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stuffs4me(m): 9:16pm On May 18, 2009
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Igwe9(m): 9:26pm On May 18, 2009
what can i tell you, it seems you joke too much in the office, i will be back with some solu. . . . smiley
Busybody2(f): 9:34pm On May 18, 2009
stuffs4me:

. . . Point 2) I’m no longer keen on a relationship, besides her attitude is putting me off. But should a rejection translate to enmity?



This topic is kinda misleading based on your second point undecided

How can you no longer be keen on a relationship when she was the one who never even acknowledged your existence? Simply put, it is either you are not her type or that someone else is toasting her in that office [b]or[/b]she has a crush on someone else in that office smiley

Just let her be, at least the youth thingy lasts about a year and that would give you enough time to see that maybe she was actually shy, hence the reason she could not give you the answer you needed.
cuteblackG(m): 9:57pm On May 18, 2009
Give her space and just do ur thin, U dont have to be enemies though.
TOPE20001(f): 10:00pm On May 18, 2009
stuffs4me:


Point 1) since I stopped greeting her, we’ve been on zero communication and in an office environment where is a must this can be a bit awkward

Point 2) I’m no longer keen on a relationship, besides her attitude is putting me off. But should a rejection translate to enmity?

No it shudnt wink
If u r not keen anymore on the relationship then why the awkwardness? undecided
ChuckBass1(m): 11:11pm On May 18, 2009
Abeg fashi the Stupid foolish animalistic idiot jare! angry

Over pose is what used to kill these girls until they turn 30+ with no boyfriend and you see them in night virgils shouting allelulia looking for any man to even smile at them talkless of even wanting to date them. . . Psssf!
Busybody2(f): 11:17pm On May 18, 2009
Chuck Ba$$:

Abeg fashi the Stupid foolish animalistic idiot jare! angry

Over pose is what used to kill these girls until they turn 30+ with no boyfriend and you see them in night virgils shouting allelulia looking for any man to even smile at them talkless of even wanting to date them. . . Psssf!


Hmmn, jagunlabi don come cheesy Missed you boo kiss
Re: How Do You Handle Rejection by Nobody: 11:19pm On May 18, 2009
@Iyalode

Is he who I think he is?

Adam ti pada de!! Why do I feel like I'm abt to get banned again? grin grin


@post
Ball myself up in my closet and cry myself out.

Google up suicide and. .  .  .

Oh plzzz. . . . Poster, will let you know when it happens
Busybody2(f): 11:27pm On May 18, 2009
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@Iyalode

Is he who I think he is?

Adam ti pada de!! Why do I feel like I'm abt to get banned again? grin grin


No be my mouth you go hear say Iya teacher don quench lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
MrCrackles(m): 11:30pm On May 18, 2009
Poster

What a shame!

You are obviously not good enough!!

Its a pity i dont have any idea as i have never been in your shoes! cool
Enquirer: 2:19am On May 19, 2009
Forget about her and face your work. Dating is a game. If the attraction isn't mutual, it's time for you to move on to your next girl until you get someone that's ok for you. If you see dating as a game, rejection won't mean anything to you cos everybody is bound to be rejected sometime. If anyone says they've never faced rejection, they're lying.
StrStruck(f): 2:44am On May 19, 2009
Sometimes you find someone attractive but that doesn't translate to the person finding you attractive too. You have to learn to let it go and pursue someone else of interest. However as you've stated, you both are in the same office so communication is necessary for the business to thrive. I suggest you keep everything cordial and try not to hit on her.
Feelitx(m): 1:30pm On May 19, 2009
She might be dating someone else,
She does not find you attractive,
Respect her wishes and let her be,
Be cordial.
Tudor3(m): 3:56pm On May 19, 2009
Dude,dont give up.afterall you have nothing to lose,meanwhile you also try other girls.if they dnt accept,then there's a problem
Stinocollins: 4:00pm On May 19, 2009
Her attitude sh0ws that she doesn't have a crush on u,like,want or care about u,s0 dude,u've got to let her be nd look for d next girl to u.Hopefully,u wil find the gurl dat wil love u in return.Good luck big dude.

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