NewStats: 3,264,419 , 8,183,685 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 02:22 AM 6c5gr

I tell you! That act is so so repulsive. Thought I was the only one with such consciousness. Then the way you see grown men and women even the posh ones spitting in public eh, is so appalling.

Bahamas95:
Wearing boxers outside. The only time you can see me on boxers is when am in my room or somewhere in the house.


I don't spit in public, I find it irritating whenever I see people do it most especially footballers on the pitch.


I can't dance in public because I am kinda shy in nature.

The following are things I can't just do.
Opening my mouth widely when eating or talking
Going to bed without bathing and brushing my teeth
Eating semovita or macaroni.

I'll advise you politely make up an excuse and turn down the offer. You may never know what she has up her sleeves. And the fact that she's married to an Abuja top shot should sound a note of warning to thread carefully. A lot of innocent lives have been wasted because of cheer negligence.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

[I'll advise you don't even consider the offer. It's apparent she may be up to some mischief and being married to some top shot should equally sound a note of warning to be very careful. A lot of innocent lives have been wasted because of women. Don't start what you can't finish!author=Draslo post=100154307]I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.[/quote]

Hian! How can this old man be Buhari's nephew?

Islie:


https://saharareporters.com/2021/03/23/revealed-why-aisha-buhari-returned-nigeria-after-months-dubai

Check your write-up, you didn't indicate the price of the jumbo bag of crayfish.

The mistake you made was moving in with a woman you aren't married to and she having or owning 90% of the apartment's right. It would be better if a woman moves in with you , because even if you're broke, she can never rub it on your face. Anyways, the option here is to simply move back to Lagos. At least here, the chances of getting a job or side hustle are vast, except you don't want to work or you're simply selective. Abuja doesn't offer job placements easily. The jobs there are limited and mostly federal government agencies. Next time, carefully think through a decision before making it. Don't always be in a hurry to make hasty decisions. Weigh the pros and cons. It is time that reveals the true identity of everyone because people pretend a lot. I wish you well.[. author=Switchman post=100053793]Three months and am already feeling the heat, for now just wanna play the fool and double my hustle without letting her know my plans and at the slightest opportunity I move. Nothing as sickening as having a nagging wife

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Omo, you Sabi yan details oo!

Richy4:


Hahaha. U are really funny. The OP reminded me of my visit to a friend some years ago.. I don't really like visiting. My friends knows that that was my weakness those days and they took me for who I am .. though it comes across like being arrogant and being pompous. But when they discovered I was far from that, they accepted it...

so one of my friends got a new apartment. He kept on nagging that I don't visit people etc. That some spirit in my village prohibited me from going to friends / people's home...

So one Saturday I went to his house. On getting there he asked me if I want to drink tea.. I thought he was joking..I was like since when have I become the queen of England's relative that u were offering me tea.. All this time u have been coming to my place, how many times did I asked if u want to drink tea? Not even in winter I don't. "Abeg go and bring wetin u cook.. We dey live for oyibo land no mean say we don turn to them"..
Based on this thread I guess I was the one that did the annoying thing.

Lol.. You funny ooo.

Izzyovercomer:
Here in Nigeria, people don't take dentists serious like other medical doctors.

She's much more beautiful now than ever.

Don't mind them, they're just too short- slighted because the video was even posted here on Nairaland.

AbujaCitiBlog:

She was busy kissing mercy at the BBnaija House. Dianne is a lesbian but some hegoats here who collapses at the mere mention of a woman's name will come out to embarrass themselves by defending her.

Some men here are just nothing but dunces, that is why some of them marry coded lesbians without knowing a thing. Hegoats indeed!

It's possible because a compromising video clip of her and Mercy circulated, during their time in Biggie's house.

AbujaCitiBlog:

She is a well known lesbian. Though she is Zulu King burial update: King Goodwill Zwelithini, South Africa biggest tribe leader burial go happun for night wit men only.coded.

Same thoughts oo. A few months ago I read that she posted on her Instagram page that she was divorced.

Sonnobax15:

I though they were divorced sometimes ago

I ed how chacha Eke used to be my crush that year....Small boy with big dreams...

Perhaps.

mechanics:
hmmmm, maybe he has put his hands into evil things.

I saw a man stark naked roaming along Ikotun market road in the afternoon 3 weeks ago. He looked fresh and clean shaven. In fact, I was shocked at such a sight.

You're being her acclaimed friend in secondary school doesn't mean you both are same age or hers will maintain the same progression level with yours.

muguplanet:
welcome yemi, how I wish she will see my pix and confirm her trouble friend in secondary school, how come her age no dey increase, na only my own dey increase. I tire self

All of you doubting her age, can't you rate her face and see that she's young and looks the age she claims? She's full- bodied and that's not a rationale to start doubting and " dashing" her age abeg! The face is young and fresh. When you all see slim celebrities with advanced faces that massively claim 5 to 10 years below their age, you'll be busy applauding and cheerleading them. Na real wa for una ooo.

Kiss from a � Rose by Seal.

Lol

Greenback:


Shattap and kiss me...

What's the rant or exclamation about? You that have a clear understanding of the text, you're still wallowing in the ignorance of the post. Just back off!

Greenback:

Haba,read to understand nahhhh....she said the bronco was taking advantage of her ever since she was 10.

Simple!

How can a 10 year old give birth? I'm not buying it. Try harder.

Lol lol lol

habsydiamond:
yes oo... Latest in town... You are my tomatoes Lori iro, my onion Lori iro, my honey Lori iro, my rodo Lori iro.. It talks about the lies men use to woe ladies.

Please, what's Lori Iro? Seems this is a latest slang in town.

habsydiamond:
Lori iro...u are my rodo.... If u know u know

This man obviously uses the female gender more than us. The gesticulations are excessive abeg! Most times I wonder if he doesn't think of the lasting consequences of skin bleaching.

This man obviously uses the female gender more than us. The gesticulations are excessive abeg!

All of you mocking and shaming the lady with reckless abandon, pray very hard never to be in such circumstances. I really feel her pain, as I read the Post to the end. There's no amount of money that can compensate her pain and loss. May whoever that put her in this condition suffer endlessly and be brought to book. This gruesome assault can't go unpunished. May the culprit rot in jail.

From the video above, it's been revealed that she and Daniel are separated and living apart in different states in the U.S. over infidelity by Stella. That she was caught red- handed in the act by him, hence the irreconcilable differences that prompted the separation. It was stated that Daniel stands that the marriage is over, despite church's intervention to fix them back.

Chii59:

Her best friend's ex husband. Little wonder they fled abroad. She disgusts me.

Hmmmm... take some breath. Ok bye!

isthatso:


FACT! Your environment (Nurture) determines your future! divorce breeds divorce and all you single women (and fathers) deliberately bringing children to the world are just raising messed up children to the world who end up with commitment issues, entitlement mentality and narcisism talk less of ending up gay because of a lack of a father figure etc.


You cannot manufacture what you dont know and have never experienced. A child who doesnt now a balanced home cannot suddenly create one in his/her marraige.

It is a statistical fact, rarely will a child raised outside of a stable family raise a stable family themself. It is one of the reasons there are so many broken men, single mothers , and baby mamas among Black Americans

Your opinion!

isthatso:


Doesnt matter, bottom line when you witness your mother with different men (including toyboys), it becomes ok for you.

Kris, their mother never divorced their father, she lost him to death before she married Bruce Jenner( Caitlyn) who did a sex change and is now a woman. I think she and Bruce divorced on mutual grounds after having their two daughters together (Kylie and co)

isthatso:
like Mother like daughter, if I am right the Mother too has been divorced 3 times. I always tell men, if you marry a woman from a single mother or a divorced home, she will find it easier to walk away from her marraige because that is her yard stick!

Similarly women avoid men from a single mother or a divorced home!!

Op, they've given you numerous pieces of advice here and I'm glad you said you've restored your senses. Anyways, this is my take, begin to reubuke / bind such an abominable thought from hell. Are you aware that if you ever allow the evil lustful spirit push you to have your way with her,
that's the day you'll regret being a man?. It will forever stain your destiny, ruin your family name and possibly render your an outcast by your family. You could see a psychologist for more help.

You're smart.

Oktane:


Nobody can take you seriously.

Job or no job you are not committing suicide.
You are just posturing here and that's all there is to it.

People like you don't commit suicide. You just dangle it to attract some form of empathy....but we see through that.