NewStats: 3,265,520 , 8,187,077 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 02:34 PM rx3n

BadBitch:


First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, issions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

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FuckHomophobes:


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Sorry to bother you again. I saw your last mail. My telegram number is in the +234 format. But it's that number I sent. I sent you a screenshot of my telegram . Sorry to bother you again

FuckHomophobes:
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RichieMichie:

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Balenciagaokey:


Some parents likes watching the show with their kids before lockdown.
Most parents encourage most lifestyles been exhibited in bbnaija. They want their children to be future TACHA, BOBRISKY, MERCY e.t.c.

Most parents and kids of nowadays sabi more than those contestants.

Y'all are so pressed about Bob. How did she get into a discussion about bbnaija? When she has never entered the house

TheSourcerer:
he doesn't exist enjoy life , I'll tag you on a brief thread of mine that would change your mind

Tag me too please

Foodqueen:
The truth is sometimes when some girls don't av any reasonable thing to say, they spew rubbish. It's in their DNA.

They don't know that somethings hurt more than sword.

To her, she thinks she was been helpful.

Shut up

Obakashdee:


Mistake

Secondly, what’s your business with why I asked him whom he contracted it from?

That's personal information and it's rude to ask.

Obakashdee:
My own question is, who gave you HIV abeg? Na man abi na woman?

Why did you quote me?

Secondly, what's your business with whom he contracted the disease from?

Adonis86:
Hello house, I'm a student in one of the universities In Anambra State. I live in Awka and I need your advice on this matter.
In 2017, I was running a program in a university in Awka, I needed an accommodation though don't have enough money to get a place to stay alone, so I resorted to looking for someone who needs a roommate so we could share the rent. I came across one of the posters on the school wall looking for a male roommate, so I picked the number, called, discussed the price, paid and moved in to stay with the guy. I was diagnosed with an STD a year before this incidence, but I had to keep it to myself to avoid stigmatization, though I was already on medics. Six months into my stay with my roommate, he fell sick and was diagnosed with Hepatitis C. He told me about it and had to travel for the family to take proper care of him. Few weeks later, I also travelled to attend to some family matters.
But the trouble started on sunny afternoon while I was at home, I got a call from an unknown number. The person introduced himself as one Dr. something... I've forgotten. He claimed he was a family doctor to my roommate, that if I know he's suffering from the above mentioned illness? I responded Yes. He went further to ask me if I live with HIV, that he told him that he usually see me taking a particular drug daily. At this point, I had to open up because, he told me he'll assure me of confidentiality. Afterwards he ended the call. I was troubled in spirit for everything, but I had to keep my cool till I returned back to school.
When I returned, my roommate was not back, days later he returned with a news that he's been cured of the virus, stating further that his parents was briefed by the doctor, that he also told them that I'm likely to be a gay since he has not seen me entertain a female visitor In the house ever since I moved into the house, I was just listening. He went further to advise me to pack out, giving me a deadline otherwise that his father is already threatening to storm my apartment with his brothers to deal with me for living with HIV and kept it away from him for all those months. At that point, I was not ready financially for a new accommodation, but I had to leave to avoid an embarrassment. So, I reached out to my cousin and requested for money which he gave me. But I asked my roommate about my remaining five months rent, he said I should forget it, that his younger brother will be ing him soon, that his family will deal with me if they visit and meet me in the house, so I had to leave immediately, which he helped me to carry my luggage and still gave me a parting gift. Though I never visited the house again, but we still talk on phone and greet whenever our paths cross in the street.
Then in 2019, I was on a social network 'Badoo' chatting with people when someone added me up and started chatting me, when I checked it was the so called doctor that messed me up a couple of years ago. He never knew I was the same guy he used to shine in 2017, but on my own side, I pretended I never knew him and was chatting him normal, until he started making sexual advances towards me. He wanted me to visit him and ed the night in his place. I was surprised he gave out his number and house address and started chatting with me even on whatsapp, telling me how much he wanted up to be together. Now, I don't know if to expose him as well, since I still have my ex roommate's number too. I'm thinking of visiting him and taking pictures which I'll send my ex roommate as well as the screenshots of all his rusty conversations. Please friends, advise me properly or if I should forget about it.

Also late last year, something happened in my office where I work. God's grace, I was able to secure a job in Unizik, in a department where I work. One day, a guy walked into my office because the university management informed all the overstayed students to come and clear their outstanding courses and graduate. So, as they were coming in and ing their courses on my table, this guy came in and was making case for her sister. He pleaded with me to find a way to help her graduate, that she is been suffering from birth complications and that their father is very frail and sick, that I should help her to graduate. When I inquired of her name to know how to be of help, lo and behold, it was the same family of my ex roommate. it was his elder brother soliciting for assistance on behalf of the elder sister. I asked him well and he confirmed everything, but I refused to disclose my identity, because my encounter with their family was not a pleasant one. As a result, I declined to assist, even when I know what to do to help him.
I don't know if I did the right thing also, but I just need strong piece of advice from matured minds... Thanks!
MOD, please help me push this to the front page.

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Durentt:
Welcome everyone, this thread is for homosexual men who refuse to succumb to "the born this way" notion and give themselves a better lifestyle.

As at 2020 no gay gene has yet been linked To homosexuality, so it is definitely not innate. And also taking an objective look at it shows that homosexuality is as a result of the way someone decides to live his life, it might look like a small aspect but affects nearly everything, from career choices to hobby, family, children, relationship with both sexes.

Before I continue I want To make it clear that there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual, I mean look at Marc Jacobs (Louis Vuitton guy), Tim Cooks, Late Gianni Versace, late Karl Lagerfeld, Tom Ford, Peter Thiel (Paypal guy),Anderson Cooper, Neil Patrick Harris, Christian Dior, Dolce & Gabbana guys, Giorgio Armani and many more. We wear them, use their phones, get entertained by them etc
But you have To accept it is a lifestyle choice that is perfectly Ok, but continue reading if you want To change To heterosexuality,

After trying To understand my homosexuality I came up with 3 conclusions (and consulting Google and other recovering homosexuals).
1. Male Homosexuality is caused by fear of women. Yes, you heard me right. Scared of rejection, approaching women, scared of something we want so bad but couldnt get (the attention men give To women). We loved feminity, adored it, adorned it but refused To be sexually attracted To it.

2. Male homosexuals are hooked on homosexual pornography. Argue with yourself, stop watching gay pornography and you get back to your normal self.

3. To overcome homosexuality, a complete lifestyle overhaul is required. No crying, therapy, prayers would do anything until you decide to change the trajectory of your life BY TAKING THAT FIRST STEP.

And that is what this thread is for, to overcome this fear of women, addiction To homosexual pornography etc.

be ready To be slightly uncomfortable for a better life.

Next update soon

Honey, firstly keep Karl's and Neil's name out of your internalized homophobic cavity you call mouth. Secondly, what does point 1 mean even. Do you listen to yourself sometimes? Like when you type do you read it before posting? I didn't even know what porn was till in my jss1 but before then I was already having adventures with boys. Also I didn't start watching porn till my jss3 holiday. But before then I was already the schools poster boy for everything homo.

HuntSon:


If you were a straight man truly, homo porn should have disgusted you sir!

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RichieMichie:


Susan and Grace, such an iconic power couple. I learnt homosexuality from them. God bless them richly for me

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