NewStats: 3,263,746 , 8,181,238 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 05:03 PM 664f6z

Nebes:


I don't know you but this your writeup transmits a very peaceful and calming energy.

Thank you sir.

Nebes:


If you know the guy you are giving a response you will know it is a waste of time. His goal on nairaland is to twist every sensible narrative.

Thank you so much for this heads up. It really helped

Kobojunkie:
1. If you can't even learn from the many experiences of others documented in those million books, doesn't that invariably mean you are a fool to be kicked and tossed around when life hits?

2. Blindly judge, you say! So, I need first to hear the other side of the story before considering OP's cry for help. OP is shouting that her mind is about to reach its limit with what she has been living with up until now. But somehow you think that rather than immediately suggest she drop everything and care for herself, first listening to someone other parties will be best? Are you people OK at all?

3. That hogwash you spewed earlier is another reality to everything OP has said so far about her mental condition and marriage. Are you OK at all?

4. So, in your mind, because this woman might not be the only one experiencing emotional trauma of this level in the relationship, therefore it is necessary to ignore her cry for help? Are you people OK in the head at all?

5. What is the point of being a decade in it if it might eventually end with you both killing each other like the story of the policeman and his wife that was featured on Nairaland yesterday? Don't you see how very foolish it is of you to pretend it is OK to endure what amounts to continuous emotional trauma at this point in time? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Like I said on the thread about the policemen and his wife who eventually killed each other, if this woman wakes up tomorrow and murders his wife, your kind will come marching in to ask her why she didn't divorce the man before it all. Nonsense!🙄🙄🙄

I was going to respond to you but thank God someone else had given a hint about you.
Enjoy your perfect life.

Kobojunkie:
1. Many of you are just extremely wicked beings. OP clearly expresses that she lonely in her marriage. She practically does everything for herself; her husband exists as a dock she pays to keep by her side is all. Yet here you are trying to gaslight her into believing she is the reason why her is like that of a single woman carrying unnecessary baggage. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Your wife once labeled you a lazy husband --- a man who does not provide or bring anything meaningful into her life other than the occasional dick here and there---- yet you think it your place to come lecture another woman on why she should not see her husband in the same clear light if that is who he is? 🫤🫤🫤

Its easy to sit behind a phone and type whatever you like. But life will teach you lessons you will never learn reading a million books. Its easy for you to blindly judge when you have not heard the other side of the story. I just brought another reality to the fore based on my personal experience and not some lame emotions that always beclouds sane judgements. You think the man in question just decided to cruel to his wife? You think the lady from all her story is the only one going through some form of emotional stress? I will not go further than this. These guys might end up working out their differences and live happily ever after.
My own dey my body. I am not perfect, she is not neither. We are a decade in it and committed to keep going.
If you never start your own, God help you!

I recently came across this post that resonated deeply. I feel compelled to share my perspective, as I've experienced something similar. It seems many women risk losing good men due to their own behavior. They try to control their partners, and if the man isn't financially successful, they perceive him as weak and resort to silent treatment. While it's understandable to have financial security, using money to turn your husband into an errand boy diminishes him. You might even push him to the point where he withdraws, like when he refuses to fight your battles with neighbors, likely because he recognizes you're the source of the conflict.

The real issue isn't your husband; it's you. You need to focus on self-improvement and stop blaming him. He will likely be fine without you, but the same might not be true for you. If you find marriage to him stressful, imagine the alternative: living alone. Would that truly be better?

I can relate to this from the other side. My wife once labeled me lazy and unambitious. I knew my own worth and refused to conform to her expectations just to prove something. I wouldn't take just any job to validate my manhood. I felt like a failure, and she found me less attractive. We were on the verge of collapse when my fortunes changed dramatically. Now, things are completely different. My income far sures hers. My tithe alone is far more than her monthly income. Now she appreciates her husband.

Your husband is likely a good man who simply lacks motivation, perhaps because you control the finances and make all the decisions. Don't give up on him. Stay with him, respect him, and pray for him. He's not the root of your problems.

ejire042:
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ejire042:
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Keyboard for sale

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Nazgul:
Companies that are always employing people all year round. If they treat their staffs well by paying them well and giving them bonus welfare packages, they'll hardly have any vacancy cos no one would ever dream of leaving. Any staff who resigns would do so cos he/she is relocating abroad.

My company.

Honestey:



She is not afraid to do DNA Test she just doesn't need to waste money on it. Let me ask you. If she desplay one DNA Test result tomorrow now and it says Mohbad is the father of Liam will you believe her? So she is also asking for DNA TEST to be conducted but through court so that it can be publicly displayed and so she can use that to claim everything Mohbad left behind for her child. Though, only God knows better but I think those who believe that child is a carbon copy of Sam Larry etc are the ones who need to pay for DNA TEST not the lady they are accusing of being wayward.

She wants to claim whose property? Did mohbad take her to his father, to introduce her as his wife? What's wrong with you people self. Even if the boy is his son, someone still needs to stand as a guide before he's of age and it's definitely not that lady.

pocohantas:
A man dies and the next thing is to start dragging the widow to do a DNA test? Some of your fathers are dead, did your mothers do DNA while mourning? Because I am trying to understand the connection between DNA and the untimely death of her husband.

Which yeye husband. Were dey legally married? So who will be more bereaved, the stray girl he met after fame or the biological father of a child. How una dey take reason self?

Jogs1900:

Kiddo,Your response shows that sense is far from you.Are you exposed to family issues? Did Mohbad ever doubt the child's paternity? Even the so called Mohbads dad didn't doubt the paternity of the child.That's what a judge will ask Mohbads dad. All this back and forth is because of Mohbad's estate. Imagine someone whose son died less than a year ago and the so-called Mohbad dad already started wearing Mohbad clothes.

If not by intimidation, they would have gotten a court document for the DNA.

Since Mohbad didn't doubt the child's paternity, it's none of anybody's business. Mohbads dad is simply a busybody. Yes, that's what they will call him in the court.Mohbad is dead..Since nobody doubted the child's paternity before the dad died, the child belongs to Mohbad.

Did you type and write this?

searchng4love:

I bought it 65k kill yourself

Ole!!! You see your life. Na gun you go use collect am. Liar!

searchng4love:

I bought this chair 65k new. Stopeet

This is what you claim to buy 65k.
Alainoronu niyin.

searchng4love:

I bought this chair 65k new. Stopeet

Please kindly post the picture of yours and the receipt where you bought it 65k.
Something I bought 168k, though some few months now. The price now is more than 200k.
You want to start all your rubbish here on my post. Kindly post the picture of yours I'm waiting.

Executive Director Reclining Office Leather Swivel Chair

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richiemcgold:
We should try and read attentively before running to the comment section. Based on what I read up there, I don't think the floating has really been reversed. So why are those people above me shouting floating upandown?
In a nutshell, the fx market has been extended to BDC again but it is specifically for eligible BDCs and the market can still be well monitored by the CBN.

Thank you for putting it in a language they can understand.

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Ezeama400:
They should start treating their staff well..


Imagine paying their supervisor 45 thousand naira salary monthly...

Congrats shaa

I was there last year for an interview and these shameless people were offering a graduate 50k. You needed to see the way their HR was acting up just because I told her to speak to management to add something to it.
Well I bless God for my life. Its not by bragging but to the glory of God my tithe is more than that 50k now.
Shameless people

I was about asking if the proposal was to your daughter.
Mr "Western world". Because you have relocated to another clime, those you left here are less humans. As if you can compare those perverts there with us here on moral grounds. No wonder you cannot find anyone there to marry, not to even accept your crazy proposal.
Oga whatever you want to do is your choice, you live and die by it. There are good and bad ladies everywhere around the world. Its just simple, You attract what you desire.

beekind:

I have never seen this kind of response in forums in the western world, part of the reason we are a third world country is that people are unable to articulate themselves objectively.
What is the point of this emotional rebuttal.

If someone gives my sister that option, its her choice not mine and I wouldn't feel anything since shes not being coerced, shes being given an option which she can choose to accept or reject.

As a matter of fact, it is better to meet someone who is honest from the get go about what he wants than to marry, abandon the lady and travel back abroad which a lot of Nigerian men do , they leave their wives here and refuse to sponsor her abroad.

So me putting all my cards on the table is a sign of integrity in case you do not realise that.

ejire042:
Used leather chairs for giveaway.
One single seater
One double seater

Double seater leather is broken so you might need to change it.

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Still available for who is interested.

Good day all
Please if you have a good and affordable baby cot for sale, kindly quote this thread or WhatsApp
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Let me encourage someone today. My story is what I don't wish anyone here. Since 2011 I have not had a reasonable job. None has paid me up to 100k. Got married 2014 still without a well paying job. It was tough. Was living on my wife's salary which was 60k at that time till it grew to 100k.
It was crazy. Two kids and no decent job. Pressure was on my wife and it was affecting our marriage.
Then God decided to "Have my time".
Last year while I was in the deepest state of lack and after relocating from where I use to live(after several advice to move out). One week after I moved to a new apartment, I got a call for a job that the recruiter said was just for a few months and they will be paying 50k.
I had no choice and when the company called, it was one the leading multinational company in the aviation industry.
I started the job and did my best to deliver. Created a good rapport with the staffs.
When I left, they called me again for another opening on contract.
Finally I have been called permanently to fill up an opening that I have zero experience in.
My salary almost half a million. It's just unbelievable. From zero to hero. I know no one. My colleagues still find it hard to believe I don't know anyone.
But I lied to them, because I know the one who can do all things. Jesus.
He did it for me o.
Each day when I enter the office, I keep saying, "Thank you Jesus". It can only be Him.
Please if you reading this, just believe. Like He did it for me, He will do yours.

I've posted this on other platforms, just felt it is suitable for this one too

Jagznation:

Please beware of this fellow
Background check ongoing

Please forget any back ground check. I just bought a shoe from him yesterday and he delivered.

LG TV for quick sale
Working perfectly
No issues
Not sure of the size
Don't think it's up to 32 inches

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How much to clear camry 2004?

nasire:
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Wooden blind 15k each
Kitchen Venetian blind 8k
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20k for the wooden blinds

YungMillionaire:


Olodo. Seun is a multi-talented instrumentalist. He is the leader of the band. You hear the sax, that's Seun. We're talking music, not jumping up and down and shouting alingo.

Oga my 7 year old go play that line.
God no go let iron replace my voice o.

Vested:


That will be quite a challenge as it's dismantled at the moment.
It will require fixing alright but I'm giving it away dirt cheap if interested.

Your whatsapp number lets chat please

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Detachable Dining Table With 4 Chairs (Two chairs need repair. Table Top needs fixing at slot points) - 38k

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