NewStats: 3,263,670 , 8,180,955 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 08:05 AM 5g424z

Stop overreacting.

In most cases it's family: father, brother, son.

That's cos they settle for who's available not the preferable

JikSneh:
True to head slammers and ewedu munchers only though

Hope you can breathe well now

Ashawo wives dem will hide from this topic.

Unfaithful wives everywhere.

It's absolutely true naaaaa
....especially their Pastors.

That a woman is married to you only means her allegiance is to you but you can't regulate her feelings at all. They can have soft spot for anyone. Secretly iring such men.
Secret irers. Yeahh

fasho01:
That's cos they settle for who's available not the preferable

Hmmm...

Many women marry men who are financially ready even if they don't love them.

A big risk if you ask me.

Naya25:
Dem say every married woman gets one guy wey she like her husband

Ngbo, naija ladies is this true...

Naya25, Who are the "dem" that said it?

How did the "dem" come up with what they said?

Not all, some wives are faithful to the core.

APOPTOSIS:
It's absolutely true naaaaa
....especially their Pastors.

That a woman is married to you only means her allegiance is to you but you can't regulate her feelings at all. They can have soft spot for anyone. Secretly iring such men.
Secret irers. Yeahh

Are you speaking of your wife?

Is that how your mum played it with your dad?

Solofresh2:
The only way it will happen to a man is if he is forced to get married

Nope. It also happens when he cant get the one he truly loves. He settles for another quite often.

Babatunjo:
Women have a very dark side, when it comes to who they are attracted to, that most men are not aware of.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you...very dark and debased preference

DeepSight:


Nope. It also happens when he cant get the one he truly loves. He settles for another quite often.

What is now the difference?
Can you be forced to marry someone you loved before
If you are to marry someone you don't love then you are being forced to
Man up bro!

JikSneh:
True to head slammers and ewedu munchers only though

you are not audible say it louder so that we can hear 🔊📢 you 🦜 talking.

Infantile topics show that Nairaland has an intellectual ceiling.

If my wife is secretly crushing on another man, that one na her problem. My own be sey make she just dey give me the OPUEH whenever I need it.

If she's cooking for me regularly and giving me the OPUEH whenever I need it. I care less with whatever she does with her feelings.

Who Naija woman love don help self? If them love you self na problem.

#Picks_tooth

Ijaya123:
Women don't love. They are only attracted to men of higher value.

Even when married.

Best statement... They want the highest man though, they can't have it but they wish. You are there man because, you are the highest at the moment on there frequency. However, the fear of loss still keep them to the man they can handle because, they don't like competition. The foolish will try to go and steal a taste of the man (cheating) and if they get caught they start blaming the devil.

Men, don't value woman too much, concentrate on your wealth business. Reach the top you desire and rest...

Like in what sense?

Yes. Without relizing the secret to that thing she likes about the other man.

Beauty can be faked. Wealth too. Aura.

No, I don't.

Speak for yourself or your wives/mothers and sisters as the case may be. 🤝

pocohantas:
No, I don't.

Speak for yourself or your wives/mothers and sisters as the case may be. 🤝

👀👀 😂

The one in the right hand side came with full package.

It's not every, just most of them. And it's normal for humans to not marry their ideal partner for one reason or the other. Same goes for men.

ChizzyBuna:
Monogamy is no from God.
God created us to love multiple people
No human being can love only one person for life. It is not possible

Open marriage is the highest form of enlightenment. It is divine. The ability to spread love to multiple people is why God said go and MULTIPLY.

Monogamy is a selfish construct of society
That is why it always backfires because monogamy is anti-nature. It is not divine

Love is meant to be spread around
Not to be selfishly controlled by one partner
The more humans understand this. The lesser divorce will be

Don't mix things up! Share love is different from sharing toto. If God say love your neighbours does not mean say all your neighbours can access your toto at requests.

That kindly of sharing is only for animals

Women don't love😀

Successsearch90:
Is this true?

I want to know as well and how can one manage such situation pls?

Ask women around you

otipoju:
Women no dey love. Them be calculator.

Everyone is being used to meet a need

FYI, Me i no dey among them.

Ijaya123:
Women don't love men.

They are just in love with the feelings they derive from being with the man.

They are rather attracted to men of higher value.

Even when married.

Be like every man eye don clear DSTV now due to the Shege wey those people don use their eyes see

benydy:
Not just women both sex

Not true. No woman on my mind when it comes to caring for. But might be right if you are talking about knacking.

Yes of course the same apply to every man. Simple abc

Babatunjo:
Women have a very dark side, when it comes to who they are attracted to, that most men are not aware of.

I have said it and i will say it again.

If no lady chooses me, I am not getting married. And the attraction and choosing has to be genuine. I have my ways of knowing.

90% of men are the ones who chased and choosed their spouse after sessions and series of beggings before they accepted men proposal. Not me though, It won't happen.

Later one wonders who among the partners is always bringing up threat of divorce lol

Successsearch90:
Is this true?

I want to know as well and how can one manage such situation pls?

Not true