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enm(m): 11:13pm On Jan 28
Did a chat gtp inquiry and this is what i got.

If you're looking to trade stocks on the Nigerian Stock Exchange (NGX) through reliable mobile applications, here are some reputable options to consider:

1. Chaka: Chaka provides access to over 4,000 assets, including Nigerian and international stocks. The platform is regulated by Nigerian and international authorities, ensuring compliance and security. Chaka offers a -friendly interface and educational resources to assist investors.


2. Bamboo: Bamboo allows s to invest in both Nigerian and U.S. stocks with ease. The app offers a simple interface, real-time market data, and educational resources to help investors make informed decisions. Investments can be made in Naira or Dollars, providing flexibility for Nigerian investors.


3. Trove: Trove enables Nigerians to invest in local and international stocks, bonds, and ETFs. The platform offers fractional investing, allowing s to start with as little as ₦1,000. Trove provides educational content to guide both new and experienced investors.


4. Meritrade by Meristem: Operated by Meristem Securities Limited, Meritrade offers access to a variety of investment products, including Nigerian stocks and bonds. The platform provides research tools and market analysis to assist investors in making informed decisions.


5. Afrinvestor 2.0: Afrinvestor 2.0 is the online trading platform of Afrinvestor Securities Limited, a wealth advisory firm focused on West Africa. This platform offers a diverse array of investment products, including Nigerian stocks and bonds, and provides tools for market analysis and portfolio management.



Before selecting a platform, consider factors such as experience, fees, available features, and customer to ensure it aligns with your investment goals and preferences.

Now due to the last paragraph, am seeking your experience with anyone of them.

Please in the name of God, marketers of this app or organization they represent please stay off and let the end s speak.

Thanks
enm(m): 12:51pm On Jan 28
Please house can you recommend any good app for trading on the Nigerian stock exchange and why you are recommending the app.

Please only those who have experience in usage of this apps should comment.

Thanks and God bless you as you reply genuinely to this post.
enm(m): 4:03pm On Jan 24
Gaspardd:
Met the 2nd lady mid 2022, but got pregnant late last yr. My parents are already aware esp my dad who told me to embrace my new status.

The first wife isn't aware yet but I will fake remorse and blame it on the devil and see how it goes.

For your information she is here on nairaland so just be man enough and own up to her, be responsible and face the consequences.

While at it, congratulations for your bundle of joy from your soon to be second wife as we await the bit by bit of life after this current episode.

Once again congratulations.
enm(m): 9:22pm On Jan 08
Kobojunkie:
1. Stop with the foolish praying and start engaging your brain is what you need to do! undecided

2. Did you read the OP at all? According to his wife and kids, he was an unavailable uncaring husband and father in his youth. If you live with other people and they consider you unavailable and uncaring and you don't agree, then it is up to you to do all there is to change that perception they have of you. You don't ignore it all and then expect all to be well when it comes time for you to benefit from them. Relationship involves people engaging each other and making necessary changes whenever necessary. undecided

3. If you believe that in a relationship the world should revolve around you and your perception of things— whether you think you enjoyed or suffered—, then you have right there failed in that relationship and are bound to suffer it in time. undecided

Believe it or not; if you like engage with your brain from now till thy kingdom come, if things one to go south instead of north there is nothing you can do about it that why i still stand by that pray and pray that think work out well for good for all involved.

Not where in my post did i applause or encourage the activities of irresponsible men or fathers.

Now we hear from the wife side her reasons but can you beat your chest that's what the wife said actually happen. Am not saying she is lying but what she thought might be actually far from the truth.

There are a lot of men out there in the trenches working hard to make sure their family do not lack but the wife will be lamenting and telling it to the children how their father is irresponsible, giving them peanuts and spending time out there with their girlfriend when they are suppose to be at home meanwhile the said husband/father is doing overtime at work or running doing some side job ( if he does shift work). With that mindset or scenario i just painted above what do you think will happen when he gets old, even if the man have try to correct countless times.

Just because one is in a relationship does not mean the world should revolved around one but that doesn't mean one should suffer because of it.

My earlier post was based on the fact that i saw a lot of comment categorizing all men found in such position as husband and father who failed in their duty and i want to point out that it shouldn't be so. A lot of them don't deserve the neglect they are getting in their old age but life happened.

And am still saying pray that we don't find ourselves in such situation. Nobody wish for bad ending both men and women but note this people change either for good or for bad if you like treat and carry them like your heaven.
enm(m): 6:19pm On Jan 08
To some of you who are commenting the man did this and that and deserve what he get, well all i can say is pray you don't find yourself in such situation at your old age.

This goes beyond cooking, cleaning or washing of clothes though some men are very very poor in this area.

Before you lambast me, please consider this first.

What if the man during his active and youthful days was a very caring and loving husband and father?

What if the man during his active and youthful days went all the way including doing some shady or under the table deals to make sure his family have the best of the best provision he could provide

What if the man during his active and youthful days did not involve himself with concubine or extra marital affair

What if the man never try to offend or hurt his wife during his active and youthful days ( although unintentional hurtful actions may arise from time to time lead to the woman or man feeling hurt )

I just want you guys to know that not every neglected old man you see out there deserve what they are getting in their old age. Some of them didn't even enjoyed their marriage and home in their active and youthful days but that didn't stop them from doing what was expected of them as husband and father.
enm(m): 9:52pm On Nov 11, 2023
Ok we are following
enm(m): 9:22am On Oct 08, 2023
Amna1:
Hello fellow nairalanders please i need your humble opinion on something that has been bothering me for the past decade.


Growing up life was smooth for us all as i came from a family of 5 and i was the second to the last born,my family was middle class so we lived quite a comfortable life which was short lived by the ing away of my father and ever since life has been one hell of a hardship after another. shortly after the death of my father we left lagos for our village and that was the start of all our hardship. I was just 9 years old at that time and for whatever reason my mum took it upon herself to make me suffer as she would deliberately starve me for up to 3 weeks and even deny me entry into our own home for no tangible reason,so right from age 9 i started hustling for food like most street and homeless children do and mind you we had all sorts of food at home and any time i was at home she would tie me up and give me bloody beatings and sometimes i would go unconscious as a result of those beatings as she used to hit me with anything her hands could hold even metal bars.....so i started avoiding home by all means as it was the last place on earth i could really call home and now I'm around 27 years of age and i don't want anything to do with her as anytime i her i would feel really sad and my heart heavy asl.i can go months without hearing from her as we now live in different states.....and she still lives in my head rent free as i always her before i go to sleep crying.i try to preoccupy myself with learning useful skills like programming but funds are my major hindrance but i still bust my ass every day to make a decent living and make sure i give my kids the life they deserve full of love and happiness...........
Dear nairalanders please give me tips on how to forgive and forget all she did to me as i believe it'll only hold me back and don't recommend a therapist as i don't have funds for that.people who have been in similar situation pls help me overcome it and i have no close family to talk to about it as you know family ties these days thanks very much........

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There is this verse in The Lord's Prayer that i always strive to live my life by and it goes like this " Father forgive us our treses as we forgive those who treses against us " i know it hard to do but it's also simple. Here is my first advice to you , the second one..

Due to curiosity and a chance at full closure on the matter, go visit your mother wherever she is with an elderly person from your mother or father family or someone you know she trust and listen to and raise this issue with her, asking her for forgiveness if you have in any way hurt her but take care not be aggressive or forceful while at it..

Now my advice above should be taken under advisement. I pray God bless you and lead you to the right step to take in Jesus name.

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enm(m): 12:43pm On Apr 28, 2023
Rokiat:
Honestly this is commendable because it is very rare for a man to help a woman without expecting anything in return.

This is shocking.

You think is rare because some people don't like noise and most of them don't expect anything in return it is your fellow sisters who think otherwise and start sending unnecessary signals

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enm(m): 9:47pm On Jan 09, 2022
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07013868090 thanks.
enm(m): 9:58pm On Nov 14, 2020
Me am interested in training. How do i go about it? My location is Lagos
enm(m): 5:43pm On Oct 20, 2020
Escabado:
A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family after paying almost N580k bride Price.



She wrote: “I got married 8 months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He raised the money alone as I wasn’t working and I was unable to help monetarily. After the marriage I recommended that he ought to send something month to month to my parents as he do ship off his parent as well, yet incredibly the answer he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to from him, at first I was not furious about that, until my yonger brother needed to get married and his lady family gave him rundown of things for the conventional wedding which is added up to 400k.”

“My father at that point shared the costs and advised my significant other to contribute 120k towards my sibling’s wedding however incredibly, my better half said no and revealed to me that my family has gathered all they needed during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any money related help this got me furious and I disclosed to him that he is not responsible.”

“Since that time, we have been living like outsiders in the house, he doesn’t converse with me, he has quite recently been minding his own business, and I have never seen him this way not even in our 2 yrs of dating. kindly advise me on what to do to savor the situation

Am shocked reading this your epistle; 580k on list of item demanded including bride price, if we now add the money spent on menu menu and other essential like wedding clothes and all, then the total money spent will be going to a million naira all from a monthly salary of 70k? And to capped it all, you are currently not working
and as such you can't him financially but have you try to ask and know how he was able to raise such an amount of money? Is through his life saving and loans? Have you try to ascertain if he is undergoing any pressure as a result of the expenses made and apply a soothing balm no matter how small it is? Hmm! It is well.

My advice make peace with your husband and let your family know that you people are under pressure as a result of the expenses made during your wedding and as such you guys need to get yourself together. Please don't start what you can't finish oh.

Abeg which part of isoko or urhobo you are from because as far as i know they don't charge high like this for bride price including the list of items.

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enm(m): 9:38am On Jul 24, 2020
Good morning sir and ma'am,. Hope you all add a wonderful night rest ?

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enm(m): 11:24pm On Jul 23, 2020
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Thanks as we look forward to fulfilling your order.

enm(m): 1:18pm On Jul 04, 2020
Good afternoon and happy Saturday to you all.

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enm(m): 5:51pm On Jul 03, 2020
Good evening this wonderful Friday and softly softly jolificate as you celebrate thank God is Friday.

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enm(m): 10:47pm On May 11, 2020
Baitullah:
Hi guys...it's been a while since I posted here and I sincerely apologise...not my fault though. got caught up in some busy situations.

please wanna know if I still have readers on board.... it'll be nice to indicate yourselves before I proceed and finish what I started.

once again, am sorry.

Guy come finish your story oh.
enm(m): 11:16pm On May 02, 2020
Wow! tracyberry is back. Welcome and thanks for making to keep vigil here, awaiting your return as if awaiting the return of Jesus. I pray i don't get carried away and miss Jesus coming as i missed your return here.

Please stay safe.
enm(m): 9:59pm On Apr 28, 2020
Glad i read this story, sweeter than Nigeria jollof rice
enm(m): 11:58pm On Apr 12, 2020
Abeg come finish am
enm(m): 11:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
@tracyberry it been long your presence is seen here on this thread. Hope all is well?
enm(m): 11:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
Please @sheikshegetto when is book 2 coming out? This you tori sweet no be small.
enm(m): 11:19pm On Apr 04, 2020
AndSunGorilla:
My top three are

Chigozie Agbim
Biodun Baruwa omo Alhaja and
Akpere

Guy are you sure this are you best 3 abi you dey pull my leg?
enm(m): 8:10pm On Mar 26, 2020
MrDojo:


I greet you my guy. I will be back next week Monday. Corona don take over everywhere, so I get time to write again.

Sorry for the delay boss.

OK ooh. I dey wait oo

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enm(m): 1:25am On Mar 21, 2020
@topher052 next update please
enm(m): 10:27pm On Feb 27, 2020
Your story is great, the way you end each update is superb and i dey gbadun am like my cold garri and kulikuli. Just don't rush ( even though i yearn for update every day ), take your time, proofread before publishing.

More ororo on your head.
enm(m): 9:12pm On Feb 06, 2020
DaHrNn0001:
You are a rare kind,a different breed of ideology... Even with your husband jobless, you still respected his place in the family and worked together with him... May God bless you,keep your home and give your husband a good job to pay off for the house... Kudos

AMEN.
enm(m): 9:43am On Feb 04, 2020
This tory dey sweet me die. Abeg wetin you take cook am?
enm(m): 2:07am On Feb 02, 2020
Wow!

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enm(m): 8:59pm On Jan 19, 2020
doggedfighter:
The tides are turning grin grin

No tide is turning sister, its just that men are too ashamed to come out as they will be make jest of.
enm(m): 3:23am On Jan 09, 2020
tracyberry:


My bad.... I will try to make the updates more frequent.

Frequent update is good but take your time so as to dish out the best.
enm(m): 12:29am On Jan 09, 2020
Nothing wrong in congratulating okowa aka Mr Road Master but you people should be ashamed.

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