Its a normal thing for those of us who are very emotional, its not easy to let go or to move on easily.
I’m too emotional too, its just our nature.
When i brokeup with my girl it wasn’t easy moving on, I’m too emotional.
The only solution and answer to your question is TIME…just give it time….feel whatever you want to feel, let it hurt you and all that, but with time you will get over it….time is coming when you see her her pics or videos on social media it will be like nothing to you.
1. That your girl isn’t faithful to you.
2. She is immature (she will grow up soon)
3. You are not financially stable
4. If you don’t leave now, you might train someone else baby.
Let me be honest with you bro, you just have to get busy with something else. You need to be stable financially, free that girl. She doesn’t rate you like that, she sees you as a weak man, the earlier you leave, the better.
If you don’t leave and move on now, you might regret being with her with time. If you want to continue with her, give her time to grow, she is very immature.
On the other hand, you are just insecure of someone you love more than the way she loves you. When a lady starts disobeying you, leave. There are millions of ladies out there. If it’s possible for you, leave your comfort zone. You will be fine.
Assuming you guys are still together, I would teach you something to do and see that she ain’t dating only you.
Babamide:
Omo, You never see anything. You go still beg her back sef because honestly, nothing dey outside. It is really hard if you don use to one girl foolishness. To start again with another foolish girl would be like war.
Your resolution must be strong. You no longer want her. It would take time but you would find someone else. Someone better.
columbus007:
Quitting one particular lady you have been use to is hard bro I was once there and as I type still regretting, my own na since 2015,i nor fit find another babe again that I like just like that babe.
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I believe I'm too emotional, if anyone I get attached to leaves I will miss the person so much that I feel emotional anytime I him/her.
I got so emotional anytime I our school days and my class mates.
I believe I will easily forget her if only I start another relationship, but for now diving into another relationship is totally ruled out.
Kobojunkie:
Dude, your obsession is showing. I suggest you unfollow her everywhere if you really wish to move on. You can follow her again after you have sufficiently dealt with you.
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Lols I'm not following her on tik tok,I already blocked her on Facebook, I deleted her ,so i don't see her status on WhatsApp either.
I don't normally use my tik tok,but anytime I visit tik tok her videos always pop up.
Then it's you that has a problem. Was it your nose she pierced? Did the piercing change her personality? You broke up with her over something that little and you're asking for advice on how to move on? Someone that doesn't care about little stuff like that probably got her already. So, just move on.
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You see it as minor something but I don't.
So if your girlfriend or wife come back home with BBL surgery you will not confront her because it's not your body?
Nose rings irritates me,and I don't see my self dating someone with it.
So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend, but since then I have been struggling to move on.
I still think about her,every thing around me keep reminding me of her,though I don't want her back anymore but still I can't let go off her,the memories of her keep flashing in my head.
I don't want to go into any relationship any time soon,but I'm having this feeling that I can never find any other girl like her(she's good though).
Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!
SpecialAdviser:
There is no doubt about that. He came from entrepreneurship ideology.
He increased tax in order to generate income.
Though Gburugburu did not over tax Enugu and did more of rural development but MBA style is more enticing to me. Thank God Enugu got it right. Gburugburu also tried in maintaining peace but was shy of critical projects. Though many in 042 did not understand Gburugburu effort in securing Enugu after Fulani attack that made him cry. He did well including going diabolical and using JuJu to equip the forest guard he formed. Those guys ensured nothing of that nature repeated in Enugu. MBA should try to take a clue from him.
The governor that killed Enugu was Chimaroke with his killing and evil style of government. Security was zero during his reign.
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Many people don't know that gburugburu did a lot of work in enugu,the thing is that he focused more on rural development than urban development that is why many didn't notice his achievements..
Go to uzo uwani local government,isi uzo local government, nsukka etc and see the work he did there.
SultanOfPuna: People are being useful to humanity, inventing ideas and technology. Discovering and reseaching for the greater good.
Then you have Nigerians gathering in church screaming fire fire fire holy ghost speaking in tongues.
No single contribution or invention to mankind.
Na to dey shout holy ghost my enemies die die die
While their mates are inventing new technologies making life better.
Doing outstanding things..
When i reach Heaven i go stone the angel wey send me come this useless shithole of black species called Nigeria
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You that's not shouting fire fire what have you invented?
Christianity is never the reason for your backwardness,
Leave those shouting fire fire in the church and start your own invention, they ain't preventing from being useful to the society.
I am not a bastard, I know my roots, I am an Ebira woman, I am not afraid of anybody.
This is not campaign time, I am just coming to celebrate the Sallah period with my people. I am not breaking any law.
I am just a simple, poor Ihima girl. You know me I grew up here, but for my husband where will I have gotten the resources to come with a helicopter?
When we read the Press Releases yesterday, and all the roadblocks and barricades leading to the major roads in Kogi Central, I knew we were up for a challenge. Even though I am not a lawbreaker, we appreciate the powers of the Governor, and also respect the Commissioner of Police, but we didn't come by road, no convoy and we are not on the streets, we are in our hometown, so we broke no law.
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This woman must be a tse tse fly perching on some people's testicle..
I during last campaign, when yahaya bello the then kogi governor digged a big whole on the road leading to her home,just to prevent her from accessing the road.
Asonaijaaso: Double blockade now. They are about to have Israel on 100% Lock-down
Sea route blocked
Now
Only Airport blocked.
Two Options-
1-Invading Yemen and forcing a regime change. (This is a war whose outcome cannot be predicted)
2-Stop the genocide and ethnic cleansing in Gaza. (This is the easier more practical route)
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Hope when it starts raining in Yemen we won't hear "innocent women and children are dying "
See them wearing ashoke celebrating their daughter for becoming a judge in a foreign land,but back here they will rather die than seeing a fellow country man from different tribe hold any position in their region..
She dey wyne you or una two dey ign orant of her circle.
Normally, fertility period is about 11 days after her period starts and ovulation day is 14 days after the period starts and these are days she is likely to get pregnant, other days which are five days away from the ovulation day are considered her safe days, if you kn back her from now till tomorrow, she no go get belle because there is no egg for your sperm to fertilized which is the pregnancy you are talking about.
Sperm lives in a woman's body for about 5 days and the egg which she produces for the sperm to fertilize that leads to pregnancy don't even last more than 24 hours.
Looking at the date of your act with her in comparison to her possible fertile days or ovulation day, I don't think you own the pregnancy or maybe she preserved the sperm in the condom and used it for her own selfish reason close to or on her fertile/ovulation day or she play friendly or away match which resulted in that pregnancy on days considered to be her fertile days or ovulation day or both of you don't know how to calculate her flows or circle, maybe it was your previous knackikg that resulted in that pregnancy.
Yes, some people experience their next flow/period after getting pregnant, I said next i.e the flow/period following the day/moment the fertilization happens, it may not just be stable like the normal one.
Raynald:
As a medical student,from what i have learned so far,here are my assumptions
1.She cant get pregnant immediately the day her menstrual period stop,even though your sperm stay 3 days in her,it is statistically rare but not impossible she ovulates 4 days after the last day of her period
2.It is hard to detect a 10 day pregnancy especially a urine test unless blood test which i assume she didn't do
3.Either she lied to you about her period or the period she experience wasnt an ovulation but implantation of the blastocyst(that is she was pregnant already) which commonly also occurs at 2 weeks of pregnancy
So in all assumptions,i believe your gf is atleast 21 days to 1 month pregnant
If I focus on my 3rd point,i would assume the 50% possibility that the pregnancy is yours,you might have gotten her pregnant before your last sex, reminisce back to like 2-3 weeks before your last sex n think if you have protected or unprotected sex that is if you trust that she was faithful to you alone
she did a blood pregnancy test on 27th December which came out negative, after the test she also saw her period, that put to a stop any possibility of her being pregnant..
Her menstrual period started on the 28th December and finished on the 2nd January which happens to be the day we had the last test before she travelled,and also it was a protected sex too.
Brimstone77: 9:06am On Jun 04
