NewStats: 3,265,358 , 8,186,501 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 04:01 PM 1h4s7

ZIINI:
Akata women are somehow arrogant
Was talking to one early April
She won't chat without typing the word Fuçk
You can just fúck them ,you can't wife them

I'll start off by saying that this only applies to some.

A lot of them swear too much. If it's not fck it's sht.
Naturally any children you raise with her will pick up on these nasty ways of speaking.
You can't caution most of them about anything, like swearing and using that nasty N word. They will say you can't control them.
They also wouldn't hesitate to call you out of your name at the slightest disagreement.

In short, respect is something you are going to have to really seek out if you are looking for a partner in the AA population as they are used to chaos and irreverence. Because of the situation in the US locking up lots of black men unfortunately, a lot of them do not have fathers so a lot don't have a sense of home structure, logic or discipline.
There are some good ones, but that arrogance is sadly the majority.

So honestly, na just with Bleep mind some of us dey use look them.
Can't start getting emotionally invested in someone that has decided with every element of her being to be a tout and to not be corrected.
Collect the pussy if it is good (which it usually is) and keep it moving.

Funny thing is, that same crazy person will now be wondering why no man wants to put a ring on it.
You go just dey laugh.

Juliusmalema:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/08/nigerias-problem-not-restructuring-osinbajo/

.....which can only happen with restructuring.
The United States of Nigeria is how you run something with so many different groups of people.

The reason America works is because the State has independent power, and is not begging the federal bottleneck of a government for everything.
States should be able to create their own power plants for example, without federal wahala.

And they can do it in such a way that it lines up with their own state constituents. E.g, the northern states can sharia up themselves however they want and put an end once and for all to this thing of trying to push it on federal.

This is the type of girl who can only cum when you rough and slap her /spit on her face.
Dem plenty.
Nothing wrong with it sha. All na kink.

Terryishere:

There is also truth in the things Akatawoman said.

Like?

That it is our culture to shit in the streets?

If so then you would also have to agree that gang-banging , laziness, street-shitting and OOW kids is also your culture.

The argument in general is stupid. Hence why I laugh and match the energy.

Difference between myself and sis is, I actually IT that nigeria has problems. I can have issues and still see a thing that is bad and call it bad, including my own bad thing.
She here trying to make it look like she is some sort of black savior who came from the heavens. FOHWATS

Terryishere:


I see you are at it again. You said you don't like Black Americans coming to NLand spewing rubbish on your people yet you don't find it a problem when your people come to the US and spew your hatefull prejudices, whitewashed ignorance onto my people in MY country.

NIGERIANS are neck and neck with the whites when it comes to arrogance and hypocrisy.

I agree. I do go over board sometimes. But meh.
There is truth to the things I say.

AkataWoman:
I’ve seen and heard several things from Nigerian men about akatas. It’s usually that we’re good for sex only or if they’re in a relationship it comes down to them not having their stuff together enough to date Nigerian women. I was shown a video where several married to/dating said they were surprised at how attentive and loving we are to our mates. They believe it’s because so many of us grow up without fathers that we love having a man in our lives.

Why can’t you just it your stereotypes about black American women was just WRONG! I believe it comes from growing up in a backward culture that believes because we aren’t circumcised or have virginity checks done on us we must be promiscuous.

Ok. So you’re being told this while growing up in Africa. I get it. (The funny thing is that at the same time in America black American women are viewed as the least promiscuous). But once you’re here and see how hardworking and loyal (often to men who don’t deserve it) we are, why continue to try to stereotype us even as you date us? I think some of it is the Nigerian stubborn pride. You MUST be culturally superior to akatas.

At what point will you find it okay to say: We had them all wrong?

You're missing the point.
IT has nothing to do with circumsision or any of that stuff.
Nobody even in Nigeria cares about that rubbish.

It comes down to these things:

- Respect. e.g A lot of AA think it's funny to call their men out their name. To the Nigerian, this is not funny.
- Understanding: From memories of home, to culture, to shared understanding of the pidgin language...there are some things a Nigerian can only enjoy with a fellow Nigerian.
- Future HOME plans. A lot of Nigerians fully intend on being able to back and forth to Nigeria. And some even have long term wishes of being able to move back permanently in the future as things get better. Having a Nigerian spouse with the same potential future wishes increases the chance of that wish becoming a reality.

@AkataWoman
Artificial arguments aside...

In truth, I fully understand why the world is the way it is, both for AA and Nigerians.
I just don't care much for an AA coming over here to spew rubbish about my people.

If you want to have intelligent conversations, I will have that with you.

But if you just wanna come here and shit on Nigerians with unintelligent arguments while trying to have a sense of superiority, you'll get that same energy right back...with TWICE the logical and factual accuracy.

I can decide to match your ignorance if I want to.

PS: many forums like LSA talk about africans and AA dating african men. I see threads there all the time.
It is only the "bitter birds" who spew vitriol about it. And they are a pariah even to their own society.

Everybody loves everybody in a normal setting.

AkataWoman:


Oh yeah, since you’re so intelligent and smart, why is your country a literal shithole STILL? Why no free education if you value education so much? Why no plumbing or electricity?

WHY CRY OUT TO STUPID AIN’T SHIT BAs TO HELP SAVE YOU FROM SARS? Why can’t you fight your own battles?

BAs don’t @ Nigerian news sites to cover our stories. You guys are lazy cowards who want others to fight your battles for you.

Because we have shit colonial minded military leaders who we will be dealing with and expelling within the next 4 years tops so we can build for us.
At least that's our problem. You will never and can never expel your own supposed oppressors. Meaning you will whine and bitch forever about yours. Sad.

Who cried out to you about SARS? Go and ask those people those questions.
Primarily Nigerians home and abroad ed hands to fight that said same evil leadership back home for a better future for our country.
Look at this idiot blowing smoke up her own ass like as if she is that important. What did you do? Pleeeeaase

Stop coming here to rap nonsense. You're pulling my ire.

AkataWoman:


That’s right! I forgot. Nigerians are too illiterate to keep accurate statistics. It’s the very reason you were banned from the US in the first place.

Are you disputing the percentage of educated BAs in Nigeria is higher than the percentage of educated Nigerians?

Cute. A picture of one obviously mentally ill person in San Francisco is not the same as a culture that thinks shitting outdoors is a normal practice. I’m sure that shit was cleaned up off the street before the person could put their phone away. Unlike Nigeria where open sewers are normal.

Oh so you it that it is only SOME (i.e mental) people that shit in the streets in your country.
Yet you are pushing for a narrative that ALL Nigerians shit in the streets as a "culture".
I have never seen anyone taking a dump publicly in all the time I have spent in Nigeria.
I do see people take dumps in the street in Detroit, Atlanta, and obviously San Francisco. I could as well name that one of your "cultures".

But I'm not that daft. I leave such unintelligent summations to you.

You prove your lack of intellectual integrity with every word you type.

AkataWoman:


Are you trying to compare .0001% of the Nigerian population in the US with 100% of the US population? In what world does that make sense? You’re usually only allowed in for the purpose of getting an education. So why wouldn’t you have a larger percentage (not number) of educated people in the US

Let’s compare the opposite: 100% of BAs in Nigeria are educated compared to 2% of the Nigerians.

What would it look like if the floodgates were open to all of Nigerians-the vast majority of whom are ILLITERATE and criminal minded?

The fact that you’re losers who’ve been sitting in Nigeria for billions of years before black Americans reached America but STILL haven’t developed to the point of consistent electricity tells the world all we need to know about your slow, uneducated, backwards & primitive asses.

Stop shitting outdoors. Stop behaving like animals. Only then can you talk about BAs.

If black Americans were to write a post about dating Nigerians, there would be just one: DON’T do it.

Damn shame you’re too lazy and stupid to create a habitable country and must LEECH off the hard work of others.

Post facts or shut up.
I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers.
You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously.

Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated.
Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame!

PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco

AkataWoman:


Oh yeah, where are black American women meeting all of these Nigerian men to get wet over

You’re banned from the US for being such lowlifes, there are only a few of you in the US. Then narrow that number down to Nigerian men within a certain dating age. Then most Nigerians live in poor black communities where they create African bubbles.

Most black Americans live in middle class America.

So how are “all of these” BA women meeting Nigerian men to get wet over? When? Where? Statistically the crossing of paths are few and far between.

See what a liar you are!

Here to meet a Nigerian man Who can’t even get a visa to the US? I’m barely on this site but from the very first post many Nigerians men were sending me messages. I’ve not entertained even one. You guys are not appealing.

The lies and delusion.

LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass.
Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter.
Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you....

We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities:
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

In the graphs below, note how it treats black immigrants as a unit and not just Nigerian immigrants, because if it did, our averages would be even way better. But even as that aggregate, we are still better than you.

Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense :


Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor"


More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu.


You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here.
But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could..

AkataWoman:

Give me a break. This is not a California thing. Educated, successful black Americans are spread throughout the entire country. The problem is that immigrants like Nobody are so poor that they’re forced to live in poor neighborhood and only see one type of black.

The US Census shows that 80% of black Americans are middle class and higher socioeconomically. There are not many ghettos in the US. The majority of black Americans do not live in ghettoes.

Nigerians, on the other hand, who shit I’m public streets and have no electricity or plumbing shouldn’t be talking shit about anybody. You’re poverty is otherworldly. You’re uneducated; the majority of you are illiterate because your families can’t afford the $5/year school fees. Any group of people who have more elementary school kids selling wares on the sides of roads than in school should not be talking shit about anybody.

And for the record, black American women aren’t attracted to African men, much less chasing and bringing them around the 10 kids we have by 20 different men.

Nigerians have no right to talk about anybody.

Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother out here. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride.

As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to.

And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do.

Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life.
Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain.

It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that.

Go read facts.
But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you.

I stopped reading 10% of the OP because it was clearly written from a perspective of brainless solipsism.
Such whiny trash.

"It doesn't matter if I'm a trash human being, respeeect and cherish meeeeeee! "

You only get the behavior you are worth. Nothing more, nothing less.
You are also not too big to be put in friend zone by a man.
Friendzone has equal opportunity seating. Enjoy it.

tobechi74:
So, what should we do

If somehow these 2 types of people are still in the meat market,

A single mother better have a banging body.
and An old man better have money.

Read title.

The ONE redeeming factor you should at least have given your life situation.

Truvel:
Guy, I Know. I Said So Dat Let It Be A Good Record Dat She Had Done Her Best 4 Him But He Is D One Not Ready To Become A Man. It Would Be A Good Record 4 Her. So Dat 2moro, He Won't Go Abt Start Telling People Dat She Dumped Him Because Of His Present State.

Why should she give a damn what other people think?

I personally do not paint a girl bad for leaving a guy based purely on what HE said.
I know and have seen some very useless, ungrateful and irresponsible fellows out there who don't deserve good women.

Truvel:
For Good 7months? He Should Av Atleast Meet Dem In D Office. Anyway, If Dat's D Case Open A Business 4 Him Or Something He Could Sell Or Get A Job 4 Him. If He Doesn't Want Just Leave Him To His Fate.

No way.
Never help people "set up" anything that THEY THEMSELVES are not coming to you for help to setup.
Think of yourself as an investor. You probably should not invest in a business where the frontman does not even have the hussle to do fund raising.

i mean...it's already over.

You might as well take the money and go buy a serviced apt with out of it.

A man who does not do what needs to be done to provide for himself and who gets angry at people ing his broke ass for suggesting ways for him to regain some financial independence....is a useless person. Quote me.

It is good this happened. You would not have seen how much a useless fellow this person is. I know their type very well.
Go make your own investments for yourself and your future family...of which he is clearly not to be a part of if you like yourself.

Very unwise.
If you want to ask someone for something, try to do it in private not by public humiliation.
Otherwise it then has the stink of manipulation and blackmail.

This social media generation no get sense.

It is not every woman that sleeps in your place that you must Bleep.
Stop reasoning like an animal.

xtremeidea:


Oh wow! I totally understand though, i am not so active too but play weekends when i am not working. I just usually use it as a way of relaxing after the Mon - Friday Lagos Hustle.

Cheers

No yawa man. What's your id though? I can try to transfer to you.
DM me.

xtremeidea:
I seem to be the only one in the Clan!

Even the creator has been offline for over 90 days!

Hey fam. I created the clan last year. I don't play much right now due to life priorities, but I'll be happy to on the baton of ownership to anyone who is currently an active division 2 player.

And then if at some point you ever stop playing too due to life, you can it on. Let's leave a clear Naija footprint where ever we step

tarantino1:


Kiddwaya is fat plus muscle combined. He doesn't have a purely muscular physique. If he should shed the fat you'll see how smaller he would be.

OP

Push ups barely offer enough resistance to develop size. Highest you'll get is some strength and definition before you're unable to get anymore gains. Then you'll have to use weighted push ups or bench press.

That depends on your weight.

Pushup is also not for just your arms. It is a full body exercise that also engaged your core, if you are doing it right.

...

Can I put her undies in the washer/dryer? Ofcourse!
Can I hand wash her undies? That one is see-finish.
I have not had to handwash anything in decades, so perhaps this affects my mindset on the issue.

But I will do every if she is sick or situation calls for it. It would not be a daily affair.

Tattoos

beardlessdude:
please stop this behaviour.
I dont know why you are so obsessed over my homosexuality, I never made sexual advances towards you.

Please stop following me around.

You're right. I was being an asshole. My apologies.

beardlessdude:
after apologising to my roommate 8 months after for what I did to him and he said he has forgiven me, I tried to send him card but he said no need for that.

I promised to change my attitude and soften up my heart but I find it difficult to move on - my action keeps haunting me sometimes.

I believe he would likely be feeling the same way.

I wish I knew better and had not acted in that manner, I wish

What do you suggest I do please.

STOP BEING GAY.
This obsession over some other guy just comes from you wanting him to Bleep you hard.
He will not Bleep you.
Stop acting like a bitch that wants to be bleeped and so misbehaves so she can be angrily bleeped.

Stop being gay.

Luckydubby7:


https://thenationonlineng.net/fg-us-in-closed-door-meeting-over-visa-ban-issue/

Over SOME categories of Nigerians.
You already know what category they are negotiating for.
Themselves.