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I Thinking i am turning into a gay nowadays i dont get attracted to women anymore. i often view girls that calls me a lot as having somekind of sinister motive behind the interest she is showing to me and if we are together i often think of just having sex with her .i guess i view women as sexual objects nowadays .i am not sure if its normal

If you still see women as sexual objects, then you are not gay.

There is really nothing to be afraid of. Besides, they are a lot smaller than you (or should be) so its not like they are going to overpower you or anything.

you're not gay or going to be gay and dawg, tell us why you're afraid of girls, they ain't going to bit u or are they? diz gay/lesbian issue is now becoming a choice 4 many who r having sum relationship problem

lol dont be scare of us we are cooooooool

blasterman:

I often view girls that calls me a lot as having somekind of sinister motive behind the interest she is showing to me . . .

Exactly the reason I don't hang out with them. Every smile, pout or toss of the head I assume to mean 'something else.' I must be nuts.

You're not nuts. You are young and your hormones are out of control. You need sweet, sweet release!

@ Seun

tsk, tsk, tsk (shakes my head)

Seun. . .did you get your 'release' when you were my age?

Seriously, I've had girls flirt outrageously with me and I'm like, may I not fall into temptation.

Ohh u poor poor thing.

U look at women as sexual objects yet u think u are gay. haa u amuse me.

U r fine but not normal. women arent' sexual objects. U need to work on ur self.

Hello guys,
I actually thot girls were sexuall objects aren't they,then what were they put here for, or what other purpose do they serve, please enlighten me, cos i believe they serve one purpose and one purpose only and thats to be matrasses for us guys, my guy theres nothing special about them if u get to know them better you find out that it is a fact that they have fish size brains, and all they really posses is what they don't fail to hide and thats their ass, boobs and their hour glass shaped bodies, they are marketing their greatest and only assets, (NB:some do actually think)

or what do u think?

its not that you must be nuts , i think you are actually nuts

really i have nevr heard this before its really funny

continue viewing Us as sexual objects U lil kid!

Seun:

You're not nuts. You are young and your hormones are out of control. You need sweet, sweet release!

lol

Zahymaka:

Exactly the reason I don't hang out with them. Every smile, pout or toss of the head I assume to mean 'something else.' I must be nuts.

U sure are nuts Zah

@ nosakhare
don't you ever learn? at another topic you said something this silly too.
what is it with you viewing gals as matresses? Don't u have a bed at home or what?

check out his comment at https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/nigeria/topic-12810.0.html

hhhmmm,
maybe nosakhare just got dumped!!!

Well, getting dumped is no excuse to be that insultive. Anyways, hope he does'nt let true love him by.

Nosakhare, your mamma would LOVE to see what you just posted. Mattr[b]a[/b]s, my ass!

What he is trying to say is that most (nigerian) girls have nothing to offer apart from their sexuality.

oga lecturer thank you for explaining. but since when are u his mouth piece? abi na ur own views u dey express?
girls are girls nigerian or otherwise so wats ur point, dat the nigerian one's are ? pls let us know.

and why won't nosakhare think of women as matresses, it's absolutely normal for someone whose circumsition has not finished healing, so no sweat.

zahymaka pls be gay. at least dat gets one off our sleeves. we need men not boys.

You think you are turning into a gay? Whose problem is it? If you derive pleasure in doing a fellow guy's ass or vice versa, that your f**king prob. you think you are turning gay? what stage are you in now? when did you discover yourself? I DETEST GAYS! Better see a psychiatrist ASAP.

zarah:

oga lecturer thank you for explaining. but since when are u his mouth piece? abi na your own views u dey express?
girls are girls nigerian or otherwise so wats your point, that the nigerian one's are ? please let us know.

and why won't nosakhare think of women as matresses, it's absolutely normal for someone whose circumsition has not finished healing, so no sweat.

zahymaka please be gay. at least that gets one off our sleeves. we need men not boys.

Seun:

What he is trying to say is that most (nigerian) girls have nothing to offer apart from their sexuality.

May be the Jamaican girls have more to offer (sex, weed, sex, weed, more sex, more weed, sex on the tree, more weed on the tree,

If he/they say Naija girls don't have enough to offer, then we should ask him/them which kind of girls has/have he/they been interacting with. May be the girls by the benin border

lol

Seun, i you, most Nigerian girls have nothing to offer to a guy, all they want is suck the guy in question cash and leave, In my case, any girl i attempt to make friend with always come back some day asking for help, if it is a boy he will try and hussel for him self, but the reverse is always be if it is a girl, that is why i am keeping my self away from them. most time i ask my self this question " can't i have a female that will not ask after money just like having a male friend who depend/try to hussel for him self"

To me and most girls i have come across they have nothing to offer apart from their sexuality and some kind of funny play that will not put food on the table

I some time used to memorise this funny motto
Sex nor b food, it does not give you strength, instead it takes energy from u

because of this my theory, some girls in my area are calling gay, I often over heard them gossiping that i am still a virgin, you see waisting precious time for unsually and unprofitable discussion

Let me rest my comment for now

Thank you, charlisco. For those who don't agree, tell us what your girl has to offer apart from sexuality/romance.

her lips!

Do you use lips to invest? tell me the secret and how so that i can tell those my female friend of mine here, on how to invest using there lips.
Except that girl in question is a commedian, then i will agree with u, or are you referring to advise we get from them, i do not think that work in my situation, i can,t remeber what decade i receive any money or valuable item from a female friend, it has always been from me
To the extent of begging money/recharge card when chatting online with a female in Nigeria, I know not all girls beg, but it is particular common among girls

I wonder what you guys are trying to tell us. What does a Nigerian girl have to offer other than her sexuality? It's like asking yourself, WHAT ELSE CAN ONE USE A CAR FOR BESIDES TRANSPORTATION? Basically a car is for transportation but you could also use it for several other things eg. a music studio, a relaxation point, kissing/smouching/sex point, etc.

My friends, our girls have a lot to offer. That's why you are a man explore the relationship. Excuse o, are you saying it's wrong spending money on a girl? If she't truly yours, you would want to do one or two things that would make you be proud of her. When I see my wife looking so good, I smile and have this feeling of fulfillment. You guys should re-appraise yourselves and really decide on what you want.

Please I don't want no justification for no gayish tendencies. 'if people for your street dey talk say you be gay, dem know wetin dem seee. check yourself.!

zarah:

zahymaka please be gay. at least that gets one off our sleeves. we need men not boys.

I wasn't the one who said I thought I was becoming gay .

lol Zah

Who dares to talk to our Zah like that?

2c and Rhodalyn, I can always count on you