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Kcxee:


Is this is offer still open sir

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Rastaramsey:
This is a cock and bull story


You wan beg person wey light your mama

This mumuness follow una enter 2022..

sorry dont understand what u mean by light my mama

Truly we had this misunderstanding that led me to slap her in the house after insulting my mother which i later regretted and immediately since last year i have been begging her for reconciliation involving her school parent and even my mother tried talking to her about it. She bluntly refused to answer me back.

I am a responsible father that really want to take care of my family even with my physical challenge. I had little money one day went to the school to pay part of my children's fees, she rejected it, I do not know why and why she is looking for an apartment when we both suffered to manage raise a room and other rooms are in construction.

I really dont know what she wants cos i have been begging, concerning her dowry, i had to go to LoveFm via omnibus to ask for help and she knows about it cos we all went there with the children to see OmniTownCrier Samuel Nzeh about it that they accepted to help with just little patience.

My children comes to my office including her when they need anything, but for part of one month, last year i did not see them again. I dont know why. The last time my children spent the weekend with me last year, i basically took care of them according to my reach. I want my family back and with God things will work out. Relationships must have issues and can be settled with God. I am lonely with my BP issues and God as my backbone. I believe with God our financial issues will end forever because i am not a lazy man, i try to hustle with my condition and the little tools i have in my office. we just need to continue to ourselves and I will definately do the needful. Nairalanders should please help me beg her to come back cos I truly LOVE bjprodint1 including my lovely kids.

I SERIOUSLY REGRET MY ACTIONS IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN. What i am today is by God's Grace and bjproint1 Thanks

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Cudjoe360:
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Happy mothering sunday to the pretty mother of my kids.Bjprodint u may have deactivated ur s but i know u will see this.you are a wonderful woman,may God bless u.

I need a wheel chair,no money.

purehearttt:
you have no idea what I go through sir it's not only cripple that needs help.

Why not talk 2 God,tell him to exchange our legs,if it is done,i will place u on salary.

ayeesha:


His post on Facebook says he's looking for a God fearing ondo woman to marry. Why specify ondo? To rub it in that she's not from his place? Why not just any God-fearing woman? Why didn't he get an ondo woman to give him children in the first instance? I guess the ibo woman has served her purpose and outlived her usefulness to him. It's time to go back to his roots.

For me, that's the height of it. If I were the lady in question, even if I had plans of forgiving him, that
Post of his just squashed it! If he had married her legally or traditionally, would he had made that statement easily? And then in the same breath you claim to love her and can't live without her! That just goes to show how much value or importance he attaches to her.

Well, what do I know? It's upto the lady to decide what she wants to do with her life going forward.

Goodluck to them both.

THIS IS JUST FRUSTRATION. SHE KNOWS I CANNOT MARRY ANYBODY, COS I HAVE A SPIRITUAL PLEDGE NEVER TO TRY IT. I WILL REMAIN SINGLE AND MARRY MY BUSINESS TO DEVELOP MYSELF FOR MY KIDS FOR THE FUTURE. HER NUMBER IS TOTALLY SWITCHED OFF AND HER SECOND LINE IS ALWAYS PICKED BY A MAN WHO CLAIMS IT IS HIS NUMBER, COS I CALL EVERYDAY. THANK YOU VERY MUCH EVERYBODY FOR YOUR COMMENTS AND CONCERNS. I HAVE OVERCOME MY THINKING TOO MUCH COS OF MY BP. MY GOD WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR ME AND I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HER AND MY KIDS.

ANYWAY ITS NOT EASY WITH HOUSE CHORES AND COOKING, BUT THE LORD HAS ALWAYS BEEN MY STRENGTH. I WILL REMAIN SINGLE TILL GOD INTERVENES ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU VERY MUCH ALL.

botrix:


OKAY ACCEPTED U NEVA CHEATED ON ME ITS ONLY GOD THAT UNDERSTANDS THAT, ANYWAY I AV ALWAYS TRUSTED U. BUT I BELIEVE THE HOUSE IS FOR THE BOTH OF US. WE BOUGHT THE LAND TOGETHER. I REALLY APPRECIATE THE REGISTRATION OF THE COMPANY BECOS IT HAPPENED WHEN BONANZA WAS GOING ON AND U HAD THE MONEY THEN. U WERE HANDLING THE SCHOOL FEES BECOS U WERE A TEACHER AND WORKS IN THE SCHOOL MY KIDS WERE ATTENDING, BUT U KNOW I WAS REALLY STRUGGLING AND ALWAYS PRAYING TO GOD FOR A TURNAROUND IN MY LIFE. U BOUGHT THE LAPTOPS THEN BECOS I NEEDED IT FOR MY BUSINESS THEN TO IMPROVE. I NEVER CALLED U USELESS WOMAN, AND IF I DID AM DEEPLY SORRY FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR THE STUPID ACT OF MINE. A SCHOOL DROPOUT? BUT I LATER ED THE LITTLE I CAN THAT U FINISH YOUR NCE PROGRAMME HERE IN ABUJA. I HAVE ACTUALLY RECONCILED WITH YOUR FAMILY BEFORE U PACKED OUT OF THE HOUSE. PLEASE I CANT JUST MOVE ON AT ALL, LETS FORGIVE AND FORGET ALL THE PAST AND WE MOVE ON. 9YEARS IS NOT A JOKE. I HAVE REALLY LEARNT MY LESSONS NOW AND I AM READY TO VALUE, CHERISH AND LOVE YOU FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.

I WILL REMAIN SINGLE TILL GOD INTERVENES. NOW I SLEEP AT THE SHOP TO AVOID TOO MUCH THINKING AND TO MAKE SURE I MOVE FORWARD FINANCIALLY TO BETTER MY LIFE AND MY FAMILY. THINGS WILL CHANGE FROM NEXT YEAR BY HIS GRACE. I DID NOT THREATEN YOUR SISTER AND I HAVE ACTUALLY APOLOGIZED TO HER. I DID NOT COME TO YOUR MUM'S BURIAL BUT ED FINANCIALLY AND MY BOSS THEN ALSO ED TOO FINANCIALLY TO THE BURIAL.

LASTLY, I AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR EVERYTHING I MUST AV DONE ENTIRELY.

AS FOR THIS feaces and urine 4 9 yrs, IT IS BECAUSE WE MOVED TO THE NEW HOUSE WHICH U BROUGHT THE IDEA WHEN THERE IS NO TOILET, I DO THIS MYSELF TOO AND IT IS JUST FOR SOME TIME TILL WE FINISH BUILDING THE HOUSE AND THE HOUSE IS YOURS, HOW CAN I TELL U TO PACK OUT OF YOUR HOUSE. i have assisted u to move around all these years, BECAUSE U KNOW MY CONDITION BUT I THANK GOD I CAN MOVE AROUND ON MY OWN WITH MY NEWLY PURCHASED CLUTCHES.

botrix:


I DID NOT RUN DOWN ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS AT ALL. U STARTED THE BUSINESSES BEAUTIFULLY WHICH I HAVE ALWAYS ED AND YOU ALWAYS GET TIRED OF THE BUSINESS YOURSELF DUE TO SOME LITTLE CHALLENGES WHICH I DONT , U KNOW THAT. U SAID U ARE JOBLESS, I GAVE U AN OPPORTUNITY TO SUBMIT YOUR CREDENTIALS TO ME SO I MOVE IT FOR A PLACE IN THE MINISTRY OF FINANCE, BUT U NEGLECTED ME AND THE OFFER, I WANTED TO MAKE SURE I DO IT THEN BECAUSE OF THE KIDS COS GOD MAY BE USING YOU TO BLESS THE FAMILY.

WHAT DID U LEFT BEHIND THAN MAKING SURE I HAVE MY FAMILY BACK AND WE ALL MOVE ON COS GOD IS TAKING US TO A BETTER PLACE. HOW CAN I USELESS THE MOTHER OF MY KIDS COS PEOPLE SAY I USE VOODOO ON YOU. IT IS A RARE PRIVILEGE TO HAVE U AS A WIFE, MOTHER, FRIEND, COMPANION, LOVER, CHOCOLATE, HONEY, SWEETY. D KIDS ARE STILL YOUNG BUT THEY MUST ONE DAY ASK FOR THEIR FATHER. LETS GET ALL THIS BEHIND AND MOVE FORWARD.

I NEVER HAD THE PLAN TO MOVE MY KIDS TO MY MUM AT ALL AT ALL. BELIEVE AND TRUST ME ON THIS.

bjprodint:
Botrix,stop spoilin my name,u ran down my businesses,u where even planing 2 send my kids to ur mum without my knowledge so dat i wil neva see dem.since i left,i av been jobles,d kids av not been going to school(i teach dem at home),feedin has been dificult,but guess wat,d kids have asked of u.they are just happy.i have been gettin suitors from men but i see u in every man.but its like am moving on soon.botrix,stop spoilin me deep down in ur heart u know dat u uselessed my life.i dash u everything i left behind,d kids are more dan enough 4 me

I DID NOT RUN DOWN ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS AT ALL. U STARTED THE BUSINESSES BEAUTIFULLY WHICH I HAVE ALWAYS ED AND YOU ALWAYS GET TIRED OF THE BUSINESS YOURSELF DUE TO SOME LITTLE CHALLENGES WHICH I DONT , U KNOW THAT. U SAID U ARE JOBLESS, I GAVE U AN OPPORTUNITY TO SUBMIT YOUR CREDENTIALS TO ME SO I MOVE IT FOR A PLACE IN THE MINISTRY OF FINANCE, BUT U NEGLECTED ME AND THE OFFER, I WANTED TO MAKE SURE I DO IT THEN BECAUSE OF THE KIDS COS GOD MAY BE USING YOU TO BLESS THE FAMILY.

WHAT DID U LEFT BEHIND THAN MAKING SURE I HAVE MY FAMILY BACK AND WE ALL MOVE ON COS GOD IS TAKING US TO A BETTER PLACE. HOW CAN I USELESS THE MOTHER OF MY KIDS COS PEOPLE SAY I USE VOODOO ON YOU. IT IS A RARE PRIVILEGE TO HAVE U AS A WIFE, MOTHER, FRIEND, COMPANION, LOVER, CHOCOLATE, HONEY, SWEETY. D KIDS ARE STILL YOUNG BUT THEY MUST ONE DAY ASK FOR THEIR FATHER. LETS GET ALL THIS BEHIND AND MOVE FORWARD.

bjprodint:
Dear botrix,i neva cheated while with u,u stole ownership of my house 4rm me,i ed ur company with my money,u av neva paid ur kids school fees 4 ones even when d money was there,i av bought u 2 laptops from my poor salary,i have carried ur feaces and urine 4 9 yrs,i have assisted u to move around all these years,u called me a useles woman in public in front of ur female friend,i became a school drop out because of u,i was disowned by my family all these years because of u,i turned 2 a beggar because of u.u kicked me out of ur house while pregnant with our daughter,i hid d pregnancy 4rm my family until 7months no antenantal ,no medicals,my family threw me out wen they found out,i slept outside without roof until my friends mum took me in,u have never apologised 4 dat incident.u deceived and got me pregnant again wen i just lost my mum,u neva attended my mum's burial,u hit me while pregnant with our daughter.d kids became violent,u even av gusts to threaten my sister dat she should produce me...

OKAY ACCEPTED U NEVA CHEATED ON ME ITS ONLY GOD THAT UNDERSTANDS THAT, ANYWAY I AV ALWAYS TRUSTED U. BUT I BELIEVE THE HOUSE IS FOR THE BOTH OF US. WE BOUGHT THE LAND TOGETHER. I REALLY APPRECIATE THE REGISTRATION OF THE COMPANY BECOS IT HAPPENED WHEN BONANZA WAS GOING ON AND U HAD THE MONEY THEN. U WERE HANDLING THE SCHOOL FEES BECOS U WERE A TEACHER AND WORKS IN THE SCHOOL MY KIDS WERE ATTENDING, BUT U KNOW I WAS REALLY STRUGGLING AND ALWAYS PRAYING TO GOD FOR A TURNAROUND IN MY LIFE. U BOUGHT THE LAPTOPS THEN BECOS I NEEDED IT FOR MY BUSINESS THEN TO IMPROVE. I NEVER CALLED U USELESS WOMAN, AND IF I DID AM DEEPLY SORRY FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR THE STUPID ACT OF MINE. A SCHOOL DROPOUT? BUT I LATER ED THE LITTLE I CAN THAT U FINISH YOUR NCE PROGRAMME HERE IN ABUJA. I HAVE ACTUALLY RECONCILED WITH YOUR FAMILY BEFORE U PACKED OUT OF THE HOUSE. PLEASE I CANT JUST MOVE ON AT ALL, LETS FORGIVE AND FORGET ALL THE PAST AND WE MOVE ON. 9YEARS IS NOT A JOKE. I HAVE REALLY LEARNT MY LESSONS NOW AND I AM READY TO VALUE, CHERISH AND LOVE YOU FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.

I WILL REMAIN SINGLE TILL GOD INTERVENES. NOW I SLEEP AT THE SHOP TO AVOID TOO MUCH THINKING AND TO MAKE SURE I MOVE FORWARD FINANCIALLY TO BETTER MY LIFE AND MY FAMILY. THINGS WILL CHANGE FROM NEXT YEAR BY HIS GRACE. I DID NOT THREATEN YOUR SISTER AND I HAVE ACTUALLY APOLOGIZED TO HER. I DID NOT COME TO YOUR MUM'S BURIAL BUT ED FINANCIALLY AND MY BOSS THEN ALSO ED TOO FINANCIALLY TO THE BURIAL.

LASTLY, I AM DEEPLY SORRY FOR EVERYTHING I MUST AV DONE ENTIRELY.

SilentBang:
This life ehn! smh... this life balance o na we just dey make am hard.

Oga for nine good years? you couldn't pay her bride price and you guys made those two beautiful kids... no matter the difficulties and financial challenges you could have seen her family and done something atleast if you truly valued her.

Now she is gone, and from what i ve read so far, that lady is truly a GEM putting up with you and dedicating Nine years of her Youth to you... She has probably had enough, that elastic limit has been exceeded.

I can only wish you well. I honestly do wish you the very best... but i don't fault her actions one bit... She wants better and she deserves better.

I just pray you have access to your kids atleast... Adios.

Thank you very much. I and my family is ready now but she is not accepting me back. With prayers I will at least av access to my kids,

hashtagged:


Brocode? Must everything be a gender war to you ladies, you guys can't even hold normal conversations without attacking men.
Marriage can be dissolved at anytime I agree whether bride price or not people should be free to leave if they want out, but she should let him continue to see his kids for Pete's sake, if she wants to leave fine no one would date blame her but those children are his too and taking them away from him is not fair at all.

Am no ready to collect the kids now, I just want t be having access to them till am financially buoyant to start taking care of my responsibilities becos I am their father and no one can take that from me.

Ginaz:
Hmmmm. Your wife tried o. Kindly beg her to forgive you.

I am trying my best but she is not answering me she has blocked from whatsapp and whenever I call her its on totally engaged.

pocohantas:
With the way you have been playing victim all over Nairaland, one would think that woman never tried.

I cannot paint her bad at all its just that she has really suffered a lot for her to just go like that. I love her so much that it is really affecting me now. I can actually do things on my own. My family is not just ready now becos they want her to continue taking care of me and the kids. They also want to establish me now with the little they can raise. It is time for her to start enjoying the labour she has suffered for 9yrs and before this incident we have agreed to let her know that we will fully engage her next year. I really want her back becos she moved in with the new husband she claimed with my kids.

I find it difficult to move on or I just remain single for the rest of my life.

I love and will always cherish her for the rest of my life.

Angelfrost:


She was never truly yours then... She had her path to follow, and you simply were not compatible. It doesn't matter how long it took her to realize this.

This doesn't exactly make her a bad woman... You should equally thank God cos it could have been worse!!! She might have kept on managing and acting along, only to be unfaithful in marriage.

But we have two kids and my family is ready to do the needful mow and she is saying No

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very ive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

CONGRATULATIONS. I WISH I AM THE ONE

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

I THINK IT IS HARD TO GET COS I JUST LOST MY SUPPOSED WIFE TO ANOTHER MAN BECOS OF MONEY AFTER 9YEARS OF SUFFERING

Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and s her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

If you are not married to her PLS DONT INVEST ON HER

I am really trying my best to do that.

Thanks very much.

lefulefu:
biko try and watch ur blood pressure o as u said u have now developed it over the problem in ur marriage
marriage in nigeria is just total stress

No Problem, I will just do that. They are unpredictable truly. This is a woman that suffered when we were trying to erect the one room I am managing now by his grace.

Anyway thanks very much for your concern. It is well

BlessedNuel:


Just relax.......like someone clearer stated up there...if you can be able to go for a DNA test with the kids and the results shows that you are their true father.

Just don't worry...leave the kids with her...when the kids grow up,they will surely come to look for you no matter what.

Women are unpredictable right from the days of old

I will by his grace. She should just let me have my kids.

BlessedNuel:
This life no just balance.....take it easy on yourself sir.

Okuda:


what happened to you leg?

I was told so many things. My father said polio attack, mother said spiritual attack. the fact is am specially made by God

MJBOLT:

you might also need to do a DNA test.

No Problem

I believe most people in Nairaland know me very well. My supposed wife to be packed out of my house with no excuse with my two kids after we have both suffered together for the past 9yrs because of money. I am the physically disabled Yoruba man from ondo state. Truly I have not actually paid her dowry since she is from Imo state. Anybody that knows her should please talk to her or return my kids back to me. I have BP issues and I don't want to die young. bjprodint Now my family is fully ready to do the necessary and she said NO saying she has seen her new husband meaning she has been cheating on me for a long time. No problem but I need my kids.