NewStats: 3,265,471 , 8,186,830 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 06:45 AM 5y1p1

odinson1:


Oga the men are the root cause. When you have foolish yahoo boys and rich igbo men splashing money on different girls, why won't girls become entitled and expect everyman to just be giving them money for existing?

Like we had a FINTECH CEO in Ibadan dashing a random girl he saw on Twitter 500K naira. How much is the entry level salary in big banks again? Our men caused this thing, and the women have become so entitled to it.

With the complaints I have read here, I am not alone with the "how are you?" I don't even wish any happy birthday. Sometimes, I am even afraid to click "like" on a birthday picture. No wonder hookup is rife - straight to the point, over and out.

Gerrard59:

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it.

Exactly

Thundafireseun:

2020 when I had my daughter….

I was sending my baby mama 15k every month….
5k for pampers 5k for medicine
5k for Miscellaneous expenses….. don’t forget Nigeria was still very ok
Her father called me that why am I not sending money for feeding to his daughter?
A graduate that was inside his own house…. Under his own roof 😩

You should have married her. Baby mama is more expensive than marriage. I don't know why many don't know this.

ruthieo:



😂😂😂😂😂funny thread

Everyday, money for food and data. As funny as it may sound, anyway 🤣🤣

Ferrous:


Everyday, money for food and data. As funny as it may sound, anyway 🤣🤣

Na economy cause am
As e dey hot😂😂

ruthieo:


Gbam
There is this joy a woman derives when her man gives her money

Yet all men get on social media are consistent attacks on their personality in the name of "men are sc.um" and "men are this and that". One begins to wonder if these women won't have anything to do with men or if they don't/won't have male children. Anyway, in the future, if the constant attacks continue, they will affect how their daughters view their sons.

Chief2410:
better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy, how many random men have you gifted money?

You mean the same women who shout with a response like "I no fit give man money o".

I don't believe it's a man's world, but rather a woman's world. It is why every man should strive to make his money and spend it MAJORLY and FIRST on himself before anyone else.

Why have you not deleted her number yet?

Gerrard59:

You should have married her. Baby mama is more expensive than marriage. I don't know why many don't know this.

The same useless father that was calling me that his daughter is hungry…

Blatantly refused…

The useless father said over his dead body will I marry his daughter….

Thundafireseun:

The same useless father that was calling me that his daughter is hungry…
Blatantly refused…
The useless father said over his dead body will I marry his daughter….

Stop having children with a woman whose family don't like you.

Gerrard59:

Stop having children with a woman whose family don't like you.

I never knew that the girl and her full family are bastards….

Anyway God saved me from my own self …..
2023 I got her pregnant twice and she aborted the pregnancy twice

ruthieo:


For your information
I am not a random girl so I don't even know what you are saying
I have my money ok?
Am not those cheap slots around

Thank you

Try not to be a pick me sis!

You don't have to insult other women in search of male validation. Don't be that girl.

Men, just learn how to say No and stick to it. No one will kill you.
The worst is that she will go.
Hey going will be there best time that will happen to you.
Stop bn scared of losing a killer.
Let her go. Another one better will come.

"God knows how to take care of His own"
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🙆🙆🤸🤸🤸🤸🤸

Gerrard59:

You should have married her. Baby mama is more expensive than marriage. I don't know why many don't know this.

dey play.

Smilleydr:
I don't no why this thing has turn to normal things to our ladies, even when you av good intentions for them

They will just kill all your vibes with these their billin Asif them no dey survive before they meet you.

Bros i just tire 😪 exactly what i am facing...

Ijoba85:
They are losing good guys because of their greed and stupidity

I swear

englishmart:
I met this babe last month. I managed to get her number, and we've been in since then. I was planning to propose to her next month, but won't dare anymore after this clip from our recent conversation

Stop being artificial or trying to impress them with money

If you use money to impress her, you ll need money to sustain her

Gerrard59:

Like we had a FINTECH CEO in Ibadan dashing a random girl he saw on Twitter 500K naira. How much is the entry level salary in big banks again? Our men caused this thing, and the women have become so entitled to it.

With the complaints I have read here, I am not alone with the "how are you?" I don't even wish any happy birthday. Sometimes, I am even afraid to click "like" on a birthday picture. No wonder hookup is rife - straight to the point, over and out.

I stopped wishing women happy birthday for years now. The only women I wish happy birthday are my mother and sisters. Lol

englishmart:
I met this babe last month. I managed to get her number, and we've been in since then. I was planning to propose to her next month, but won't dare anymore after this clip from our recent conversation

You sef no get OT. When they say they're not fine, don't ask why - ignore. Just pray that may God be their strength.

Thundafireseun:



2020 when I had my daughter….

I was sending my baby mama 15k every month….
5k for pampers
5k for medicine
5k for Miscellaneous expenses….. don’t forget Nigeria was still very ok

Her father called me that why am I not sending money for feeding to his daughter?
A graduate that was inside his own house…. Under his own roof 😩

Was this daughter and graduate the baby mama aka the mother of your daughter

bantilosha:
You're a smart guy.

How is he smart? he met a girl last month, and already planning to propose to her, not minding to know her character.

Then proceed to put it online to prove what?
In everything that he could be, Smart is not among

Gerrard59:

You mean the same women who shout with a response like "I no fit give man money o".

I don't believe it's a man's world, but rather a woman's world. It is why every man should strive to make his money and spend it MAJORLY and FIRST on himself before anyone else.

Its a rich man's world

Women dont build anything, they only extract resources.

papyjaypaul:


Was this daughter and graduate the baby mama aka the mother of your daughter

Unfortunately she is a graduate ….

At this point I don’t know what I’m typing anymore…. Nairaland said my comment must be 40 characters before I can send

Thundafireseun:



Unfortunately she is a graduate ….

At this point I don’t know what I’m typing anymore…. Nairaland said my comment must be 40 characters before I can send

I don't also know what to say because of your moniker

On a serious note, I believe a woman any man put his sperm in and she gave him a child has to be taken care of. It's a different topic whether she's a good woman or not but I ask men to think of the doors their keys are opening before they complain about its smell.

muyico:
Dating/relationship involve money
Do u knw how much our forefathers spents,b4 gaining our grandma hrt, loving isn't free

You afe quoting your forefathers and foremothers but forgot that foremothers weren't working at the time and even when they got married foremothers ed forefathers to farm in their farms meaning foremothers also helped I'm making money for your forefathers for the sake of your forefathers family. You see why it's good to use your critical thinking skills in a discuss? You are citing your forefathers to men of today but refused to cite your foremothers to women of today.

easytig:
It's because she is still in her twenties,when she enter 35,her brain go reset fast fast

Person wey no get sense for small no go get dor old age meaning someone with disgusting attitude when in her 20s and suddenly behaves nice in her 30s is a ticking time bomb run away from such a character.

ruthieo:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Una dey find woman
Una no wan spend

Nigeria my country🤣🤣
Woman don suffer for this world o
What's there to spend
Women spend on theirselves too

I thought you should have said women spend on men too that should have sounded better. How on earth will an adult brag that she also spend on herself too if you don't do that as an adult who should do it for you? Men? This mentality is the main reason why ladies of the night are littered everywhere in this country.

Since spending on women according to you should not be a problem why are you nor taking your own advice so you can spend on men also? Relationship is not a poverty eradication scheme for women ho get a job and make an impact to your immediate environment and society at large.

pocohantas:


😂😂😂😂😂

It's a serious matter but sounds funny, same set if girls will be complaining he dated me for five years and didn't propose not that he us broke some people no go ever get sense for this life, everything na hookup mentality to them.

Oceanjagaban:

That's a baseless statement,don't you know that people borrow data or is data that expensive in your area?

The dude is right, in most cases people who supposedly claim hunger are the ones in frivolous lifestyle, using phones worth 2 years of their annual salary and you say they are hungry? Which data company gives dara to someone who doesn't load her airtime continuously? You can't take a loan if you don't have the ability to pay back.

Rexymania:
You want to propose to a girl you met in a month? Some ladies like testing their man, to know if he's capable of taking care of them

Testing, I'm mot capable she should go. No woman test hee man, if it is testing won't it stop at a particular time? It never stops that's an attitude jot a test.

GoodSpirit:


The dude is right, in most cases people who supposedly claim hunger are the ones in frivolous lifestyle, using phones worth 2 years of their annual salary and you say they are hungry? Which data company gives dara to someone who doesn't load her airtime continuously? You can't take a loan if you don't have the ability to pay back.

How much is the data loan na? Make ona dey talk well

ruthieo:


🤣🤣🤣 don't be a stingy man bro
It's not easy to be a man
Man up
Nothing bad to spend
Men of those days see nothing wrong in spending
Love is an action word
Well I no get strength to dey talk much
Everyone go dey alright las las
You can choose to be with a woman you don't want to spend on
Na choice
Na people like una nogo fit take care of their
wives

One more time don't be stingy bro
It's not that deep
Life no hard like that

This action word na for man abi, you are defining love but don't fall in your own definition why?