NewStats: 3,264,862 , 8,184,922 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 03:44 PM 4f6bn

Go to Jebba in Kwara state, power is stable and house is very very cheap way below your budget.

doctore212:
Although today is good Friday . I still want to go and carry olosho

O boy I will advice you repent and get more serious with life. May olosho not end your life

Sapasenator:
Hello Nairalanders,

I am completely lost and need advice. My name is Olumide Adeyanju(Not my real name), and I’m a 42-year-old civil engineer based in Lagos. I’ve been married to my wife, Tola, for seven years. We have a son together, Jidenna, who is five years old. Our marriage hasn’t been perfect, but I thought we had something solid—until recently.

When I met Tola, she was a divorcee. She told me her first marriage to a man named Dapo Olatunji ended after three years due to irreconcilable differences and I believed her. According to her, Dapo had anger issues and was overly controlling. She said she left the marriage to protect her mental health and focus on building a better life for herself. At the time, I ired her courage, and we built a beautiful relationship.

Last month, everything changed. Tola and I were invited to a wedding in Lekki. As fate would have it, Dapo was also at the wedding. It was the first time they were seeing each other in nearly 10 years. I noticed they exchanged pleasantries, and while it seemed cordial at first, something about the way they looked at each other didn’t sit well with me.

In the weeks that followed, I started noticing subtle changes in Tola’s behavior. She began acting distant and spending more time on her phone, often smiling at her screen like a teenager in love. When I asked her what was going on, she brushed it off, saying it was just "work stress."

Then, two weeks ago, I came home early from work and found her on a video call with Dapo. She didn’t realize I was home, so I overheard parts of their conversation. They were laughing and reminiscing about their past together—things like how they used to travel to Abuja for weekend getaways and the time he bought her a surprise gift for her birthday. It felt like I was intruding on a private moment between lovers.

When I confronted her, she itted that she and Dapo had been talking regularly since the wedding. She claimed it was "nothing serious" and that they were just "catching up as friends." But I don’t believe her. Her behavior has changed so much. She’s more secretive, and I even found out she met up with him last Saturday without telling me. She said it was a "closure" meeting, but why does she need closure after all these years?

Now I’m stuck. I love Tola, but it feels like her heart is being drawn back to Dapo. I’ve spoken to my elder brother, Kunle, and he thinks I should stand my ground and fight for my marriage. But my best friend, Tunde, says I should let her go if she’s already emotionally checked out.

I don’t know what to do. Should I confront Dapo directly? Should I give Tola an ultimatum to stop talking to him? Or should I quietly walk away and let her decide who she really wants to be with?

Please, Nairalanders, I need your honest opinions. Have you experienced or heard of a situation like this? How do I handle it?

My brother, I will advice you take a VERY HARD stand on this issue. Speaking from experience sit her down and talk tough to her, don't joke with her, give her a timeline to end the rubbish inform her family right in her presence and be real as a man.

shortgun:
One full chicken for 2.5k?
It's 15k in Nigeria with 70k minimum wage

Bros in my area my wife told me it is 30k. I dey find am hard to believe

fergie001:
President Bola Ahmed Tinubu appoints Daniel Bwala as Special Adviser, Media and Public Communications (State House)

Will anything ever work in this country, honestly and humanly speaking there is no hope for Nigeria. Sane people are gradually going into extinction in Nigeria.

Odunharry:
Congratulations to Richiez and his beautiful bride to be s and they get set for their big day #FR'24
swedsrichard2024.com .


A Match made in Heaven.
#FR'24.

GOD bless your union, the enemy will not have any influence on your home. HML.

tiswell:
They should collect the money if he makes it 5million.

Person wen die don die

That's the problem with blacks, money! money! money! human life has no value. No wonder life in this part has no meaningful value.

koldrun:
I was trying to prepare dinner about 2 hours ago, when boiling water poured on my leg. I was rushed to a nearby hospital, where I was istered first aid, and then the doctor prescribed some drugs. I have a feeling that this might be a third degree scald. Your suggestions are welcome on how to treat this.

So sorry, please look for fresh aloe Vera leaf scoop out the liquid then apply to the burnt area. Do it for like two weeks and your skin will heal up. After that thank GOD.

helinues:


Is he not even matured to handle things amicably without escalating it

Threatening IGP? Like seriously

Put yourself in Fubara's shoes as the governor, you will do worse. Even as a husband and the head of
a family, can someone rule and subjugate your power?

bluepreek:
It's only God and his angels in heaven that sincerely knows the quantity of alum that have been wasted on her down below

I expect her to show appreciation to God for creating alum as well.....

O boy you bad, can any woman survive your onslaught?.

SmartPolician:
What a man can do, a woman can....

Young ladies should copy folks like this and stop dancing half-naked on social media and disgracing their family.

And what a man can steal ?

OBIGS:
I had a dream that the suffering in the land will trigger an uprising before the year ends. In this uprising citizens United together and stormed government house, killed corrupt politicians. Tinubu and his family had to flee to to seek asylum. Young military officers stepped in to bring order. All government institutions were reformed and free and fair elections was held in Nigeria. A new dawn started and Nigeria began to progress positively with real change we could all see.

May your dream come true.

SpaceX:
Since he made his money by worldly means can the church accept the donation? Is it acceptable to pay title?

The earth is the LORD'S and its fullness thereof.

EreluRoz:
Nonsense, where is the sense in tattooing ordinary boyfriend's name on your precious skin? Even husband sef lailai. The only person that can earn that spot is your kids and parents.

Tattooing a boyfriend's name that's sharing dick everywhere is the highest form of stupidity.

May be when you see a good man you will do the same.

nairalandkachy1:


Zagazola Makama

Very soon it will be the turn of top politicians when we are ready there will be an end to this menance.

JustPowerApps:
I will start a good business

And you expect that business to thrive, no wonder businesses in Nigeria hardly outlive the business owner.

RealityKings:
You cant carry more than 10k dollars in cash... You even have to declare it... So that picture is impossible

The reality is that it is possible with Nigerians, they will create pseudo friends to help them carry the whole money. Corruption is in the marrow of an average Nigerian.

Henry2405:
You mistakenly picked the wrong luggage at the airport, you got home and found this, what is your next step?

ME:- As a good citizen and a Christian it is wrong for me to take what isn’t mine. So I will empty the money from bag in my room and return the empty bag to the airport

Is that what being a good Christian entails to you. May GOD delivers Nigerian Christians.

coputa:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/delta-govt-to-demolish-commissioners-house-for-blocking-waterway-in-ughelli/

Oga OP please your headline is grammatically incorrect.

omoadeleye:
Next time always use post office to reduce cost

those guys are confirmed thieves.

jeromestarks:
Perfect timing! Timing is everything! If you did not meet her as a virgin, fvck her and let her go meet other fvckers. Never marry her or else, you will be in the wrong timeline because you will never father any child but you will take care of her ex's children thinking they're yours.



Do not pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws just to have a woman who was fvcked by another man with just two eggs and indomie. Only a fool with poor sense of time would do that. Are you the fool?


Be wise. Be time conscious. Be the first!

Your crave for a virgin stinks, are you a virgin yourself may you never marry a killer virgin. Marriage is beyond sex my friend, I have been married for about two decades though as a virgin man and I can tell you authoritatively that there is more to marriage than sex.

ChizzyBuna:
I love banging Married women

Thank God I've never been caught 🙏🏽

Good for you, but what goes around comes around.
You shall reap whatever you sow.

Wainey:
Or am I the only one thinking these senator earn way more than that.
Cheapest Lamborghini cost N200m and someone has up to three in his garage, that is three years worth of salary.
G-wagon cost up to N100m.
Rolls Royce cost around N600m and u have 3, which is 1.8b.

You have to understand that many of these politicians have other sources of income far before they came into politics. For instance Dino has a stake in Macdonald far before he ventured into politics this i am aware.

Praxis758:



40k of those days is equivalent to about 4m today.

exactly, it is pathetic how naira nosedive to this present level.

Praxis758:
What about customers from Savannah Bank?

I was having about 40k in Savannah bank before it was liquidated. Just move on bro that bank is gone.

Kalatium:
I woke up 2 days ago and noticed my laptop is showing me this. I haven't used it for a week so I am wondering what could have been wrong here.

Today is even the worst. Once it starts booting and it will shut down. It will keep booting and shutting down by itself.

Bros your hard drive is going going going. Get prepared to replace your hard drive.

Jagaban2012:
Regarding Oweka Onyeka, we know that King Sunny Ade was nominated and received a Grammy Award...now tell me any Ibo. Musicians , dead or alive who have been nominated for grammy award talk less of receiving it....King Sunny Ade is an institution of music ....he is not in the class of onyeka ... onyeka is a local champion ........show me on grammy one got or nominated for .....and I will show myriad of globally recognized award that King Sunny Ade got ....After Fela Kuti in music...nah Sunny Ade....Onyeka no dey at all....in fact, the collaboration he did with your Onyeka was one of the worst selling albums in his music....compare to the one he made without any collaboration.
Ask some of your Ibo musicians why their fame has dwindled since they collaborated with the Yoruba musician. and not until they sing in Yoruba language they can reach their target audience ....
Even an illiterate Yoruba
Boy and musician like Portable " has gotten many awards than what your Onyeka Owneu has ....except for her age ..Portable has.more award than Onyeka Owenu is making .


Ask Burna Boy not to sing in Yoruba language and style and see if he can maintain his fame....Burma boy rode on the wings of Fela music to gather fame for himself. Tell him to switch to his style of music in portharcout and let see how far....

My brother this your tribal sentiment is not good for you, do you have to go to this extent in making your point. Please note that I am 100% Yoruba man with grown up kids.


Idiot..... .

2special:
Some people have been programmed to read the wrong meaning to everything

I can not agree less with you.

nairalanda1:
Concorde was probably a case of too fast, too soon.

We need supersonic flight, but the problem with concorde was that it was darn too expensive to run every time. And it was tech that was too far ahead of its time.

At the end, the inevitable happened.

I guess we would have to wait a bit longer for supersonic tech, AND for suborbital flights, where we can reach New York from Lagos in 34 minutes. Maybe in the 22nd century.

supersonic planes are being developed and we should start seeing the unveiling by next year.

Newlymarried:

https://www.osundefender.com/landlords-son-rapes-corps-member-in-akwa-ibom/

Why would the corps member open door at that ungodly hour, she should have ignored him when he came knocking her door. Well 21 years jail term should be the minimum for this crime.

AqualinaXYZ:
Tinubu was in Brazil this year February




5 months later sharks wey dey sea don test positive for cocaine



Okay naaa

you bad abeg