NewStats: 3,264,681 , 8,184,402 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 01:33 AM 3q3zt

Might be a medical condition, either psychological, physiological or psychosomatic.

But it's most likely psychological, meaning it's all in your mind.



Or physical; meaning it has to do with your taste buds or your culinary skills.

Mindlog:
I love road trips but certainly don't have the liver to do such in today's Nigeria!

Kidnapping and bad roads, yeah?

dominique:
Honestly the extortion being faced by those bus operators is out of this world! I wonder how they make gain after all that extortion

Your point is my regular thought exactly, and it's sad to watch.

There is no such thing as a maximally trusted platform because agenda and propaganda will always permeate and perforate.
Broadly inclusive is more realistic and achievable.

As sound as these points are, it's sad that it won't be the reality for most.
Yes, planning retirement and not depending on children is the wise thing to do.
Not for parents of millenials though, that ship has sailed way past for them.
The children can set them up with petty trades to keep them busy and as an avenue for small change coming....still feeding and upkeep remains their responsibility.


This write-up speaks mostly to millenials, and not only the ultra-educated ones...in this day and age, everyone is looking out for themselves and not depending on successful children to keep them, countless opportunities abound for everyone to take advantage of.
Anything from children will just be a bonus.

It's up to you to decide what you want.
Do you want to tell her or you want to keep it to yourself?
It's likely she doesn't even know herself, you know.

It's the fear of starting all over and building from scratch.

Fahvvy:


I think so too ....
But trust women to either hide the truth or twist the narrative to their favor ...

You are so quick to put the whole blame on the woman.
You don't even know what happened.

What are you asking us: should you forgive him or how do you forgive him?

Either way, it's left to you to decide if you want to reconcile or not.
About forgiveness, it will take time and it won't happen at once.
If you make up your mind and decide to forgive him, the strength to do so will follow the will.
It will take effort on his part as well.
He has to make up for his misactions.
With that, the both of you should be fine.

IDERAWOLE:


Let me respond to this, it resonates with my view. You can help a wife who's not learned to read and write but I doubt if there's any help for one that can't guarantee peace of mind for the husband. Lack of peace from a woman is all about upbringing, some twenty or more years ago. You can't teach that any longer, it's too late. For knowledge? You can learn that at age 70 or even older. Whatever makes a woman gives you a peaceful life is internal and huge, same with the one that is a trouble shooter, huge and internal too. Both can't be unlearned. Only God's spirit can help the latter. So make your choice.

There you are too.

BRATISLAVA:


In your world, men cannot be bringers of peace, but are looking for peace that they cannot themselves give.

Who on Earth told the male posters here that women will give them peace of mind when they don't bring any into the equation? What is this mythical peace of mind that you've all adopted as your new standard?

You all want peace, but are are you peaceful?

There you are.

Na Daddy Freeze dey always carry this kind interview.
He did the same thing with Tonto after the fiasco with Churchill.



Then, Nkechi and her ex are getting out of leg.
They should resolve their issues in private and stop spreading dirty linen for all and sundry.
Pun intended

What caused the breakup?
Something must have happened to make him change his mind.

VictorUSA:
How can someone who cannot read and write give you peace of mind in this 21st century?

It's very possible.

Emotional and social intelligence is different from literacy.

The inability to read and write does not hinder
the ability to interact and live with people successfully.

what kind of situation is this o?

You are only focused on physical compatibility.

Have you considered spiritual, mental and emotional compatibilities?
Do you live life by the same values?
What are your plans for the future?
Is your relationship emotionally healthy?


These are the things that define a relationship, not only physical height.

How did he not know she already has four children?
And why did he find out on their wedding day?
The entire thing seems scripted.

Pansophist
Share your thoughts?

I think it's the millenial man's tough fight choosing between traditional sentiments and loyalty to his young family.


In the painting, the man chose to save his aged father which could be interpreted as the patriarchal way of managing family affairs.

As opposed to saving his son and wife which could mean compromise and the modern way of approaching family matters.

What does she do?
Does she have a job or a business?
The surviving 3year old son, is he with her, with her parents or the father's parents?


She should the late man's family and let them know she's pregnant.
She can't just keep it to herself.

Five wives?! Isn't a resounding slap on modernity's face?
How progressive.

The killer will be found.
The system over there works, especially in high profile cases such as this.

And what would he do for their incoming children?

There are deers in Nigeria?

Liposuction in India?

Carot:
who fùcked n impregnated sophie

Nobody knows yet.

Na Chioma he dey use sell market .
Which is fair, because she's getting paid and recognised and all that.
One could say that she's the most loved of all his babymamas.



In short, David uses all his babymamas.
Always have, from the beginning, since he started dating Sophia to when they had I made and the family drama in between.
Most of the drama was accidental, but he and his team capitalised on all of the drama and even expanded it.
Woman drama fuels music business; it's the fertilizer for ticket sales.
The consistent drama and everything else is just marketing and planned.


The drama is even more exciting and interesting than his music recently, even.

He's these days focusing more on politics, endorsements and maintaining hype and popularity.


Y'all online in-laws are being used as well, for your attention and interest.



The wedding, if it's happening at all, is just another way to stay in the public hype and get people talking about him.

Hilarious.

Mirasteel:
I was just advising you Africans that love trooping to UK en masse, there's nothing rosy about UK, explore more European countries instead.

Can you cite examples of the European countries you suggest?

Cutehector:
My own is to be traveling for vacations abroad and be coming back.

You wouldn't want to japa permanently like almost every Nigerian these days?

There are lots of questions begging for answers here:

-How did he gain access to the offering box?

-Had enough time to stuff his bag with that huge amount, walk away... and no one walked in on him in the process.

620, 115k?
Must be a mega church.