NewStats: 3,264,056 , 8,182,446 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 01:14 PM 714a

Sonnobax15:
. Don't mind them........The problem with most of them is they don't travel........

True talk.. most of them (Nairaland Trialists) never go beyond their immediate environment.

Them still dey under "My father...My mother Said .."

Very annoying set of persons.

Acidosis:


It's quite "cheap" compared to the price of keke. I've always wondered how people save up over #2m to buy keke.

most times... Some persons work with co-operative or groups of persons that help to provide a certain part of the cost, after which, they pay back with an agreed interest rate.

poshestmina:



Yeah.
6/7 weeks ago .

... That time, dollar still dey for #1,200 .. but now you no go fit get that korope for less than 3M. Again.

Dodo5:
2 weeks after AFCON

...Na really two weeks after AFCON....

...In this time of high fuel pump price. ...A lot of them see am as Opportunity, regardless of the serious danger involved.

Lucasinho:
As if they have been given steady light

Since this February, hate wan kill person for FCT

Lol 😆😆😆😆

DonXavi:
I am not from Ebonyi State, but my wife is. Why did you ask?

I have heard a similar story like this... Same from Spain, ... A son too but it's from a third party I heard of it.

You know anyone from Edda? Sorry for too many questions.

DonXavi:
Deceive her that you are going for a visit to Nigeria, may be for a wedding or any other function and once you arrive naija, you let her know that she won't be going back with you for now. This is what I did to my son and brought him from Spain to Africa. He was 14 then and was becoming a problem to us and everybody, but we strategized a means, telling he'll be coming to Africa for a wedding, we only let him know he wasn't going back to Spain after 2 weeks of his arrival. Right now, he is in boarding school in Owerri, and the information I get about him from my people he stays with whenever he is on vacation, is that his behavior has changed a lot.

...@ Donxavi, are you from Ebonyi State ?

brain54:
All these people saying...

Send her back to Nigeria. If the girl was living with her biological mother would it be so easy to do?

Oga OP you better find a way to manage your child's juvenile delinquency. Sending her away or running will not solve the problem.

No one will take care of your biological child better than you.

Let her be under your watchful eyes and try to understand the reason for her actions.

Keep talking to her with love!

Leave the OP to do what he has in mind to do.

If the said Girl was to be your child, you can do it your way.

...Them dey tell you say, Pikin dey spoil, wan put him papa for trouble...you dey talk your own.

...which kind girl Pikin be that ? ...wey school go close around 3-4 pm, na 6 - 7 pm she go dey come back house.

See, Them say " When bird learn to fly without perching on a tree branch, the hunter too will learn how to shoot without missing"

..@OP, do that which you have in mind to do.

Eagba:

Dey your lane but once in a while, buy them gifts, bottles, general phcn sub or share rice if God bless you, then lock up for another 6 months.
You go see say in a very good day if medical or any emergency sop, people go gallant for you

...Na one of the reasons why person need to dey reasonable to one or two around you.

aremubabs:




This is Africa, not Europe or North America.




Neighbours can sometimes come in handy.





I ed an incident of someone coming home late at night from a journey and the vigilantes took him to his house but no neighbour could identify him as a tenant in the compound. The landlord lived abroad, and the caretaker did not pick her calls. So, the vigilantes paraded the man naked through the town and through the night, making him sell eko with serious beating before taking him to the bale.

True talk. Neighbors can sometimes come in handy.

Neduzze5:



I don't discuss with my neighbours as well. Just hello, hi.

I don't think there's really so much need for fraternity with your neighbours.

... it's not true. It's not compulsory but it's optional .

There is need for keeping a healthy relationship with your neighbors ( Not necessarily all but 1 or 2 neighbors)

See, we humans are not created to be loners, as resourceful as the forest is, its not made up of a sing tree. Many trees make up a forest.

Don't wait until you are in a terrible situation before you know the importance of being in Good rapport with one or two of your neighbors.

You don't need to sit with your neighbors all day talking before you can have a good rapport.

It's all about you being humane. You can't be around someone who is involved in a minor home accident , without you showing sympathy to the person. ( Even if you no give any physical material, the word "Sorry" you say alone, goes along way to comfort that person)

No matter how introverted one is , have one or two of your neighbors ,whom, you have a rapport with. Even, if it's not much.

That's life for you. Don't say you don't need anyone's rapport.

FreeStuffsNG:
Asiwaju Tinubu is working assiduously putting square pegs in square holes. I am not surprised about this other round of merit-based appointments in this technical ICT sector. ICT is one of those many strategic national sectors where the Yoruba are famed even globally to dominate and have clear first mover advantage especially here in Nigeria and Africa.

Here's wishing all the appointees the very best of luck. Please put in your best efforts.

God bless Nigeria for ever! Check my signature for free stuffs!

.. @freestuffsNG.... Oga mi, welcome back. I have been asking after you Sir, them say ,you do small travell , say, you follow Asiwaju travell to Paris.

We hope we will be seeing more of your comments on topics that relates with the economic hardship on the people.

EmekaA125:

She will survive it.

Amen!!

OVB123:
She is will survive it but the scars in her body, will remained forever.

I pray she does.

OVB123:
The heart of man is despiratelly wicked. God forbid bad thing.

The Guy must be a cultist.

Heartless being! .. No matter how painful and Stupid, the babe may make you look, ...no be to this extent na!

Ha! No! This is inhumane.

I pray this lady survives this deep machete cuts.

Bobloco:
His words: “We are interacting with critical stakeholders to ensure that there is no exportation of LPG.

“All LPG produced within the country will have to be domesticated. And when this is done, the volume will increase and of course, the price will automatically crash.

“I am in with the regulation, NMDPRA, we hold meetings almost on daily basis, and the producers such as Mobil, Chevron, and Shell. So there is that hope that things will turn around. We don’t need to make noise about it.”

From the above statement, they are yet to even implement it.

What are they waiting for

...That is Nigeria Government for you. They will be on this issue,year 2024 will run to the end.

Hectroy:
Why do I think you have some feelings for this woman or you guys are already having something? For you to even contemplate the little child being buried in the compound and almost going against your kinsmen directive says a lot. Why will her mother have the gut to insult you if boundaries weren't crossed by you? You portrayed her as a good woman despite how she dealt with her husband with the help of her mother till he left their home? Something doesn't all up man!

I wonder too.

@Dss1335, from your update, what's good about that tenant of yours that lost her 1 yr old baby ?

From your update, she doesn't really deserve all this plenty sympathy from you, even , to the extent of thinking to let her bury her dead baby in your compound.

SoNature:


Bros, if you are impatient, you cannot make money in this life. Besides, all transactions or businesses cannot come with profits. Sometimes, you lose. Why we pray and work hard is for our gains to be higher than our losses. You cannot remove losses and disasters from life... those are the elements of living because life isn't designed to be perfect.

If you don't have this mindset, you will be frustrated and broke for the rest of your life. This has nothing to do with going to school. Some people have insulting bosses, they still won't quit because they need the job, money and experience. You cannot do the journey of life without tolerance.

I am self-employed. Sometimes, I work for people, they don't pay me. I walk away; count it as my loss. Life is not fair. Learn patience. It really pays at the end of the day.

I had to quote you to be sure you read my comment because it will help you in life if you practice the nuggets.

. Words of Wisdom.

koyeni:
So bad
She probably felt empty inside

...Umuahia is not far away east from ikwerre, ph.

Sorry about the loss of your neighbors/tenant's baby. No custom/tradition mandates the woman to go bury her late baby in her village.

She can make use of the public cemetery.

Happy birthday!! Son. You shall grow to fulfill purpose and destiny. God bless your new Age.

Happy birthday! Mumben.

Sangoamadioha1:



One of the reasons they say alcohol destroys is that no matter the price you must drink. To an alcoholic this news means he would cut down some other expenses to accommodate the new price.

..."They ( Alcoholics) will double their hustle.

..."All expenses on Oga Head" .. 😆😆😆

Mindlog:


People also do have "good sex" with random persons.

Companionship to me, is the intimacy, the presence and the thought of my spouse makes me feel at ease, looking forward to sharing aspirations and updates with mine. Plan and explore life together, share the highs and lows, making adjustments for each other then always looking forward to having getaway weekends......Being married but lonely is suffocating!

..Mindlog, thank you for this superb explanation about companionship.

@jman06.. That's what having a woman as a companion is .

Jman06:
God forbid bad thing! I'm not gay and I haven't said that I'll not marry a lady. All I'm saying is that child bearing is very important to me. I also like women for good sex and the feminine warmth they offer. Not really companionship because I know that many married men don't rely on their wives for companionship especially when they have to work at a distant place from their family.

... So you understand the feminine warmth a woman offers but you didn't see it as part of companionship.

Pls, have a proper rethink of your orientation about establishing a happy family.

Those men you mentioned in your comment that work at a distance place from their family, what do they use to keep companionship when they are far from home?

Look around, take a cue from happy and healthy family setting around you.

Jman06:
As far as I'm concerned, it makes no sense getting married in the first place if one doesn't want to have kids. What would they be doing together? Is it the so called companionship which to me is useless to a man because there are a lot of things to keep a man company in this time and age. As a matter of fact, women don't make good companions to men because they usually have different interests from what men find interesting.

.. I don't agree with This part . ...women don't make good companions to men..? ...says who?

..if women don't make good companions to men, abeg, is it pet animals that will make good companions to men?

A couple that is not compatible can't create a good companionship.

adamusuleiman2:

He had a post on front page yesterday. He is not scarce like you think.

..kindly point the link to me.

..he used to be very active on threads that has to do with this present Federal istration.

... Where is @Freestuffng ?

Egbon Freestuffng, what's happening? You ve been scarce lately on Nairaland...hope you are good ?

Let's know where you stand on this topic.

missbond007:
This life. So Dennis is going to be the next governor of Edo State? See, guys, the worst thing anybody can do is to LOOKDOWN ON PEOPLE. Never, ever say in your heart "Who is this one"? Worse, treat the person shabbily.

...Do you know the Dennis guy before now ?

Caaz:

Our friend has changed Monika

... Which of our friends is that ?

Sucre6:


Baba, the truth be say if you dey gentle too much people go like ride on you, sometimes show them say you self get small craze for head

... 😆 Na so..e be at times.