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At 30 and you are still a liability as woman, you fulk up

A big mistake is marrying out of desperation. No matter your age, never allow anyone pressurize you to marry or you might make a huge mistake you will live to regret.

Marriage isn't by force o. You marry someone you genuinely love/are attracted to, can tolerate/forgive despite their flaws and are comfortable/compatible with.

Wait patiently for God. Worship Him sincerely, He will lead or bring the right person to you.

Samantha125:
Hello...

I'm glad you returned to Nairaland

Ladies, love yourself. Don't be pressured. If he’s jobless and the firstborn of six, just know you’re g up to be assistant mother and emergency atm. That’s not a relationship, that’s unpaid labor with emotional stress. Don’t let "potential" drag you into generational wahala.

Well, thank you...

Iamzik:


I'm glad you returned to Nairaland

Chai

E don red

True true akụ fechaa ọ daalụ awọ

ednut1:
Is marriage a do or die affair?

Yes boss

We need to keep the world going 😎

Jman06:
That's not true! Pick girls in that age bracket from humble background and you'll enjoy marriage!

This is how some of you make up unfounded claims just to follow the herd mentality of the woke generation! If I must tell the truth, I'll rather marry a girl in that age bracket even if she's from a poor background than marry all these our evening newspaper feminists! Let the girl just come from a good home with great moral values!

Don't worry...you will learn. Won't say more than that. A woman is a woman.

Adanambra1:
This thread is Dedicated to all the Ladies of age 30s above trusting for Marital Settlement in 2025/2026

We have lot of Unlearning and Relearning to do here

How to Position your Self in the right Spaces to be seen by Good fearing, Kind and Eligible Bachelors.
How to work on your Self Esteem , Self worth after a previous Draining Relations. and MORE

This Thread is going to be very inspiring. i will share my Noble , Genuine Experience
and guide you ladies on how to build the character, feel seen, position your self for marital Settlement in 2026.
and i trust the Holyspirit to help me on this Assignment


Notabene... Dearest all men. Kindly do not Spam this Thread.
this will enable to me articulate my points insightfully


As we grow, i will set up a Master Class.
Happy Deliberations
God bless you

Make them no de copy me for this kind thread again. Haba, dear ladies, marriage is not an achievement. You can always succeed in other endeavors and be fulfilled in life regardless.

pocohantas:
Perpetually obsessed.
Marry the U30s first.




But you got one and you said it yourself here that you are detaching because you don't have sexual urge around her. You said you are hoping she gets the message and breaks up with you. So if she is unfortunate to meet another confused redpiller like you, wouldn't she end up single at 45?

You are the one who didn't get the full gist before you concluded. The lady I talked about is an evening newspaper , one at that! She's nice to me but I'm not attracted to her!

Don't worry poco, I go soon marry my sweet 18. I'll rather not marry than marry any lady above 30! Na men wey dey find "ive" wives dey marry evening newspapers. Letter them go come dey cheat up and down!

Meanwhile, how about you sugar daddy?

Saskay44:
Single at 30 waytin una use una 20s do

Chopping different men

Jman06:
You are the one who didn't get the full gist before you concluded. The lady I talked about is an evening newspaper , one at that! She's nice to me but I'm not attracted to her!

Don't worry poco, I go soon marry my sweet 18. I'll rather not marry than marry any lady above 30!

Meanwhile, how about you sugar daddy?

Oh please. Suddenly she is an evening newspaper? Whereas that topic was about morning newspapers. 🤨🤨🤨

You talk about marrying a girl from a poor home and it is only broke men that marry financially stable women. Care to share how much you earn that you think you can manage a wife from a struggling dependent family? Do you know anyone that has done it? Because I do and I know it is not fun. Honestly I think you and your colleagues are obsessed with your opinions that you somehow think it is superior logic. How about you put it into practise? let's see if you won't be here to cry like your senior married colleagues. I really want you to put it into practise.

My sugar daddy is excellent. He is still with me. While you have gone round 3 good women.

No matter what you concort, no matter strategy you adopt. The moment you can not have respect for your husband and be extremely submissive, it will not work , even if you pretend and eventually assume your equality status, it will end in tears 😭😭

Respect him
Adore him
Obey him
Be submissive to him
Be polite to him
Love his people and manage your affairs with them.
Be neat and courteous
Then you're on your way to get married quickly

pocohantas:


Oh please. Suddenly she is an evening newspaper? Whereas that topic was about morning newspapers. 🤨🤨🤨

You talk about marrying a girl from a poor home and it is only broke men that marry financially stable women. Care to share how much you earn that you think you can manage a wife from a struggling dependent family? Do you know anyone that has done it? Because I do and I know it is not fun. Honestly I think you and your colleagues are obsessed with your opinions that you somehow think it is superior logic. How about you put it into practise? let's see if you won't be here to cry like your senior married colleagues. I really want you to put it into practise.

My sugar daddy is excellent. He is still with me. While you have gone round 3 good women.

The topic wasn't specific about any age group.

Don't worry, very soon I go share my wedding invite to my sweet 18. And rest assured I'll be very fine and capable of shouldering her financial needs and those of her family. At least I'll know that I'm providing for the kind of woman I desire. Not evening newspapers like you that would nag someone to death and still expect to be provided for.

Try marry that your sugar daddy o, age is not your side nne

Jman06:
The topic wasn't specific about any age group.

Don't worry, very soon I go share my wedding invite to my sweet 18. And rest assured I'll be very fine and capable of shouldering her financial needs and those of her family. At least I'll know that I'm providing for the kind of woman I desire. Not evening newspapers like you that would nag someone to death and still expect to be provided for.

Try marry that your sugar daddy o, age is not your side nne

Forget about my aging. It is not my sugar daddy ranting online and obsessing over women's age and marital status. That should tell you something, don't you think so?

Veste:

If helinues never marry, we suppose dash am this lady😁. They make a perfect match! 😉

pocohantas:


Forget about my aging. It is not my sugar daddy ranting online and obsessing over women's age and marital status. That should tell you something, don't you think so?

I'm reminding you about your aging because I care

Jman06:
I'm reminding you about your aging because I care

Thanks for your concern.
Hopefully you don't age, lest you get reminded.
🙂🙂🙂

pocohantas:


Thanks for your concern.
Hopefully you don't age, lest you get reminded.
🙂🙂🙂

*I wanna live forever young*

Jman06:
*I wanna live forever young*

I pray it works out for you.

pocohantas:


I pray it works out for you.

Amen!

Poco poco my loooveee!

The Shege dey go round.

Jman06:
Amen!

Poco poco my loooveee!

😈😈😈😈

Where's the link to the thread?
Or I missed something?

Peakdesign23:
No be everybody go marry. The society and family will come with their own pressure but the bottom line is that it's not by force. Marriage comes with so much responsibilities and if money no dey things might become worse.

Anty, no one said everybody should marry! The thread is for ladies that want to marry, if you don't want, fine, go and enjoy your single life Biko!

Mcslize:
Please, teach them good character and how to stay humble and respectful. It's not enough to teach them how to position themselves.

Without good character and respect, that marriage won't last. It will look like it's two men rubbing shoulders on who is the man in the marriage.

Feminísts won't like this thread, cuz they've vowed to stay single for life.

What's making some of the ladies 30 and above still lottering around single today is their shameless bad attitudes and greediness, nothing else.

Speaking from the point of an able body man.

Abeg no mind them. People that are desperately looking for who to marry are not talking about their character, bit are busy talking of how to position themselves and know their self worth.

Getting married early or staying in marriage, which one is better?

Husband still dey market like this?