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Flamemignon1(m): 10:11am On Apr 25
BABANGBALI:
no mind am. Person wey i dey always meet for where dem dey sell pampers and Vaseline
Actually as a gay man, I believe you are gay and not him
Flamemignon1(m): 10:11am On Apr 25
looseweight:
I carefully read through and there was no where you denounced being gay. Though I don't have anything against your sexuality, you should to have kept quite..

Aside God, my partner and and my immediate family, I can never use the word LOVE for you.

Using the word LOVE them carries big meaning tho
Read it again
Flamemignon1(m): 10:13am On Apr 25
MVLOX:
Show your friends and I will tell you who you are......
So Donald trump is gay because his mentor was gay?
Elon musk is gay because he groomed open ai chatgpt CEO Sam Altman?
Ronaldo and Messi and even Neymar are gay because they have gay friends?
Oga abeg grab sense, it's completely obvious you haven't left the four walls of the hellhole you live in
Flamemignon1(m): 10:15am On Apr 25
casualobserver:
No straight man is comfortable with gay friends. The thought of a man being gay is so revolting, it is impossible to have a friend knowing he is gay.
Say you don't have a gay friend without saying you don't have a gay friend because what you typed is complete thrash. My best friend is a super straight man and I'm gay

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Iamthoney(m): 10:58am On Apr 25
Angelfrost:
Well, every male celebrity without a known female paramour is already gay by default... According to dumb Nigerians online.
Most straight men aren’t and can’t be comfortable being friends with known gay men

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QuinQ: 11:12am On Apr 25
iamatomic:


You're very familiar with this type of people.
Are you an LGBT advocate? Or sympathisers
It's weird the way you defend them. Maybe your close associate is a queer, or you're sympathetic humanist

Not at all. I am 100% straight. And I think that's actually part of it. I think most extreme homophobic people are those who have some homosexuality in them and are afraid of it somehow. I have absolute zero in me. If anything I like homos as people who won't compete with me for the opposite sex.
I had a friend, a very decent person, who was kind enough to put me up when I needed a place. Turned out they were gay. They never tried to involve me in their "activities". We stayed friends for quite sometime, till I left the area.

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Guestmale: 11:18am On Apr 25
As a Christian we are to love everyone,gay inclusive but having a close relationship with a gay is a No No.

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QuinQ: 11:24am On Apr 25
casualobserver:


I do not have such because I would never put myself in a position to have one!

Think of all the tragedies that can befall a man. Being broke, bei g unable to pay the bills, being disrespected, having your wife cheat on you, being afflicted with incurable illness, etc etc etc. none of them compare with the pain of having a gay son. A man prays his son does not become a drug addict or gay…..and bad as being a drug addict is being gay is worse. At least with a drug addict there is hope he can be cured.

A man with a gay son lives his life in pain and heartbreak no matter the face he portrays to the world. That is your seed, that is your offspring, that is your legacy……a gay son! No matter what anyone says or how you try to rationalize it. You will always feel you failed, that your purpose of earth was a waste of your son, your heir, is gay!

Now you understand what how a truly straight man feels about being gay, no straight Nigerian man will willingly associate with a gay man talk less friend, not to even talk of best friend.

If your story about your best friend is a true story, I can assure you your friend is not straight but in the closet.

No straight Nigerian man makes a best friend of a gay man.

Lol, see brainwashed person who doesn't even realize he's brainwashed. See my post above. Have you ever asked yourself "WHY?" concerning all these your assertions or you just parrot them without thought? In this day and age a gay son can equally give you grandchildren if that's what you mean (assuming MJ was gay, didn't prevent him having children). So WHY exactly are you a failure because your son is gay?

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BABANGBALI: 11:30am On Apr 25
Flamemignon1:

Actually as a gay man, I believe you are gay and not him
yinmu
QuinQ: 11:41am On Apr 25
Iamthoney:
Most straight men aren’t and can’t be comfortable being friends with known gay men

OK, assuming Tinubu is gay and has his gay lover and has zero sexual interest in you, just as you have zero sexual interest in him. If you two just click and enjoy each other's company, WHY CAN'T YOU BE FRIENDS??!
Can’t you see it's just like being friends with a straight guy you like?
QuinQ: 11:48am On Apr 25
Flamemignon1:

Say you don't have a gay friend without saying you don't have a gay friend because what you typed is complete thrash. My best friend is a super straight man and I'm gay

No mind am. Brilliant but gay Oscar Wilde was best friends with extremely straight Frank Harris

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shinaola21(m): 12:12pm On Apr 25
🌺

I've lots of them on my facebook including transgenders honestly it annoying and if you talk you don become their enemy be dat,I'm still waiting for the day I go vex insult all of them 😐

iamatomic: 1:50pm On Apr 25
QuinQ:


Not at all. I am 100% straight. And I think that's actually part of it. I think most extreme homophobic people are those who have some homosexuality in them and are afraid of it somehow. I have absolute zero in me. If anything I like homos as people who won't compete with me for the opposite sex.
I had a friend, a very decent person, who was kind enough to put me up when I needed a place. Turned out they were gay. They never tried to involve me in their "activities". We stayed friends for quite sometime, till I left the area.

I guess you're a sympathetic humanist.
It's okay to volunteer for the voiceless, educate those that revel in ignorance. But you can't blame the mob, most of them are ill informed about the concept of self realization .

I believe most tik tokers are either BI or closeted gay
I'm not judging anyone, every one have the right to live the way they choose to (but not breaking the law)
stasius: 2:20pm On Apr 25
I have gay friends too.

What anybody does is his business as long as it doesn't affect anyone's human right. You are on your own.

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Kobicove(m): 3:24pm On Apr 25
Freshfish4:
My niggar for school way be gigolo back then.

He can never be gay

Which school was that?
QuinQ: 3:59pm On Apr 25
iamatomic:


I guess you're a sympathetic humanist.
It's okay to volunteer for the voiceless, educate those that revel in ignorance. But you can't blame the mob, most of them are ill informed about the concept of self realization .

I believe most tik tokers are either BI or closeted gay
I'm not judging anyone, every one have the right to live the way they choose to (but not breaking the law)

I don't know what is a "sympathetic humanist" but I know sexuality is only part of a person. For some people it is a huge part, for others it is almost nonexistent. Also some gays are terrible people, just as are some straights, while some are very decent people.
Like this godisstriking guy here, he's always railing against gays:

https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/8265932/homosexuality-originated-africa-black-women

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Akanfeade: 4:36pm On Apr 25
Odogwu don't mind them
GodisStriking: 6:04pm On Apr 25
QuinQ:


I don't know what is a "sympathetic humanist" but I know sexuality is only part of a person. For some people it is a huge part, for others it is almost nonexistent. Also some gays are terrible people, just as are some straights, while some are very decent people.
Like this godisstriking guy here, he's always railing against gays:

https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/8265932/homosexuality-originated-africa-black-women



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QuinQ: 6:09pm On Apr 25
GodisStriking:




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He was a decent man

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GodisStriking: 7:20pm On Apr 25
QuinQ:


He was a decent man


If you're on his level then you're going to see it that way. Evil always justifies itself until confronted with bold truth. The Devil walked amongst the sons of God and only the LORD called him out He said, Where Goes Thou Satan?
Iamthoney(m): 8:05pm On Apr 25
QuinQ:


OK, assuming Tinubu is gay and has his gay lover and has zero sexual interest in you, just as you have zero sexual interest in him. If you two just click and enjoy each other's company, WHY CAN'T YOU BE FRIENDS??!
Can’t you see it's just like being friends with a straight guy you like?
Read what you wrote and see how you tried so hard to confuse yourself in attempt to convince me
QuinQ: 9:43pm On Apr 25
GodisStriking:



If you're on his level then you're going to see it that way. Evil always justifies itself until confronted with bold truth. The Devil walked amongst the sons of God and only the LORD called him out He said, Where Goes Thou Satan?

The man neither married nor had children just so he could serve God. You yourself what have you ever given up for God?
QuinQ: 9:49pm On Apr 25
Iamthoney:
Read what you wrote and see how you tried so hard to confuse yourself in attempt to convince me

Sorry you're confused but the message is clear: if Tinubu were gay you'd be VERY happy to call him your friend (as long as he has no sexual interest in you at all).
So also in acting, an openly homophobic person will find it harder to get roles. So know where this guy is coming from
Iamthoney(m): 10:42pm On Apr 25
QuinQ:


Sorry you're confused but the message is clear: if Tinubu were gay you'd be VERY happy to call him your friend (as long as he has no sexual interest in you at all).
So also in acting, an openly homophobic person will find it harder to get roles. So know where this guy is coming from
Bros once a man is a gay I know I can’t be friends with him whether he’s interested in me or not
QuinQ: 11:15pm On Apr 25
Iamthoney:
Bros once a man is a gay I know I can’t be friends with him whether he’s interested in me or not

Ok, what if you are an actor hungry for roles and he's a big time producer. I bet you'd love his friendship as long as he respects that you are straight and not at all interested in you sexually
GodisStriking: 3:49am On Apr 26
looseweight:
I carefully read through and there was no where you denounced being gay. Though I don't have anything against your sexuality, you should to have kept quite..

Aside God, my partner and and my immediate family, I can never use the word LOVE for you.

Using the word LOVE them carries big meaning tho

Bingo
GodisStriking: 3:51am On Apr 26
belikewater:
Geh-geh! grin

Honestly, I don’t believe anyone was born gay but most of them are victims of child molestation/sodomization as well as the environment within which they grew up. A child that grew up in a heterosexual environment and had only seen heterosexual relationships would 99.9% of the time turn out to be straight.

Again, there should be a ban on any gay couple getting to adopt a child. If you can’t create it then you have no business managing it. Na so 2 gay guys adopt male children in US come start to dey sodomize them angry. Na the people wey give dem up for adoption I blame cos why in the world would you give yam to a goat for safekeeping



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