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Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Who is the husband

Things like what?

Penguin2:

Your mentality….Omo!

And how do you hope to fund the things your man is not giving you?

Who died and made me obligated to you if you're not obligated to me?

Respect is earned.

DMerciful:
How will I have a woman that does not respect me? I'm not obligated to spend money on you unless I have married you but you're obligated to be faithful even at courtship because thats the process to marriage

What's wrong with it?

DaddyGoo:


Your mindset as displayed in the comment I responded to

The man I got married to...

AMI3:

Who is the husband

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

miketayo:

@miketayo Enjoy it while it lasts, when you approach mid 30s and your financial source seek younger ladies your eyes will clear.

You are an oralist. You can see the future very well.

Thats why I said you'll have to go to your father's house , nor be fight

Samantha125:
Who died and made me obligated to you if you're not obligated to me?

Respect is earned.

Don't worry, I'll buy my own house and go to it...

DMerciful:
Thats why I said you'll have to go to your father's house , nor be fight

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

Reminds me of one great DMX's jam, "Do You". Track is dope, and it relatable

robosky02:
What your take

One of the few discriminatory female privileges that exist

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

In as much as people will attack you.
I strongly believe you are right, I think both the man and woman should pay the bills

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You can see that you're just not ready. You have money to buy a house but insists you'll look outside if i don't give you money?

Samantha125:
Don't worry, I'll buy my own house and go to it...

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

If you can do all these to him,why not quit the relationship or marriage and hook up with your generous provider!

He'd have done it to me first by deciding that he was no longer going to financially me.

bentenny:

If you can do all these to him,why not quit the relationship or marriage and hook up with your generous provider!

robosky02:
What your take

b is wrong

When you refused to be a SIMP ...they labelled you 'stingy'

Why worry about my finances when I wouldn't be worrying about yours?

How I get the money to buy a house wouldn't be any of your business.

DMerciful:
You can see that you're just not ready. You have money to buy a house but insists you'll look outside if i don't give you money?

Next, you'll tell me you're pregnant and I'm the father then after 10yrs, i find out its another man's child that gave you money for sex 10yrs before, because you want to pepper me

Samantha125:
Why worry about my finances when I wouldn't be worrying about yours?

How I get the money to buy a house wouldn't be any of your business.

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

So U can be this mean

Chief2410:
As a man,if you have not been called Stingy or unromantic by women;then you are been used.Take these words as compliments and know you are on the right track.

If you. Decide to be generous

They Wii. Still call you sIMp

There's no how a man will be careful with his money without spending it on his wife. So, the wife's carefulness is correct 💯

Samantha125:
The man I got married to...

Then is decision should always be respectfed.
That means he has every right to ask u whatever question he feels like asking and ur responsibility as a good wife to respond accordingly

Samantha125:
If you want to be responsible with your money, that's totally fine with me, but if I come home the following day with shopping bags, don't ask me where I got the money from the same way I won't ask you about your finances.

And if I tell you that I'm going on a girls vacation, don't ask me who's paying for the vacation... Just watch and go ahead and do you while I do me.

But she’s right.
Some men are just too stupid to be hung up on someone who wants freedom.
Any man who cannot sense a chantage is a fool and deserves these type of girls.
Very foolish men falling for blackmailing cards.
If I decide to be stingy with my money, you can go on a boat cruise if you want. I will even do the rinse and repeat for you.

A husband is supposed to be the provider, immediately you fail to meet up to your responsibilities as a husband, don't expect me to do the same as a wife, especially of you're doing it on purpose.

Already I'd have respected your decision to be financially responsible, and I'd expect you to do the same with mine... Respect is earned.

AMI3:

Then is decision should always be respectfed.
That means he has every right to ask u whatever question he feels like asking and ur responsibility as a good wife to respond accordingly

I'm just being reasonable...

dkidd:

So U can be this mean

As a man if you've never been called a stingy man by Nigerian girls at some point just know you're a simp/maga.

Samantha125:
I'm just being reasonable...

No that's just wickedness and fertile grounds for war in the union

Well, he'd have started it...

dkidd:

No that's just wickedness and fertile grounds for war in the union

dkidd:

No that's just wickedness and fertile grounds for war in the union

Samantha don shake all of una body today.

Mariangeles:


Samantha don shake all of una body today.

Shake fire... Nothing dey surprise men again. We hope for the best and expect the worst. How U been though