NewStats: 3,265,221 , 8,186,052 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 10:33 PM 2b4x5p

IamAtribalist:


1st bolded: so you want FREE money before? NOTHING is free. Grow up and make something of your life - you lazy brat.
2nd bolded: sharp guys pay prostitutes after the deed is done NOT before - stop saying nonsense, you prostitute!
3rd bolded: you have a sick and demented mind. And you should go back to school your spelling is horrible.
4th bolded: this is coming from a beyatch who depends on men for her feeding, clothing and shelter. Shut your mouth.
5th bolded: again your mouth and mind are dirty and disgusting. Go for prayers. ASAP.
6th bolded: YOU WISH. I really don't know you that well but I am willing to wager that my daily accruement from anyone of my portfolios can feed you and your family for a month.
7th bolded: those of you who don't understand women speak this is what this beyatch means: "I am happy that there are many slaves (men) out there who are not sharp like you - you are really spoiling our market."

Now shut up. And let the men (who work and pay bills) do the talking.

why wud I be looking for free money from a broke ass like u? Don't I know what to do if I need money? If u like don't help urself out of ur sorry situation, stay here on nairaland and be yarning dust.

i dnt blive in chasing red made guys arnd.sumone wu didnt hv job is even beta dan sum wu hv.i wil jst stay wit him nd struggle tgeda nd he can appreciate dat i stayed wit him wen he didnt even xpect i wil.

Some ladies never find husband b4....when you don clock 35 still waiting for a well made man,your eye go clear.

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

That's why we have so many babamamas in the country today, you think a guy you sent away because of his financial conditions will come back for you when he is okay(only a dumbass would do that), hell no. He'll only come back to have sex with you for the fun of it. Guys don't want to marry ladies that are driven by money, they tend to marry girls that don't give a damn about money. Moreso, it's your class that will determine the kind of guys that come after you(an average guy with a salary of #65,000 can't go and ask Linda Ikeji out, it 'll only take a guy of her class or near her class to ask her out which begs the question of how high is your class). My dear, I'd only advice you not to take money as a pre-requisite in a relationship cos if you depend too much on a guy in a relationship he'll only take you for a lazy b**** and will not give you the respect you deserve so if you really want money EARN IT YOURSELF (take Linda Ikeji as an example, imagine the kind of guys that 'll be asking her out).

BTW, NO HARD FEELINGS

darkskingoddess:
A jobless man is a red flag, but it wouldn't stop me from dating him in the right circumstances. I am entrepreneur-minded and would prefer to help him out.

If the reason for not having the job is due to LAZINESS-- that is another story.

But there are plenty of millionaires who started from the bottom, and the women who once rejected them are left missing out! I am not shallow nor am I absorbed with a man's wealth. Who cares?

Missing out on what exactly. Money?? My God! We have gone full circle.
People break up with good men all the time for their own personal reasons.
This mentality that you are missing out is wrong. You are indirectly telling women to stick it out with their partner because "He might get rich" instead of love.

90% guys don't like 2 face reality,Dats y dey complain about the girls,even in marriage courses they tell the man to make sure he has a job b4 marriage,....u can Neva enjoy a relationship of a broke guy,I notice they re not all that happy and they complain alot.if u Ve issues with them they feel its because they re broke.(insecure).

raayah:


What is wrong with those guys at least they're working.
Nothing's sexier than a strong man who lifts lol.

mke I hear.......,a ur type go run liv dia husbnd or bf wen d going gets tough,I hate d way u tink cos is so annoyin,job or no job guys go still dey fuckkkkkkk dia gf nd stil get more too.gne ar dos days wea gf dey hard nt nw.evn without job our dick go cntinue dey enter TOTO

I dnt blame u. All u need is an attentiön and am gona give it 2 u. Are u not the same lady i saw last weekend in my neighbours 1room self screaming my mummy. Awon omo osi, omo iranu, omo pa u bi ibon. No wonder they dciv many of u and av ur breast and vagina cut off. Lalasticlala. Omo ale

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

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abdullkabar:
Seriously!!!.......is diz a topic??
Did you know obama was once jobless!!,even the op was once jobless and probably is still jobless(yeye topic)
So if your husband loss his job you will divorce him??
We should think deep before creating topic(this one lacks thinking).....if u no like am na im u go talk(not sayn he should get a job)u be gold(abeg pack well jare)
Funny as it may sound(the op might be from a poor background(she is now forming Behind(posh)....abegi

And why do u think divorce rate is climbing an all time high in Nigeria today? Cause ladies only pay lip service to gender equality when it comes to entitlement.But when it comes to responsibilities they shift it.

You lose ur job as a dude, 9ja girl will either cheap or divorce u.

Sounds like a ho's anthem

PunkyVeer:
TLC explained it better & I think they spoke on behalf of all women

A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fine
He's also known as a buster
Always thinking about what he wants
But all he does is sit on his broke @ss

NO, I don't want your number
And NO, I don't wanna give you mine
NO, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
And NO, I don't want none of your time

NO, I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a kinda guy who gets no love from me
Always hanging on the enger side of his best friend's ride
Tryna holla at me

You don't have a car but you want me
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
You live at home with your mama
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
Wanna be with me with no money
Oh no, I don't want no scrub

I can see one of the reasons many young Nigerian boys are drug peddlers, scam, criminals, etc around the world because they want to make the money to impress somebody like the OP.

You are going to end up in jail if that's what you want. You are all criminals!

zeestunner:
I think you look broke that's why you attract broke guys like you because if you are rich you appearance like ur kinda hair,cloths and car will scare broke guys they will know they can't afford you. Soo sistah upgrade urself and big boys go de see u. Fresh guys like me and many guys here aint got time for broke bitches too I no wan take up ur papa role. U gotta b rich or ur papa rich I have a big future ahead so I will need every dime I have to plan and package I no need disttraction like gimme money for hair or am hungry that u broke girls always bring. So madam park well

God bless you sire.

swaggerdgrt:
mke I hear.......,a ur type go run liv dia husbnd or bf wen d going gets tough,I hate d way u tink cos is so annoyin,job or no job guys go still dey fuckkkkkkk dia gf nd stil get more too.gne ar dos days wea gf dey hard nt nw.evn without job our dick go cntinue dey enter TOTO

Exactly, those jobless guys that are fucking for free, is it invisible pusssy? Some Women will bang whomever they want to while some women will consider financial status before banging. I see nothing wrong with both choices.

My quote that you mentioned, I said I would happily bang a labourer who pushes wheel-barrow. Do I seem like the shallow type to you?
Please next time before you mention me, make sure you have a grammatically correct and reasonable reply. I hate responding to ignorant posts like yours.

olowookerekemi:
i dnt blive in chasing red made guys arnd.sumone wu didnt hv job is even beta dan sum wu hv.i wil jst stay wit him nd struggle tgeda nd he can appreciate dat i stayed wit him wen he didnt even xpect i wil.

my sista God will bless u for dis comment,infact u will get d husbd of ur drmss, nt dat stupid girl dat is tlkin rubbish

dharay99:

heyo shor†y,

Yhu wise, yhu hones†, yhu loyal, yhu pre††y.
Take ds $3000, qo buy mommah some clo†hes,
Take ds $35000, qo build urself a mansion cuz ur wiser dan
dah† 0ne_Ny†_S†and 0p i †el yhu.!

And she's very beautiful to start with

Spectre7:


And why do u think divorce rate is climbing an all time high in Nigeria today? Cause ladies only pay lip service to gender equality when it comes to entitlement.But when it comes to responsibilities they shift it.

You lose ur job as a dude, 9ja girl will either cheap or divorce u.

After they will be the one shouting there is no true love

johnnycrew:
I have a good job dear

Would you marry a woman with a Job or an unemployed woman.

raayah:


Missing out on what exactly. Money?? My God! We have gone full circle.
People break up with good men all the time for their own personal reasons.
This mentality that you are missing out is wrong. You are indirectly telling women to stick it out with their partner because "He might get rich" instead of love.

No, I am certainly not saying that. Lol I'm aware that there are legitimate reasons to end it with a man other than financial status.

To clarify, that particular comment was directed towards MATERIALISTIC women only; they are the ones "missing out" on the money that they shouldn't have been concerned about to begin with.

darkskingoddess:



No, I am certainly not saying that. Lol I'm aware that there are legitimate reasons to end it with a man other than financial status.

To clarify, that particular comment was directed towards MATERIALISTIC women only; they are the ones "missing out" on the money that they shouldn't have been concerned about to begin with.

Gotcha!!

Michellla:

why not quit NL then and stop whining.

You look beautiful and very refined. Unlike those ugly imps with self esteem lower than their fallen br.east.

dhummystecah:

see this one! I have potentials and still gaining more. An aspiring biotechnologist, a writer, A+ in house chores, humble, kind and so on.

u attends Eksu right ?

raayah:


Exactly, those jobless guys that are fucking for free, is it invisible pusssy? Women will bang whomever they want to while someone will consider financial status. I see nothing wrong with both choices.

The quote that you quoted, I said I would happily bang a labourer who pushes wheel-barrow. Do I seem like the shallow type to you?
Please next time before you mention me, make sure you have a grammatically correct and reasonable reply. I hate responding to ignorant posts like yours.

clapp for urslf

I'm sorry i will sound like the odd one here but why would a jobless guy make pursuing a babe a priority?

i think things should be done step-wisely - whilst you are jobless, make yourself better, get a job, be comfortable, then a babe can enter the equation.

Some of you just put yourselves in the firing line of these ruthless girls of nowadays.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
why wud I be looking for free money from a broke ass like u? Don't I know what to do if I need money? If u like don't help urself out of ur sorry situation, stay here on nairaland and be yarning dust.

Yes. I know what you will do whenever you need money. You will seek some foolish slave who thinks you are cute. If he is NOT sharp you will collect money and not fvck him. If he is sharp and you really need the money you will open that your k-leg and get fvcked. You are leech. A lazy bloody brat. Quote me anywhere.

No guy is enjoying his jobless condition. All he needed from u is just time and to fix somethings up. I'm not talking about the lazy minded dudes who wanna suck ladies dry. To earn a man's heart, u jus have to show him u really deserve it, by caring even at this challenging moment of his life by encouraging him on his career pursuit, not abandoning him when the going gets tough. When things turn around for good, he'll never forget about the and time u spent with him. But on the contrary, if u decide to wait on the other side till he hits a jackpot, u might likely be dumped along the way for a better or more attractive lady when his taste of woman must've changed. I know ladies wouldn't love to hear this until they jump into marriage perhaps would live to tell the bitter story.

QueenHeart:
EveryGirl must be chased. Dat shows you are a woman. He wasn't d one dat made himslf jobless. Na condition so dnt blame him

Sweet heart I subscribe to your post. One day I'll tell you my story

czarr:
Like when I make it, broke girls go dey my radar?
Mtcheeew
But I don't like how guys react to this topics,instead of being mad at dem hos ,I take is as some sort of motivation, I hustle my best to be rich not for them hos but for myself and family!!!
And my momma


Fucckk dem hos!

Succinct!

G

PunkyVeer:
TLC explained it better & I think they spoke on behalf of all women

A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fine
He's also known as a buster
Always thinking about what he wants
But all he does is sit on his broke @ss

NO, I don't want your number
And NO, I don't wanna give you mine
NO, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
And NO, I don't want none of your time

NO, I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a kinda guy who gets no love from me
Always hanging on the enger side of his best friend's ride
Tryna holla at me

You don't have a car but you want me
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
You live at home with your mama
Oh yes, son, I'm talking to you
Wanna be with me with no money
Oh no, I don't want no scrub

Ooooh, Ooooh
A pigeon is a girl be walking by
Wearing dark blue brand new sparkling five
Her feet hurt so you know she wants a ride
Cause she's frontin' like she can't say hi
What?

(Uh, oh) Your chicks ain't getting nada
(Uh, oh) A pigeon ain't worth the Ramada
(Uh, oh) Anyway your friend looks hotter
(Uh, oh) A game is something we got a lot of

I don't want no pigeons
Them be the girls who get no dubs from me
Playing the bar dumb broke with her best friend's coat
Trying to holler at me

It's these same jobless guys you girls will ultimately turn to by design or default when all is said and turn.Never write off a nigger! And, never prematurely announce the demise of a bro!

StephanieEzeh:
What's your take? Some jobless guys can be so annoying! Instead of concerning themselves with their life and financial condition, they end up chasing women anyhow as if it's a paid job! . Sending rubbish romantic texts and initiating boring conversations on phone. Go get a job first and come for the girl later. She would appreciate you better.

only God knows who brings your topic to front page