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My mom recently returned from the village and she began narrating to us the unfortunate event that occurred from my maternal home.

the second daughter of my mom's elder sister had a young man who has been in talk with her. eventually, the chemistry between them started leading in to the talks about marriage.

This potential suitor opened a store for my cousin and all was going good. later, an introduction was done and the both families got aquatinted with one another as in-laws to be.

Eventually, asoebi was launched and my cousins and other family , friends and well wishers shared and distributed the asoebi. The wedding venue was chosen, the date for the wedding had been fixed and all necessary wedding arrangements were in place, we're all patiently waiting for the wedding day.

One day, the man went to the store which he established for my cousin and then saw some missing goods from the store which was maybe sold out but was never restocked. So, he politely asked my cousin about why the space for the goods was empty, my cousin suddenly went berserk, raged with furry and began insulting the man, calling him names and taunting him with no respect on why he's interested in why the goods was not restocked, she accused him of monitoring her and not giving her space, she also went further and accused the man that he'll be a pain in the ass for her in the marriage. her elder sister who was a baby mama ed the tantrum and ed the insult that was already being meted on the young man already by her younger sister. they kept calling him names and saying all manner of things and accusations that happened and never happened to the whole people.

Fast forward to sometimes later, they took the anger further and all went out to recover all the asoebi that was distributed, cancelled the wedding, stoped all wedding arrangements and ended everything. The man upon observing what was going began begging my cousin and pleaded with her to forgive him. he begged and begged her and to all the of the family but he pleas fell on deaf ears.

After sometimes, the man cleaned himself and moved on. Time went by, the man later had another woman, married her, had a child and even built a beautiful duplex, painted it and furnished the whole structure. it was a beauty to behold.

My mom and cousin were going out one day and she pointed the house to my mom and my mom could not hold her amusement. My cousin confessed to my mom that she's been crying for a long time now and full of regret on the decision she took. Ever since that incident happened, no man has come over to seek for her hand in marriage, she said to my mom that this could have been her and the man but she allowed anger and lack off deep reasoning to becloud her sense of logic. she's been on full time regret ever since then.

With no taking side to anybody, I think I would say that the man was only being able of which any responsible man would, by asking why the goods was sold out and not restocked, anybody could ask you about why what they set up for you is not looking good for them. It's left for you to tell him calmly that in as much as those space had been empty, you're not eating the money or squandering it but only waiting for more sales so as to collectively order for more goods and stocks or give them whatever is your reason for the whole thing.

my mom was angry and mad at the whole family on why she was never briefed on the whole development but only telling her after the whole thing had ended. In my mom's words "Inever saw wisdom In all this".

But if i may ask, why do women have problem with ability?

Genesiszero:
My mom recently returned from the village and she began narrating to us the unfortunate event that occurred from my maternal home.

the second daughter of my mom's elder sister had a young man who has been in talk with her. eventually, the chemistry between them started leading in to the talks about marriage.

This potential suitor opened a store for my cousin and all was going good. later, an introduction was done and the both families got aquatinted with one another as in-laws to be.

Eventually, asoebi was launched and my cousins and other family , friends and well wishers shared and distributed the asoebi. The wedding venue was chosen, the date for the wedding had been fixed and all necessary wedding arrangements were in place, we're all patiently waiting for the wedding day.

One day, the man went to the store which he established for my cousin and then saw some missing goods from the store which was maybe sold out but was never restocked. So, he politely asked my cousin about why the space for the goods was empty, my cousin suddenly went berserk, raged with furry and began insulting the man, calling him names and taunting him with no respect on why he's interested in why the goods was not restocked, she accused him of monitoring her and not giving her space, she also went further and accused the man that he'll be a pain in the ass for her in the marriage. her elder sister who was a baby mama ed the tantrum and ed the insult that was already being meted on the young man already by her younger sister. they kept calling him names and saying all manner of things and accusations that happened and never happened to the whole people.

Fast forward to sometimes later, they took the anger further and all went out to recover all the asoebi that was distributed, cancelled the wedding, stoped all wedding arrangements and ended everything. The man upon observing what was going began begging my cousin and pleaded with her to forgive him. he begged and begged her and to all the of the family but he pleas fell on deaf ears.

After sometimes, the man cleaned himself and moved on. Time went by, the man later had another woman, married her, had a child and even built a beautiful duplex, painted it and furnished the whole structure. it was a beauty to behold.

My mom and cousin were going out one day and she pointed the house to my mom and my mom could not hold her amusement. My cousin confessed to my mom that she's been crying for a long time now and full of regret on the decision she took. Ever since that incident happened, no man has come over to seek for her hand in marriage, she said to my mom that this could have been her and the man but she allowed anger and lack off deep reasoning to becloud her sense of logic. she's been on full time regret ever since then.

With no taking side to anybody, I think I would say that the man was only being able of which any responsible man would, by asking why the goods was sold out and not restocked, anybody could ask you about why what they set up for you is not looking good for them. It's left for you to tell him calmly that in as much as those space had been empty, you're not eating the money or squandering it but only waiting for more sales so as to collectively order for more goods and stocks or give them whatever is your reason for the whole thing.

my mom was angry and mad at the whole family on why she was never briefed on the whole development but only telling her after the whole thing had ended. In my mom's words "Inever saw wisdom In all this".

In summary, you're from a BAD family!!!

drimzsmoke:


In summary, you're from a BAD family!!!

far from that, it's never from my paternal home neither does it mean that if one's brother is evil or bad, then it automatically means that he or her is also bad. your postulations are false and devoid of logic.

That your cousin for bewitch the man. But the man dodge better bullet, omo the man have every right to ask her why she no restock, simple explanation for save her wella, her elder sister way be baby mama nah witch, she no want make her sister marry at all.. If not she for reason her younger sister to calm down instead she dey put fire and believe me or not. Her elder sister dey happy say the wedding no hold. Omo make that your mumu cousin sister respect herself.. With that kind character, nobody fit put her for house.. She get ogbanje character.. And nah only ogbanje man fit marry her so that he go use blow remove one one teeth everyday... Thank you

Coming back to read. Women should be wise by now.

Genesiszero:


far from that, it's never from my paternal home neither does it mean that if one's brother is evil or bad, then it automatically means that he or her is also bad. your postulations are false and devoid of logic.

Let me ask you this question, if this had happened to your immediate younger sister, would you have posted it on nairaland


You answer is none of my business, what I sha know and believe to be true is that you're a product of a terrible family!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

why the goods was sold out and not restocked

Heaven used this harmless question to save the young man from Delilah's trap.

I'm glad the man is happy and doing well, God bless him more.

@drimzsmoke


Yes, I'll still post it here for others to learn, so being my sister does not exonerate her from me posting about her ordeal, but however I can't allow my younger sister who is more morally trained to be this daft. she can't be too braindead to this level, this I can boast of.

the post was not to prove the genuine or ingenuity of my family either from whether maternal or paternal ancestry of the family is good or bad, it's for others to see and learn where necessary so as not to allow minor forgivable issues to cost them great feast in life or happiness.

it's for others too to air their opinions and views from there respective angle of views.

Genesiszero:
My mom recently returned from the village and she began narrating to us the unfortunate event that occurred from my maternal home.

But if i may ask, why do women have problem with ability?

It's beyond what you think. Something like this almost happened to my younger sister too. Momsy knew it was beyond physical & she went to church. It was discovered that a jealous relative was spiritually manipulating the girl to lose the marriage. Imagine for no reason, she just hated the guy and said she won't marry again. After some prayers the bullshit stopped, the wedding turned out good. They are happy today with 4 kids.

I think your cousin was also under the influence and the culprit is close to her. You know many girls are spiritually weak

Genesiszero:
@drimzsmoke


Yes, I'll still post it here for others to learn, so being my sister does not exonerate her from me posting about her ordeal, but however I can't allow my younger sister who is more morally trained to be this daft. she can't be too braindead to this level, this I can boast of.

the post was not to prove the genuine or ingenuity of my family either from whether maternal or paternal ancestry of the family is good or bad, it's for others to see and learn where necessary so as not to allow minor forgivable issues to cost them great feast in life or happiness.

it's for others too to air their opinions and views from there respective angle of views.

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Your mum is envious of her elder sister and her children. I was able to infer that much from your story. Wo, alaye, leave me, I don dey go. Too much hatred and envy inside 1 family!!!
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drimzsmoke:


In summary, you're from a BAD family!!!

and you had to quote everything?

Winch dey disturb that ur cousin

This story sounds like fiction, but if it is a true story and happened exactly the way you narrated it, that man should thank his God or whatever he believes in.
He dodged a dangerous bullet

louken:
This story sounds like fiction, but if it is a true story and happened exactly the way you narrated it, that man should thank his God or whatever he believes in.
He dodged a dangerous bullet

it's realy dear brother, this is my own maternal family sir

ZaRuleOfLaw:


It's beyond what you think. Something like this almost happened to my younger sister too. Momsy knew it was beyond physical & she went to church. It was discovered that a jealous relative was spiritually manipulating the girl to lose the marriage. Imagine for no reason, she just hated the guy and said she won't marry again. After some prayers the bullshit stopped, the wedding turned out good. They are happy today with 4 kids.

I think your cousin was also under the influence and the culprit is close to her. You know many girls are spiritually weak

I think you're right man, it's could be spiritually possible.....the world is wicked

Isokoson1:
That your cousin for bewitch the man. But the man dodge better bullet, omo the man have every right to ask her why she no restock, simple explanation for save her wella, her elder sister way be baby mama nah witch, she no want make her sister marry at all.. If not she for reason her younger sister to calm down instead she dey put fire and believe me or not. Her elder sister dey happy say the wedding no hold. Omo make that your mumu cousin sister respect herself.. With that kind character, nobody fit put her for house.. She get ogbanje character.. And nah only ogbanje man fit marry her so that he go use blow remove one one teeth everyday... Thank you

the baby Mama's case is a case for another day.....that one na pepper....she even disrespected my mom and even threatened alot of things that even warrant a call for a family meeting, though she later denied all and tender apologies.

I think the same lack sense relegated her to that office of a baby mama.... it's a lengthy story about this women sir.

Mtcheeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww.

Genesiszero:


far from that, it's never from my paternal home neither does it mean that if one's brother is evil or bad, then it automatically means that he or her is also bad. your postulations are false and devoid of logic.

that guys guardian angel must be working overtime to prevent him from marrying the toxic girl, those type of woman will reduce the natural Life span of a man,she will cry till the pump that supply's tears to her eyes will burn

Many of them are out there.

Them go regret ham

drimzsmoke:


In summary, you're from a BAD family!!!

na so una go dey run mouth anyhow for public because of the careless of 3 people you don conclude say a family of possibly over 40 adults na bad family.. Nothing person no go see for this forum.

I'd say the guy dodged a bullet.!

Rule number 1. Dont marry baby Mama. Rule 2. No marry sister of one. Pls pay attention to 2, very seriously

Yet another made-up nonsense story.

You guys paint women in a terrible brush. You make us see them as selfish ingrates who have no value.

You do this forgetting that your mum is of that stock. Same as your sisters.

Who would behave so irrationally over a few missing groceries? Who?

Genesiszero:
My mom recently returned from the village and she began narrating to us the unfortunate event that occurred from my maternal home.

the second daughter of my mom's elder sister had a young man who has been in talk with her. eventually, the chemistry between them started leading in to the talks about marriage.

This potential suitor opened a store for my cousin and all was going good. later, an introduction was done and the both families got aquatinted with one another as in-laws to be.

Eventually, asoebi was launched and my cousins and other family , friends and well wishers shared and distributed the asoebi. The wedding venue was chosen, the date for the wedding had been fixed and all necessary wedding arrangements were in place, we're all patiently waiting for the wedding day.

One day, the man went to the store which he established for my cousin and then saw some missing goods from the store which was maybe sold out but was never restocked. So, he politely asked my cousin about why the space for the goods was empty, my cousin suddenly went berserk, raged with furry and began insulting the man, calling him names and taunting him with no respect on why he's interested in why the goods was not restocked, she accused him of monitoring her and not giving her space, she also went further and accused the man that he'll be a pain in the ass for her in the marriage. her elder sister who was a baby mama ed the tantrum and ed the insult that was already being meted on the young man already by her younger sister. they kept calling him names and saying all manner of things and accusations that happened and never happened to the whole people.

Fast forward to sometimes later, they took the anger further and all went out to recover all the asoebi that was distributed, cancelled the wedding, stoped all wedding arrangements and ended everything. The man upon observing what was going began begging my cousin and pleaded with her to forgive him. he begged and begged her and to all the of the family but he pleas fell on deaf ears.

After sometimes, the man cleaned himself and moved on. Time went by, the man later had another woman, married her, had a child and even built a beautiful duplex, painted it and furnished the whole structure. it was a beauty to behold.

My mom and cousin were going out one day and she pointed the house to my mom and my mom could not hold her amusement. My cousin confessed to my mom that she's been crying for a long time now and full of regret on the decision she took. Ever since that incident happened, no man has come over to seek for her hand in marriage, she said to my mom that this could have been her and the man but she allowed anger and lack off deep reasoning to becloud her sense of logic. she's been on full time regret ever since then.

With no taking side to anybody, I think I would say that the man was only being able of which any responsible man would, by asking why the goods was sold out and not restocked, anybody could ask you about why what they set up for you is not looking good for them. It's left for you to tell him calmly that in as much as those space had been empty, you're not eating the money or squandering it but only waiting for more sales so as to collectively order for more goods and stocks or give them whatever is your reason for the whole thing.

my mom was angry and mad at the whole family on why she was never briefed on the whole development but only telling her after the whole thing had ended. In my mom's words "Inever saw wisdom In all this".

But if i may ask, why do women have problem with ability?

Some slowpoke somewhere must have been asking the small girl, "Is this all he can do for you?", "Is this why he is doing yanga?"

I feel the stupid older sister, jealous of her younger sister, was keen to ruin the relationship as it would shine bad light on her baby mama status. I'm sure if she instead asked her future-in-law to find her a man, he probably would have obliged.

I would advise the younger sister to apologize to the man, and wish him and his wife a happy married life. Who knows, it may move him to tell one of his friends. It would indicate she's now grown up and ready to settle down.

The guy even tried.

So after all the insults your cousin and her sister gave him, he was still begging her to forgive him. That should have been the sign he needs to move on.

If she accepted his plea, he would be a simp in that marriage. You don't beg when you didn't do anything wrong. Otherwise, you are rewarding bad behavior, and by nature, bad behavior rewarded will punish you later. The snake you feed will bite you.

Sadly, lots of people only learn with regrets. And even more sadly, they won't ever appreciate you if they didn't suffer. They need so suffer first, get old (in her case), then she will learn.

That's her problem. Her regret is her karma, and it is sweeter when the only person to blame is yourself. She was her own village people.

Many are called, and few are chosen. Many are given sense, but few hardly use it.

ZACHIE:
Yet another made-up nonsense story.

You guys paint women in a terrible brush. You make us see them as selfish ingrates who have no value.

You do this forgetting that your mum is of that stock. Same as your sisters.

Who would behave so irrationally over a few missing groceries? Who?

sorry dear....but this is a case of my own female cousin, I can't hide stupidity because she's my female member of the family. it's a lesson for those who care to know. and it's never a cooked up story! it's a real life event that happened

Madups:
na so una go dey run mouth anyhow for public because of the careless of 3 people you don conclude say a family of possibly over 40 adults na bad family.. Nothing person no go see for this forum.

As in ehn, some persons are just annoying and disrespectful, Sha what do we expect from a person whose name is ...smoke

Genesiszero:

sorry dear....but this is a case of my own female cousin, I can't hide stupidity because she's my female member of the family. it's a lesson for those who care to know. and it's never a cooked up story! it's a real life event that happened

If indeed that happened, then, I apologize and I feel awfully disappointed.
This is a sad story in all imaginable ways.
The degeneration of values is really catching up with everyone, including the supposedly wiser species.

pansophist:
The guy even tried.

So after all the insults your cousin and her sister gave him, he was still begging her to forgive him. That should have been the sign he needs to move on.

If she accepted his plea, he would be a simp in that marriage. You don't beg when you didn't do anything wrong. Otherwise, you are rewarding bad behavior, and by nature, bad behavior rewarded will punish you later. The snake you feed will bite you.

Sadly, lots of people only learn with regrets. And even more sadly, they won't ever appreciate you if they didn't suffer. They need so suffer first, get old (in her case), then she will learn.

That's her problem. Her regret is her karma, and it is sweeter when the only person to blame is yourself. She was her own village people.

Many are called, and few are chosen. Many are given sense, but few hardly use it.

yes my dear, the man was seriously begging. this shows that the man's intentions were clearly innocent with no harmful intent. in fact, at a point, the mother to the young man had to also in the matter to plead for reconciliation but to no avail. it's pathetic and too bad and timid. I hope she cleans herself up and move on.

ZACHIE:


If indeed that happened, then, I apologize and I feel awfully disappointed.
This is a sad story in all imaginable ways.
The degeneration of values is really catching up with everyone, including the supposedly wiser species.

No issues dear...... we're learning everyday, unfortunately, some learn by mistake that may be irreversible.

Your cousin is like an average Nigerian, they will vote APC but when hardship strikes, they turn to prime Sócrate.

Look at her doling out wisdom.

louken:
This story sounds like fiction, but if it is a true story and happened exactly the way you narrated it, that man should thank his God or whatever he believes in.
He dodged a dangerous bullet

Another edition of This Could BE Us.

It is only one man I see in the story, are there no men in both families
She will find her own. He learned from her experience and she taught him a lesson. Isn't that good