NewStats: 3,265,537 , 8,187,134 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 04:20 PM 1s4a25

Your wife doesn’t trust you. Why?
You come across as someone that is not building your own family rather trying to drag your wife to conform to the rules of your father’s family.
You have got to build your own family with her and have new rules that govern your immediate family.
You can’t ban your wife from attending a church she wants. You have to talk things through and lead. She will follow when she sees that you have a clear path.
Firstly, find a new church for your family. Not the old church that your father’s family attend.
Discuss issues that are causing strain on your family.
Let her know her pastor will not have any priority in your family. She can see her pastor if she so wishes but decisions about your family will never be made by an outsider.
Have a clear path.

From experience, this is not easy but achievable

[b][/b]She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.

Above is the reason why you are the source of your problem.
Your family is deciding for your immediate family.
That’s the main reason your wife is objecting to your decision. She strongly believes it’s not really your decision.

huptin:


The fall of America will mean the end of the world as we know it today, Same with Isreal any existential threat to the survival of Isreal will lead to the deployment of the 'Samson option' so both ways the present civilization will come to an end.

Sorry to disappoint you but your prophet saw nothing, he lied. It will never happen that palestine or the combined strenght of the arabic world will conquer Isreal. Never!

Just google the 'Samson Option" and find out why!

Firstly, I’m not a Muslim.
Secondly, I’m a factual thinker, not a religious thinker. I don’t base my argument on religious tenets.
Now, if you thought that the state of Israel has a monopoly of madness to deploy nuclear weapons and get away with it, then you’re mistaken. Countries like Iran are seriously working on nuclear weapons and that is why Israel is not happy and doing their best to drag USA into a war with Iran.

imam07:
mumu go read Bible too and see for yourself which prediction is coming to . All what is happening now between Isreal and Palestine has been said in d Bible. The prediction in your quran is just a fluke. Sit down there and dey wait for quran predictions.

There is nothing like prediction.
These people, just like their predecessors have always wanted these things. They documented them so that generations after them could contime to drive the ideas forward.
Ideologies not predictions

epainos:
I don't care about the result of what is going on in Gaza because it is not my war. While I sympathize with all parties in the dispute, I will refuse to get emotionally involved.

I posted on this forum that Israel is going to annex Gaza at the start of this war, and this is it. The US is a partner that won't fail Israel.

Talking from a neutral position, the ONLY way peace will be restored is that either Israel or Palestine must go into extinction. Let us face the truth. And it seems Palestine is the casualty. After Gaza has been annexed, Israel will relax, and perhaps they will start allowing Hamas to make successful attacks again. And then, maybe 15 to 20 years again in the future, they will annex more land. This is the cycle till they absorb the whole region. Palestine will be scattered around arab nations like Israel used to be.

I guess Israel has decided to heed the command that says: take them all out of the land. Remove all of them. Is this what is going to happen?

Our generation may not see the end, but we will experience more of this.

It’s a cycle. What goes around comes around.
In the past, there were strong empires that controlled the world. Those empires are no more in today’s world.
Israel was on the receiving end decades ago but they are the ones perpetuating the same crimes they suffered today. This cycle will also fade away. Maybe not in our generation or even the next generation but one thing is certain; America will lose its grip on the world and a new power will emerge. Then, there will be a new era and power shift which make countries like Israel the oppressed again.
It’s just a matter of time. Time!

Nigerians are gullible. They just consume any news and run with it.
No terror attack was foiled. The guys killed were patients receiving treatments.
Were they combatants at some point? Yes
Were they active at the time they were killed? No
Was the action by IOF a war crime? Yes
Could they have arrested them? Yes
Is it proper to launch attack in a hospital? No

Is your partner a maid or servant that you instruct not to see her friends?
Is your partner not allowed not to be friends with their colleagues at work?
Would you like to spend time with your partner but just doesn’t know to initiate it and ask for some time together?
Do you have some insecurity issues?
Do you have any reason to suspect your partner of anything?
Are just naturally petty?
I can go on and on. But answer these questions truthfully. You might just be insecure.
Your partner is an independent being.

Person wey kpai no dey write thread.
Don’t wait for your husband to kill you before una try set things straight as a family.
If he beat you and destroyed your belongings then you did no wrong getting him arrested.
If he’s angry for being arrested after beating you up then he needs some time away to reflect on himself and sort things out.
He’s just being egotistical and proud. If he’s a good man, he will come around. If not, then continue to live your life.

Hi everyone, Abeg I wan ask how much a domain like crustfinance.com could go for if person wan sell am ?

How much be $40k ?
God Abeg poverty no good oo!

Reply the query and start looking for another job.

Only those that were born with SAPA spoon would understand the picture.

Ninobraw:
No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.

The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.

Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.

Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.

Before our marriage, we agreed no family is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.

So much disrespect to your in-laws by putting so much information about them online. Don’t be surprised when they read about this.
You are being emotional. Address issues with your wife and put things in order. Dragging your wife’s family online doesn’t make you look good.

Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await responses from meaningful NLers.

Try the following
1. Eat a lot of fruits. Water melon, apple ,banana, carrots. Etc. Blend them together, add honey and enjoy.
2. Eat cashew nuts
3. Eat lots garlic and onions generously.

Now, it’s important to stay strong psychologically. Your issue might just be from inexperience.
Try not to think too much about sex when having it.
Best believe that a good number of guys go through what you are going through atm.
You will get better.
Try to do a lot of exercise as well. Especially ones that strengthen your waist and pelvis.
If you can, use viagra to stay hard so that you can go more than one round. This is just temporary. At least it will give you back some rep and confidence. You need it.
By the time you dick starts spending enough time in the puzzy, it will be a lot more easier for you.

Furthermore, AVOID missionary position by all means.
Thrust slowly and not too fast. Think of it as baby steps.

Lastly, change the time you have sex. Do not have sex after a stressful day. Try having sex in the morning when your body is more relaxed.
Having sex when you are tired is not good for you. You go just pour akamu within seconds.

is it possible to request for a refund of a priority service fee if visa was not issued within 5 days as stated on UK embassy website.
Im thinking of requesting for a refund. I can't pay an over 250gbp for a priority service that was not delivered. Annoying.

A reasonable husband would not slap his wife in the public or in private
A reasonable husband will not walk into his wife’s business and see that she is the only one struggling to do everything and not offer to help.

A reasonable wife would not command or ask the husband to wash plates in a condescending manner.
A reasonable wife would call the husband to a quiet and private corner to make that kind of request.

Having said all these, the husband should be lucky to be in Nigeria. In the western world, his problem would have been compounded with assault and battery charges.

The husband probably walked in with pride to eat and leave his plates on the table for the wife to wash as usual.

richmanrichard:
The problem was not what you said but how and where you said it.

Were you there to have known how she said it?

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

There is no sense in this

goltokka:
Let's not be quick to judge here, the officers are very right, his name is not on the tenancy agreement therefore he has to leave . Why would a man rent a house and not put his name on the tenancy agreement? That's stupid!!!

Exactly my thoughts. He could be likened to a squatter as he has no legal right to remain in the property.
If your name is not on the TA and utility bills, what are you doing in the house?

KingZaddy:
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Clearly this man called Sunday is not a wise person, he should Nnamdi Kanu why he runs biafra from outside, when they government get him time they will start hunting him...


Proving bravery is foolishness, they will gun you down and nobody will do anything, the focus should be to collect power in the next election not to divide Nigeria, nobody will give you oduduwa or biafra... We are stock here, make it better not worse.... Make una dey use una brain



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You and who are stock?
Stock fish ni

One of your Ekukes is overweight o.

Karleb:


You too much.

The HR has done nothing wrong according to the chat.

The HR did everything wrong. You don’t invite someone to attend an interview for a job they never applied for. That’s absolutely unprofessional. There was a telephone convo where the hR personnel was probably rude as well.
Unemployment has made most people lose their self worth.

This is quite funny and straightforward.
Have you for once thought that you should speak with your wife before taking some steps as a family?
Think more positively. To me, your wife seems like a smart person. You write up clearly shows that she’s tried to offer you alternative ideas every time she opposed yours.
Forget ogbanje level and listen to your wife. Work with her and your life will become easier.
E be like say you like suffer.

Sebastine1994:
I type this with a heavy heart. Very heavy.

Look at what we have become, look at what a so called role model is saying. It means you are indirectly endorsing Yahoo boys.

I believe there are boys on the street who can play ten times better than this nit wit. but mother luck did not smile on them.

Mind what you are indirectly endorsing with your mouth and fingers ,. it may come back to haunt you

for the idiots below me who call this a joke. Must you joke with everything. Start joking when dangote crush people and see what happens.

That is why I like the Muslim sometimes, you cannot joke with their religion, it's an unwritten rule. you can't joke with Allah the way christains joke with God.


Think of the millions of youth this man has an influence on. think of how some of our useless slangs become popular. think brethren, think

Life no hard like this na

Hotshisha:




I thought this Deji Adeyanju is even educated...

Issa Pantanmi as a Minister holds a blue port, with a Diplomatic port he is free to enter any country visa free, without restriction


.

Hahaha
Don’t be ignorant

VTJN:
sorry i can't send a mail. Can i PM you via the number on your signature?

Okay. Cool

VTJN:
Good day bro, please I'm interested in crypto currencies trading and investing. please can you help put me through? Thanks

Okay. What would you like to know? Send email

sonsomegrigbo:
That's why cherubim and seraphim no get bearing..


Them go do Islam small, Christianity small and babalawo small...



Anyway, what do I expect from the town that's so close to IGBOLAND

What a dumb, senseless and uninformed comment.

This song is my early morning worship song.

I listen to this song at least 3 times every morning.

Absolutely fantastic song.

Ijeawele:
it would have been nice to meet with you. However, I'm based in Milton Keynes.

I'm few miles away from Milton Keynes.
Towcester

LasLas na one bullet go tear down

You are obviously 25. I doubt if you have ever suffered or been through hard times in Nigeria.

You are thinking of moving back to Nigeria without enough funds to even plant a business?

Think this through properly.

In all you do.. please don't go back to Nigeria unprepared, without a plan B.