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cutecommend: 1:39pm On Jan 05
As a married person, do you face temptations to cheat or is it scarce in marriage? Is there pressure to cheat in marriage or is it minimal?
kestolove95(m): 1:44pm On Jan 05
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating

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immortalcrown(m): 1:46pm On Jan 05
kestolove95:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating
Tell us what it is, so that we will know it.

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kestolove95(m): 1:47pm On Jan 05
immortalcrown:
Tell us what it is, so that we will know it.
saving her d stress

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immortalcrown(m): 1:48pm On Jan 05
kestolove95:
saving her d stress
Explain how it is not cheating.

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Samantha125(f): 2:27pm On Jan 05
I've never been tempted to cheat, but I have had some secret crushes here and there.

I think that's just part of life, there'll always be that one person that you find to be very attractive out there apart from your husband or wife... What matters is how you handle that crush.

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Namaster: 3:05pm On Jan 05
27% of DNA tests in the US prove that some man is raising a BASTARD.

That means if you know 4 married men, at least ONE of them is raising a BASTARD.

Put differently if you know 4 married women, ONE of them has cheated or is ACTIVELY cheating on her husband.

It gets CRAZY when you consider that NOT all fuccking leads to the birth of a child. Some use condoms. Some get abortions. Others are INFERTILE or just plain lucky.

So IF 27% is evidence that's backed by CHILDBIRTH, imagine the SHEER number of cheating that doesn't result in a child.

If you adjust for cheating that don't result in a child, the REAL number of women who has fucccked a man other than their partner is closer to 50%.

Factor in cheating from the HUSBANDS and the percentage of infidelity would be hovering around 70% or more.

Point is married people face temptations to cheat REGULARLY and MOST of them give in to the temptation.

But the BIGGER point is that marriage is an ANACHRONISTIC concept that does NOT belong in the society today.

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AllBlack: 3:09pm On Jan 05
cutecommend:
As a married person, do you face temptations to cheat or is it scarce in marriage? Is there pressure to cheat in marriage or is it minimal?

I always use cheat codes when we play PS4 together and when we play WHOT, POKER or LUDO i must hide card or increase my numbers.

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Jesuspistol(m): 6:20pm On Jan 05
The temptation to cheat comes up often. But whether to cheat or not depends on two things.

-Your conscience
-Your partner's emotional sensitivity.

When they say on the wedding day 'don't let a third party intervene into your marriage'. A lot is required to ensure it. You may be mature enough to it your fault and be ready to make amends but what if your partner does not have that same maturity level and is so insensitive to your needs or desires and he/she is centered around himself/herself, the third party will definitely come in or you may be left to cheat subject to what your conscience tells you.

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Rich4god(m): 6:28pm On Jan 05
Cheating temptation comes... But maturity, EGO and self control helps me a lot.

Just ensure you don't find yourself in a condition that is comfortable for sxx especially with someone whom you have crushes on.

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blessedinnoma(m): 6:39pm On Jan 05
Am done with cheating this year. I have been cheating on my wife for 3 years now . Cheating is expensive and takes your peace of mind. Family! Family!! and family!!! 2025 and beyond.

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Jesuspistol(m): 6:42pm On Jan 05
Samantha125:
I've never been tempted to cheat, but I have had some secret crushes here and there.

I think that's just part of life, there'll always be that one person that you find to be very attractive out there apart from your husband or wife... What matters is how you handle that crush.
That one person for women. For men, it's usually not a one person thing. It's anywhere he feels sexually and respectably fulfilled.
Samantha125(f): 7:07pm On Jan 05
Same thing also applies with women...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
Jesuspistol:

That one person for women. For men, it's usually not a one person thing. It's anywhere he feels sexually and respectably fulfilled.
Jesuspistol(m): 7:13pm On Jan 05
Samantha125:
Same thing also applies with women...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
No. Monogamously, women cheat with who loves or gives them material things more.

No monogamy rules of nature for men, men are not obsessed with receiving things and men don't need love
Samantha125(f): 7:15pm On Jan 05
Then why do you think there are so many paternity frauds?
Jesuspistol:

No. Monogamously, women cheat with who loves or gives them material things more.

No monogamy rules of nature for men, men are not obsessed with receiving things and men don't need love

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Jesuspistol(m): 7:18pm On Jan 05
Samantha125:
Then why do you think there are so many paternity frauds?
Cus women cheat for the reason I mentioned earlier.
Samantha125(f): 7:25pm On Jan 05
Sometimes is because they don't feel sexually fulfilled in their marriage.
Jesuspistol:

Cus women cheat for the reason I mentioned earlier

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Jesuspistol(m): 7:28pm On Jan 05
Samantha125:
Sometimes is because they don't feel sexually fulfilled in their marriage.
Ok true. Some women have strong sexual needs too but they usually get attached to one cheating partner unlike men.
Samantha125(f): 7:32pm On Jan 05
But we can still have various crushes even though we might be attached to one... grin grin grin
Jesuspistol:

Ok true. Some women have strong sexual needs too but they usually get attached to one cheating partner unlike men.
july21st(m): 7:39pm On Jan 05
Samantha125:
But we can still have various crushes even though we might be attached to one... grin grin grin
Is that you in the picture on your profile. I like your booty. Can I be your crush. You can crush me with that booty. I don't mind. Crush me to death. Something must kill a man. 😍
essentialone1: 8:18pm On Jan 05
Temptations to cheat can arise in any relationship, including marriage. The likelihood and intensity of these temptations can vary greatly depending on individual circumstances, personal values, and relationship dynamics.

Some factors that might contribute to temptations or pressures to cheat in marriage include:

1. Unfulfilled emotional or physical needs: Unmet expectations or unresolved issues within the relationship can create vulnerabilities.
2. Opportunities and exposure: Increased social interactions, travel, or online connections can present opportunities for temptation.
3. Personal struggles or crises: Individual challenges, such as low self-esteem, stress, or addiction, can weaken one's commitment to their partner.
4. Lack of communication and intimacy: Poor communication, emotional disconnection, or decreased intimacy can create an environment where temptation may arise.
5. Societal and cultural influences: Exposure to infidelity in social circles, media, or cultural norms can desensitize individuals to the consequences of cheating.

It's essential to recognize that temptations are a normal part of life, and it's how individuals respond to them that matters. Couples can work together to build a strong, resilient relationship by:

1. Maintaining open communication: Regularly discussing feelings, needs, and concerns.
2. Fostering emotional intimacy: Prioritizing quality time, affection, and emotional connection.
3. Establishing trust and boundaries: Setting clear expectations and respecting each other's needs.
4. Cultivating a strong system: Surrounding themselves with positive influences and ive relationships.

Ultimately, whether temptations are scarce or plentiful in marriage depends on individual circumstances and relationship dynamics. By prioritizing communication, intimacy, and trust, couples can build a strong foundation for a healthy, faithful relationship.
mighty5050(m): 8:21pm On Jan 05
kestolove95:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating

I know your wife. Let me forward screenshot asap.

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calabaman(m): 8:36pm On Jan 05
mighty5050:


I know your wife. Let me forward screenshot asap.

Hehe.
Samajogs: 8:41pm On Jan 05
kestolove95 How about she does the same thing to youpost=133589280:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating
Samajogs: 8:42pm On Jan 05
How about she does the same thing to you?
kestolove95:
Anytime I dont want to stress my wife sexually I go out nd help myself..its not cheating
wiseone28: 8:46pm On Jan 05
july21st:

Is that you in the picture on your profile. I like your booty. Can I be your crush. You can crush me with that booty. I don't mind. Crush me to death. Something must kill a man. 😍

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july21st(m): 11:16pm On Jan 05
[quote author=wiseone28 post=133594789][/quote]

I rather receive yansh than sense. What do I need sense for when I can have yansh
Dogalmighty17: 11:54pm On Jan 05
Temptation to cheat how? Why is it cheating? If I have a car and i decide to test run another is that cheating?

A man does not cheat on property. A woman who money has been paid on her head cannot accuse her husband of cheating by any means. Cheating on what? Abeg no provoke me.

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Dogalmighty17: 11:55pm On Jan 05
blessedinnoma:
Am done with cheating this year. I have been cheating on my wife for 3 years now . Cheating is expensive and takes your peace of mind. Family! Family!! and family!!! 2025 and beyond.

Bye bye.
CosmicJames(m): 2:40am On Jan 06
Samantha125:
I've never been tempted to cheat, but I have had some secret crushes here and there.

I think that's just part of life, there'll always be that one person that you find to be very attractive out there apart from your husband or wife... What matters is how you handle that crush.


You are lucky those secret crushes didn't come for you.
dkidd: 2:48am On Jan 06
Namaster:
27% of DNA tests in the US prove that some man is raising a BASTARD.

That means if you know 4 married men, at least ONE of them is raising a BASTARD.

Put differently if you know 4 married women, ONE of them has cheated or is ACTIVELY cheating on her husband.

It gets CRAZY when you consider that NOT all fuccking leads to the birth of a child. Some use condoms. Some get abortions. Others are INFERTILE or just plain lucky.

So IF 27% is evidence that's backed by CHILDBIRTH, imagine the SHEER number of cheating that doesn't result in a child.

If you adjust for cheating that don't result in a child, the REAL number of women who has fucccked a man other than their partner is closer to 50%.

Factor in cheating from the HUSBANDS and the percentage of infidelity would be hovering around 70% or more.

Point is married people face temptations to cheat REGULARLY and MOST of them give in to the temptation.

But the BIGGER point is that marriage is an ANACHRONISTIC concept that does NOT belong in the society today.
Chai!
Factcheck0001: 3:53am On Jan 06
essentialone1:
Temptations to cheat can arise in any relationship, including marriage. The likelihood and intensity of these temptations can vary greatly depending on individual circumstances, personal values, and relationship dynamics.

Some factors that might contribute to temptations or pressures to cheat in marriage include:

1. Unfulfilled emotional or physical needs: Unmet expectations or unresolved issues within the relationship can create vulnerabilities.
2. Opportunities and exposure: Increased social interactions, travel, or online connections can present opportunities for temptation.
3. Personal struggles or crises: Individual challenges, such as low self-esteem, stress, or addiction, can weaken one's commitment to their partner.
4. Lack of communication and intimacy: Poor communication, emotional disconnection, or decreased intimacy can create an environment where temptation may arise.
5. Societal and cultural influences: Exposure to infidelity in social circles, media, or cultural norms can desensitize individuals to the consequences of cheating.

It's essential to recognize that temptations are a normal part of life, and it's how individuals respond to them that matters. Couples can work together to build a strong, resilient relationship by:

1. Maintaining open communication: Regularly discussing feelings, needs, and concerns.
2. Fostering emotional intimacy: Prioritizing quality time, affection, and emotional connection.
3. Establishing trust and boundaries: Setting clear expectations and respecting each other's needs.
4. Cultivating a strong system: Surrounding themselves with positive influences and ive relationships.

Ultimately, whether temptations are scarce or plentiful in marriage depends on individual circumstances and relationship dynamics. By prioritizing communication, intimacy, and trust, couples can build a strong foundation for a healthy, faithful relationship.
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