NewStats: 3,264,681 , 8,184,402 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 01:33 AM 3q3zt

I have done the best to be a ive person but I have realized that should I wait for him, we will continue to wallow in poverty which is why I'm looking for ways to improve my own personal income.

5 years ago, I was lucky to have a that gave me a business deal to help produce something and I would be paid for it. My husband had a fair idea of this work. The profit for one job was as much as N150k to N250k. The monies were paid to me and I transferred to him. I would even beg to be given something out of the profit. But then he was also doing things at home so I continued to bring these jobs. Guess what, if in a period I upset him, he would abandon the job, the customer is asking me where is my job and me I am begging my husband to complete this job and he ignores me. I would have to start looking for all the potential people who he could have given the job to, until I find the person and get the customer job done. It's not something I want to take up, because it would be too stressful for me. Besides, it's 'a man's type of work. I stopped pursuing that work. I wasn't taking any of the profits, he got everything o.

Secondly, I convinced him to learn social media management and marketing. I got someone to teach him one on one, even paid the person. I provided data for the online class, my husband didn't call nor attend any classes. Again, I said give me content, you have this particular skill, I paid social media manager for one month, to see how we can use online marketing to get him clients. It was his phone number on the page, I would just pay the manager for a while, after the first week, he stopped providing content, I begged and begged until I gave up. My husband is not the lazy type, he has strength and agility. I'm more of a think tank, generating ideas because I'm an avid reader, but he punishes me for the wrong I've done to him and that's not someone I want to do anything business with.

So I think I have done my best. I am not guiltless o. I have my own faults that has been pointed out to me even by pastors which I need to work on but when the other party never forgives or forgets, then it becomes a problem. I have told him that as long as we live together, it is almost impossible that I would not offend you, i can't even guarantee that. But why do I have to serve punishment for the wrongs I commit. He offends me, 90% of the time, I never bring it up.

He drags me to police station for offending him, because the first time my family heard that he beats me up, they went to the police and told him to sign an undertaking that he would never touch me. It was even church people that called my mum to come and carry their daughter and told my family not to sweep it under the carpet.

I don try o. Honestly, I have tried my best. Even suggesting new business ideas gets him angry. He says he's the one that's supposed to be determining whether we're going to do any business at all.

I can't say all, because I would be opening a can of worms. We have been to Lagos State, I was asked to go get a place and they would take it up, I was the one who didn't push through. I forgave because the Bible says forgive. I have ed lawyer twice this year, I didn't push through again, because my pastor would be quoting Bible and telling me to endure and be praying. I'm tired. I have even been accused of having evil spirit because I said I cannot be doing midnight prayer on Monday and Wednesday night by 1am. I said put the midnight prayer on Fridays. He said I'm opposing him as head of the home, I always argue every suggestion. At some point I agreed to the midnight prayer, but put it by 12am, not 1am, because I have to be up by 4am. That was another issue that dragged and got me being locked outside. I am tired o. Very very tired and frustrated.

LandMann:


Your issue is foundational.

There's a role designed for a man and there's a role designed for a woman in marriage.

Once you reverse those roles for any reason, conflict is bound to occur.

Your God ordained role as a wife in your marriage is not to be a breadwinner, decision maker or captain of your marriage ship.

You are ordained to be a home maker, life nurturer and pillar of in a marriage.

While your husband is ordained to be a provider, decision maker and head of the marriage.

But alas, you and your husband have reversed some of the natural roles you're supposed to play and this is the foundation of the conflict.

My advice to you is to find a way to manage and live in harmony with your husband without hatred and bitterness.

You already made the choice to marry him knowing fully well you earn more than him. This is a mistake and you just have to live with it as kids are already involved.

You'll need to make sacrifices to be more present in your home and in the life of your kids cos that's your natural role.

You're supposed to nurture and take care of the home.

You chasing money and feeling you can pay someone to do your job of taking care of the home and ing your kids in their learning will never be agreeable to a "family oriented man" who feels it's your responsibility as a wife and part of the family.

Maybe you need to cut back a little on the time and energy consuming hustles to face your family responsibilities.

You can chase all the money in the world and use it to get things done in your home but it'll never replace your own presence and touch.

You never thought of the problems and temptations that will come with you hiring other ladies to help you run your home (cleaning and teaching the kids) while you are out chasing money that can't buy life or happiness.

You should sit down with your husband and have a honest heart to heart talk with him about the future and what both of you can do to make your relationship better.

I want you to know that your work life is what is affecting your family life. You're giving more of your time and energy to your work life than to your family life. This is what is causing the friction in your home because your time and energy is limited and has an opportunity cost.

This should be at the back of your mind in your conversation with your husband.

You personally have to think it out first and reach a decision; can I cut back my time and energy on my hustle which will reduce my income, so I can focus more on my family? If you answer yes, then you can start doing the things your husband asked (keeping the home clean and teaching the kids) and with time your husband will notice the change and appreciate you more.

If you answer no then sorry, your relationship is headed for the rocks.

Just be wise and consider your children in your decision.

If you die, you won't carry those money to heaven or hell.

Prioritise peace and happiness in your home over all else cos in the end that's what matters most.

There's a lot to say but let me end it here.

A word is enough for the wise.

Cheers.

Thank you for your post. I make it a point of duty to only take up things I can do within the confines of my 9-5 job. In 9 hours of work, I get to work like only 4 hours,so I have like 5 hours to do any order thing which I fully utilize.

Why I outsource is cause, first I'm asthmatic, I do little work and I'm already drained. I explained this to him, that a normal woman would do this, but just mopping floors drains my total energy, so that's why I seek to outsource these. When these people come around, I'm always at home. I don't go anywhere weekend except church. I don't even have any friends, visit family like once a month. I'm not allowed to take my kids to any event where my family are, so I don't attend all events, cos where do I keep them? Secondly, like I said the other things I do are mentally draining and I wake up 4am every single work day, I get back by after 6, so the children are my responsibility till 10pm when I go to bed, so naturally weekends I want to rest. Whenever he is upset with me, he stops the person who I pay to bring them home by 5pm when he is around. I have to go pick them up.

I don't browse or do anything from 6pm that I come back. I stopped watching TV shows to stop anger that was boiling in my mind (he would just come and turn off the TV asking me what kind of show am I watching). It's been 4years that I stopped watching any TV show.

Believe me, I get your point but I had factored all these into my situation.

I was finally allowed to enter the house around 11pm.

I have decided to get separated. My BP is at 200+ and I know I'm at high risk. I have to consider a lot of factors, my children school, when I decide to leave, school needs to be in break so there's no disruption for them.

My mum is away for a burial and won't be back till December, so I need to be sure I have someone to help me settle down, the last times, she was with the kids while I went to work, and the transition was easier for me.

Getting a one bedroom apartment in a good part of Lagos, I need about N1.7m which I never planned for. So I have given myself till December to be able to sort myself. I am done hopping to my sister's house. I also intend to as much as possible avoid any form of conflict, continue with status quo.

My brother would have been ready to help me out with finance but he would escalate the issue because he's already angry and I don't want any more drama.

My sister is aware of my current situation and I know I have someone who would be with me in secret through this whole process. Thank you all so much, I appreciate.

One of the reasons why I created this was because he told me that it's because he is helping me with the kids, therefore he has decided that he will no longer help me with the kids again. And I said but they're your kids I told him that since you have decided to share what a wife and husband duties are, does that mean that I would no longer be taking care of feeding, since that is deemed to be the husband responsibility.

I got a message in the office, that should I stop providing food as at when due, I would not be allowed into the house. Last night I had to provide food because should I not do it, I would be dragged outside with no clothes and going to work would be difficult.

Yesterday I asked him to give us money to cook he refused, he deliberately refused to help me buy fuel for the generator, I had soups and stews, fish etc, in the fridge, I begged but he refused. By the time I came back, almost everything was turning bad because of the grid collapse. Had to give out everything to some women instead of losing everything.

I didn't cook today. I have been locked out for not providing his food. Two options, either I beg, and use my money to provide food or I go to my sister's place to sleep.

I guess I have to find the resolve to choose me. I have always felt being taken advantage of.

I want to thank you all. I appreciate the responses. I needed to put things in proper perspectives. I have no intention of demonizing him but this is my reality.
I know I have been using my kids as a valid reason but it's time to own up to my mistakes and stop running from my shadow.

Maybe shame is part of why I had stuck around, few days to my wedding my pastor begged me to call it off, told me that I was too quiet and calm to live with him, but I didn't listen. Years later, his sister told me that when she met me, she was afraid that I was too quiet and calm to handle her brother. However it was too late to cry.

I have put a lot of strain on my mother, I am required to call her everyday to that I am still alive and that I am not facing any problems that puts my health as risk, especially because of my heart condition. I am already tired. My whole family wants me to leave, in fact my sisters husbands have told me that the day I am ready, they would be at my house to take me away. Just last week, my eldest sister husband asked me when am I ready to leave that place, that I don't deserve what I am going through. He wants to know why I have decided to be stupid with myself.

Thank you.

Mille:


This is my own honest advice from my experience in marriage and the marriages of people around us.

First, Financial arrangements of a family are unique to that family. There shouldn't be any basis for comparison with others. Most probably, what you started with is most likely what your partner will expect to continue.

I understand that you acknowledged you can be verbally abusive. Please try as much as possible to control your tongue. Unless you both have agreed to go separate ways, hurtful words spoken will remain. I hate when spousal arguments turn physical, so make arrangements to go outside when he starts dragging you even if it's inside the compound until the matter subsides.

Parental and family abuse is where I draw the line. Personally, I wouldn't be with anyone who is disrespectful or abusive towards my family. It denotes a disrespectful and impulsive individual. That's not someone I want to be a partner with. I don't know the unpalatable words you say though, maybe you abuse his family too. In that case, it would be hard to advise. But does he actually picks up the phone and call your mother to actually abuse her on the phone? If so, unbelievable.

Why is your brother saying that to your husband? Your brother's advise should have been to you and not him. I believe he said that due to what you have told your family about him. When you report your spouse to your family, you might forgive and forget, but your family wouldn't.

Finance is what causes majority of the arguments in marriage. Have a talk on the current realities and have him talk about what he wants to do financially. You can find someone he respects to have him talk to him if you cannot reach an agreement on your own. But like I said, you already started on the wrong foot by showing you were capable. I'll be surprised if there is a way out for you.

About the phone call harassment in the office, put your phone on airplane mode or disable the sim. No calls, no problem. But I wonder how long you'll be able to keep up with it.

Maybe it's due to my own upbringing, but I believe your mum's mantra is a little bit wrong.
It should only be followed if there is a major factor that causes a change in circumstances, if not, it will encourage irresponsibility and laziness in men. Like for example, I take care of 100% in my household. The only month in my marriage that my wife took care of like half of the bills due to medical reasons, I noticed how complacent I was. Have his family speak to him again, get financial commitments and make sure you don't bail him out, except he lost his job, a major expense or health reasons. You must also show strength in your resolve. For example, if he says he will pay the children school fees, have the children sit at home with him on the first day of resumption if the fees have not been paid by then. I hope you have neighbors who will ask him why his children have not resumed yet.

I do not understand this husband locking wives out of a thing. I never saw something like this growing up but I can't believe how common it is since I became an adult. It shows a lack of care about the safety of your spouse. This is why I strongly dislike impulsive people. If anything were to happen to you out in the cold, does he know he will take the blame for it. If such were to happen to my daughter, I'm certain it will be the last time it ever happens.

I have never been verbally abusive to him. In all our over nine years of marriage, I can say that I have insulted him twice (God go punish you), after he locked me out and I left to go live with my sister and he called after a month that I should come back. His mother divorced his father but I have never used that to insult him.

Yes he picks up the phone and insults my mother. Most times when he wants me to react and I'm fighting to control myself not to react. He knows that if I hear that he has called my mother I would react. He says my mother raised us not to be submissive to our husbands. That's why she gets the bulk of insults

When my brother told him that was on the occasion when he asked me to leave and pushed me out,my brother was mad and angry that it had become one too many, he saw the bruises on my body. My brother actually came to pack my things and they got into an altercation.

One of my major faults is that I'm not someone who takes instructions on face value, I want to be heard in decision making that affects me and my kids in the home. But he wants to say this is what we are going to do and that's final. When I object to it or refine it to suit my strength, I'm disrespectful and wants to be in charge. He always says he is the man and knows what he is doing.

Example, He wants me to teach the children in weekends and when I say I can't work all the week and then Saturdays when I'm supposed to rest I am to start drawing lesson and turn to a teacher. Some weekends I don't even want to get out of bed. I propose that we hire a teacher who can come in on Saturdays. For me opposing the way he says it, shows that I am not submissive to my husband. I work 3 jobs at a go. I have a normal 9-5 job, I manage an online business for someone, then I manage another personal full fledged business from my office. I work 3 mentally draining businesses, I still do assignments with the kids, cook as soon as I drop my bags, wash dishes, etc. When I wanted to get washing machine, he called it waste of resources and that i shouldn't, i refused and went ahead to get one.

He believes that I am lazy (domestic work) and is willing to pay other people to do my duties. And for me, why do I have to put stress on myself when I can pay people to do the work. I already have a weak heart condition, I'm asthmatic, why add more stress.

Maeve7:
What stands out to me is your refusal to communicate with your husband. I am not saying it to put any blame on you but it is interesting that it’s you, the wife, who avoids talking about the issues in your marriage because more often than not, it’s men who refuse to talk.

How do you want him to understand you if you don’t communicate your feelings and wants?

How do you want to understand your husband if you don’t hear him out?

Why do you have to bottle up what’s on your mind and heart until you explode? Why don’t you communicate your feelings, worries, sorrows and desires earlier?

There are many other issues in your marriage but I, for my part, really don’t know how to resolve conflict and create intimacy without proper, honest, meaningful, respectful, mature communication.

Forgiveness is not in his dictionary. Why I prefer to keep quiet is that if I voice out my concerns, 2 months down the line, he would use it to mock me, or say things that make me regret ever speaking up.

If I say something like I'm not happy with the way things are, he would use it to mock me years down the line. I tell him things about a sibling, normal husband and wife talk, when he is upset, he uses my sister's situation in mockery. So I don't talk about anything at all that gives him opportunity to insult me. I told him of how my dad spent time marrying women while we were growing up, in mockery, he used it to insult my mother.

Even in talking to him about my concerns, he picks up every single point and lets me know it's my fault. I have never felt better talking about concerns, I always regret it. So I never raise it up, he knows that even if I'm dying I won't voice out. Even when he took me to a marriage counseling committee, and I voiced out some of my concerns, later on, he used it in mockery. So for my kind of person, I withdraw into my shell and lock up.

I hate drama and publicity. He doesn't mind creating drama out of everything. In other not to have drama and neighbors gathering to ask, I lock up.

Mariangeles:
When you finally come to the point in that situation where nothing and no one is worth your peace, you will know what to do.

Honestly I'm at that point but I fear that I would only be thinking about myself and not how it affects my kids negatively. Like I said he is a great father and there's a great bond between him and the kids.

Stevenbright:


You acknowledged that your family don't like him and that is most likely due to your fault!! The fact that your family's dislike of him is well known to him, it is one of the major cause of the lack of peace in your home.

You guys also now lack emotional attachment as a result of break in healthy communication and trust.

It is also somehow apparent that you don't respect him and he in turn don't regards you.

You both love your kids. This can be used as a common ground to repair the relationship between you.

You guys also need to resolve to address the first three points I raised earlier.

In addition, he needs to stop being petty and manipulative while you need to stop being disrespectful and feeling too important because you contribute to the welfare of the home.

I acknowledge that I have lost every single respect for him. It's hard for me to have any.

My family don't like him because he beat me up and when they tried to talk to him, he insulted my brother and told him to take me away. These days he picks up his phone, calls my mother and insults her even when he's the one talking and I don't fuel it. How do I continue to hold respect for someone who insults my parents and upbringing.

Like I said, the words in my mouth can be deadly so I try not to talk. But that in itself is a problem. He wants me to talk and contribute to the quarrel. Or better still, accept every suggestion he makes and see it as right. Which I have been trying to do but slip up once in a while.

I never sit him down to complain about anything. I have learnt to bottle up my feelings. He brings up issues of things I have done and if I say something like "I didn't see anything wrong when I was doing it", he seats down, think about it and comes back with the notion that I'm disrespectful.

I need matured advice. (Long read)

My husband has become like a thorn in my flesh.

When we got married, we were sharing responsibilities and financial contribution like 60:40; I take the bulk because I earn more. The goal was that I would until it gets to a point where he was earning more to take up more responsibility. I don’t complain about money, if I asks and he says he doesn’t have, I don’t ask again. Over time, I don’t ask, he just uses his initiative to drop whatever he has. Whether its N60k or 90k per 3 months as income increases, I don’t bother.

He gives me issues on money problem, he wants us to save tly, I refused. The reason for this is because in the course of this marriage journey, we have both really hurt each other. I am not the type that talks too much, but when he gets me angry, I would vomit words that is unpalatable as a result of piled up anger. When he starts with his arguments, most times I go silent. But he starts poking me to talk. In some cases, I tell him that if I open my mouth to talk, he would not like what would come out of it, but then he starts dragging me on the cloth, leg or anywhere he can grab me saying I must say what is on my mind, just so I would respond. Sometimes he starts to insult my parents, siblings, etc.

He looks for every reason to quarrel. If I tell him that I am very tired and not in the mood for sex, the next day, he would wait till 6.25am and tell me that henceforth I have to start prepping the children for school, I leave for work by 6.30am. Meanwhile I have been up since 4am, cooking and arranging the children’s things. My kids stay for afterschool and so I have to cook what they would eat till evening. Then later in the evening, he would tell me he wants sex. Truth be told and I think he also knows that sex is more of a moral obligation for me, so that he won’t have something to accuse me of. During sex, I all the hurtful words and messages he has sent to me while in the office, and I just can’t wait for it to end.

In May this year, he told me that because my brother told him 3 years ago, that he doesn’t know why I am still with him, that I should have left as I can take care of myself and don’t need him, therefore he would no longer contribute money for food. I said nothing. Since that time I have been taking care of feeding. Before now I do part feeding, children’s school, children’s lesson, children transport to school, cleaner, hospital bills, etc. He takes care of rent and electricity. At some point, I was doing electricity and lawma but I had to stylishly push that to him.

I don’t have a problem if we share these things with mutual agreement, but each time we have an argument, he reneges and uses the kids to start punishing me, putting my job in jeopardy, insulting my parents as much as picking up the phone to insult my mother just to make me react, locks me outside when I tell him that the decision he took on something has caused an issue. These days I don’t express my feelings about anything, whether I like it or not, because if I say I am not happy with how things are, I would most likely get a call in the office and if I don’t respond because I know it is to harass me and mess up with my mental state, when I get back from work, the doors would be locked since he comes before me.

I have begged to hire a nanny (I would pay for it and he knows that); all I need was approval, but it has been denied. I begged for 3 years to have someone come in to clean the house on weekends. He is the one doing it but the complaint was too much. Eventually he agreed to have someone come in on weekends, but if we have disagreements (not quarrel o), he would stop the person from coming, so that I would do it myself.

My family don’t like him, I have been told several times to leave him. But he is an amazing father, my children adore their dad and love him. Leaving him would also affect them, but my mental state is in tatters.

I am a very private person but since I married him, he has reported me to every pastor I know, and when I am asked and I lay my own side of the story, he quarrels with the pastors for not taking sides with him and we have to change church. I have told him that if he reports me to anyone, I won’t honour it because it’s become one too many. Are we the only ones who cannot seem to manage our problems? And I am done hopping from one church to the other.

His family have waded in, and he gives me like one month and we are back to square one. I am tired and frustrated. I told him all I wanted from him was peace of mind. My mother’s mantra raising us was if your husband does not do it, then you do it. Don’t wait for any man to do anything for you. As girls, we were not raised to be dependent. My mother hates it. So we don’t usually ask husbands for money, we expect that husbands would do what is right and if they don’t, we take it up and do it.

So I don’t wait for him to do anything, I do it or provide the money to do it, and I have told him I won’t enter into a t savings with him where he has the full control. This year alone, I have been locked out of the house up to 6 times, if I save money with him, it means when he locks the door, I would be stranded.

Please how do I navigate this? When he locked me out of the house 3 years ago, I had to rent a place to stay. Mind you, the house we live in now, was the house I rented when I left because it was far better than our previous accommodation. For almost one year I was away with the children, he didn’t pay them any visits, didn’t ask to see them, occasionally he calls to talk to them, but he didn’t see them, and my kids were broken. They need that stability and I am so afraid of denying them that fatherly love (maybe because I lacked it in my childhood and it affected me badly). The only thing holding me here is my children. But God knows I am tired, frustrated, bitterness is growing in me at a rapid rate.

satandeterrible:

Wicked, demonic wife. Stop comparing your husband with another man...
Abi you wan go fuckkk the man?

Your husband is giving you from the much he earns but you are already looking outside.

Witch.

How much do you add to the family expenses?

Thank you for thinking is about comparing. I would rather be caught dead, than jump outside, my hands are fully functional and I have, can and will continue to play my part. Been augmenting that bill for 6years and I intend to continue.

Did I also tell you school fees is on me, and also part of house rent. Husband's income has increased three times in that six years but It's the same don't you know how much I earn story.

I spoke from another aspect because I read that post and saw a man who understood his responsibility to care for his family. Sometimes I have to beg for that money whenever I offend.

I will continue to push myself to earn better.

RealGandalf:
In 2015-2016, we spend less than half of what we are spending at the moment.

Rice (Big Bull) 25KG = 26,500NGN

Semovita 12 KG = 7,200NGN

Kings Vegetable Oil (5 Liters) = 7,000NGN

Palm Oil (4 Liters) = 5,500NGN

Yam (10 Tubers) = 11,000NGN

Fresh Tomatoes (1 Basket) = 4,000NGN

Pepper (3 KG) = 2,500NGN

Meat (Beef 1Kilo) = 3,000NGN

Meat (Turkey 1 Kilo) = 3,200NGN

Fresh Fish 2 kilos = 5,000NGN

Seasoning cube (1 Pack) = 750NGN

Salt (1KG) = 100NGN

Onions (Half Basket) = 1,900NGN

Total = 77,650NGN

Gas, Biscuit, Hollandia, Noodles for school not included.

Myself, wify and my three boys. Last born is 8 months old.

How much do you spend on food at home in a month?

Na WA o. Hmm

My husband would give me N60,000 for 3 months with 2 children and I'm expected to pay electricity, buy gas, foodstuff, children snacks, children stationeries, lawma, security and everything. When I say add something, he says what do I expect him to do, that's all he can afford, for 3 months? And someone is spending 77k for one month.

Na WA o

I think you should help yourself and leave. Same thing happened with me, each time we have issues, my husband asks me to leave his house, before I come back from work, he would change the door locks and I would be outside with my kids and sometimes running to my sister's place to sleep.
The last time he tried it again, I simply left and went to rent a house. 6 months later he's begging me to come back.

For those saying she is troublesome, you have not met a troublesome man. My husband whenever we have issues and I refuse to fuel the conversation, would keep insisting that I must talk and when I refuse to reply in order not to provoke him, even telling him that if I open my mouth to comment he would not like what will come out, will still throw me out for refusing to in the quarrel.

Please leave, when he throws you out just leave and not come back. I left without a single thing, even with 2 kids and today he's the one bringing our clothes in batches, it would help to restore his brain to factory settings.

Amen. And we shall all be celebrated this year with our bundles of joy. None excluded [quote author=priscaver post=54722318][/quote]

Thanks

MummyJJ:
"can a child of a bread Baker go to the street begging for bread? Your Father is the baby maker today will be the last day you pray for a Child"

Wonderful words of prophesy from Bishop Oyedepo as I tuned and was blessed through the live radio. Period or no period, 9months from now am birthing my twins. Amen.

Congratulations @jify

Good evening everyone, been a not so active follower. I come here everyday to learn and to draw strength from all the wonderful mama's in the house. Got a Bfp, been having some symptoms but was so afraid to do a test cos I didn't want to be disappointed. Finally picked up courage to do hpt and I got a bfp.
Didn't really do anything diff, I just stopped all the drugs and everything that got to do with ttc and just depended on God.
Plus I and Dh decided to pay our first fruit and also give God everything we were suppose to use for medical treatment and decided to let God do His work and He proved Himself faithful.
I pray He blesses everyone sooner with BFPs and reward you all for strengthening another with your words and encouragement. God bless you all this month. Amen

FruitfulRay:
My dear, so sorry about that, but I think it's what they call a chemical pregnancy. God keep you dear, you will conceive soon and it will stay this time around in Jesus name

Amen

miraclebaby:
@jify it could be the fibroid causing early abortion. It happens. What is the size and the position? What does your doctor suggest?

Thnks for the reply and everyone who replied. The fibroid is in my 'uterus', and it's abt 12cm. But my doctor insists I focus on the hormonal imbalance. I try not to do self medication. I've tried to get second opinion about the fibroid. While one wants me to get an operation done fast, the other doesn't think it's a major issue. I have decided to try General Hospital this week. Thank you

Good day all, i'm new here although been following silently for a while. Pls is it possible to get a positive hpt and still not be pregnant. I did 4 hpt and they came out positive although with a faint line. Had a little bit of discomfort and next day AF came although unusual as I wasn't expecting it. Took another hpt 3 days later and had negative. I went to see d doctor but was diagnosed with high prolactin level and fibroid. Could I have been pregnant cos the doctor keeps saying it was the fibroid but i'm not convinced as I had some signs of pregnancy. Thank you

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I work with a branding and printing business and would like to know what it will cost to engage your services. [email protected]

Wow, I'm from umusam precisely but I can't speak, tho i can understand a bit of what's written. Wish I could write and speak.

I think you need to work on your mind and get it busy. Stop staying alone, try to talk and just be around people. You are likely very lonely. I have been there and I almost ended it once. When you are able to find a way around just keeping to yourself, you will most likely overcome it. That's one of the down side of being an EXTREME introvert.

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please how much would it cost me to get these items to your lagos office, inclusive of paying the supplier

http://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/2014-Women-Elegant-Belted-Tartan-Long-Sleeve-Patchwork-Tunic-Work-Business-Casual-Party-Bodycon-Pencil-Sheath/1248036_32219604594.html size is xxl (2pcs navy blue & red)

http://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/Women-Elegant-Cotton-Tunic-Frill-Stretch-Wear-To-Work-Office-Career-Business-Party-Shift-Pencil-Sheath/1248036_2024649471.html (1pc - xxl)

http://www.aliexpress.com/store/product/Women-Celebrity-Belted-Elegant-Stretch-Tunic-Wear-To-Work-Party-Career-Business-Casual-Pencil-Sheath-Dress/1248036_2028731213.html (1pc xxl)

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Free-shipping-tops-for-Women-spring-and-autumn-slim-basic-shirt-top-casual-plus-size/699825130.html (1pc)

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/New-2015-winter-autumn-woman-lady-casual-cotton-t-shirt-tee-top-long-sleeve-T-shirt/32288592986.html (1pc)

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/2013-New-Promotions-Hot-Trendy-Cozy-Women-Shirt-Fashion-Blouse-Elegant-Cute-Long-sleeve-Chiffon-Patchwork/1482988186.html (1pc)

I thank U God for the gift of life, for your goodness and your faithfulness. Lord I am grateful for what I have and don't have. Thank you for the privilege of knowing you. Thank you because U never fail. Thank you because you are faithful. I am blessed to have you in my life. Lord I worship U. You are my rock and my strength. In the midst of dark moments your beautiful light shines thru to renew my hope. I bow in adoration and I say thank you. Thank you thank you for your mercies. Thank you

It happens mostly in a one-man business where the owner has so much money and does not know what to do with it but wants to own a business or office.