NewStats: 3,264,551 , 8,184,072 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 01:34 PM 3oo26

Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my s as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the .....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Think I clearly, I advised you not to do any birthday for her but you still proceeded with it. I'm saving my advice this time

Does she do crack?

hatbricker:
Think I clearly, I advised you not to do any birthday for her but you still proceeded with it. I'm saving my advice this time

Lol.

He is in love with her, hence he only thinks with his heart and not his mind.

hatbricker:
Think I clearly, I advised you not to do any birthday for her but you still proceeded with it. I'm saving my advice this time

wish I listened bro.....but d most funniest thing is am not angry as am supposed to be...... like have just been laffing has my guys dey para here.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........I posted a thread in may about my fiance I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things
I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends are her's at a lounge(paid all the bills).

so the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised too produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.
this new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the .....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.
On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).
so I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

my friends here want us to go over there to cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
they are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly ...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

It seems you clearly don't have any idea on what to use money for.

Guy who did this to you? How sweet is that pussy that makes us say yes all the time with out resistance

Well...she bleeped up big time. ...I guess she wasn't sincere all this while...I will suggest you pay her a suprise visit alone to demand for your money or give her a dead line b4 you take any other actions. ..shey you know her papa hux...
But wait oo...you still call her your fiancee

she's using voodoo on you my friend , trust me she have another guy who she's giving out the money

You are an irredeemable fool

Deepfeel:
Guy who did this to you? How sweet is that pussy that makes us say yes all the time with out resistance

Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

The most stupid boyfriend award goes to....


You celebrated her birthday with your friends and hers. Bought cake, wrist watch and took care of all the bills. All these should be up to 20/30k and the said lady is owing you 100k. You later gave her 50k and you're demanding for you money now. All I see is a stupid lover

Dem dey borrow woman money
Brother weh never still wise
The moment you ask me for loan,nne k leg don dey enter the relationship oo

the lady has discovered your mumu button and has activated it.if you call the police and she is arrested,i bet my balls you will still bail her out

nwanneni:
Dem dey borrow woman money
Brother weh never still wise
The moment you ask me for loan,nne k leg don dey enter the relationship oo

ds not a loan bro..... maybe you sud read my previous post so you can understand the genesis of the whole thing.

Godoverevery:

ds not a loan bro..... maybe you sud read my previous post so you can understand the genesis of the whole thing.

If na grant then why complain or ask for a refund?

dirtycoin:



The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

Mr know all

Cosmihoenix:

the lady has discovered your mumu button and has activated it.if you call the police and she is arrested,i bet my balls you will still bail her out

Mumu botton you say.....bro I be confirm street I was born and brought up in mushin Lagos....I finished from lautech....so I no be Mumu Wen it comes to ladies.
I have dated alot of ladies dat if you ask me start counting I won't even some.
But a man get to a stage in life were you have to move Into dat level of having a family and building a home.....my intention is to marry her early next year.....so I knew wat I was doing not like I was fooled....maybe that why am not angry.

Godoverevery:

Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

Hmm guy you try sha but next time when u are looking for a wife go for the ones with potentials, the one that will help u build the one that will not only receive but give also above all a sincere and honest one, look within not just the physical beautiful innocent appearance o, am sad that it took u too long to realize this particular girl is not just the one she's fake

nwanneni:
If na grant then why complain or ask for a refund?

she has to keep the capital into that for reinvestment...... so wat happened the first time won't happen again.

forget abt d money take it as her pay off

Godoverevery:

Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

why give wat you can't let go......since she's not d sincere type, just 4get about d money, relationship nd move on with ur life. Let go abeg

dirtycoin:



The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

Nairaland english teacher weldone

cy4eve:
why give wat you can't let go......since she's not d sincere type, just 4get about d money, relationship nd move on with ur life. Let go abeg

oooo is my fault for sincerely helping........why did I give wat I can't let go??.....I didn't even see were you condemn her actions..... well am not surprised dat why most of you end up having broken marriage and becoming single mothers becos you never condemn each other bad behaviours.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things
I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends are her's at a lounge(paid all the bills).

so the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised too produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.
this new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the .....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.
On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).
so I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

my friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
they are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly ...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Move on man. It's not worth the stress. It's getting to the stage now where everyone should start dating people within their social and economic bracket. We need to start staying away from leeches.

Godoverevery:

You need to start readin the Gospels of UBUNJA, bro! ASAP

Op, forget about the money and move on. She has already show you that she’s not the type of girl you can settle down with and moreover the lady is is not serious.
I hope you’ve learned a lesson and in your next relationship you will try open your eye, mind and brain. Peace

Hmm

that money is gone.
it's obvious she's a wasteful person and she don't have u in her future plans.
u should be grateful to God that u realised dz on time.
plz, just allow da sleeping dog to continue it's sleep & move on with ur life