relocate because I'm not convinced that it is not a rat race..

All the difference you think other countries have is in your head........talk with an average Americans or Canadians and get a whole bunches of what their government is doing wrongly including the immigration policies.......

Come to think of it.......how can a branch manager of a bank resigned and relocate to the UK to work as a cleaner in a restaurant ?
Even my room mate in the university, worked with Zain mobile resigned, used all his savings to relocate to the UK to work as a security in a mall ?

santaclaws:


LOL you're not a novice but you believe the average PhD holder is doing care work.... Dey play. You don't know what it takes to earn a PhD and most who do already have paid positions.

How many % of the human population has a PhD? The least a doctorate degree holder can do is to teach in a college or high school, even at that, it's gonna be temporary

You're naive........most of these immigrants do contribution (known as ajo in Nigeria) to meet up..

Let analyse the footballers......
Why did j j okocha, victor ikpeba, Sunday Olise, oruma etc relocated back to Nigeria after their football career in these attractive countries ? What is the population of the foreign footballers are listed rich...... don't forget how much they're reportedly earning weekly.........

The only consolation for Nigeria abroad is the exchange rate...... don't be naive.

santaclaws:


You all really mention UK as if it's the only country on earth LOL. . . How many PhD holders have you seen doing care jobs? Please mention 2 that you know personally, not "they said"...

If you see any PhD holder doing a care work, it's their fault.

Lol...I have family in the UK, US, Canada and Australia...... I'm not a novice.

santaclaws:
Not a bad idea to have a contrary opinion on Japa, but your claim that Nigerians youths moving to other countries is an act of cowardice is definitely an unreasonable statement.

You didn't take into that so many people have been struggling in this country even before the economic issues. A lot don't have jobs in Nigeria despite being graduates and most employed people are underpaid.

If the youths aren't cowards, they should stay over and allow visionless politicians, poverty and hyperinflation ruin their lives? Or betterstill, they should take up arms and challenge the government so that they can die for nothing... 😒

The black and migrants are discriminated against and underpaid......a PhD holder doing a care job, security job, working As an assistant in a local restaurant in the UK......some resigned from career jobs (with their qualifications and experience) doing these casual jobs....what do you call these ?

The only incentive for relocating to the west is the exchange rate.....nothing more...

The working conditions is far worse.
The taste of their food is another disaster for an immigrant.


Nigerian in the west are only pretending to be better off than those in Nigeria.....and to perfect the lies.......they post their earrings and expenditures in Naira online.........what else can be deceiptful that earnings and spending in dollars but your calculation is in naira..........gross inferiority complex at it peak


One of my uncle in New York told; when you leave that country (Nigeria) then you'll understand how bad the country is....... meanwhile up till now, he is unable to secure a reasonable career driven job....

4tomandchi:
I’m sure her Mum was not sleeping when she got her clothes torn.

Fear all women.

Believe woman story at your own peril...

She is telling us Emeka is always broke
Emeka abuses drugs.....
She ed out during beating yet feel been hitting continuously.

Emeka couldn't afford house rent, slept on the floor in Emeka Ike's mother house.....the same woman that assaulted her own mother earlier.

I'm more concerned about the percentage of the class population that got As all through.....


No school would ever deceive me.....that I told my wife.

I will never celebrate mediocrity......As students that would struggles to get 22 in the university...and would eventually invent nor innovate nothing throughout their career.

Police!

officialwdhtv:
Abuja Airport shut down as aircraft overshoots runway



https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzjX88Ip0Tg/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Useless and misleading heading
Runway and taxiway are two different aerodrome facilities....

Alpha 4 is a taxiway not Runway...........if the front landing gear is intact.....this is no accident........

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Comion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

You have three choices....
1) Marry a retired man or
2) Marry a new recruit.......
3) Don't marry at all.....

All has it advantages and disadvantages

Only if you understand that life is a crazy ride..... caveat: you can't marry a new recruit and expect retirement benefits......

life is not a bed of roses madam Cinderella!

The question you should have asked is.....do most men like how their life turned out to be or do most men become what they had dream ?

Life is hitherto class struggle

Women think empathy and emotion is all about breaking down in tears............that at its best is a survival trick for women....but for a man...."a chick that can't crack it shell; shall die"

So judges are now experts in land delineation ? What kind of measurement will the judge make that will avail him an expert resolution in a land dispute ?

The villagers are more competent in land disputes matter than the judge.

Validated:


The poor you will always have with you. Obey God first and the poor will be taken care of.

This statement is from a very wicked and mean subconscious...........some like you should never be put in a leadership position.... you'll be worse compared to Hitler.......very mean being!

Puss360:
There's no justification to kill someone if that person didn't kill you or someone whom u know.... So they guy should be killed...
An eye for an eye..
The girl wasn't wrong to love a criminal...
If truly human body ritual makes one rich, then there would have been more people richer than Dangote...

I can't believe any sensible person can type/say the bolded........no one stops anyone from loving a criminal which includes rapist, fraudster, murderers etc. I'm only curious why the consequences is a crime.......

KAM3KAZI:
I DON'T stand with verydarkman, he may have a point but the way he presented it was nothing short of insensitive. The girl is a 20 year-old, she still get teenage pikin mind. She probably thought he's just into content creating and that's where he gets his money from.
She did not deserve that.
It's not news that young girls dey collect steady where yahoo Bois dey but that doesn't mean they deserve it. It could've been any girl.

What do you mean by insensitive?
Women likes playing dumb...especially when it is time for the consequences of their actions and inactions............there was a trending video where about five girls at different interval said they'll choose a yahoo boy over other guys for dating........no woman condemned those girls choices.........

I want to even propose that.....if anybody is caught to have committed any crime......everybody and anybody (including parents, friends, girlfriends, and wife) that benefited from the proceed of such crime should be given equal amount of punishment.........maybe this can make all of us able......

A very good move.......even if there is a way he can Tonto Dike and Iyabo Ojo in the case

He should demand for 2billion from each one of them and public apology on Channel Tv, Arise TV, Punch news paper, the nation news paper and vanguard news paper.

Puss360:

If you define having a child as life achievement, then those poor families with 10 children have attained the highest level of achievement

How does this answer any of the questions ?

Those without life experience shouldn't have an opinion...........especially someone with shabby and myopic sentiments.

It seems you can't differentiated values from quantity.........

Puss360:

To have a child is easy....To see to the needs of that child is the problem..
Try and go out and be exposed and see that there are actually some people living good lives who are aren't bothered about kids...
Some people are actually living for today.. they don't think about anything like future or tomorrow...
So having a child is not a life achievement...
It's just a common option for those who are Sexually Mature to procreate...

Please the bolded statements refer.
1) please define good life.
2) please define life achievement.

If you're delusional, please don't export it to others.

Jewessgratitud3:
Hopefully someone leans from my story. I don't regret any of my decisions so far. I'm happy that in all, I wasn't consumed, used to a point of no return in fact if you see me, you'll hardly believe I'm 42. apart from say I get small protruding stomach ( which almost everyone has) and it's only when I eat. Otherwise its normal. So it's caused by food and I overeat.

I also don't regret not having children outside wedlock cos it would have reduced my chances of getting attention from men even at my age. Yes.. I still get attention like serious advances from single men. This is not to make a boast. In this year alone, I've had two suitors. Very responsible guy and another man but the thing with me is that I'm too picky. if I don't like you first, e go hard. So those two were not my spec and I won't trap myself in a loveless marriage just because of age or "time is going " , if it's not what I want, I won't do it. Call me anything you like, your opinion. I don't kia!

Anybody that have no regrets is either blatantly lieing or does not have the ability to think deeply.....self appraisal is a vital skills for human development.

To cap it all, anyone without the capability to think deeply is a Danger! to others.

Your upbringing have nothing to do with your trust issues.......because your parents are not divorced and abusive neither are your extended families and relatives....... therefore, you have no disappointing experiences prior to your maturity.........

Chris asked her out ?

Her parents did a very terrible job......what is Jada ? Abi na jaguda..

When Dr. J Peterson described female as Chaos and male as Order in his book the 12 rule for life..... people thought he was being controversial......


These chaotic people (Gender ) were affirming that claim since Joe Biden got elected into the white house.....

Instead of her to address her husband's misdemeanor at that award...she instead; in her own wisdom choose to gaslight.

The last time, she told the world about her erotically entangled with her son's age mate.

Katcall:
after all she said, this is all you could come up with. You are a very stupid and useless man

Birds of same feather...........
They said count your blessings, in order for you to understand the value of what God had done............and na una full church .

Actually I stopped pitying married women long ago......you lot are very anyhow.......

Jewessgratitud3:

He does one part-time business that doesn't sell all the time like that. I think that's how he gets his money but it's not like a regular job that brings in steady money. Instead of him to go look for a regular job that he's sure of getting money every month, he'll rather sleep all through.

I've told my sis to advise him to get a Keke or car for Uber, she said he'll be forming a whole lawyer. Lawyer for this hard time that every body is doing any kind of hustle to put food on the table for their family? Hian!

Even me as a lady I have thought of riding danfo a long time ago when I didn't have anything doing. Nothing wey no come my head that period until I now prayerfully asked God to direct me and lead me to the path I am today. It wasnt rosy at first cos I was earning 18k then but I continued just to be leaving the house and from there I continued till I got here. Why will a man not use his brain and do same?

I see family men coming to schools everyday to look for jobs and they are getting jobs, can't he do same pending when his dream job comes? Na to dey speak English up and down instead of putting that English to good use and make money.

You're not honest

1) This very guy pays his rent as and when due
2) This guy pays his children school fees as and when due
3) This guy graduated and still law school
4) This guy is not a gambler
5) This guy is not a drunkard
6) This guy is not a fraudster
7) This guy is not cheating on your sister
This guy doesn't follow bad friends
9) This guy feeds his family
10) This guy doesn't disrespect his inlaws (your own parents)

What exactly is your problem with him.....that he sleeps ?

In your own mind, you think you're doing better than him ?
With this you own job, do you think you're earn more than him annually and can afford to shoulder his responsibilities ?
Do you think driving Keke will not distract this his part time business ?

You even have no idea how he is getting his money and you feel you have an opinion about him

You're very naive!
You're childish.....marry your own husband first.........

Varunpulyani:
Owerri - City of Statues

What happens when you pay N500 million for a pregnant white elephant and she gives birth to quadruplets. A Rochas special.

You seriously seriously not really feeling finer

Angelfrost:


Please, don't get it twisted... There is no Biblical foundation for what you call Church Wedding.

Honestly, it is largely a Colonial thing. Every nation and every culture should have its own pattern of traditional wedding couples.

The role of the Church is strictly to bless or pray for the Marriage... Haven't you wondered why it is rightly termed, in wedding invitations, Solemnization of Holy Matrimony??!

By the time the couple gets to church, they should already be Husband and Wife either via traditional or court pronouncement.