NewStats: 3,265,440 , 8,186,754 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 12:17 AM 3x1l5p

Simple question we've been asking for ages.

joseph1832:
of course it knows no limit, it is because we live, eat breathe, shit, piss crime.

.any who are pointing fingers at Asiwaju, if you dig into their personal lives, you'll discover they're even worse than him.

Atleast we saw what someone in NRC was doing recently. It is that same someone who will open her mouth and insult politicians and call them thieves.

Soo by your logic, no body should question fraudulent politicians because everybody is guilty of something??

We shouldn't question elected officials because we are the citizens also have faults, so let the system remain rotten??
Got it.

All EU reps to meet in Ukraine today to show further consolidation of to Ukraine and assure her that will never subside till the war is won. Expect further aids and military arms and supplies to be announced.

When you say go and ?? ?? !

I challenge tinubu to show us just a single former secondary school class mate.

Nigeria's best performing companies.

Surprised glo isn't here .

izzou:


What part of Reno's page is it on?

He did not type that today!

Probably a very old post

Okay. That most likely explains it. Just saw it today in another thread

Putin actively harming Russia.
I shudder to think what Russia's economy will be like in a few years time when production levels have evaporated, Russians living standards drops even harder than it already is and the economy is completely in the red.

The markers are there, I don't see how Russia survives this.

Surprising from Reno, especially after relentlessly sucking up to the drug baron.

Where does this guy actually lean?

Segedinho:
+1 today

Happy birthday bro. More blissful days ahead. Wishing you the very best of life.

Singapore has grown to be one of the world's fastest and biggest economies.

English is the lingua franca of Singapore.
English is what is spoken in Singapores parliament, courts and schools despite the country having some indigenous languages.

Use of English did not inhibit the growth of Singapore and it's economy or society.

Let no one use sentimental bullshite to propose policies that are built on sand. Policies that are of very minimal gain if not outright regression.

BlueRayDick:


I will find out from her .

Thanks.

izzou:


He isn't coming back anymore, so not much lessons can be taught to such a person.

It is just sad to see that irrespective of political parties, they are all the same.

It's evident that he wants to implant his stooge in the office after his tenure. The lesson here is that people will reject that. Edolites have a solid history of defying the odds. He's biting the fingers that fed him.

BlueRayDick:


My elder sister handled it, she paid them eventually. They requested for a lot of documents/info like building permit, plan no., LGA approval etc which was provided .

They claimed irrespective of what approval we have , we are to come inform them before starting work on the site .
The lesson I learnt was that they have touts who go around just to observe different areas to monitor if any development is taking place .

What office is handling this? Area council? Local government? Or state?
Later can you ask the exact documents needed so that one doesn't fall for scam?

BlueRayDick:


Stop this thing na . Anybody can be an expert at digging if they devote so much time to it and it also depends on how bad u want to nail ur opps.

U have posted Nihilist’s details that corroborates his claim that he’s a resident in the UK. Dissstroy has posted his details here over time and he’s even offered to give his location in the south south to anybody who is interested …. How are still claiming bone is the alternate of the other ?

Hmm, I guess it's only time that would do it's thing.

izzou:
Obaseki don begin play god.

Something is just wrong with nigerian politicians. See obaseki that Edo people rallies around because they hated any hint of godfatherism in their state and now he's basically turned Into one. Silencing any opposition.

I'm sure they will teach him a lesson in the next election. The whole thing is just stupid.
Oshiomole himself was voted in as protest against igbenidions godfatherism, then he became one, then obaseki was voted in as a protest against oshiomole. Now he's one. Maybe na LP candidate them go go for next election.

BlueRayDick:


How are they going to achieve the reduction ?

Reducing from 5000 to 200 ; won’t it lead to an oligopoly situation where the remaining 200 can still do what we accuse the 4,800 delisted BDC operators of doing ? Like it’s easier for 200 people to agree to sell at a particular rate which may not go down well with the government , yet there’s nothing the government can do about it

Please, away from this,
Yesterday you narrated an experience of having built something and some people came and marked the stop work paint stuff, how did you resolve the issue, with who and how much did it take?

Ibime now you can see how the guy basically sets himself up for drags.

No one will drag him if he doesn't willfully set himself up with his delusions.

akwesenana:
Ekamba digger.

You know who else is an expert in digging with an aim for spotting "contradiction"?

I believe strongly that that guy is truly an alternate.

akwesenana:
Any day wey Chelsea wan collect, their fans go first start rehearsal for here.

Omoh. Wetin we go do na?
Na only here person fit get better entertainment. Clubs dey fvck up.

swiz123:
Native language my foot. All these native languages littered all over Nigeria is one of the major causes of disunity among us.

We would have fared better as a country if everyone spoke the same language at least.

This is the point I've always made to the fool and he refuses to see it.

Having a unifying language is good and healthy for any society. Not to talk more of a nigeria that has more than 500 different languages within it's borders. You take a car within 100 kilometers of anywhere within Nigeria and you will hear a different language being spoken.

English is one of the major factor that unifies and levels us all and he thinks it's bad we're speaking it. He fails to recognize it's function. And once u tell him, you become an inferior fool to him. He's just an idiot_

A001:
So many ignorant people on Nairaland, people wey no know their left from right. To do a simple research on Google sef, dem no fit do. Graduates o, lols

Shut up your mouth!!

"All these ignorant people".
In your silly little mind, you're the most brilliant. Everyone here is beneath you because they wouldn't waste time on the nonsenses you waste time on. Always filling your head with rubbish that you feel is the best argument to make.

BlueRayDick:


He’s one funny guy .Most times he doesn’t even know how contradictory he sounds .

He’s been insulting Africans who don’t fancy the idea of translating science to their forefather’s language but here he is praising Einstein who is guilty of same.

I was reading the discussion between u guys then I saw him calling u mumu just cos u are pointing the obvious facts to him. I can only imagine how most of his discussions offline always end .

That guy has a serious problem.

He can never have a decent conversation with anyone. The minute you engage him, just start expecting insults. It's a personality issue.

seankafor:
bro there is nothing to hide nor sugarcoat..

This Nigeria, this Africa and this climate we re now, men get away with cheating because they re largely the breadwinner and the provider and they re the one that married the woman and paid her bride price.. they built the home 🏠 and brought the woman in, they chest the bulk financial responsibility.. so the playing ground is not level when it comes to infidelity..

But any man that a woman shoulders his responsibility, the last thing that is supposed to be in the man's brain is cheating.. infact that man supposed to be called a woman..

So men cheat and get away with it because it's how it's programmed to be in this part of the climate and anyone who has a contrary view should take the next flight ✈️ to his preffered destination where he and his wife would be dragging the home 🏠..

But this doesn't mean you should cheat recklessly, at least if you love your woman, you wouldn't let her know or discover you re cheating..

Men are polygamous and promiscuous in nature and I fully men who have sex outside marriage with sense.. so far as you re the provider.. man you gats to have the sex filled bonuses that comes with the privilege.. but like I said, thou shalt not be caught

Thanks for the saying the silent part out loud.

"Men are polygamous in nature".
So it's only men that like sex abi? Women don't like sex?

So you're excusing a man for cheating on his spouse for the singular reason that he shoulders the financial responsibilities?

So you're saying a woman should be expected to be cheated on so far as she doesn't earn money?

So what happens if you Darlington who earns money illegally is married to a medical doctor who may actually earn more than you or on par with you.

What are the fates of working class women then? Female lawyers, female doctors, female engineers who earn money and are married to same earning capacity men? They're not in Nigeria abi? Or it is only them that don't deserve to be cheated on abi?

You see how your logic falls apart?

Posts like these is what makes me see you as his alternate. Because I have said absolutely nothing today that can be construed as a shade or attack on him.

DissTroy:


You and I know you desperately want me to condemn and insult such men so you can leverage on it by tying it to some comments to attack the two usual adversaries on this thread/board you like to go against.

That is the endpoint. It's just like when you were insisting people use the most unprintable words against those who might have made tribal-hued comments in the past so you can weaponise it to fight your two archenemies.

As long as those two guys made comments today warning men to be discreet about it if they do it to avoid familial rancours, you'd accept nothing I posit other than a phrase or sentence you can weaponise against those two guys.

I know your antics. I see you coming. The electioneering period revealed a lot about your ultimate goal on this board - getting one daily over those two. And I sidestep it.

I don't know what would suggest this to you if not you being an alternate. I'll keep watching closely sha.

DissTroy:
You want an example of the difference between male and female psychology?

A woman would tell you, "I need love, care (even in form of gifts and checking up), and attention." (Dependability.)

A man would tell you, "I need a woman who is submissive and respects me." (Loyalty.)

The bolded is still the mistake you are making.

People are different. People have different expectations and experiences from a relationship.
There are some women who actually like to partake in the financial running of the households and the man is only happy to. I am a direct beneficiary of that. My mom's workplace was one where the workers contributed a part of their salary every month and then by December, all of them would get a 50kg bag of rice, large container of groundnut oil, bag of beans, carton of tin tomato, basket of onions and some spices. And when these things finished in the house, she would replenish them.

These things in bulk took us quite some way while my dad handled things like kero and later gas, buying any electric gadget we used in the house, radio,TV, vcd, dvd, generator, fuel. Etc.

Basically anything concerning food was handled by my mom while my dad took care of every other thing. School fees, buying clothes, books etcetera. This is what worked for them.

Yeah, I know families where maybe the man basically bought everything in the house and the woman was in charge of just making things work in home. Domestic chores and the likes. But again people's expectations are very different.
Stop generalizing.
Different strokes for different folks.

DissTroy:


Maybe I stir away from arguing with you because you're emotional, hypocritical while at it, and play the hunted card.

Here's you implying the Ballzproblem guy is a naïveté or gay because he made a comment which doesn't align with your woke viewpoint right on this thread less than 3 hours ago.

Disstroy you have a repeated history of throwing the gay jabs my way. It's not a today something. Which is why I am specifically asking you what warrants it today when I'm basically having a well intentioned conversation with you today.

Today, you are going hard on women who cheat on their spouses and I'm asking you what about the men who cheat and you are not addressing that answer directly.

I asked you; what do we say about men who cheat on their women and your answer is that men expect loyalty and women expect dependability. How exactly does that address the question.

That's a non answer to the question asked.

If I told you I was cheating on my woman, what will be your response to me?
Will you say I'm doing well or will you say I should stop, that's infidelity is never good?

What's your opinion on men who cheat on their spouses.

The gay jabs are very unnecessary and uncalled for.

DissTroy:


I don't know what else you'd have me state.

You asked this question prior and I responded in detail. You argued it's not what you want to read.

There's a difference between male and female psychology. A woman owes a man loyalty, a man owes a woman dependability. Every other thing is just extra.

If you have experience in heterosexual relationships, you'd get this without me or anyone having to explain.
That you are asking begs the obvious question.

Okay I see where you're getting everything wrong.
The fact that you think that the psychology between a man and woman is different.
I mean really??

You believe that thought processes is defined by gender. Really?

Also what's this bullshite about women owing men loyalty? Loyalty is earned my man, not expected. And that goes both ways.

Talking about "dependability". This is where gender roles according to society comes in I guess. What makes you think that a woman HAS TO BE dependent on her man?

This is where you get it wrong. A marriage is determined by what you and partner want it to be. I like my woman to be assertive as I am. As opinionated as I am and also as independent as she could be. I don't do well with partners who depend on me for everything because obviously the dynamics changes and just maybe because this because I am from a home where both parents were salary earners and found a way to work together especially financially.

I guess we have different views sha.

And enough with these gay jabs. I'm trying to have a healthy conversation with you but you're trying to stir it in a distasteful manner. I don't see what warrants these petty jabs.

Disstroy I'm still waiting upon your answer oo.

What do we say to men who cheat on their women?
What is your opinion on men who have faithful partners but go and sleep outside?

Abi na only women dey cheat on men?

Wait oo. House or reps observed one minute silence for mohbad.

Walahi social media is powerful. Call it opportunism or whatever but no one can deny the power of social media. It can act as a great equalizer for society.
https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/7854925/mohbad-reps-observe-moment-silence

Trevor012:

GOOD LUCK Sha. But If i tell you a secret base on friendship and I find out you told your wife or due to her having access to your phone she gets to know then that's the end of that friendship.

The answer to this is, hoping your friend can realize that you trust your wife completely and whatever you know can be assumed to also be known by your wife but the trust is still retained because your friend knows that that information is completely safe. Here the onus is on my wife to know what secrets are and how you can't break them.

Again, a marriage means, lifetime partnership. Two bodies, one mind. Anything less means that the marriage is on a time scale

Theflint1:
Keyword being routine. I'd get doing on a first child discreetly, but doing DNA tests routinely and openly on kids a woman you're supposedly married to is just crazy.

DNA test can't be routine in the first place because the result is definite.
If you do know test and it's yours, it's yours. Nothing changes that. Even if the test is done 10 years later so I don't understand what is "routine" about a 🧬 test.

Trevor012:

Is it only infidelity that people see when they read through phones? How about information about friends/family that are very personal and is shared with just you?
It's not everything your partner needs to know. So if Tunde shares a secret with you, you will go and tell your partner.

That's the very ideal of a commited relationship. One where you're allowed to be vulnerable to your partner. Where you're allowed to open up to your partner.

And I don't mean "flings" here or a girl you just met. I mean, someone who you're really serious with. Like someone who you've both invested years, emotions and finance on yourselves both.
But most especially a wife.

You should have gotten to a stage with your wife where you can both funnily crush yourselves with jabs. You can make fun of her and she can make of you and both of you will know exactly the point that comes from. From a place of love not a will of intent to cause harm.

That she can filter between jests and seriousness when she encounters something new.
That is the ideal of marriage and I'm an idealist. I invest and hope for the very best of situations.