NewStats: 3,265,222 , 8,186,067 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 11:06 PM 5i114d

Funkyswagzz:


So this is ur justification for hating igbos.. do u know a yoruba man has duped me of visa application do u know how much that is back then our currency is strong. See if u want to hate someone have something strong to back it up. This was how u people said an igbo man insulted by saying Lagos is no man's land. Up till date uve no been able to point the person that made that statement. All ur radio stations carried it and soon u people started saying it ur neighbors that said it. But the oba of Benin came to ur face and insulted u people and ur governor till date uve no done anything about it. Listen igbo people are taking critical note of what u people are doing and we will treat u accordingly when the time is right

Maybe you were still a kid when uzor Kalu said lagos is no man land during a dispute when fashola was governor.

Everyone is wrong about your tribe...........the joke is on you people.

Funkyswagzz:


Abi this is your perfect time execute ur evil plan. You think we stupid or what? You know the people I blame is our igbo leaders cos they truely believe they can unit us people that are heartless and jealous of others. When I ask ur kind what has the igbo man done to u, u wont provide any suitable answer cos there non. Enjoy ur wicked act while it last

Igbo men have dupe me several times and they call it business.

As way back 2005 an igbo man i respect alot sold me fake cable wire for the price of original one.

Jeon:

No, you have a problem with yourself.
You thought you are wise,by impregnating a girl and refused to talk about marriage for almost 4months not until the mom step in.And you were encouraging the girl to go into hiding ..... Why? thats means it was a mistake from the beginning.

He impregnated a girl

Do you ladies know how backward and dumb this always sound.

Hmmmm

BreconHills:
It's interesting how expressions mean different things in different countries.

In the UK a working class person is at the bottom of the food chain. After working class is middle class and then upper class. Upper class is hereditary and cant be bought with money - so top class for non upper class is billionaire, super rich etc.

Here it seems to mean a completely different thing. A working class lady such as the man describes here is probably lower middle class. 😅

So in uk the working class ladies who are at the bottom according to you..........can't they afford to buy themselves basic things like soap and cream

Cos I don't seem to get your point??

dominique:


So a man's inability to provide is a justification for cheating and paternity fraud?

@op every woman you date dey get one comma or the other, you sef get your own for body jare.

Honestly I feel like maybe relationship and marriage isn't for me.

Have actually dated sweet and good ladies some years back but then man wasn't serious but now that I want to settle down na so so ladies with big coma I just dey jam.


I will go to prayer city for weekend deliverance........no be ordinary again.

Jewessgratitud3:
The mistake she made was to date a Nairalander.

What she asked for is not too much especially if you're sleeping with her. Men outside Nairaland do it and don't see it as anything

Biko make we hear word. If another man give her now you go call am hookup girl.

From someone who almost settled for a widower with 6 kids.

Men outside nairaland......why you never see one marry you grandma.

The worst part is most Nigerian mothers will rather channel energy praying for daughters to find rich husband rather than there daughters to be rich themselves.


Something I can never never understand.

Rilwayne001:
One thing about women is to never take their words at face value, rather their actions.

As she’s billing you, she’s billing 4 other guys.

Another lesson I learnt recently.

Just because she not asking you doesn't mean she isn't asking some other guys.

DanielsParker:


Better. Don’t start what you can’t continue with. If you start buying cream and soap, she will always remind you that her cream and soap has finished. That’s women for you.

But if you like her and you have the money, send it to her this first time, and tell her that it may not always be this way. Then watch her reaction, also watch if she will still continue to ask you for these things .

Someone that is already complaining of only eating beans and bread since morning just now.

I have the money but I won't buy her anything.

She left my place yesterday morning after spending the weekend.....she deliver 3 clothes to her client which they paid yesterday night so how come she complaining of not being able to buy food??

DanielsParker:


I suggest you leave that relationship. On the long run you’ll be full of complaints and all. 3 weeks is too soon for all these coming from a lady that works.

Am going to tell her straight tonight I don't have money.

And I will re define things again ......so she can make a choice.

DaTruths:
Nigerian ladies sees Relationship as a mini marriage no matter how rich they are.

Buy the cream for her if you have the money, there is joy that comes with providing for your woman, even if she's dangote's daughter.

It makes you the Alpha of the relationship.

Me i don't believe in Gender equality, so i will provide for my woman if she's respectful.

I don't have an issh with one helping out a lady you dating once in awhile but I believe the relationship must have gotten to a certain stage.

3weeks into a relationship is too early for me to be doing all that.

Last week it was her soap that got finished after so much complaining of not eating all day I sent her money and this week her cream have finished.

drnoel:


Sit down and table the issue. That you are dating someone doesn't mean you have to be their bank.
Remind her what her words were before the relationship and make her understand how it has changed during the relationship.
Let her know you also have your expenses and would prefer she handles her money matters without disturbing you about it. It's that simple.
If then you care to give her something on the side, that's your own wish to do so and not your obligation.
I don't know why men shy to make their stance surgically clear on this issue.

For good 2 months me and this lady spoke extremely about the kind of relationship we both want.
I don't need to sit her down and table cos it seems that her mindset.

She clearly know what she is doing cos the last time I actually had a discussion about this act with her.

Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

tubolancer:
I played twice a week. Last week I won N20,000 playing with N1,000. I played basketball and tennis mostly.

Bros can you help me with the basket ball and tennis tips bet...abeg ooo

Birdbyrde440:
Go to any black market vendor now and try to buy USD, They are selling at 1165-N1200.
On Binance the rate is N789/$1.

The Nigerian government is officially a day trader on cryptocurrency exchanges.

And you all know how day traders end up. REKT!

It been sold for 1k right now in ikorodu lagos.

Shawnnn01:
Bad news fir igbos across the globe

Like is really crashing fast......people who bought it above 1k hoping to resale will lose big time.

1 dollar is now changing for 1k at ikorodu.

Fountainofyouth:


The teacher didn't compound anything, and what he said is not a hate speech, hate speech is when the teacher insults and degrade him because of his sexuality which is not what he did, he simply said leave it outside the school gate, very simple, the boy capitalised on what the teacher said because he expected the teacher to reprimand the other boy and leaving him blameless, we've all done that as a kid, when fighting and the other girl or boy wins, we expect our teacher to us fully since na we dem beat well.

And next time, use your common sense to at least Google the meaning of bullying, you do not know me to know if I'm against gayism or not and even at that, I wouldn't nonsense just to be seen ing the alphabet people.


Rip to the boy.

Since you know so much kindly post were the boy identified has been gay.

So any boy child who behave feminine is gay or the teacher told you he caught him engaging in gay stuff with other classmates??

Does the teacher even have any rights to accuse a boy child of gayism in a country like SA??

Once again only a heartless human being will a teacher telling **a grade 6 pupil to take is gayism outside the gate** what does a boy of 10-12yrs old even know.

Grade 6 pupils are between 10-12yr old.......a child shouldn't be hearing things like that.

Can a teacher have sexuallity discussion with a child?? Nawa ooo.

Fountainofyouth:



I don't understand, where is it written that the teacher said it constantly? Why exactly can't he tell a 10-12yr old boy that he should leave his gayism outside the school gate? Is that what he came to school to learn? Which straight kids has ever been traumatised to the extent of committing suicide because his or her teacher told him to leave his "straightness" outside the school gate? From the write-up, that kid is being bullied by his mates in school, the teachers bid that was added to it was certainly to create a buzz and a big deal on something that is unnecessary

What the parents and the school is supposed to focus on is how to stop bullying in schools, bullying that can happen to any kid regardless of their sexual orientation.

So if a male child is being bullied by his fellow mate cos he behaves feminine should the teacher compound it by also telling him those words.

The child didn't accuse his mate but clearly stated his class teacher in the whatapp chat posted.

Just because we are against gayism shouldn't mean we should lose common sense.....bullying in any form bad is a criminal offense.

The teacher telling him that is clearly a hate speech and only a heartless human won't see anything wrong with that.

Fountainofyouth:
The boy was obviously been bullied by his mates in school, the teacher told him to leave his gayism outside the school because that is obviously not what he was brought to school to learn, so how exactly is the teacher the cause of his death

Are you serious??

A grade 6 pupil and a teacher is telling him that constantly.

Like how do you say that to a 10-12yr old boy.

I believe everyone needs to be neutral regarding the war between Gaza and Israel.

To me this isn't a religious war and only gullible people try to paint it as such......it is a senseless WAR which never yield any result.

Hamas was very wrong to attack isreal but isreal need should stop bullying the Palestinian.

The hypocrisy of America and Britain irritate me alot because if it was Saudi that attacked isreal will they take side openly with Isreal

Hitler killed 6 million jews and nothing happened.

We are all human first before any religion..........This is a land dispute which have existed for a very long time so instead of taking side why not find a long lasting solution to the problem.

Note; Both side are not innocent in this matter...........Even if God gave the land to the isrealite the owner of the land wont give up land without a fight and will never stop feeling cheated.

We must know not everyone believe in God hence why we have to always be logical while analyzing this dispute.

Which ever side of the divide you are always human life are being lost for nothing so don't ever try to justify either actions......both of them are totally wrong and guilty.

WAR solves NOTHING.

POLITICS OF NO HATE.


They wished buhari death for 8yrs ...........alot of them died instead.


Criticism is totally different from hateful Criticism.

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OyeofIkoTuN:
The sooner we stop ing ndidi the better....onyioma CY....Donate kill you there

Keep beautifying another man land...Ediots..

No joy

No peace.

It is well