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THE REASON SO MANY YOUNG MEN ARE AFRAID OF GETTING MARRIED NOW is because their income is low and they are afraid of being disrespected, put down and insulted by their wife!

They are rather waiting for the time they have "enough" to meet "all her needs" and "win" her respect!

If you do that, two things may happen: 1. You may never get married 2. You may marry a woman who loves you for your money, nothing more!

Some highly successful business men in the the world confessed they had nothing, I mean nothing when they married their wives. Cosmas Maduka, owner of COSCHARIS, a multi billionaire luxurious car dealer said he was in poverty when he married his wife at 20! Mensa Otabil, a very successful preacher, founder, chancellor of a university and business man in Ghana, also said he had nothing! No plate, no spoon, no chair, no bed, no nothing! When he married his wife! Fela Durotoye said he had only a table and a chair! Ben Carson, the world celebrated Neuro surgion was still struggling in school when he met candy! The list goes on!

You will only have very serious problem in marriage if , you are lazy and have an entitlement mentality! If you believe your wife is the one to pay all your bills and rescue you for life then don't bother to marry please, marriage is not for you!

Some women have married such men hoping they will break into wealth after marriage but their dreams were shattered when the man refuse to dream, work hard, shatter limitations and walk into greatness!

If you marry a woman to impress her with your money, you don't have a wife, you have a contract! She is to supply you respect and submission while you supply her money! The day your money is over, so is your marriage!

Things happen! People lose their jobs, businesses may crash! What will she do when you no longer make money and desperately need her ? That is when you will know whether you married a wife or a disaster!

I hope this post is simple enough?

May you receive the grace to step out in faith and do the needful!

When you marry a good woman who believes in you and you work hard leaning on God's wisdom and power to get wealth, you are the next billionaire the world is waiting for!

Amen?

Thanks for reading, God bless you!

Cheers!

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How do you ask a Nigerian lady out when you have nothing?



Women these days have evolved beyond that. If you no get money, you no go fit even meet the kinda girl wey you like sef...Life go dey throw rubbish women with terrible looks come your way

I get the message tho. And yea, we no dey use money run woman

Twisting data analysis to your preferred narrative. You are mentioning Ben Carson, Fela Durotoye, Maduka, and co. You know how many of such great potentials have been suppressed by "the wrong woman"?

I've removed every thought of marriage or having kids from my mind. I just want to live whatever time I have left and leave this wicked world. I don't care about legacies anymore

True

Being single gives you opportunity to suck different breasts

Lol...I'll get married to a beautiful God fearing woman,have kids and enjoy my family ijn...na u Sabi wetin dey pursue u from enjoying marital life.

Marriage wey no dey favour men of this generation

And to worsen the whole thing,to find a responsible woman these days as a man,you may end up getting lost during the process of searching . Cuz na only squads of wereys full the female world right now

Okay

Marriage. Those inside what to come out. Those outside want to come in.

The issue is money no matter how you may paint it. If I can feed well I don't mind marryin, I'm running away from marriage because of the evil government we currently have and I cannot bring somebody's daughter to come and suffer with me just because I married her the worst thing that would happen to a man is to be married to a woman who doesn't have any source of income to . So when you look at those various parameters you rather prefer to be single and stay on your own at a point in time I've advised myself that I may not even married if the economy continue getting worst.

No money

Marriage is over rated

Even those that are well to do now are afraid or not even interested in getting married. That moment the holy book in Isaiah 4:1 said is already upon us. But the other gender are yet to accept it.

The clown of girls now call themselves the TABLE

No matter how much modern woman loves you, she can never feed you, pay bills and take care of family for over 5 years without you getting her full wrath and that of her family.

Only men can take responsibilities of women for eternity without bending.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPlGMHYDhM8

No MONEY.

Healthrelatedjo:
Lol...I'll get married to a beautiful God fearing woman,have kids and enjoy my family ijn...na u Sabi wetin dey pursue u from enjoying marital life.

Amen. 🙏

I nor dey for DNA/paternity fraud wahala

That's not even up to 40% of the REASONs OOoo

ForUrgentSale:
I've removed every thought of marriage or having kids from my mind. I just want to live whatever time I have left and leave this wicked world. I don't care about legacies anymore

I completely agree with you.
Afterall,life is random and meaningless.

Ok

Food for Ereluroz
Is this why you are not married?
In 3 months and some weeks we will be in 2025.
Zzor, Iyaebe, Ereluroz what will you now become

Oga, you just gave one reason out of many that discourages and scares guys away from settling down.
I want you to know that there are many guys that are rich but marriage is a no-go-area for because of the other reasons unmentioned in your writeup

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traware:


GBAM!!!

Only If your parents had said the same gbam

In this life I have come to realise

If you want to do something, you would find reasons enough to do it

Likewise

If you don't want, there are many reasons not to

So know what works for you but then we are not free from the consequences of our decisions

There are good marriages and bad marriages

But na bad marriages dey full headline

Would you say because of road accidents, you would rather walk from lagos to jos.

In marriage, no body is perfect, you only ask yourself "Can I live with the imperfect of this person and are we both willing to make it work"

Smiles!!!

I am getting married very soon and my marriage(union) will succeed and be blessings to many!

Marriage in this generation is a scam. Every woman is always using a man in one way or the other if the man is not wise, check it out, if she's not using you as an attention giver she's using u as an emotional tampon or she's using you as a financial mugu or shes keeping you incase if her now boyfriend doesn't later marry her, or she's keeping you as her second option or she's using you to through life e.g exam success, promotion, finances or she's keeping you as a free food man especially when she's hungry then she'll you or she's keeping you as her status viewer e.t.c the list goes on and on.

If you know about women nature you won't like them neither will you hate them rather you'll remain indifference. They don't love rather they are pure opportunists. Every women that have existed on this planet earth are opportunists, they can't love and dont know how to do it. What's happening in the west gives a perfect definition of how women are opportunists i.e marry a rich man or a celebrity then divorce him in a few months or years then claim half of his properties and monthly allowance that she didn't suffer with him for when he was struggling.

The only love that women have is SELFISH-LOVE.


Finally, You can't be wise and be in love at the same time.

Lol, majority of men in this age no longer care about marriage cos they know that once you have money then you can have as many kids as you want with as many ladies as you want.

And majority of ladies in this age is ready to throw themselves to any man that comes their way as long as he hold Raba, so since money is the standard for a successful relationship, men are busy getting the money and when the finally makes the money, marriage becomes secondary in their minds(for those with home training) while it becomes nonexistent for others
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That's why many men aren't talking about marriage these days

To any young man out there please dont listen to this stupid advice!!!

If any girl tells u that let's marry first and we will manage together, my GUY FLEE!!!! FLEE with all your might cos na marriage be her ultimate. After marriage then u will see her true color.

If as a man u dont have money, just look for a lady and impregnate her and make her a baby mama and try to take care of your child.

Where is NwaAmaikpe when you need him? This is the type of topic I always like him to deposit his 'sagacious' contributions.

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It's really not a good thing to consider marriage when you have no dime or a stable income. Apart from having nags coming from your woman, how about the responsibility to provide quality life for your child(ren)? If a guy goes into marriage without 'holding his side', he will naturally be under pressure to provide for his immediate family, not even from his wife. This is why guys are scared about going into marriage.

To me, I think the way out is for guys to upskill themselves with the right in-demand skill. Get certifications. When job finally comes, the salary will be reasonable enough to consider marriage.

It’s because marriage today especially monogamy is a scam.Marriage will only make sense when polygamy is embraced just the way our ancestors practiced it.