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achimendy(m): 4:01pm On Jun 04
Peakdesign23:
What of she decided to use her father's name to buy the land?


The father will prove his financial contribution on the property.

This is not america my dear.
achimendy(m): 5:40pm On May 28
Samantha125:
When you're from a disadvantaged background, of course you'll see money as everything... But once you have it, you'll then realise that it's nothing, it can never buy you happiness.

You don't know what's happening to that person behind closed doors.

I think you're looking at it from another point. The person you replied to is only trying to make you understand the importance of money in ones life, especially during old age. Money is not everything, I agree strongly, but money can give comfort, money can make people smile, money can engender speed, money can help solve health issues especially for oldies etc. Old age is a period where people don't need to work hard or stress themselves to make a living, is a season of rest, you eat and relax from your youthful labour over the years. But how can one rest during old age when you have no finance to feed and relax from? You'll start depending on children for help, it doesn't make sense at all.
Sometimes when I see how some people especially aged people die because of common sickness that can be treated with small money, I'll just shake my head in pity.

In conclusion, money is not everything but money is important to the life of every individual be it young or old.

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achimendy(m): 9:11pm On May 17
Fareke:
Muhammed Hammed

A Nigerian youth corps member who studied Mass Communication has taken to social media to express her frustration after being posted to a bakery for her NYSC.

The young lady, identified as @Aridunu_jones on X (formerly Twitter), shared her experience online, questioning the relevance of her posting to her field of study.

In her words: “God will help me and judge NYSC. When I studied Mass Communication, you guys now posted me to a BAKERY. BAKERY OOOO!!!”

She called on God for help and expressed confusion over the decision, sparking reactions online.

As her post gained traction, concerned s flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer .

See some reactions below:

@DrMel_: “You can be their PR person? Opportunities don’t always look like opportunities sometimes.”

@lekan_olayinka1: “Will the masses not buy bread? Will you not communicate with them?”

@orukusuku: “What happened to you managing the Public Relations Department of the Bakery?”

@Tim_krux: “Your skills in mass communication would come in handy in advertising bread.”

She called on God for help and expressed confusion over the decision, sparking reactions online.

As her post gained traction, concerned s flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer .

See some reactions below:

@DrMel_: “You can be their PR person? Opportunities don’t always look like opportunities sometimes.”

@lekan_olayinka1: “Will the masses not buy bread? Will you not communicate with them?”

@orukusuku: “What happened to you managing the Public Relations Department of the Bakery?”

@Tim_krux: “Your skills in mass communication would come in handy in advertising bread.”


https://www.gistreel.com/corps-member-who-studied-mass-communication-fumes-after-nysc-posts-her-to-bakery/


Communicate with the bread 🍞
achimendy(m): 10:31pm On May 10
Samantha125:
How is she naked? Is she not wearing clothes?


Is not about wearing clothes but the kind of clothes she's wearing. And maybe in your place it's acceptable but not in my place.

That's an indecent dress wore by a woman on her wedding.

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achimendy(m): 9:25pm On May 10
Vergovert:
If your husband refused to touch you, were you forbidden from touching him.


Is he not your husband?


The thing is just surprising me over here. Which law said is only a husband that is supposed to initiate sex?

And the lawyer is also bias, she only stated what her fellow women complained about in their marriage, but never said anything about what the men complained.
achimendy(m): 9:14pm On May 10
chatinent:
Mine:

1. Putting others before my life...while others actually put their lives first.

2. If you live in a public yard, you must understand that your neighbours aren't your emergency family .

3. Avoid taking things on credit from shops close to where you live.

4. You really do not owe anyone an explanation when you say NO to their requests.

5. Learn to speak not talk.

6. You are the most important person to you in this world. that.

7. Don't let them kill you!

8. Learn when it's apt to walk away.

9. Set boundaries. Whether they call it pride or whatever, they will respect you.

10. Overthinking will only get you sick. Start doing whatever you can.

11. You really do not need to recruit others to hate someone you hate with you.

12. Some relationships should be valued by you than always trying to be right always.

13. Drink clean water always. Eat good food. Sleep when needed. It's your health. If you can ensure your car gets sealed engine oil and better fuel for efficiency, how much more your body?

14. You don't need to lie to refuse lending money to someone; a simple "I don't have" is accurate. You don't need to attach a reason..damn it's your money!!

And it is also very necessary to collect collateral or they put it in paper. If they refuse, it's ok to let them fck off. A lot of borrowers have no conscience.

15. Avoid too many friends. If possible, avoid it completely. When your are becoming more successful, too many friends and you are closer to your grave.

16. It's not everyone you should bring to your house. This is very important.

17. Refuse binge drinking or eating outside. It's a one-way ticket to hell.

18. Ensure you know how to respond to peer pressure bullies.

19. Buy what you can afford...everything depreciates..



Share yours.



I regret not starting my career earlier, but success is still sure for me though.
achimendy(m): 5:39pm On May 05
Almantra:
Pls I don't know if it's because of many years of being an introvert that causes this problem that is affecting because i am always weak I can't run raise my voice. Some say I act like a woman.even if I want to act agile or fast I can't .I just started a job that requires being strong ,fast,and bold but I can't do all that and the manager and supervisor are not finding it right with me. cry

Because even the ladies there at my workplace are more stronger, faster than me in doing the job,and they even start asking me if I am medically fit

Pls any tips or supplements that I can use to behave energetic pls I will appreciate thanks.


Change your bad attitude from your mindset, and then engage in physical exercise like jogging, climbing stairs and press-up for like 30 or 40 minutes. Your blood flow, agility and physical movement will increase.

Thank you.

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achimendy(m): 7:34pm On May 03
Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.






Stop complaining, complain doesn't help anyone. Just look for a way to improve your finance.
achimendy(m): 5:10pm On Apr 29
gragz8701:
My friend who is a military officer with exposure to UN mission in Arab nations advised me never to date nor mary any Nigerian girl that have lived in Dubai.


Hmmmm..... did he give you any reason?
achimendy(m): 5:05pm On Apr 29
InDiscov500:
Things My Eyes Saw In Dubai (Part One)

If any of your sister tell you she is going to Dubai ensure to vet her thoroughly, also; if a lady or any friend of her who lives there and is flashing luxury is the one taking her to Dubai just know your sister is going to suffer there and i will explain;

Most of these vvomen that are already in Dubai get paid by rich arab men to traffik girls to Dubai for them, most times through their personal assistants and the vvoman or girl will fly down to Nigeria to look for who to deceive claiming she wants to help her leave Nigeria and the jakpa syndrome is killing many especially our youths and anyone that gets the opportunity of being taken out of Nigeria doesn't think twice about the offer and jumps on it without thinking or asking questions, believe indiscov;

When she succeeds in taking her to Dubai next is to link her up with the Arab man's personal assistant who will now expose her to luxury and then state their demands and if she refuses they will threaten her to pay back all they spent, Dubai is not like Nigeria and if she gets put in closed doors it's the end of road for her; she will be made a segx slave; before i dive into the full details, pay attention.

Most Nigerian girls and other African vvomen living in Dubai are doing slavery, majority of them are trafficked to that country, 95% of Nigerian girls in Dubai are doing prvstittvtion and worse is the horrible things they do to earn crumbs.

Most arab rich men are perverts, most them have dirty fantasies and i will explain,

The personal assistant to the rich Arab will spend lavishly on her by taking her out, she will shop anything she likes and at the end of the day she'll return and prepare herself for the arab man,

Most times she will be meeting one arab man whole sometimes she will meet up to 5 arab men and they will all take turns on her, some of the arabs will insert different objects into her kpekus, flog her, tie her up, gag her, all of them will ejaaaculate into her mouth, some will pipe her without rubbers, they mostly pooop 💩 into her mouth and force her to eat it and ofcourse what do you expect after they have spent 5,000 to 20,000 dollars on you to afford you all those expensive clothes and luxuries.

Some of the arab men will bring out their dog or lion and ask her to have segx with it, some of them will just film her and sell the video to dark webs where other rich men having fun will buy the video and watch it, the girl will be piped by the dog,

She will sus-ck the dog's preeq and do anything they asked with the dog and whenever they're done having fun they will leave and ask their assistants to see her then clean the mess, don't doubt indiscov this is fact, i have witnessed one myself through one of my friend who is from Dubai the last time i visited Dubai for my holiday, i was shocked.

Part 2 of things my eyes saw in Dubai will drop tomorrow so stay tuned, Kindly follow Indiscov for more and don't forget to share this post to create awareness for those our Nigerian sisters planning to relocate to Dubai, they're going there for prvstittvtion, there's no good paying job there.

The only jobs you can do there is menial jobs, odd jobs that comes with obscene stress and you will earn less, they share bed space there unlike in Europe that you rent apartment and live only you, in Dubai up to 10 people stays in the same apartment and they share bed space, it's more like prison; this is why some of my clients that came to me for visa if any of them mentions Dubai i just tell them we don't do Visa to Dubai not because we don't but i can't send anyone's child to that country.

Don't allow any of your sister, daughter or niece to go to that country, anything Arab country isn't advisable because she is going there to suffer and believe me at the end of the day she may go into aashawo work fully, on the next part of this expository i am going to throw more light to things i saw and what is happening there.

Watch out for part2
Sermons over!




My bro just came back not too long from dubai, and what you're saying is no different from what he told me.

I've never liked any Arab country, even when my bro told me to come then I refused, their wickedness has no limit.

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achimendy(m): 7:18pm On Apr 21
adeoyekay:
Self control is the only antidote for any addiction


Exactly 💯
achimendy(m): 4:48pm On Apr 18
ChildOfDoom:
I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.

It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).

The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.

I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.

Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work

But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.

The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.

I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.

Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me


Addiction is your problem

Self control is the solution

None of those things you're doing will help your life. Thank you.

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achimendy(m): 8:53pm On Apr 14
Nackzy:
If you're from plateau and you vote tinubu again you're a big fool


No sensible person voted tinubu, they just manipulated the election results with inec to secure victory.

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achimendy(m): 1:48pm On Apr 13
fasmukol:
I am fully in of this. We need to clean up our education system. Just that some people have gone away with it and the legislation wouldn't affect them in anyway.


You want the educational system to be cleaned up while the political system still remain unclean.

This same leaders trying to this bill will never allow such bill to be ed when it has to do with them. They carryout corrupt practices, loot public funds with immunity and disobey thesame law they swore to abide by and protect.

Who's deceiving who?
achimendy(m): 1:37pm On Apr 13
Dpsychologist:


Chief I am not ignorant of anything. While I respect your spiritual beliefs, the reality is that people, regardless of religion or morality, continue to engage in sex outside of marriage. Telling them to avoid it completely hasn’t been effective for thousands of years and will still not be effective in the future, as evidenced by the ongoing rates of unintended pregnancies and STIs.

Using condoms is not just about preventing pregnancy; it’s about protecting health. The goal should be to reduce harm.

Whether or not someone chooses to follow religious teachings, we all live in a world where sexual activity happens outside of marriage(whether it's right or wrong doesn't matter), and providing people with practical ways to protect themselves is both responsible and necessary.

I have seen some religious advice that one shouldn't use Condom. So the ones who were reckless with sex end up getting STIs or unwanted pregnancy.

Ignoring the physical risks for the sake of spiritual beliefs does not change the fact that individuals need to be educated on how to stay safe. Using protection isn’t a rejection of spiritual values; it’s simply a logical step to protect one’s health in the real world.

Noted.
achimendy(m): 6:11pm On Apr 11
Dpsychologist:


This has been said for over 2000s years but has it worked?

Youths still have sex so it's appropriate to tell them to use protection.


What do you mean by has it worked??

Secondly you're ignorant of the spiritual implications of sex, but only concerned about the physical aspect.

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achimendy(m): 4:17pm On Apr 11
Dpsychologist:
In the age of instant gratification and sexual freedom, one line cuts through the noise like a blade of truth:

"Better dey use condom make she no go carry belle born for you when you are not even married. If you no buy kiss use , you go end up buying KissKid."

Let that sink in.
Because behind the humour lies a serious truth — many young people today are living with the consequences of temporary pleasure.

The Rise of Casual Intimacy, The Fall of Personal Responsibility

Sex is easy. Cheap even. One look, one smile, one drink, one text, and it’s on.
But here's what most people forget: Sex is not just fun — it’s power. It’s potential. It’s responsibility.

Every time you unzip without protection, you’re playing Russian Roulette with your future:

Unplanned pregnancies.

STDs.

Broken dreams.

Lifelong financial pressure.

Emotional baggage.

Some of us joke about it—“Na just cruise.”
But what happens when the “cruise” leads to a child you’re not ready for, with someone you barely know, under circumstances you never planned?

You don’t just buy “Kiss” (pleasure), now you’re stuck with “KissKid” (a lifelong responsibility).
And in most cases, both lives are affected—the man, the woman, and most tragically, the innocent child.


Sex Without Sense is a Setup

Let’s talk facts:

Over 7 million unplanned pregnancies occur in Nigeria annually.

A majority happen among unmarried youths between 18-30.

Most of them were never ready—financially, emotionally, spiritually.

What does this lead to?

Abandoned children.

Single mothers struggling.

Men ducking responsibilities.

Increased poverty.

Broken homes before they ever formed.


And all this started with just “small enjoyment,” with no plan for the aftermath.


Condoms Are Not Just Rubber, They Are Wisdom

You wouldn’t drive a car without brakes.
You wouldn’t jump out of a plane without a parachute.
So why sleep with someone without protection?

Using a condom isn’t just about avoiding pregnancy — it’s about protecting your goals, your dreams, your health, your peace.
It’s about understanding that you’re not just playing — you’re planting. And every action today has a fruit tomorrow.


“But I Love Her…” or “She Said She’s Safe…”

Love does not erase consequences.
Lust never asks for permission.
And assumptions have ruined more lives than accidents.

Many guys trusted “she said she’s safe.”
Only to hear a few weeks later: “I’m late.”
Then what?

She’s crying.
You’re panicking.
Your plans are on hold.
And boom — adulthood hits you with a slap of reality.


The Real Men Plan Ahead

Real men protect:

Their future.

Their partner.

Their peace of mind.

It’s not “unromantic” to use a condom.
It’s unwise not to.

If you can’t handle the consequence, you shouldn’t engage in the act.
If you’re not ready for a baby, don’t act like a baby-maker.

Final Words: Enjoy With Wisdom or Regret Without Mercy

The next time the heat rises and your hormones scream louder than your logic, this line:

“If you no buy Kiss, you go buy KissKid.”

It’s not a joke.
It’s a warning.
It’s a mirror.
It’s your life.

Enjoy yourself, yes.
But enjoy with sense.
Because one moment of pleasure can cost you a lifetime of pressure.

Let's be guided. Country Hard.


If you want sex go and get married. Sex outside marriage is a sin.
achimendy(m): 4:47pm On Apr 08
KnowledgePower7:

So enviroment dey affect skin color?? grin grin i no understand


You no no b4?
achimendy(m): 3:04pm On Apr 07
Medici777:
hi. Please what’s your phone number?

Pls Why are you asking?
achimendy(m): 4:52pm On Apr 03
Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation. undecided


If you have no sensible advice to give the young man just keep quiet let others help him out.
achimendy(m): 12:04pm On Mar 31
PressMyButton:


https://tribuneonlineng.com/yoruba-group-rejects-bill-granting-indigene-rights-through-residency-marriage/


This bill will only be good and possible if a nation has factors like unity, peace, love and selfless leaders.
achimendy(m): 11:03am On Mar 31
CJStarz:

He was not yet an Emir during the Gideon Akaluka episode.
Or was he in of that dastardly act?
Pls educate me further

He spearheaded it, organise mob that killed Gideon akaluka because of a torn piece of quran.

Abacha almost killed him for that but he ran away.

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achimendy(m): 9:40pm On Mar 26
smartlad:
I woke up fine today and went about my hustle to survive, suddenly I can no longer use my left hand i feel numb and emptiness in my left hand, i cant use my left fingers or hold anything with the hand what is wrong with me. I am devastated.


Did you sleep on your left hand? Cos if you did you'll experience numbness in your hand as if is not working again. Try not to sleep on the hand again, exercise the hand to increase blood flow and also rest too. Too much lack of rest can result to stroke and unusual movement around the left arm and hand.

It happened to me sha. But Try and see your doctor.

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achimendy(m): 12:47pm On Mar 24
Orinechi:
Was the mother of Jesus married to father. Joseph is not her father. So, why did she wait until she got married to the supposed father of Jesus before he became pregnant?


You really need to see your doctor, you medical attention ASAP.
achimendy(m): 3:43pm On Mar 23
Orinechi:
Allow people to have sex in peace. The desire to have sex is innate which means that man is same with other animals that mate once the desire comes. Sex is not sinful. Is part of human reproductive make up.

Is that what the Bible told you about sex or you're just quoting your own doctrine??
achimendy(m): 3:31pm On Mar 23
tamonokare:
What about pastors that use tithe and offering brought by poor to buy private jets, build schools for the rich and move around with armed security while their live in poverty, find it difficult to send their children to the school that was built with their own money.

Ever since Righthussle posted on Nairaland that "Whoever or whatever made the universe does not and will NEVER EVER EVER NEVER need your money for A N Y T H I N G whatsoever. Instead of giving your hard earned money to these thieves, use it to feed stray dogs on the street.", i stopped giving money to these thieves.

According to Righthussle,


Any human being who collects money/tithe/offering/first fruit or anything from other humans on behalf of the maker of the universe is a THIEF . You don't need a judge to tell you that.


Any human who gives money to another human with the mindset that he/she is giving money to the creator of the universe or any unseen entity is not only a big fool but a mad person.


Any man who tells you he works for the maker of the universe is a thief. He works for his stomach. He must one day come to tell you his "all-sufficient " god whom he works for needs your money. The being behind the existence of the universe is not a human like Dangote, Elon Musk or Tinubu that will need workers and money. Wise up



You're suffering from what I call gross ignorance. I pray God open your eyes and understanding to his principles.
achimendy(m): 6:05pm On Mar 06
boxypane:
Adage Master

Leave that title for Pete edochie
achimendy(m): 9:59pm On Feb 18
Acekidc4:
🧐👀


Now he's blaming the system for not helping him out, when he was working with the former president which positive change did he bring to improve the system
achimendy(m): 5:29pm On Jan 29
Freshtruth:
Only this guy 3weeks salary if i no carry escort make he no better for me




Obi cubana sef no feel make almost 2billion every month


Just see your mentality, so escort is your problem??
achimendy(m): 9:35pm On Jan 27
Goodlady:

You must be another woman beater. God will judge you.

Judge me for what exactly??

The victim said you people should leave her lovely husband alone, or you don't understand English?
achimendy(m): 9:32pm On Jan 27
Valwezzy:


I hope you'll mind yours when shiiit involves your sister(s) and loved ones — else, do me a favor, shut the f**k up and gedifok outta here.

Do you wan to cry more than the bereaved??

The victim said people like you should leave her lovely husband alone. Is it too hard for you to understand??
achimendy(m): 3:12pm On Jan 26
Goodlady:

I was still on ban the day her first video came out. Look at this girl. Until a man kill you with beatings and maltreatment?
Man wey she suppose don carry go Human Rights Commission or Ministry of Women Affairs make dem use his case collect allocation from Tunubu.
If she end up with more suffering now na she cause am.
Men that are mostly scums.



Shut up Mrs human right and mind your business 🙊🙊

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