NewStats: 3,264,573 , 8,184,140 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 03:30 PM 402v4d

Why give/ borrow her 50K when she hadn't returned the previous 100K?

Pls let go...in ur next relationship,use ur head n nt ur heart.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things
I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends are her's at a lounge(paid all the bills).

so the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised too produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.
this new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the .....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.
On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).
so I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

my friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
they are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly ...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Pls let go...next tym,dnt waste ur money lykk dat.

blissgregory:
Pls let go...in ur next relationship,use ur head n nt ur heart.

Do you no what you are saying is i should not help d lady in my next relationship...let now assume you d person I dated next ....but during the relationship you needed my help financially but I never helped ...how will you feel??
Because using my head like you meant is never helping !!!

dirtycoin:



Lol.

He is in love with her, hence he only thinks with his heart and not his mind.

Don't insult his heart, please! He does not think at all!

Abeg, op. She definitely needs another 500k. She will pay it all back yesterday.

Godoverevery:

Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

Is it safe to say your fiancée is a fraudster? Scamming u upandan?

It's obvious she ain't resourceful

Godoverevery:

wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

At least you have a sense of humour, and way too much money.

Pm me please. She told me to collect the 500k for her. Her whatsapp is refusing your calls.

@OP your mumu is legendary..

And if you check well now, na one street guy dey collect the money still dey yarnsh the babe.

Sha be careful so they don't gang up to attack or even kill you.

Godoverevery:

Mumu botton you say.....bro I be confirm street I was born and brought up in mushin Lagos....I finished from lautech....so I no be Mumu Wen it comes to ladies.
I have dated alot of ladies dat if you ask me start counting I won't even some.
But a man get to a stage in life were you have to move Into dat level of having a family and building a home.....my intention is to marry her early next year.....so I knew wat I was doing not like I was fooled....maybe that why am not angry.

as usual, they will always put out their resume as a street guy

you call yourself a street guy and a woman deceive you and you are laughing there, funny enough, you still want to put the woman in your house as wife, you will be poor soon, so you are proud as a man that you have a irresponsible girl as a future wife, you are indeed a street sissy who love been manipulated all in the name of love, you cant even set her straight and you call yourself a man, continuing laughing there until you laugh into brokeness and poverty.

This is actually funny! You don't do business with people you're frorking man!

Rosay15:
Op, forget about the money and move on. She has already show you that she’s not the type of girl you can settle down with and moreover the lady is is not serious.
I hope you’ve learned a lesson and in your next relationship you will try open your eye, mind and brain. Peace

Good advice rozay.
You sounded like a wife material

blissgregory:
Pls let go...in ur next relationship,use ur head n nt ur heart.

So far I like the females comments, none have bashed the Op by calling him stingy or immature or saying,is it because of just 100k that was what I thought I will read from the females really

Greatzeus:

Good advice rozay.
You sounded like a wife material

... lol, thanks.

hatbricker:
Think I clearly, I advised you not to do any birthday for her but you still proceeded with it. I'm saving my advice this time

Guess he took majorly the advice from the females on nairaland no guy-man go advise you do Wetin you do so.

Hope those who adviced you such are here to help you get the money. How can you take advise from a woman over issues that involves a man and a woman that's a death trap bro.

Now you know she can’t be trusted with money, do you intend to continue with the relationship? It seems you are so in love with her that you are blind to her faults. You will probably be back here in a few months.

Godoverevery:

Do you no what you are saying is i should not help d lady in my next relationship...let now assume you d person I dated next ....but during the relationship you needed my help financially but I never helped ...how will you feel??
Because using my head like you meant is never helping !!!

bro can I chat u up on WhatsApp it’s important,this is my number tho

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Godoverevery:

Mumu botton you say.....bro I be confirm street I was born and brought up in mushin Lagos....I finished from lautech....so I no be Mumu Wen it comes to ladies.
I have dated alot of ladies dat if you ask me start counting I won't even some.
But a man get to a stage in life were you have to move Into dat level of having a family and building a home.....my intention is to marry her early next year.....so I knew wat I was doing not like I was fooled....maybe that why am not angry.

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You have all these sense yet, you can't take decision as a man, you come to online forum to seek opinion and validation of people and you create a thread to wail about being duped (allegedly) by your girl.

Please forget about the money and the relationship, find another babe

Godoverevery
I never see mumu like u before. big for nothing without sense. I expected this thread to come up soon. I told u last month but ur big fish brain head made u do worst. Idiot...can u send me card 1k?

You dont have a fiancée yet . If you marry a lady who blocked you over trivial issues . You will suffer

Godoverevery:

oooo is my fault for sincerely helping........why did I give wat I can't let go??.....I didn't even see were you condemn her actions..... well am not surprised dat why most of you end up having broken marriage and becoming single mothers becos you never condemn each other bad behaviours.

can u imagine, abeg am not the cause of ya misfortune, wen d luv d shake u, u did not call us oh, now u want pity party, my dear u deserve more of wat u got, b glad she's a Nyc gal for letting u go.

budaatum:

Don't insult his heart, please! He does not think at all!

Abeg, op. She definitely needs another 500k. She will pay it all back yesterday.

Lol

cy4eve:
Mr know all

Aunty, was it wrong to have drawn his attention to the wrong spelling?

Eldavis:




Nairaland english teacher weldone

You do need to improve on your writing skills.

TonyeBarcanista:
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You have all these sense yet, you can't take decision as a man, you come to online forum to seek opinion and validation of people and you create a thread to wail about being duped (allegedly) by your girl.

Lol.

Next tym but dnt give all

Godoverevery:

Do you no what you are saying is i should not help d lady in my next relationship...let now assume you d person I dated next ....but during the relationship you needed my help financially but I never helped ...how will you feel??
Because using my head like you meant is never helping !!!

cy4eve:
can u imagine, abeg am not the cause of ya misfortune, wen d luv d shake u, u did not call us oh, now u want pity party, my dear u deserve more of wat u got, b glad she's a Nyc gal for letting u go.

one of them farm tool spotted

A f0ol and his money are soon parted. Your foolishness is irremediable.

Godoverevery:

wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

so if you are laffing like you said why are you disturbing us? So you gave your girl money 150k and you want to arrest her for 150k...lol the girl should even block your shadow...lol. Why give her another 50k when she is yet to pay the 1st 100

Samyj247:
Godoverevery
I never see mumu like u before. big for nothing without sense. I expected this thread to come up soon. I told u last month but ur big fish brain head made u do worst. Idiot...can u send me card 1k?

Don't mind the op. I so much despise f0ols. He foolishness is dangerous to even himself.

Godoverevery:

wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

are you a Yoruba?

cy4eve:
can u imagine, abeg am not the cause of ya misfortune, wen d luv d shake u, u did not call us oh, now u want pity party, my dear u deserve more of wat u got, b glad she's a Nyc gal for letting u go.

well not everyone comes with working brain..... you call it misfortune....I guess you don't no the meaning of that word.....the wise talk when they have something to say.....fools talk to say something.