Inobeyourmate:
Lol, those of you shouting Wasiuuuu’s name (Penaldo) up and down, Messi was offered twice of what Wasiuuuu earns by Al Hilal, Messi decided to turn it down
Avedonn:
Real Madrid always takes the best players from other clubs. To me, that’s not fair. They use their financial power and prestige to lure top talent, leaving smaller teams at a disadvantage. While it’s part of the game, it feels unfair how they consistently benefit at the expense of others.
He didn’t specify if the elder siblings are husbands or wives. Whichever one that applies should work. Even if all of them are wives, it will still work.
If all of his elders are wives, it MAY work not WILL work. I personally will never release my child to go and stay with aged parents...
If your parents are the owner of where you stay, and you can still find a space to build a room and parlour by the side or at the back, you can do that and start your family.
That is what I want to do thou I am practically going through alot.
Believe me staying home really helped with the way we hand-with-hand to endure this Tinubu hard regime, if not for that my life would have been miserable.
My father left home since 20 years ago and I cannot leave my mother to herself. She has really suffered alot, I am the only male, all my sister's are married. She's an health conditioned patient hence I cannot leave her to herself. Who will she talk to, she would be too lonely.
My mom has been so good to my wife, my sisters pamper her too. My mother gave my wife a shop space to practice her trade. In any of our misunderstanding , my family will my wife. They will even be telling me it's women ing women world.
If I succeed to build my own space, I'll still move my mother along. She's very active with my child, she would wake up all the night tendering to her grandchild while me and my wife is sound asleep.
Find a woman that can reason along with you thou not every woman will want to be in this setting and it is because of the many bad stories for a wife to live in her husband family house made this setting a no go area. I can read my wife body reaction to this setting but do we have a choice even thou she's not contributing to any house welfare.
Stay by your parents, do not let this woke mentality people are throwing here and there mislead you. Your parents need you, it's clear and they even say it out to you.
Your siblings who are married, don’t they have children? Your parent’s grandchildren can now come in. So you and your elder siblings should plan well for any of the grandchildren that should be staying with them—the schooling especially. Once in a while you pay a visit and let the child also pay his/her own parents a visit for a while too. During Holiday, another grandchild can stay with them too.
Omo this is why I fear old age. Omo.
And u think the husband of his elder sisters will want to release their children.
My colleague got his dream job but resigned after few months because his mother was sick and nobody to take care of her. He resigned to take care of his mother. He chose his mother over his job
I am in the same shoes as you.. don't mind anyone asking you to go out and leave your parents. I just jejely constructed an apartment and renovated the house. And living peacefully..
lol for this tinubulation regime, if someone has a good family Na to stay put oo....
You are blessed. . Don't stay far away from your parents at this stage, since you are now financially bouyant.
Even if you rent your own apartment, make sure its not more than one hour drive from them.
Do this, you know your parents, there's a particular food or dish they like , it might even be an old school music recording,it could even be 100 or 200 naira mint notes ,maybe 7 or 8. you will be suprised at what shacks old folks. it might be individually.
Start preparing it, and when they want to thank you, jokingly, tell them to bless you. Do this often, it will propel you forward, it's called, transference of grace.
Some will smirk at this key, . the current greatest world footballer lives with his Mother,.. he didn't just start, yes, he's good, he trains hard, true. But, there's a certain extra edge that pushes men into greatness.
.Trust me on this.
There was a time Anthony Joshua was living with her mother, I don't know as of now. When the rich live with their parents, humans will find no fault in it, but when a poor man do it, it is his fellow poor man that will rain all sort of insults on him. Human being is the worst creature on earth...
I don't know why you are asking someone in 2025 to buy a thrash that was produced in 2018 using OS version 8 that can only be upgraded to v9. When the world is using Android version 15 today....
A06 Na last year phone oo.. where Una dey see produced in 2018
Not really just curious that a job that gives 20million naira should be able to still deliver except its not a job that gave the money but a one time hit
I seconded
It's probably a one time hit... Na that thing wey u dey think I dey think too 😆😁
Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this ).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.
She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.
I told my family about it, and they ed me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.
Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.
In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.
Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.
I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.
She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.
This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life
You enabled her. You were busy spending on her throwing money here and there like the real odogwu, u didn't even take note of core values a woman should possess but you go carry club girl, wetin u expect from a club type of girl....
Zonefree:
All these unhealthy old men wey their life battery no reach 8% always look for who to kpai them.
I'm glad the young man handled the situation in a civil way.
Personally, I doubt I'll be this calm and watch another human destroy my property. May God grant me the patience and civility of this young man in chaotic situations. Amen 🙏
You're so right. My anger mood would have been triggered...
Glimpsetv:
A video is currently trending online, showing a young man who was caught with items stolen from the store he had just been employed to work at. The man, who was reportedly hired only a day earlier, was found with several stolen items hidden in his bag.
The store owner, popularly referred to as "madam," expressed deep disappointment. She couldn’t believe that someone she had employed just a day ago — especially because he was from her tribe — could steal such a large number of items so quickly.
In a rather sarcastic tone, the madam asked the employee to clap for himself for stealing so much on his first day at work. The young man, however, couldn’t clap. Instead, he kept apologizing repeatedly to his madam.
Watch the full video and share your thoughts in the comments.
We hardly see 1hr a day in my area in port Harcourt while some other street get almost 24hrs... They tag them Federal light. We even pay bill more than them.
Like this morning now, no light all tru the night, they brought it arround 6am and took it arround 6:47am
Nlfpmod
Which kind pattern be this... E b like Una street offend NEPA...
I started a backyard poultry last christmas. I made some money not even to the breakeven point cos I lost some birds to hot temperature. early this year I purchased 10 chicks. I raised them in cage. unfortunately I lost 4 to ants. the cage was mounted by soldier ant (yoruba's call them Erun)
after waking up that morning I quickly went to check them because it rained over night. those ant move in squad. I have to kill them with petrol.
please how can i avoid this in future. because I'm planning to start in large quantity. we moving to our farm land soon and its surrounded with bushes
Raise the cage since u use cage. How on earth will u place the cage on the ground...
Gentlesoul2021(m): 4:22pm
says who? My parents knows I don't like repeating myself more than 2 times. Na me b authority.
. Don't stay far away from your parents at this stage, since you are now financially bouyant.
