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Bfly: 11:11pm On Jun 10
gboyetade:
grin grin my senatorial district has no light for more than 12 years

Those kain thing fit dey happen for southwest Sha, especially Ekiti
Bfly: 6:19pm On Jun 10
While she grows older, she looks better, healthier and even more original and responsible.
This is a positive transformation .

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Bfly: 2:12pm On Jun 10
The more the push back the more the alignment?
What an Irony in reality.

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Bfly: 2:00pm On Jun 10
Mama sef for don cashout from that content.

Btw
Why the government won’t bother about this kind of shameful trend going viral among the youth is brcause the money and the fun distract them from holding the government able.

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Bfly: 1:51pm On Jun 10
What Atiku failed to understand is that, he can’t spearhead a coalition and still wants to be the flag bearer unless he want to freely give Tinubu a second term.

Same thing Tinubu understood
Bfly: 1:36pm On Jun 10
Bfly:
What an hypocritical summation is this?
or is Madam president trying to tell the people, that only her husband is seeing it?

Imagine A president directing affair of a whole country with her Emotion. Women can just get along.
Zero Logic

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Bfly: 1:17pm On Jun 10
What an hypocritical summation is this?
or is Madam president trying to tell the people, that only her husband is seeing it?
Bfly: 8:01pm On Jun 09
When $1 equals #1
Bfly: 10:03am On May 29
Put Alcohol in that thing. Such an addictive something

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Bfly: 6:16pm On May 28
Rubyjade:
Real Masculinity Builds, It Doesn’t Dominate.
Marriage isn’t a battle of power or survival. It’s a partnership. And while men do make mistakes in marriage — the real errors are often rooted in outdated thinking, pride, or fear. Let’s unpack this:

1. “A woman must love, a man must provide.”
False binary. Love and provision go both ways in a modern marriage. A woman can contribute. A man should show affection. Reducing relationships to transactions is why a lot of marriages feel like business contracts instead of emotional homes.

A man who only provides but doesn’t emotionally connect becomes a stranger in his own house.

And no — it’s not her job to chase you after marriage. If you stop pursuing your wife emotionally, someone else eventually might.

2. “You must always look like a god.”
Yes, personal hygiene and appearance matter — for both partners. But a healthy marriage allows space for comfort and vulnerability.
Looking good shouldn't be about fear of being left; it should be about self-respect and mutual attraction. If she’s only with you because of your beard oil and boxers, the problem is deeper than your look.

3. “You are the lord. Let her have a say, but have your way.”
Bro. That’s not strength — that’s domination disguised as leadership.

Real leadership listens.

Real men build with their wives, not over them.
Being decisive is good — being dismissive isn’t.

4. “She’s not a mind-reader.”
True. Communication matters. But it’s not just telling her what you want.
Try asking her what she needs, too. Love isn’t just about managing expectations — it’s about understanding and growing together.

5. “Women love conflict.”
No. They love connection. What looks like “random conflict” is often unmet needs or emotional disconnection.

Avoidance kills intimacy.

Mature couples face tough conversations together.
If you treat conflict as drama instead of dialogue, you’re missing the deeper issue.

6. “Prepare for the rainy day; never let your wife be the breadwinner.”
Prepare? YES.
Fear her success? NO.
If your masculinity collapses when your wife earns more, the issue is insecurity, not identity.

Strong men celebrate their partner’s wins.

Marriage is not a competition — it’s coverage. Some seasons you’ll earn more. Other seasons, she might. That’s life.

7. “She’s not your best friend.”
Why not?
If you can’t laugh, vent, dream, or be your full self with your wife — who are you even married to?
Friendship is the foundation of lasting love. You don’t lose your masculinity by being emotionally close — you lose it by being emotionally unavailable.

✨ FINAL WORD:
Real men lead, but they don’t lord.
They provide, but they also protect emotionally.
They pursue wisdom, not ego.
And they build with their wives, not just expect to be served by them.

We need less alpha performance, and more emotional maturity in marriages today.
You don’t lose your role by listening — you strengthen it.


It is exhausting leading a woman; women subconsciously and intentionally made themselves difficult to be led.

You can’t probably protect an emotional warrior; it is her survival mode.

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Bfly: 11:45am On May 26
The “Gen Z” cliche is getting tiresome
Even someone who does not know the significance of this generation things will start chochochoing
Bfly: 12:29pm On May 25
Tinubu is still a failure as of this period.

Grateful; Nigeria is bigger.
Bfly: 2:09pm On May 16
MaxInDHouse:

He never experience death but he is not alive which means he is awaiting resurrection.
God's word said all have sinned which means none of us can continue living until God's Kingdom comes.
Not experiencing death doesn't mean he is alive because he is not in heaven.

Death occur in the body which Enoch didn’t experience but translated to afterlife.

For more understanding

Even here; In vitro fertilization can happen without sex yet a baby is formed.
Bfly: 5:58pm On May 15
Should that then make him the next president or should that clear him of his misappropriation ?

Nonsense people
Bfly: 5:31pm On May 15
Animal farm
Bfly: 4:13pm On May 15
MaxInDHouse:


He was taken away before his time to die so like everyone else Enoch is awaiting resurrection as one of those in God's memory book:


The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to what they had done. ‭Revelation 20:13 NIV‬




Dead in the sea means people who died in the sea.
Death means people who are no more.
Hades means people in their graves.


Enoch is in his grave (Hades) awaiting resurrection.


In what form did Enoch experience death?

Read Gen. 5
Which emphasized many others died at a point but with Enoch it was different thing as at 365 years, God took him
Also read Heb. 11 where it was emphasized that he didn’t not see death for he was translated by God different from others in the same age.
Bfly: 2:06pm On May 15
MaxInDHouse:

It means he never grew old or killed by sickness rather God shortened his lifespan so that he didn't experience pain from evildoers around him.

How did God shorten his life?
Bfly: 1:18pm On May 15
MaxInDHouse:


By faith Eʹnoch was transferred so as not to see death, and he was nowhere to be found because God had transferred him; for before he was transferred he received the witness that he had pleased God well.

Enoch did not see death doesn't mean he is not dead. Many have come face to face with death but survived.
Do you understand now?

What does the bolded statement above mean then?
Bfly: 1:10pm On May 15
MaxInDHouse:


Nowhere did the Bible promised that David is going to heaven!

The Righteous (in which David is one) have their place in Heaven
Check Hebrew 11:16
2Tim: 4:18
Bfly: 10:32am On May 15
MaxInDHouse:


Sorry God's word said "a letter", Jesus said no man has been to heaven before his coming and according to God's word all humans (including Elijah) must die.

So Elijah was taken to another location on planet earth not heaven! smiley

Check Hebrew 11:5
Bfly: 10:23am On May 15
MaxInDHouse:


Can you back the highlighted with Bible quotations?

Because this is God's promise that David himself penned down with his own hands:

The righteous (David inclusive) will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it. Psalms 37:29

They will live forever. yes, even you too; if you are as righteous. Yet wait till then.
The day is coming when that shall be; The Judgement day.
Bfly: 10:03am On May 15
Truthseeker10:

Did they go to heaven? Simple question.

David has his place in heaven.
So also is Enoch.

Yet, they don’t live there for now.
Bfly: 8:00am On May 15
Here you know; Nigeria politics is of selfish interest. Not beneficial development.

Now A present Rev. Gov named a university after a past Rev. Gov.
Bfly: 7:26am On May 15
MaxInDHouse:


Elijah died too he wasn't taken to heaven rather he was transported to another location on the planet.
He later sent a letter to an Israelite king from where he was taken {2Chronicles 21:12} and according to Jesus no man has reached heaven before Jesus came to the earth! John 3:13

So Elijah grew old and died in his location just like any other human as God's word said that all humans are sinners and so death is inevitable! Romans 5:12

He sent a letter to the king through who? Who knew his abode then?

Elijah As prophet who has possibly prophesied about the wicked reign of the king; such prophecy could’ve been delivered as a letter by Elisha who could have been told the prophecy by Elijah while he was still a servant.
Bfly: 6:15am On May 15
MaxInDHouse:

Enoch died!
‘No more’ could means death; but Elijah experience is a turning point.

Yet, those of David and Enoch are referenced in the Bible
Bfly: 6:03am On May 15
Truthseeker10:
Did they go to heaven when they died?


David was buried when he died
God took Enoch
Bfly: 5:51am On May 15
Truthseeker10:
😂😂😂your trinity doctrine is there. Go and enlighten yourself. You don't know what you believe in. Stop disgracing yourself.

Is Trinity doctrine from wiki or Metal Ai?
Bfly: 11:33pm On May 14
Truthseeker10:
So are you implying that David and Enoch went to heaven when they died?

I’m on the fact that they had renewed life and were acceptable unto God and would reign with him in heaven.

If you believe otherwise let me know.
Bfly: 11:23pm On May 14
Truthseeker10:
ask meta ai and Wikipedia. Go and change the Trinity doctrine there.

Obviously; you have found the truth you seek in Meta Ai and wiki; hence truthseer.
Bfly: 1:40pm On May 14
Truthseeker10:
You can ask Wikipedia or meta ai. I have given you two sources that do not contradicts.

Give me reason that make them equal?

Pausing here
Bfly: 1:34pm On May 14
Truthseeker10:

Is that what Jesus said in John 3:3? If no, biblical reference please.

The statement did not apply to them in its similitude.
They were long gone before the statement was made.

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