NewStats: 3,264,346 , 8,183,424 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 05:06 PM 402c1j

Chram:


Ok.
Than you Ma 🙏

Welcome Bros, this life no balance at times what people do can provoke you

Chram:


Humm.
I just feel like leaving this world right now 😭

Then she won and you loose

Start thinking of how to sort things out leave her to do what is in her mind

Chram:


Second wife for that matter

Like I said, she wants a man that will look after her not the children that will stress her life to start training them after the death of your dad

So leave her let her do what she wants

A time will come you guys too will leave her to face the choice that she is making today

Chram:
I write with Pains in my heart.
I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life.
I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.

I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.

So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings.
After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.

My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?

Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?

Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic , I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.

I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background?
Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.

Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.

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This is a very disturbing situation but you have to take it the way it's coming and accept the reality

First of all, your mum is a very lazy woman, she lacks the zeal to take up responsibility after the demise of your dad

She will rather remarry as a second or third wife than to hustle and train your sibblings she is not the struggling type that will preserve her late husband's family or name

You on your own side, you can't kill yourself as it's painful to you, just face your front if you know that you can't provide for your sibblings and can't put them under your roof

When you think you are now man enough to take the responsibilities of your sibblings, you can negotiate with her new husband, reward him financially and return back your sibblings to your father's house

Your mother no send anyone of you because she is just self centred and for her not to starve, she will accept any type of marriage proposals not minding if she will find peace in an already made home of another woman

Just let it be, no one is going to care for your sibblings if she leaves them behind, and leaving them behind means starvations and you will still be the one they will be calling upon, while she is enjoying herself in her new home

Ondopress1:


https://saharareporters.com/2025/06/07/breaking-south-east-traders-ogun-state-close-shops-protest-brutal-killing-igbo-woman

Very lazy set of people, extorting from the people struggling daily to make a living for their family's

May her soul rest in peace

Ibime2004:
I want to buy my wife her first car. I need a car that can save fuel, have low maintenance and will not be attractive to car snatchers.

Currently I only have two cars on my list which is Toyota camry 1999 model and Nissan Micra. I am also currently open to other suggestions of cars that can meet the above specifications.

Kindly advise me on which car I should get for her, I prefer to buy her a Tokunbo and not Nigerian used, I ll also appreciate it if you let me know the current Tokunbo price of the car you recommend for me. Thanks.

She is a first timer, I suggest you go for Micra, it's just a moderate car, she can fuel it and maintain it with less assistance for her

It doesn't occupy parking space

It could be easier to maintain

Its a good compact car for her

Let her start with small size

bernardluccky:

Yes she is my first girlfriend and we started from secondary school.
All she's saying now is that she love me but I never gave her hope and assurance by asking such question.

Ok since she is your first, are you ready in two years time

Have you experienced the sense and maturity of handling relationship

Do you have the capability of taking care of your family when the time reaches or you want to do trial and error

If I may advise you, leave her to sort her way out before she will hold you responsible for delaying her if which there is the tendency you may drop her

Women matures more than men and they don't ha e enough time to wait like men

If you delay they and later do not marry them, they will make life miserable for you and at than point you will be at a stand where you will be trapped

So let her go of she wants to go, go and find your bearing first

Marriage is different from friendship

They are two different things entirely

bernardluccky:
I have issues with my girlfriend.

We have being dating since 2021 so 2022 I enter school but I discover the school have no certificate so I write jamb last year to enter uni but I ask my girlfriend if she can bear with me for another 4 years but she refuse to answer me due to I keep asking she suggest we Break up but I did not say no nor yes.

I just ignore her and did not call her for 2 months but I do write her on WhatsApp and fb because I love her so much base on we are not in the same state. It's being 2 years since we see each other
And now I done dey beg her for 2 weeks now.

Note: we have being dating for 4 years no intimacy no kiss no photo together.
The aim was till after marriage and we both 22.

Please I need advice.

Dey play is like you just started dating for the first time in your life

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

Your first attempt of escape was the initial blocking and it was successful

Now because of her mom's death, you unblock her, gift her condolence money, went further to invest in her brother business, well you are close to he trap

The only way to escape is to avoid anything sex, once you can avoid her pulling you to sex, half of the problems is solved

The major thing now is that, you have to be ready to forfit that deal with his brother incase you don't get your profit and or your capital

That's when you will realize everything, but for now keep your to yourself discipline and avoid that sex if you know that you are not interested

AfahaAbia:
Hello all, I want to get a a good portable car for my mum which she can use to go for her business. Any seller here can recommend or suggest. Location is Portharcourt.

If you really want to know the truth

Your mom doesn't need a car of 2 million because maintenance and fueling the car will be a big challenge and may still come from you, which will be affecting you

Just add money to her business and make sure the business is successful

Amingol:


I believe u can see what I'm sending to you?
U can se ur notifications

A cultist will forever remain a cultist if he had never repented while in school

You see that your cousin, just ignore him and make sure you don't have anything doing with him

To be sincere you are not even safe with him

He is not the brother he was expected be and not a friend you should have

Dont ever let him get to know where you stay and if you do, he will never leave your house

Just avoid him like corona virus

Cristlaw:
Good day Nairaland.

I will be brief.
I love this lady and I believe she loves me too because she is my dream woman.
we plan to get married by early next year, but the problem here is that my mom want me to hold on with the wedding because she feels I'm not buoyant enough for marriage.
My finance promise to though.

By this year December, I should have saved 1.5M from my pocket and I believe family and friends will as my total budget for the wedding is 2M.

Although I didn't tell her about my savings yet.
I don't want to enter a marriage without my parents . Just few months left to new year and I'm so confused right now.

What should I do guys?

You are good with your plan

Dont ever depends on family to your wedding honestly you will be disappointed

The issue here is between you and your woman

You have to be open to her so that she can earn your confidence and you with a good heart

Dont don't do expensive wedding it's no longer a fashion

Assure your parents that you will cope as you want to start facing life and it's reality

Deuces1:


Emergency!!!

The mother of my son is a Tiv lady, since she gave birth toy child, both she and my son has been living with me. Even though she presently does little to the home financially, God has been faithful. So a day after the pope died, we got a call that her father is no More, she cried and cried, I consloled her, told her all would be well, she became strong again and that was it... Days later I got a call from her home town that I should look for money and the family, for her Father's burial, because I have a son through the daughter of the deceased which I did. I even had to borrow, then I gave her transportation to travel, while going she took my son along with her... I never thought there would be any issue. Few hours after the burial, when I called to ask how they are doing, I was told the family held a meeting that I should come and see them before they would let them go. My son is in his third term in school, if he doesn't resume in one week time, he would definitely repeat this class... I have called all her uncle's, her mother and her siblings all to no avail. I want to travel because I heard my son is sick and not feeling too well, crying and asking after Daddy, especially when he wakes to urinate at night, I beg you, for the sake of this innocent child, help me, me, so I can travel and bring him back, if I can get the transportation to go, and return with them other expenses can be taken care of... This is the first time in my life that am soliciting for on social media... Please help me bring back Jason, so he can resume his school, his mental and psychological health should not be taken for granted... Nothing is too small... Opay 8103908630 Emmanuel Chukwuma Ejiofor. Even if it's a loan I promise to pay back
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You actually kept some one's daughter in your house without any formal marriage rights

Now you are not even capable of doing anything for the proper marriage to hold so that you can have her as a wife and son

Even if we contribute anything for you, they will give you a conditional agreement before you can have your child and you will gladly accept those conditions so far they will release your family to you

But you don't have any means to fulfil those conditions,making your case a difficult one to solve

If anything happens to that woman, you must perform those rights on her corpse before ever thinking of her burial else you keep her in the mortuary forever which will bring shame to you
and your siblings,
unless you don't care about the disgrace

Why not leave them there, when they are tired, they will come back

Go and hustle because you are still owing the family even if they come back to you on their own

We must have sense in this life, especially those of you that pregnants a woman and call them your wife

ebubeson:
Please do not take the woman to any deity to swear for faithfulness. Forgive and move on. You guys can do medicals.
I am not ing unfaithfulness, but 19 years is very long to be apart.

I agree with you
Though if the mam doesn't trust her loyalty both of them will go to the deity and swear to that

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

I think you should exercise some patience and watch how it works and how to shoot your shot

Just be friends with her and over time the relationship will pick up on its own

Onatounkiki:
He plans to rent my own space for me in another city, presently I'm learning a skill too to help myself later( courtesy of him), he's doing well to a great extent to foot the bills too. It was his idea not to have sex till after wedding because of my family take on it
Presently, my immediate family and extended family ain't ing me on it. The house seems like a war zone to me and I understand them perfectly well probably because I'm the only girl child.

Ohhh dead, you are an only child, Chai, pls don't disobey your family as it may break their heart

You can still be in touch with him and keep searching for a bachelor whom you can start a new life with

Is always best to be with your age mate in marriage

Is always good to be the first and only wife so that you can bear those beautiful children and just you and your partner with your children

From the look of things he may be your senior with up to 15/20yrs

Consider yourself too assuming he is not there for you, event may change no one is assured of tomorrow

Good luck on your choice and decisions

GoldenBeast:
Good morning Nairalanders,
What are some alternative neighborhoods within Lagos with cheap rent suitable for someone contemplating on leaving in ikorodu…

It depends on where your work or business is located

You should also consider proximity

Firebox123:
bad advise

That means you can do that to your boyfriend

If you follow woman drama you will be confused

Fineman2:
please I need your help to locate the body of igede lady named Deborah that died in Ghana some days ago.

She travelled all the way from Nigeria to live with an unknown person in Ghana for several months if not years, she fell sick recently and she was itted in the hospital, Deborah was communicating with her mom back home during that period but the sickness took another dimension and she was placed on oxygen according to her mom who narrated the story, Her mother maybe out of shame kept everything to herself instead of raising the alarm in the village for help which could have saved her daughter's life in Ghana.

The mother said Deborah was only asking her for forgiveness and prayers when her condition became very critical in Ghana hospital, the mother spoke to her a day before this stranger called to inform them that Deborah is no more.

this stranger in Ghana is not even an igede person, we don't know his identity, we are all confused right now because the person is not helping at all, he's even asking for money and he has threatened to bury Deborah's dead body if the family refuse to send him money from Nigeria in four days

The worst part now is that we don't know where he stays in Ghana, we don't have any information about the hospital and mortuary Deborah was taken to, we don't have anyone in Ghana that will assist us to track the phone number of this stranger and get him arrested.

This is a very complicated issue right now, Deborah's family don't even have any of her picture or port both past and recent because I asked them yesterday.

How do we go about this issue?

Nlfpmod mynd44

They should go to Ghana High commission, make the report and plead with them to act along with the idiot that wants to collect money from them

Then he can send his details and the Ghana authority can the bank and the money will be sent but when he tries to withdraw the money with ATM it will be displaying erro card

So he will be forced to go to bank to withdraw and correct his atm card issues

Meanwhile the whole bank branches will be informed about it and an alert for watch list will be placed on him

That's a sure way to get him yet the money is still safe and will be returned to the family

Dont be surprise that the girl is not dead but held up

YoungDaNaval:
Good evening nairalanders, I met my fiancé in 2021 but we officially started dating in 2022. The relationship was not all rosy because we do have minor misunderstanding in-between but we've never quarrelled beyond 24hrs before. I choosed her among other girls because she gives me peace and had never given me any reason to doubt her loyalty. So earlier this year I took bold step and went to see her parents for introduction and list collection with the intention to do our traditional marriage in December this year. But something happened yesterday. I was chatting with my fiancé via WhatsApp and one thing led to another then she sent me a screenshot of our chat in the past to buttress her point but then I noticed something in that screenshot she sent. I noticed that my was saved with my name. I was surprised because I'd always knew all my s were saved with "my world" in her phone so how come my name now? What changed? We never had a fight, no quarrel, nothing whatsoever that might make her change my from "my world" to my name. So I pointed it out to her to know her reason. At first , she was trying to play on my intelligence by telling me it was a mistake and immediately changed it back but I stood my ground and insist that she explain to me why she did so. Then later on she started begging, telling me she was sorry, that she'd never cheated on me. I was like, "who said anything about cheating?" I only demand an explanation on why you changed my from "my world" to my name, the apologies can come later but she kept on begging that it was a mistake so I ignored her. Later on, she finally accepted that she changed it intentionally but could not recall why she did. I simply told her to think and get back to me then I ignored her chats while she kept begging and went to bed. Now I couldn't sleep, I kept thinking why my fiance could pull such stunt and I've concluded that I might put our trads coming up this December on hold if I don't get an explanation on why she did such but another thought came to my mind that I should post here to see if I can get a better suggestion from experienced nairalanders. How do you think I should handle this situation? Please advice me!


Seun mynd44 lalasticlala mods please push to Fp for wider audience. Thanks

Dont be surprise that she was angry with you at a point and she did that to satisfy her anger

Women are full of drama steadily

But the good thing is that you have enough time to rattle her drama

Some men are too weak for that

I am ing what she did, but it's a fact

So go on, you are on top of your game

Any format she brings you deflate her immediately, that's another way of dealing with them

At times I pity men who tolerate nonsense from them and still feel bad about their drama

The good thing is that, such dramatic acts are just entertaining 😂😂

dboY1123:
My sister has been pushing me to renovate my dad's house rather than renting a house. I am the last born and all my siblings are married and also have their own houses which they built already. I also asked a close friend, he said I should rather renovate than rent.

The thing is, I have been in that area a long time ago, like 20years and I'm just so bored of that area, so I have been thinking of renting a house. If I consider renovation, I'll spend nothing less than 700k to 1.2M.

Please I need your opinion and I think of settling down very soom.

2m will not even be enough to renovate that house,

That same amount will be used to rent an apartment for two years and after two years, will you be able to keep paying the rent

Are you aware your family already left that house for you since they all have their own house

I will suggest you inform them that you want to renovate the house, of course they will give you the go ahead, then start putting it to your state

Forget about the area concentrate on putting your apartment to your taste and enjoy a rent free apartment

Stay their and plan for yourself and your family for the time being before you finally get to a level that you will know that, it doesn't benefit you any longer

That's what you call humble beginning

Onatounkiki:
Good day, I'm a lady of 29years, I have a married suitor who sincerely wants to marry me.
I have known him for years and I have always known that he loves me. We started seeing each other last year , his wife knows so his children and they accepted me wholeheartedly. I have spoken to his mum and sister too.

I told my family about him and he's willing to come over to see my parents anytime they are ready but my family hasn't agreed yet. Mind you, we've not had sex but this man checks everything I have ever wanted in my husband.

Is there anything wrong in getting married as a second wife

Note: We've not had sex and we are both Christians

Its your choice on who to marry, be it first or second wife

My question is, will he rent an apartment for you and keep paying the rent or you are packing into the same house where his first wife lives

Secondly, will you be the one responsible for your rent and upkeep incase he marries you and are you comfortable with that so that you don't come and start complaining

When kids arrives, is he that wealthy to take care of you from pregnancy to deliver, feeding and school fees or you will be the one to be doing that since you are already his wife

Thirdly, what have you benefited from him in the course of this relationship, that you are convinced that he is the man for you and now that you have not had sex with him, by the time you start having sex with him and he doesn't satisfies you, will you remain in that relationship with him or you will be going out to look for sex satisfaction and then come back to the house as a married woman

If I may suggest, keep him as your companion, have sex with him let him take up some reasonable responsibilities on you, keep him busy with responsibilities on you let's see if he is truly ready for marriage, unless he has access you and you are capable, so therefore he has seen that you are the one that needs the relationship more than him, if that's the case, you will loose big time

You said his wife and children are ok with his decision, my dear they are only helping you to take a life decision that you will regret by then they have grown and their mom will make sure you don't have access to them talk more of communicating with them

So, if you are still confused, read the above properly and accept the proposal

But if after reading the above write up and you are now thinking twice
Look for a bachelor and plan that life with and spend that money with if you really have the resources

Marriage has three phases, sweet phase is at the initial time

Rough phase is in the middle of the relationship where you are already stocked

The third. phase is the regret phase, where the only option you have is to move out to save your sanity

Love800:
I don do this one tire! No result.
Inside my room is filled with shampoos and damatol!

You can go on skin cut for a while to find out exactly what to do with that scalp

Skin cut makes you wash your hair thoroughly on a daily basis both morning and night bath

Let's see if there will an improvement

Mdcool26:



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In my own opinion if both of you love yourself and you may find it difficult to separate

Keep managing that child and stop giving birth as its going to be 50/50

You can go for surrogacy if you have the money, in that case it will be your sperm with another woman egg, then your wife will be the Surrogate mother

With this, the female donor will be AA to match with your As and she will birth a healthy baby.

Though is expensive but you have to carry out your research

Another option, you guys can go for adoption

If you choose to end the marriage while you have the means of doing the above two options, that child msy suffer as she too may force the child on you

No one wants to see their child suffering or abandoned

ERockson:
Fubara is not coming back to government house. His ers should know this and know peace

He is coming back but likely with a hard condition and it will now be left for him to lower his pride and accept his condition or gone forever

Zanzibar1:
Generally women don't believe in helping men. Naa men Try help and impress them.

Try not to fall short of funds o

Lord of women do help men, they do so out of love and kindness

But you as the man they are helping, hmmm just respect yourself and don't do anything silly as she will remind you how hopeless you were before coming to your rescue

InfoGuru118:
An 18-year-old apprentice has allegedly impregnated 10 girls within a period of five months, including his master’s daughter and a salesgirl in Anambra State, News360 Nigeria reports.

According to reports, the young man was sent to learn a trade under a master, but within just three months, he had impregnated both his boss’s daughter and a salesgirl working in the same shop. This development led to his immediate dismissal from the apprenticeship.

The Anambra State Commissioner for Women and Social Welfare, Ify Obinabo, made this known during a live social media broadcast on Wednesday. Obinabo revealed that after the boy was sent packing, he returned to his village where the situation escalated. Within two months, he allegedly impregnated eight more girls in the community.

Obinabo said, “I want advice from the public because this one is beyond my capacity. This boy was sent to learn a trade at the age of 18. After three months, he impregnated his master’s daughter and the salesgirl. He was sent away, and two months later, he impregnated eight other girls in the village.”

The Commissioner added that the boy’s mother personally came to her office to report the situation. “According to her, anytime she sees a girl coming towards their house now, her heart skips because she’s afraid of what might happen,” Obinabo narrated.

Expressing concern, the commissioner stated that she confronted the boy to understand how he managed to lure the girls. “I asked him the magic he uses in convincing the girls, and he said he usually tells them that he loves them and promises marriage once he becomes successful,” she explained.

Obinabo described the matter as disturbing and beyond what her office could handle alone, urging of the public to suggest possible solutions, wondering if the issue might be spiritual.

While the identities of the boy, his mother, and their community remain undisclosed, the Commissioner called on the public to contribute ideas on how to address the situation.

https://news360ng.com/teenage-apprentice-impregnates-masters-daughter-sales-girl-8-otherd-in-anambra/

He has a very high sex drive and needs to be castrated for the time being till he gets to 30yrs by then his senses would have developed properly

NeneOfushi:
My son will be writing his jsce soon and they will be having 3 months holiday after the exam. I want him to learn a skill before they resume. He's suggesting repairing of phone and Tailoring


Which do you think wil be better?

Your opinion will be much appreciated

Three months is too short to learn tailoring

So he can use that three months to learn GSM repair

Then after senior WAEC he can learn tailoring while waiting for Jamb

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once due to the distance between us, the lady is physically challenge she's on wheelchair and and she can't walk but I lover her so much, she is is from Kogi state while am in Lagos and we have been talking about getting married and settling down, but when I told my siblings about they kicked against it, that how can I go and marry such a person like that and are there no other woman around, and that really discouraged me, they said how will she cooks, do house chores and stuffs like, although my parents are late so it's my eldest sister that said I shouldn't do it.. and the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents Wich am still considering, and another this is..even if I go ahead with her, I doubt if any of my family will follow me to Kogi state, looking at the distance and all like that.. and she is a very nice person with a good heart. Honestly am confused at this point.

This is a very big one and is good to fall in love

My question is can you alone take care of your family with the challenges that even both parents are working but can't still take care of family

You see most people getting married to PWD, majority of them are from a wee to do family and so for the sake of their child, they will provide enough and I mean financial to breech that disability

So if you are rich enough and will not complain go ahead

If she us from a rich family and you have their go ahead

If you are struggling with source of income and still find it difficult to meet up, think twice

Whatever decisions you take will either help you or put you to worried state of mind

Marriage, is a place where you carry your load by yourself after wedding every one leaves you to paddle your own canoe

Phabulous4:
Guys I want to do an Abuja registration for my car that i'm driving in Lagos. A friend advised me to cause it's cheaper. My friend who advised me to is using the same but his based in Ibadan.

Will I regret that decision, considering Lagos stricter traffic rule, what will be my regret?

So assuming you were working in Abuja and got your car then and ed it there, does it mean that if you are transfered to another state you can't use the plate number, no it doesn't work that way

So pls your car anywhere you want, plate number is produced by FRSC and it's Federal not state, which means it's acceptable in all federation

fman:
FTC in a long time.
I rented an apartment through all these local agents.
Before paying for the apartment, the Barrister gave him key to show me the apartment.
The agent mandated me to pay him 60k.
I blatantly told him that all I can afford without breaking the bank is 50k. I gave him the 50k same day.He pressured me and out of duress I told him I will balance him 10k later within the new week, if after I must have packed in.
Yesterday, I paid for the apartment and the barrister told me to collect the key from the agent..
Now the agent said that he will never give me the key to the apartment unless I balance him the 10k.
What do I need to do in this scenario?
Cos am thinking of arresting him.
Ordinary selfcon I paid 430k just for Aba

You already committed yourself by promising him that you will give him, so I think you can give him 5000 and collect your key

Because if you take the matter to the lawyer, he will still tell him how you owe him 10k as balance