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Chomzy19(f): 4:52am On Nov 27, 2024
Please what sates are people seeing for B1/B2 appointments for Abuja? I'm seeing March 2026 - is this an error? Just 3 days ago It was in 2025.
Chomzy19(f): 3:18pm On Mar 14, 2023
Another question good people of this House. If a husband and wife is applying to travel together do they need to reference the other person’s application number in their letter/statement.
Chomzy19(f): 3:15pm On Mar 14, 2023
Africankel:


It is important you include an itinerary. My assistant was recently refused for the same reason.
Thank you.
Chomzy19(f): 12:07pm On Mar 14, 2023
Tutu82:

It is not compulsory but important,as it shows attention to details and that you know exactly what you want to do.
I would say it gives the caseworker a clearer picture.Cheers!.
Thank you!
Chomzy19(f): 5:26pm On Mar 13, 2023
Hi guys, do you generally need to provide detailed itinerary as part of ing documents?

This is not included in the UKI docs required but I have been seeing mention of it here on Nairaland. So checking.
Chomzy19(f): 10:20pm On Oct 19, 2022
Hello house,

Do you need the TB test certificate for UK tourist visa? Staying just 2 weeks.
Chomzy19(f): 6:26pm On May 09, 2022
genitori:
About hostes' comment that starts with 'I recommend... ' and ends with 'muss the promotion', it's not part of the game. In that case, you skip him/her; you don't continue from him/her, but the last comment that is part of the game

Games! Cannot believe someone resurrected this game after nine years!
Chomzy19(f): 11:53pm On Feb 07, 2022
Please house can someone recommend a good service to ship foodstuff from Naija to the UK.. very important. Thank you.
Chomzy19(f): 5:57pm On Nov 03, 2021
frank043:
Goodday everyone!

@justwise, well done! Well done everyone on here...
Please is there any way you can be of help? I need naira and have pounds, is there anyone you know that is genuine and can help out with good rates.
Many thanks!
Cheers,
Frank

I have Naira, slightly below market rate. You can send a DM if you still need it.
Chomzy19(f): 8:35pm On Oct 20, 2021
Irenenwaka:


I know someone actually…. Whats your budget ? And which area were u planning to search fr a property
Any area with 30 mins or less commute to the city. Budget is $1000 max.
PM me the person’s number/email. Thanks.
Chomzy19(f): 11:15am On Oct 20, 2021
Anyone new in London looking for accommodation? I am looking to team up to rent a 2 or 3 bed. Both genders are welcomed. Send me a PM. Thanks.

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Chomzy19(f): 9:59am On Sep 16, 2021
Please can someone help with this. I'm unable to check out of my TLS Biometric appointment booking. I selected self-service and the appointment date and time but the check-out button refuses to activate, so I'm unable to click on it and finish my booking.
Chomzy19(f): 4:35pm On Jul 28, 2021
Has Oando not been under 10 for the past 2 years? why are you now only recently interested in mopping it up. What has changed per fundamentals?
No worries. found the news.
zendi:

Yes to your first remark, about trigger-happy, premature profit taking. As for Oando, it's rally is different from corporate results season euphoria.
I pray for money to mop up all the Oando anybody drops under 10.
Barring, of course, any new outbreak of boardroom firefights.
Chomzy19(f): 4:44am On Apr 05, 2020
Acct2:
its Alright, Believe me.... It has been difficult for me deciding because of d kind of family I come from.... I wouldn't like to hide tinz from my my ppl... But she's saying I shouldn't tell them now........

Frankly, I do not see anything wrong with marrying a single mother - people should marry who they are compatible with. But her telling you to keep it a secret from your parents, the child's supposed step-grandparents, is very worrisome. To me her intentions are very selfish -she just wants to ensure she gets married. She does not care whether she causes a rift between you and your family or if the marriage is a happy one (because how can it be if her-in-laws opposes and hates her throughout it).

Whatever you do, make sure you inform your family that the woman you are marrying is a single mother. Even if they oppose you, you should be able to stand your ground and find ways to convince them. After all, you are a man going to establish your own household. You had better begin to practice manning up.

I see someone saying inform them after the marriage that they will forgive and forget - some may, some will hold it against you or most likely your wife forever.
Chomzy19(f): 9:00pm On Jan 07, 2020
Cheato64:
I and Oma has dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs. We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married. The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that. Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting. Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype. I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in enugu. I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

This fake guy again!! And people are even responding to his fake stories.

Mr. Cheater what happened to that your pregnant wife that you drive to the market.. yes, you the one that you married in 2018.

Foolish boy! Don't go and prepare for your exam.

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Chomzy19(f): 10:27pm On Dec 19, 2019
Oga you used her for papers... All your explanations here simply point to the fact that her parents have not completely given the go-ahead (as a matter of fact, they threatened to cancel it) and you secretly rushed to marry her because your visa was running out... Exact definition of using someone for papers!

And you expect the father to clap for you!! Wehdon Sir!

Better do whatever the man says to please him...(Yes, do whatever he says. Cos you Bleep up big time). In fact what's your father's view about all this.. is he clapping for you too? Cos you sound like you don't really understand the implication of what you did.. you think it's nothing.

The Wife, (If you are really reading this, is you I want to advise)

All these sweet things he is saying/doing now to make you rush into a secret marriage with him will end once he gets his papers. You obviously grew up in whatever country you are and perhaps do not understand this.. you never alienate your family to marry a man (especially a Nigerian man that grew up in Nigeria). Because when the music will change, and change it will, you need your family by your side.

So make sure you encourage him to keep doing what your father wants. Also, stop being stubborn to your father and apologize to your parents. What you did is a direct slap to your father's face.. culturally.

They are only trying to protect you! They most likely grew up in Nigeria and understand that he is using you for papers more than you do. Not saying he does not feel anything for you o. But if he didn't need a visa, when your parents started all their shakara and giving him for the marriage.. what he would have most likely done is to say he is not marrying again.

Wise up!!! All these mushy feelings will fade in 3-5 years time. What will you have by then?

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Chomzy19(f): 2:19am On Dec 18, 2019
Damilolacoker:
Hello everyone I'm 24 years old and I have been married for three years. last year we had our first baby . Prior to our wedding, I and my husband decided I'll be allowed to work once our baby is old enough to attend day Care. Now our daughter is almost 2 years and he has refused to let me work. We've had countless arguments about this and it always ends with him saying women who work are not always submissive. I cannot be a full house wife , I am educated and cannot sit at home all say.

He recently told my parents I was being rude to him and they're all saying I should do whatever my husband wants. I love him but on this issue, I refuse to agree with him.

The other part here is he doesn't like me correcting our daughter. She's almost 2 and it irritates him whenever I try to potty train her or scold her. He insists I go to check up on Her at school during break hours. I understand that she's quite young but as her mother, I want the best for her.

Now he's changed towards me, he doesn't care or pamper me like he used to , sometimes he refuses to eat at home and when I try to speak with him, he's always very cold. Please help me, I don't know what to do anymore.

Before you got married at 21 didn't you hear stories like this one you are just telling us... or you thought it won't happen to you because?? I don't even know what to tell you my sister...women who get married at 21 usually end up as full or semi-full housewives because the power balance is just too off from the onset. That's just the life you choose. Doing anything contrary to what he has said now is an open challenge to him.. reinforcing his ideas about how submissive you'll be when you do start work.

As a matter of fact, he may even be correct about how submissive you'll be when you first start work because you are still young and impressionable. You know it gets to everyone's head when they start making real money of their own. Difference is that most people have done it for sometime and calmed down before getting married.

Advice: Leave the topic to rest for now and put it in prayer (nothing God cannot do). Try and get pregnant again so that you can be finishing your baby making job (assuming you guys plan to have more than one child). By the time your last child is a toddler, you can revisit the topic again, by then, I believe he wouldn't have much of a problem with it. Most importantly, you will be older and wiser on how to manage him.
Meanwhile you can be doing small business by the side while making rearing your children.

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Chomzy19(f): 3:58am On Dec 10, 2019
No wonder Nigeria is in trouble. People like to deny the truth.!!! And then go on to speak about things which they think should be the case - the right thing grin grin grin yea..right. Or maybe they just like to maintain the reputation of their Nairaland Moniker cheesy

@Ujujoan made a very simple statement which is the truth!! whether it is wise or not is left for the participants to decide. But is it fact that a good number of women who are not broke really only care about being married just to answer Mrs and/or have a child ... Incontrovertible!!!

Whether you think it is wise or not for a woman (whose clock is ticking away) to throwaway 6 - 8 years of a relationship (after having done every every) because in the last years, the man has been behaving badly and treating her wrong is really your opinion. Whether 70% of women will quit such a relationship.. Lie o! una go die there and you go know how far when she don become wife proper.

When the chips are down people who speak of wise and right things on the internet are the first to buckle.

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Chomzy19(f): 3:29am On Dec 10, 2019
l
Belafonte:


As in, I don't understand. What will happen when I divorce her arsè? She will tell me good for me? Hahahhahaha. I go pursue hin mama comot for my house. God punish good foundation. If you don't like me don't marry me.

Lol.. you think say divorce na go come. Before you divorce am you go don see nwi na. If she never dry you finish before then. You think she doesn't know you can ask for divorce.

Better treat people right. Your GF can make it her mission to make you miserable in marriage (no be today). And even if you divorce her, she already got what she wanted., she already married, and have a child. So frankly you may not be that useful any longer except she is broke.

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Chomzy19(f): 2:45am On Dec 10, 2019
jakandeola:
anoda is lack of manners and sence. is a fact DAT most girls have ant brain. were dey are to think dey dont think. were dey smart dey are not smart dere.I ask a girl can she wash for my mum, she start to speak English say washing machine and DAT she ain't a slave.I smile and see she ain't ready for marriage. she fail d test. I ask anoda if mum in law slap her wat will she do. she say she will slap her back. wat a demon. I insult her DAT day.

Who let the dogs out??

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Chomzy19(f): 12:10pm On Jul 25, 2019
Dear good people of Nairaland

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Chomzy19(f): 7:12pm On Jul 16, 2019
LadySarah:


Really?.Read what i quoted and tell me what You make of it.Nobody is perfect but that post upset my head .

If You are OK with it,no p.


Look at this one o. Anyone send you come Nairaland come read posts? You go fear "upset my head". Your only contribution to the thread is to insult someone that actually contributed content.

Please mind your language on a public forum. He did not invite you to read his 'atrocious' English. You invited yourself, so bear whatever it is you are having in your head by yourself and apologize to the young man.

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Chomzy19(f): 11:17am On Jul 08, 2019
Any news on Flourmills?? Why the sudden move?
Chomzy19(f): 10:59pm On Jun 28, 2019
olasunky15:

there is group chat for that.
please post the link
Chomzy19(f): 11:17pm On Jun 18, 2019
LagosismyHome:


One year is usually fine on the principle that you cannot use the return leg after a year so why allow students waste money ........ one way is usually allowed if your program is more than a year

So if the program is less than a year, you must book a return ticket?
Chomzy19(f): 9:36pm On Jun 13, 2019
dwilliams707:


Search texrem and send him a pm,you can’t pay the fee in Nigeria.


Thanks.
Chomzy19(f): 7:14pm On Jun 13, 2019
Hi All,

Please can someone help me out with where to pay Sevis fee in Nigeria. Is it even possible? Most banks don't know what I'm talking about.

Thank God I found this thread!
Chomzy19(f): 5:51pm On Jun 12, 2019
Hi Olumighty,

How do I you, and how much do you charge to pay the SEVIS fee?
Chomzy19(f): 9:46am On May 16, 2019
STOjo:


1 billion units X N90 = 90 Billion Nigeria Naira.
Over N90 billion Nigeria naira in his for MTN purchase alone! I hear una cool cool cool!

All na paid hype!!

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Chomzy19(f): 9:44am On May 16, 2019
wanaj0:


It depends on the type of ownership.

MTN will not be selling. The major investors are not likely going to be selling. Most of those who will be selling are those that urgently need the money.

That said, MTN will do an IPO later.
Welcome back Sir! Good to see your post here once more.

In my view, they want to use this listing by introduction to drive up the price before the IPO and them dump at a high price on unsuspecting investors during the IPO.

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Chomzy19(f): 9:59pm On Mar 19, 2019
locodemy:
@ chibuking

If I were you,I will not say anything here again till Q3 2019.

All your predictions failed including the one of zenith you told us will go up when Mark down for dividend.

I don't know how you feel now.This market has no superior even is now on the hiding as the bears has landed on his head.

I am at my cool spot now taking my 3rd bottle.Dividend landed today..

You too find trouble sha.
Chomzy19(f): 11:39am On Mar 13, 2019
fatboyebele:
Buy sunu assurance
Dear Insurance Insider, what inside information do you have have on Sunu that you are advising people to buy, seeing that the stock is currently on full offer..
.
Or are you trying to the bag?

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