NewStats: 3,263,938 , 8,181,973 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 08:57 PM 4l3k2u

kester113:

Dioxidane,(you mean rule no. 4..'ba masala')very interesting comment..wouldn't mind applying for a one-on-one coaching.what's your take on it?.

kester113:
(1)who should love more-Guys or Girls? (2)which is proper-the guy loving the girl more or vice versa?

Merikims: lol dioxidane is not my Bae.he is my colleague at work. Iambibi u wan make me n my dear Logodwhiz fight abi?ur plan no work ooo...work on ur act of snatching n flirting...then try again.

LogoDWhiz:

Hurt you?
In what way?
Or it is you that hurt me by not having trust in me.

merikims:
Good morning my darlings in the house.
Now that am single... anyone can now apply unless Logodwhiz apologise for almost ruining our marriage with all the flirting he has been up to...pls u must have at least 25years working experience and tall, dark and handsome and most especially you must b rich and love the lord.

PROVACATEUR:
My first comment was buhari is a dictator and has nothing to offer Nigeria.

Was I a seer?

That's definitely what happened... Besides methyl orange is supposed to be ORANGE in colour and NOT yellow...

All those screaming high up to the heavens that GMB was a former military 'dictator' should that a former President, OBJ was a military ruler. Even the present Senate President was formerly in the military. Did they still display their military traits in a democratic setting? Let's think pragmatically here, no sentiments. Our present president could not address the major problem affecting Nigeria today. In my own opinion, it is CORRUPTION. It is corruption in its many forms (bribery, nepotism, fraud, embezzlement) that has adversely affected the economy of Nigeria. Now I'm not an advocate of GMB, but I believe if you can't tackle a problem, leave it to someone who can (that is if you have the interests of the country at heart). GEJ has tried his best, let him give someone else the opportunity to tackle the problems facing this country, and if that person can't, with 2019 by the corner we can always elect someone else.

Which of the following do you think has the biggest effect on your happiness? Your CIRCUMSTANCES? Your GENES? Or your ATTITUDE?

Some people would choose "circumstances", perhaps saying, "I would be happy... If only I had more money", or "... if only I had a great marriage", or "... if only I had better health."

In reality, though, attitude often trumps circumstances and genes when it comes to happiness. And that is good news. Why? Because unlike your circumstances or your genes - over which you have little or no control - you can control your attitude.

A Bible proverb says, "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit saps ones strength." (Prov. 17:22) In other words, in most cases, your attitude makes a difference. It can affect whether you attain a goal or give up or whether a tragic event brings out the best in you or the worst.

Some people might be skeptical of that idea. They might reason: 'Why hide my hardship behind a mask of optimism?' 'No amount of positive thinking would change my situation.' 'I'll rather be a realist than be a dreamer!'

While these thoughts might seem valid, there are great benefits to adopting a POSITIVE ATTITUDE and the following are ways to do that.

1. AVOID PESSIMISM
Pessimism or seeing the worst in every situation saps you of the strength to want to go on, or the strength needed to improve your situation. So, avoid it! (Prov. 24:10)

2. FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE
If you see everything negatively, you will feel "afflicted" and everyday will appear "bad" or gloomy. But if you focus on positive things, you will have a "cheerful heart" and even feel joyful. (Prov. 15:15) The choice is yours.

3. DO THINGS FOR OTHERS
Unselfish giving brings deep satisfaction to the giver. Why? Because we are created to do more than simply look after our own needs. Experiencing the joy of giving can do much to help us cope with negative circumstances in life. [Acts. 20:35]