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This thread gave me panic attack reading thru the comments


My God
So this cheating thing is normal for husbands/men?

God o
I need air

So this is marriage culture?

Why you go loose guard that much? Haven't you true friends? I'm not married but Na my close friends they always take one for the friendship and I do too when it comes to them. Find yourself some good friends that can cover your ass and can absorb the blame next time.

yemmit90:


Your cousin don't love her husband or probably being keeping plan B before the incidence. Women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating except she is tired of the marriage before.

Women in their subconscious minds knows that men are polygamous by nature, the ones that left only use it as an excuse to quit the marriage.

I'm very sure Op had this mindset until his wife mentioned divorce. E go choke all of you. Don't worry there will be enough space of Seu.ns platform to accommodate more than enough threads like Op's.

Someone is showing his wife death warrant you talk dey talk LOVE. Y'all don't get it at all.

Polygamous in nature ko, polytheistic in nature ni

It wasn't me - shaggy

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

You've said the absolute truth!
If many women realize this, the rate of divorce will drop astronomically.

Na b4b4 women dey use strong head dey talk say "if he try nonsense I will divorce him".

Good, divorce am; but what are the alternatives?? Men eyes don dey shuuk now. They've come to realize the bolded and are beginning to ask themselves if the milk is really worth the squeeze.

The 3 major things a woman can bring to the average man's table is (give him ) orgasm (ie sex), womb (ie children) and peace of mind.
And even sef he can obtain/'outsource' all these 3 at a far lower cost without marriage.

pocohantas:
Nothing to be scared of.
Men do not benefit from marriage.
You will be better off single and young virgins will rush you. Tell her the truth. Be a man.

Give your life to Jesus.

Let her go if she wan go. You are not the first to commit adultery and you won't be last.

Meanwhile, change your ways and stay off sin. Give your life to Jesus.

delzbaba:
you go nack olosho, you come enter panick mode, hahahaha, from now on any small fever wey you get, your mind must go HIV side, hahahahaha.

Hahaha ur absolutely correct...... I once suffered this delusional problem....I swear even if u sneaze u will run and check goggles for Hiv symptoms.....


U will become quite and humble for 1 week with different promise to both God and angels till u confirm the test negative

pocohantas:


Some day I will be able to solve this Maths.





Another coignitive dissonance.
When they want to make a woman endure, they claim thr next man would cheat.

Let one IG girl say all men are 🐕🐕🐕 and watch them cry. Yet it it the sterotype they promote all to paint every man like their irresponsible selves.

We will give you Nobel prize if you solve it o. I don't understand why the value something that doesn't benefit them so much


Like I view people who say or type such as mentally unstable lot. I can't fathom the logic behind it.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Just tell her you suspected when you cut your hair at saloon, you add a cut

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Lol you dey fear because you use hand. The potential of hiv to infect you via the cd is higher than you getting it via your finger, this shows how unlikely you were to catch.

Now the did is already done and you Don already lie for asthma head so you can't craft a new lie, all you can do is present a modified one or should I say a watered down version.

It is either you get a hiv scare from the salon you went for hair and you decided to go for prevention, and when she ask why you lied, tell her she is acting exactly you didn't want to tell.

Or tell someone kisses before you recall yourself, maybe an old friend female came around and you guys when out on a friendly note, you took some few drinks and she gave you a wet kiss before you stop her so you get scared and went for prevention.

NwaAmaikpe:




Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.

well said brother

OKOATA:
If HIV virus is so easy to catch virtually every fornicators and adulterous individuals would have had it and also probably ed it to their innocent spouse. HIVAiDs isn't so much of a big disease as people call it. I believe it only target selected numbers of cells. Like people with broken 💔 cells.

Don't worry continue forming woke and enlighten till Satan send his apprentice to ur door step with Hiv letter head percel

Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

Not everybody dey take nonsense if you like acquired the wealth in the world

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Stop sounding like a sissy

Let her go

You will a new wife.

Men are the prize

Make the remaining PEP disappear, maintain your asthma drug stance make she do research without evidence, make sure you forget the name of the drug

Ofokajeremy:
Since you need an advice, just tell her t's a prank so you could see her reaction and at the same time, you ask her to follow you for HIV test. However please don't do that again please. Jesus Christ didn't condemn the Adulterous woman but rather he asked her to go home and sin no more .

wow ...u tried but the wife will think why on earth my husband will suggest us going for Hiv test na......shey u dey reason

I get one friend wey him wife see condom for him purse. She challenged him and he said he collected it from health workers who were distributing it to people on the road and he collected one for his cousin.

His wife now asked him that if it was for his cousin, then what is it doing in his purse and he replied her that won't it be put somewhere before he eventually sees his cousin later

The same guy said that even IF his wife catches him on top of another woman, he will still deny it.

The guy is something else but I also know of a bros whose wife caught him "in the act" sleeping with her sister and his response to his wife was that her sister raped him 'cos as she can see, her sister is sitting on top of him

Some men get mind sha.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Repent and stop cheating.

What about the Soulish disease and spiritual disease you have contracted? You can’t remain the same. Repent and sin no more.

, God knows all secrets even if your wife don’t know.Fornicators and adulterers will be punished by God in the fire of hell.

Blitzking:

Tell her u had an injury at work and needed to protect urself from any retroviral infection and was given the med by ur office clinic. Adjust as necessary

Baba don already tell hin wife say the drug na to treat his Asthma

yemmit90:


That is what I was saying in my previous post, since you've chose to compete with men, just don't come and complain later that men don't want to settle with single mothers or start sleeping with another women's husbands that chose to keep their homes.

We don’t give af if men chose not to settle down. You guys are the ones complaining about women being single. Nobody cares but you guys. You spend morning and evening crying about women being single. @bold, Have you paused to wonder why those women chose to keep their homes yet their husbands still cheat on them? Their reward for staying is more heartbreak. What’s in it for them?

Yes, being a single mother is not the end of the world but leaving your husband because he cheated is not what a natural woman should do. What if the person you marry later cheat too, will you still leave him and go to another man? Besides, no good women who are single mothers happy with their situation.

Natural according to who? The way you guys just come online and make unfounded claims is astonishing to me. Yes if I leave a cheating husband and the man I marry later cheats, I’ll leave him too. It’s not your legs I’ll be using for the leaving. Besides who said leaving is the only option? You think married women’s puccis are sown shut? Two can play. Simple and short. You get what you give.

We should not encourage women to leave their homes (except for domestic violence or abuse) because alot of young women can be influence by what we posted on social medias. The roads to find happiness again is very brutal and not smiling at all to the single mothers, especially the ones with kids.

How about we encourage men to stay faithful? To treat their wives how they want to be treated? Is that asking for too much? Single mothers are happy enough. Married women are not any happier than them. Especially not the ones with disrespectful husbands.

Not only should married women with cheating husbands leave, if they chose to stay, I hope they cheat enough that 3 out of their 4 kids are fathered by outside men.

Go preach that mess to someone who cares.

Obakoolex:

Riches is not only the valuable thing.

I pity your cousin by the way, if she doesn't remarry in 12 months she will regret her decision cos she might become another person sidechick.

A lot of married women don't realise that after some years of marriage and the arrival of a few kids, marriage becomes like a religious burden to men and what men really need after a few years of marriage is wild care free "cheerfully given" sex and IF the wife transfers all her time to her work, business and kids and ventures to add denying him sex to the mix or she grudgingly gives him sex whilst squeezing and frowning her face and asking him to hurry up whilst they are at it, then her husband WILL cheat to calm down the early morning erection that ALL men (including the wife's father) MUST have every day until they die.

Why are you scaring so much, was it because of the cheating or for her not to think that you have HIV?

If you're a man enough you won't be fearing your wife just because you cheats.

I don't prepare the mind of my woman that I can't cheat o, but I'll respect her by not doing it anyhow.

For her to go and look for something in your bag, you've respected her, just persuade and let her confirm that you don't have HIV.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.

YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger..

Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.

YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE

OR HAVE YOU NOT BEEN LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS AS A HUSBAND ALL THIS WHILE??

IF YES... THEN THERE IS MORE TO MEET THE EYE THAN YOU THINK..

Bro just act like you don't care and see her reporting you to people that matters to you to come settle issues for nna.... Come and thank me later

Elxandre:

The sad reality is the next guy will very likely do the same.

well I can't say 4 sure, but they seem happily married, not all women tolerate cheating. It's the women without options that endure all sorts of rubbish all in the name of marriage

efemena5050:
Hahaha ur absolutely correct...... I once suffered this delusional problem....I swear even if u sneaze u will run and check goggles for Hiv symptoms.....


U will become quite and humble for 1 week with different promise to both God and angels till u confirm the test negative

hahaha, body go tell am, plus wife wahala

richie240:
Women an fuulish questions.
1. Now that she has divorced him as she gotten a replacement? No?

2. Oh, she has found one?? Is the new catch more valuable than the 'cheating husband' she threw away?? No??

3. Na 'spirit of ignorance' whisper to her that "men cheating" and "women cheating" are d same, if not she for nor ask that yeye question.

lete answer your questions

1. If your wife can tolerate you cheating on her that's her problem, every mallam with him kettle

Snowx:
Someone fingered a girl and he's afraid of HIV..what a lie bikonu

I think after he fingered her he licked the juice

Bukola94:
this is deeper, your cousin is a woman of substance and is discipline. What's her discipline.... Let me guess, lawyer, doctor

She's a civil engineer/ architect

nams77:

Her loss.
Nature abhors vacuum. Someone will replace las las

That's your problem. She's happily married now so what's your point