NewStats: 3,263,951 , 8,182,059 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 01:12 AM 2r3qs

seunoyeleyep:
Much ado about nothing

Infact, he now appears boring and common place this time around. He must have used the whole year to rehearse his overkill steeze.

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

Change your line

Futuristica:


She doesn't have a child for me yet after over 7years and I can say that I started the divorce thing first as I was fond of threatening her that if she doesn't do right,we may have to have a divorce

When you're already having probability about divorcing her, you triggered her response which was the excuse she's latching on.

One will soon leave the throne for the other.

Why was their pictures not displayed?

If it's indigenous offender, our press will quickly post their pictures.

omoredia:
No wonder they don't want them to lead Nigeria. They know that progress must come with them in power

In Democracy, power is not served a' la carte. You must win it with your vote, take it and run with it.

I still wonder how long all these traditional institutions will last. They seem not to see that Generation is changing and they are not doing anything hold the culture and traditions.

I hope they survive with Generation Alpha's. Everything appears to fizzle out right from Gen Z...and it might get worse with Gen Beta.

Musa firing on and off the pitch!

Bonapart:
Cele isn't a church, know this and know peace

Infact, there's no church in Nigeria. Know this and have everlasting peace.

Nitong:
this video is just making its way to naira land?
nairaland is no more as current as it was before

Why didn't you post it when it was current? You must understand that Nairaland is a community platform and it's everybody's responsibility to post as it's hot.

You should atleast appreciate the person that brought it here instead of complaining. It's your duty too to post it. If you can't do that, don't complain, just appreciate.

BABANGBALI:
it's not a front page material jo

But she's a polithiefians material na.

Nigeria my country! So we dey host dinner to mark midterm?

What's the meaning of all these nonsense?

Amotolongbo:
And there are still some people gathering in this man’s church?

Those people are always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth.........
2 Timothy 3:7

Big big things ni mo like, ya ya ya....

The country is such a joke that even a jailbreaker is asking for bounty.

In VDM's voice, y'all go learn the hard way. Continue to vote useless polithiefians!

Great100000:
UEFA Champions League ✅

UEFA Cup Winners' Cup ✅

UEFA Europa League ✅

UEFA Super Cup ✅

UEFA Conference League ✅

Chelsea Is The First Club Ever To Lift All Five - The UEFA Champions League, UEFA Europa League, UEFA Cup Winners' Cup, UEFA Super Cup and UEFA Conference League. 💙💙💙

This record too will be added to their noise!

shadrach77:
Never listen to anyone who tells you to go and marry. Marry only because you feel a genuine need to do so and you feel it will add benefits to your life.

85% of people who advice others to marry use that as a subtle way of mocking single people. Then some people are jealous of you because you don't have the kind of financial responsibilities they have so they want you to marry so that you can be like them.

Then you'll hear some people say unmarried people are irresponsible. Another foolish talk. [b]When did marriage become an achievement? [/b]There are many married people who are irresponsible. Some of of the richest people in the world are unmarried - Bill Gates, Dangote, Elon Musk, Anthony Joshua etc.

Don't let anyone push you

I like that line in bold.

Mekuseh11:
When you pay attention to the intent of a word of advice, then you can gauge if it's from a place of care, concern or disguised mockery.

The " Go and marry" tag falls in line with the disguised mockery often packaged as a genuine concern.
Age, finance and status are mostly the determinant of these fallacious shows of sportsmanship as it is always a subtle way to remind you of your decline.
Rarely does happiness, companionship or even peace of mind be considered as a criteria for the supposed " Go and marry" advice.

Isn't it surprising that if there is a refusal on your part to cling onto the marriage ship, they throw in a subtle jibe and undertone caricature, reminding you of your anticipated decline and risk of losing out in life.
Every other achievement is discarded and you are faced with multiple reasons why you are on your way to doom.

Then the game starts,
Pressure from onlookers
Constant reminder of your lack of purpose (marriage wise)
Subtle jibe and derogatory insinuations
Age shaming and broke shaming.

It's like there is a calculated arrangement to undermine every good thing in your life outside of marriage.
Soon it gets to a stage where the pendulum swings and they become loud, aggressive, judgmental, mean, disrespectful and what have you! Just to sway and hasten your decision.

The question is why do you get offended at my refusal to heed your supposed advice?
Why am I getting mocked all of a sudden?
Why are my achievements secondary to your concerns?
Why do I need to prove my intent of life with marriage?

Think about it slowly!

We are all a product of life and it is expected through procreation to give life too. I understand that sometimes you need a slight push to make future decisions especially when it concerns others.
What I don't understand is why there is pressure to act quickly, a timer to determine my right to what fulfillment entails.
Maybe I'm overthinking, just maybe?

" Go and marry" is far from what it looks like, it has become a source of pain, caricature and a reminder of a looming failure.
The pressure takes a toll on people.
The sigh of relief that comes after marriage is mostly from a place of freedom against the society, instead of a genuine path to a beautiful next chapter.

Very nice writeup.

The thing is people should realize that marriage is an individual decision. People should not check time for others. Nigerians are actually very culpable at this.

What if the person has made a personal decision not to get married? Hmmm?

We need to understand the difference between "personal life" and "general life".

Anguldi:
President Obasanjo remains the best thing ever to happen to Nigeria 👌💯

I can't agree with you more.

Media propaganda everywhere just to mark 2years of sufferings!

Why are people not being fired?

I have dated a rich girl b4. They don't bill directly, but they are very expectant.

The one I dated told me there's a feeling a man's money give when received....even though she doesn't necessarily need it.

Samantha125:
What will money do for you at old age? Because chances are you'll still be alone and lonely with your money while your children and grandchildren will be too busy with their own lives to make time for you.

They'll be just waiting to hear news of your demise so that they can benefit from your life insurance and inherit your assets.

Not all children are vagabonds. If you look after your children well, chances are they will look after you when you're grey and frail.

Children don dey do children day in hotel. Kontri don pafuka!

Nigerian's like to normalize and celebrate evils.

Are you kidding me?

Sonnobax15:

The fact that PBAT is older than C and also the president of Nigeria is enough to shut the mouths of those who haven't been privileged to even shake the hands of their street chairman let alone getting an inch close to a president before

SMHFU!

That Ghana must go better be Dollars & Pounds full am.

Karlovych:
Is this the same Lagos someone from Chicago built?

No matter how you talk trash about Lagos, it still remains the "Big Apple" of Nigeria.

helinues:
The politicians should stop entertaining these guys.

They are clout chaser

You should blame the electorates.

The electorates should stop voting for such politicians.

LordBiden:
There has been lots of crashes ever since the incompetent trump took over office.

Especially with his sacking of over hundreds of FAA employees,same way he fumbled with handling covid 19.

Man is just too imcompetent,only thing he is good at is braggings.

He has not ended Ukraine war.
He has not reduced inflation.
Even Obamas record in deporting illegals is still higher than his.

Very incompetent mofo.

Chains of catastrophic events such as this and esp. those you listed in the last paragraph require a deep and sound retrospective views. They can't just be solved in 4months!

Often, it is not the last strike that fells a tree, but series of strikes and years of impact.

A holistic approach to accident/incident investigation would be ideal.

So sad!

The part that saddens me most is when plane comes directly to innocent family having their dinner peacefully in their home.