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stKorea:best is pdf to be safe. |
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hustla:Both. You can choose anyone you like. |
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kwakudtraveller:the emboldened make up the pertinent questions that will open up the path for helpful solutions. If the OP's wife helped him come here on loans and other sources of money, does anyone not think it's a much bigger problem that he has no idea what the total costs are? It's either one person isn't disclosing or one person hasn't been asking up until recently. One or both is the case here and resolving that can actually fix a lot. Cos if she feels he owes her, a good step might be for him to get a full picture of his debt, pay it back (cos she wants it back) and focus on de-entangling himself from her visa. I've seen a few here talking about being brash or brutally honest and going straight to the point. While those may be valid viewpoints, let's not forget that this man's life and future plans are tied to this woman's feelings. And how things pan out heavily depends on how he steers the wheel. So, wisdom is very key here. Caution too, in approach and interactions. I wish the OP the best. 3 Likes |
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Godaloneisable:The biggest problem lies in you not knowing how she was able to finance your moving over. She probably holds a grudge over the fact that you didn't bother to know or care about how she made things happen. At the very least, when you were planning to move, you two should have discussed the funding, the loan, the type of loan, the duration, etc. to fully analyze the risks and rewards. That it's now that you're trying to find out about all of that only points to a much deeper communication problem between you two. Heck, she's even telling you not to worry about it or helping her to pay back. That would be worrying for me. She's wrong for holding that "assistance" over your head but there's a lot of retracing of steps to be done here. You have to go back in time, talk about it and find out if she holds any grudges over that. I don't subscribe to being in the dark about this other than taking her word for it, while you continue to pay for everything with no definite end in sight. In my opinion, retrace your steps and sort out the communication problem in your relationship with her. Keep eating the humble pie like you are while you continue to search for your own empowerment (sponsorship), not for malicious reasons but to be sensibly protected in case she refuses to budge. You should not be at her mercy in that relationship. So, do everything to get that out of the way. All of these aside and included, Una dey fok? 19 Likes |
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Episte:no worries. I'm glad you're clear now. All the best. |
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Episte:You can use the same POF and statement as long as you're applying for your visa within 30 days of printing the statement out and the funds in your has not gone lower than the financial requirements. |
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cyberdurable:brilliant! Congratulations 🎊 2 Likes |
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cyberdurable:for both this post and the previous one you had, th best thing to do is to wait. If you must do anything, you can make a paid call to find out if the application has been decided. |
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Lexusgs430:well, yeah you're right. I have Revolut and still use it. It has its purpose and serves it well. |
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Lexusgs430:l☺️ℓ I find it weird that they do not circle back to credit reporting agencies (I stand to be corrected). That's the crux for me. |
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Tier4Dependant:the care industry and the COS that comes with it is a massive bubble that will burst soon. It's ridiculous what many people are going through. 1 Like |
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Drey1:Let me just tell you now. Among all the banks in the UK, Revolut is one of the most useless. ![]() DD from them hardly counts for anything. Na dem no dey part of switch scheme. Very anyhow bank. Move your direct debits to another bank. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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Tochyno1995:the emboldened explains a lot. You have to show some committment to specific payments consistently and timely. If you can on Creditladder, try to report your rent monthly. Once you're seen as one who doesn't miss payments, all these approvals will start falling in your laps. Bigtt76 has a Creditladder link 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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Lexusgs430:lmao this man ![]() |
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Gift7428:refer people, and pray they get approved. You can get 4,000 Avios or more for every approved referral. Then, keep using the card. Place your daily expenses/transactions on it and ensure you pay back when due. For every £ you spend you get Avios back which can come in handy later. 1 Like |
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dude420:I think the general idea is that many people are not happy/ionate about doing them but stay in them for sponsorship or the "ease" with which they're easy to get. Care jobs for many with the potential to do more careerwise are meant to be survival jobs till they land on their feet but many of them remain stuck and keep doing them without actively pursuing "more." Not to say some don't eventually settle into those jobs and find happiness. To each theirs. 1 Like 1 Share |
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samsmokey:You can try Nala They've been reliable thus far and they have good rates. Current rate is 931. https://.iwantnala.com/YUNUS-378569 and get a bonus. 1 Like |
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Lexusgs430:I'm not arand ![]() |
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hustla:the spirit of that £18k dude has entered you. ![]() |
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hustla:why are you running? Your switch bonuses will cover it ![]() |
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Focus99:Eastbourne is your best bet as it's closer to Sussex Uni and Brighton's city center as a whole. You also don't want to be too far away from job locations/opportunities. Brighton offers that in abundance. |
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Zahra29:I follow for this your speculation ![]() |
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E come be like husband man ti wa online ![]() ![]() Who give am link to this thread? Ehn |
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Shanid:Get her to open a Monzo . The address Monzo ships her card to will most likely be attached to her profile first. Then, she can get her bank statement once the is up and running. Her bank statement is an acceptable proof of address in most cases. Let's know how she gets on. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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deept:Imagination wan kill you ![]() 1 Like |
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wallg123:It's there. You can send a dm and I'll walk you through it. |
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dustydee:The way we jump to conclusions on this thread ehn. It's amazing. Who knows if the man is asking about being arrested because he's worried about what his immigration status would be once the divorce process begins? 6 Likes |
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