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if he is truly an ex,his is definitely jealous

pocohantas:


How many of them will date without sex? They want to fck, but don’t want women to fck them. They should go fck cows or goats. Nonsense

the cognitive imbalance of it all

What would be your gain when the courtship is ruined. That boy must be very stupid. Can’t you let her be & continue with your life

What's the big deal keen? The girl is not a virgin which the guy knows very well so what do the supposed ex say that's new to the guy that they're throwing a tantrum like frightened rabbits?

cococandy:
the cognitive imbalance of it all

I would never understand what they really want from women.

sexdoll:
what a bad guy!
he has purposely ruined that marriage already.
except if the current husband na the type wey no send.
but knowing what many men are like...
I know that he will definitely send one day...
na dat day kasala go burst.
it's just a matter of time!!!

lmao

pocohantas:


How many of them will date without sex? They want to fck, but don’t want women to fck them. They should go fck cows or goats. Nonsense

The issue is woman holds the key to it, if woman did not give them sex, they have no say about it.

When modern days women tries to justify degenaration of women's value by camparing bad behaviors of men, i ask them why did they think that women are seen as moral keys of the society.
The truth is every gender as a specific societal assignment and women are the moral pillar of the family/society while men are the horse power of the society. political correctness may argue this but Nature made it so from our biological build up to psychological capacity.

seunfly:


The issue is woman holds the key to it, if woman did not give them sex, they have no say about it.

When modern days women tries to justify degenaration of women's value by camparing bad behaviors of men, i ask them why did they think that women are seen as moral keys of the society.
The truth is every gender as a specific societal assignment and women is the moral pillar of the family while men are the horse power of the society.

Degeneration of value is having sex? Women have never called men having sex bad value. It is you men making a big deal about what we do with our vaginas- yet some of you will die to enter a wet one. What exactly is una problem?!!!

pocohantas:


Degeneration of value is having sex? Women have never called men having sex bad value. It is you men making a big deal about what we do with our vaginas- yet some of you will die to enter a wet one. What exactly is una problem?!!!

pocohantas:


No sane mature human would be happy when an EX talks about their sex life to the current. None at all!

Stop typing nonsense on NL.

Pocobabe, the guy is very correct! For guys it's actually a thing of pride to be praised for your sexual prowess be it to whomever.

However, the same cannot apply to ladies. This is where the ex- was wrong.

Heffalump:


Pocobabe, the guy is very correct for guys. Infact, it's a pride to be praised for your sexual prowess be it to whomever.

However, the same cannot apply to ladies. This is where the ex- was wrong.

Is it pride to be praised on your engagement by an EX in the presence of your wife-to-be? You mean my man’s EX will come on our engagement to start talking how he is good in bed and he will be proud? Why then do you guys not invite you EXes for your wedding? You should allow them come “praise” you na.

pocohantas:


Degeneration of value is having sex? Women have never called men having sex bad value. It is you men making a big deal about what we do with our vaginas- yet some of you will die to enter a wet one. What exactly is una problem?!!!

Not sounding sexist but nature and history has proved times without number that a woman's value is in her ***** while a Man's value is in the works of his hands.

It doesn't change till the end of d world. I used to think the whites were all about sexual liberation and don't bother about the woman's past alas, I was wrong.

I'm not for sexual recklessness by both parties but d consequences are higher for d female.

pocohantas:


Is it a pride to be praised on your engagement by an EX in the presence of your wife-to-be? You mean my man’s EX will come on our engagement to start talking how he is good in bed and he will be proud? Why then do you guys not invite you EXes for your wedding? You should allow them come “praise” you na.

Who told you it doesn't happen?

Wicked heart ,what’s your gain of doing dis .. bad belle ,

DaddyRochie1642:




You're trying to sound Educated abi??

If you had any respect for the woman that gave birth to you, you wouldn't have found that funny.
Don't lose your sense of being objective.

CsRockefeller:


Not sounding sexist but nature and history has proved times without number that a woman's value is in her ***** a Man's value is in the works of his hands. It doesn't change till the end of d world. I used to think the whites were all about sexual liberation and don't bother about the woman's past alas, I was wrong.

Sure it changes. It changes the minute you people enter plane and land in America. Some of your brothers will even marry foreign graves. It is only with your fellow black women you all these things. People bother about past, I also bother. What I don’t get is all the hypocrisy/double standard on sexual issues by Nigerian men. When they are perpetually hôrny and looking for who to fck.

pocohantas:


Oh pls, the hypocrisy of the black man is nauseating. You go abroad, fck white women and say they are real and sexually interesting. You come back and fck black women, you start boring us with talk of sexual decency.

White supremacy my dear ...white supremacy

internationalman:
Guys would be happy if an ex girlfriend praises his sexual prowess... But girls are usually ashamed about it..


Why are theses vagina people's lives so complicated.

another stupid comment from a penis person on nairaland.

internationalman:
Guys would be happy if an ex girlfriend praises his sexual prowess... But girls are usually ashamed about it..

One of the differences between women and men.

okwadatigbogal:
The funny thing is that they might not even have dated. This might be funny because it is not you! There are many evil people in this world. Just pray that evil people don't and defame you.

I used to believe in this saying 'In every rumour, there's an atom of truth'. But believe m life has taught me that this is false!
I hope the idiot is sued even if he was truly her ex!

Sued for?

@ Other parts of your post, true.

There are wicked people in this world who want to ruin and sabotage good things.

My people say 'If your yam is very white (sign of yam), you eat it in private'.

Toks2008:


When they tell ladies to maintain proper sexual decorum they fire back and very quick to put themselves on the same level with a guy saying decency is vital for men too but when it comes to exposure such as this they get offended....what if a lady write same about a guy, I guess it will end in praises so why the foolish comparison of a man and woman sexual decency?


I am not defending the foolish guy but this is a pointer to the fact that sexual decency is very sacrosanct for ladies.

wait o, I am interested in this sexual decency, which styles are decent for a lady ,make I take notes .


All this penis wielding people on this forum will not seize to amaze me with their misogyny.

1StopRudeness:


Wait.....what’s wrong with being on top a pen!s.?
While the ex may be petty, he ddnt say anything horrible about her.... unless she lied about being a virgin to a new man...

I honestly don't understand the trend of this thread.

I am not even looking at it from decency/indecency; afterall, the said guy could be the ladies first lover.

The ex is petty or too loose mouthed; yes. What bad thing did he say? That she is good in cowgirl style? Is that not a compliment if private?

The thread just highlights the difference between men and women irrespective of wokeness.

If a lady commented that 'the wife to be is lucky because her guy is good in MouthAction or something sexual', it would not be seen as a 'threat' to the new marriage.

Ladycewhy:
wait o, I am interested in this sexual decency, which styles are decent for a lady ,make I take notes . All this penis wielding people on this forum will not seize to amaze me with their misogyny.

I really want to know his definition of “sexual decency”.

pocohantas:


I really want to know his definition of “sexual decency”.

Mr Toks2008 ,we dey wait for your definition of sexual decency o.make we know the styles wey we go dey do with our penis people dem.

sexdoll:
what a bad guy!

he has purposely ruined that marriage already.

except if the current husband na the type wey no send.

but knowing what many men are like...

I know that he will definitely send one day...

na dat day kasala go burst.

it's just a matter of time!!!

How is the ex trying to ruin the marriage?

By saying the woman is good in 'cowgirl' and wishing it was him marrying her?

bukatyne:


The thread just highlights the difference between men and women irrespective of wokeness.

If a lady commented that 'the wife to be is lucky because her guy is good in MouthAction or something sexual', it would not be seen as a 'threat' to the new marriage.

Very true. The whole Chioma/Davido and Sophia situation comes to mind or Tuface and his triangle.

Egoat:
Sorry but virgin or nothing for me.

I don't understand


You can't get married to a non-virgin

Bennysam:
Some boys have empty brain I swear

Statistics has it that more women have empty brains than men.

What about the side chick that wrote rip on his man's family photo... You no see that one talk abi??
PUSSYBenny

that comment could destroy the marriage in the future if the guy is not a forgiving type

Geminita:


I don't understand


You can't get married to a non-virgin

I can't.
I can't tolerate the thought of imagining what she may have done in the past.

UDUJ:
This just shows the EX is childish. You can above be 30 years old and still act and think like a kid while there are kids and teens below 20 years of age that think and act like adults.

Extremely childish act and very wrong timing.

Are you saying there can be a right timing?