NewStats: 3,263,958 , 8,182,085 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 03:52 AM 1w4c2b

johnog4sure:
I dont agree with perpetual regrets, seems u were keeping them as girlfriends...just fuk n go there will be no regrets

money no dey stay hands of fuckers n in most cases u gain little blessings from what you do.

Knowing Christ...
ing Nairaland
Following Investment and Business thread
Saving and Investing.

Turning my back on the world as it seemed back then the whole world turned its back on me.
Was doing great after I graduated and could wake up and easily change my car and was really successful, but all of a sudden no matter hiw hard working and intelligent I was things took a worse.
Lost my business and marriage and there was too much heat from both friends and family not to talk of inlaws.
Woke up one day and turned my back on the world by first breaking my sim card and getting a new one and started life afresh. Best decision ever as my life is way better now.
For a time I was like Job in the bible with all manner of affliction.

If you intend to pour sand in my garri I will definitely pour granite in yours before you have the chance of destroying all I have built.

If you don't get it then forget it

ItisWell22:


This is really inspiring! 🤝

For me, it’s quitting my job as a ed nurse to study medicine.
Quite stressful and sometimes distressing, but the knowledge gained! 🥺
The paradigm shift! ✌️
My view of life and better understanding of myself! 🙏
Being in school with umu Gen Z! 😁
It’s all beautiful.

I’m really grateful to have taken and followed through, the decision of career path change. 😊

but nursing is a good course naw,why did you have to study medicine again

1. I stopped womanizing .. this is coming from someone that did spend average of 40/70k weekly 4 year ago fhuckin different women both fwb, olosho and gfs. In my hood then , chances are that I’ve fhucked your fiancé .. like I loved pussy. But now , I’m extremely careful and I’ve been dating one girl for the past 3 year. Though it’s been a roller coaster ride but I’ll still choose relationship over womanizing . Infact my life has changed tremendously ..


2. I decided to stop working for someone 4 years ago cos the man said something so hurtful to my family .. he later apologized when he realized that I didn’t commit the offense… started running crypto trading and ever since it’s been from grace to grace.

3. I started my offline business earlier this year and my only regret was not starting earlier .

Other changes are
4. I stopped eating outside … a nairaland influenced my decision on this
5.. I’ve been practicing delay gratification
6. I can confidently say NO without feeling bad afterwards .
7. Moved out of my comfort zone


I’m so grateful especially for the point no 1.

Patriotic9ja:
Topics like this are what we need more on FP

It will get there.

I decided to stop running after money, then learn how to write code at the age of 30. Now I'm 37. Working as a Senior engineer earning 7 digits.

Blissio:
i smell lies.

Who cares about u smell....

All I can say is that double ur hustle so that when u make a million naira in 2hours and u tell other they won't believe you

Deciding to read the bible a book at a time, and getting the full redemption story.

Ballzproblem2:
I no say you be chronic gambler, anyways play Liverpool to win stake am your life savings.


perhaps, you just might become rich overnight to quit gambling

Lol... Can a gambler be an employer of labour paying salaries to up to 18 staff?

Anyways hope you know we go scatter loserpool today the way we scattered Chelshit?

Jokerman:


Lol... Can a gambler be an employer of labour paying salaries to up to 18 staff?

Anyways hope you know we go scatter loserpool today the way we scattered Chelshit?

who dash monkey banana . audio staff.

get away

Ballzproblem2:
who dash monkey banana . audio staff.

get away

Lol.... You think everything you see on social media is the same as reality... Lol... You should know better bro....

Leaving your parents house gives your life a whole new meaning and dimension. You see life in a whole new perspective.

Thanks for this Advice ...me that use to have extra money at hand, currently,no shi shi, girlfriend collect, crush wey I never knack collect, one of my drunkard friend , anytime he come from work, he always want us to be flexing, I don tire self

Vinnie2000:


I pity you.
You better Learn how to Say NO.

One of my colleagues, Once Month end, 2 or 3 days later,
She would meet me to Borrow her 10K or 5K.

Recently, She did same thing. Na once I told her I don't Have! That she should Try to ask others.
She was Angry but I just Lock up!

If you are Thinking of a Person's Feelings too much, When you are in a Bad situation, That Same Person will show you Shege!

Jokerman:


Lol... Can a gambler be an employer of labour paying salaries to up to 18 staff?

Anyways hope you know we go scatter loserpool today the way we scattered Chelshit?

As an Arsenal fan, I want una to win.🙂

But how is it possible with Antony, Garnacho, Dalot and other Lazy Boys? 😟😌😌

dhope:

Wonderful. I have also seen a close pal who graduated with distinction in agricultural engineering in a poly and went ahead to learn plumbing skills. In less than a year after finishing apprenticeship, he also became a millionaire and he can't take job of 300k salary today because his hands are full of jobs. There are other skills too like coil rewinding that pays big time but our mind has just been conditioned that we can't do it again since we're already graduates. God will direct the path of individual

I'm telling you bro.... Skill acquisition is a game changer... Since I finished university, for over 10years, I think I only worked 1 year... Infact after earning my post grad, I still didn't work with it...

Vinnie2000:


As an Arsenal fan, I want una to win.🙂

But how is it possible with Antony, Garnacho, Dalot and other Lazy Boys? 😟😌😌

We have TenHag

Laziness is a secret ingredient that goes into failure. But it's only kept a secret from the person who fails.


Robert Half

How do you go about this? Can you torchlight my way into coding?

Workch:
Learning how to code.
I start earning from 100k monthly to way above half a million now

ItisWell22:


This is really inspiring! 🤝

For me, it’s quitting my job as a ed nurse to study medicine.
Quite stressful and sometimes distressing, but the knowledge gained! 🥺
The paradigm shift! ✌️
My view of life and better understanding of myself! 🙏
Being in school with umu Gen Z! 😁
It’s all beautiful.

I’m really grateful to have taken and followed through, the decision of career path change. 😊

A job welldone. I wish you all the best.

so when konji later comes back nko?

Sirchiboy:
Made a stand to stop sleeping with hoes coz I came into full awareness that nothing is so special about sex.
It will only drain your money and leave you in a state of perpetual regrets.

Learn how to trade crypto...

Best decision in my life.

Can you mentor me ?

bet9ja:
I decided to stop running after money and decided to learn how to write code at the age of 30. Now I'm 37. Working as a Senior engineer earning 7 digits.

I got married to the right woman, and that changed my life for the better, I am becoming my best self as a result of that marriage.

...Moving to Lagos this year


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Chassy03:
Thanks for this Advice ...me that use to have extra money at hand, currently,no shi shi, girlfriend collect, crush wey I never knack collect, one of my drunkard friend , anytime he come from work, he always want us to be flexing, I don tire self

This is another Money Leakage Avenue.

I Had one Female Bestie. She has Boyfriend(s) but will Always be Disturbing me for Money every time.

I Recently TURN DOWN her Financial request.

You should do same. Pick only 2 persons to give Your money to.
Your Mother and your Girlfriend or any Urgent 2K Girl that you Fcvk.
@Least you are Getting something Back.

Every other Person, DON'T GIVE them. Let them Goan Hustle.

I risk a lot..

The day I was owing someone 5 million naira
No way to pay back.
I took one of my customer's car meant for sale for 7m to collect loan of 5m to pay the person am owing 5million.
After the loan was given to me.
Someone in the compound of the person that gave me the loan asked how much is the car because he has been willing to see such car with same Interior which mine carries.
I said pay 10m
He said I will pay 9m
I said oya pay.
He paid 9m
I paid my friend who borrow me his money back of 5.3 with Interest
I ended up paying my customer his own 7m
And also has some cash of 1m plus at hand.
I started doing buying and selling with the money.
Today now I can boast of 50 cars

Sonnobax15:


I've stopped carrying family problems on my head.......Tho I was forewarned, but I thought people were only trying to make me hate my fam....

But las las, I've learned in a very hard way....such a way that could have ended my life....But I think my best decision so far this year is that.....

Omo family is bleeped
My family Na my problem for life I wish I knew earlier
I was also warned

OlawaleBammie:
After bn a graduate without any source of income, then I decided to learn a trade at 28..lol, I was ridiculed, starved, used to beg for #50 but I became a millionaire at 29..

Thank God for the good and bad old days.

Modified..

For people asking the type of trade..Well, I will explain further..
The trade is cocoa and other commodities trading

Actually, I left lagos which was my residence then to edo to lean a trade in 2019, thanks to the popular advice from nairalanders then which says.."leave ur comfort zone"

By 2019, I was in abject poverty, and after a year of my apprenticeship I decided to work as my oga manager, my first year after apprenticeship I have already worth million.

Now I am contemplating on starting my own brand independently...

bro can we come in with each other

musicwriter:
I stopped watching TV in 2017.
My best decision ever.

I woke up one morning and decided that I'll never watch TV again in my life. I reasoned that it was a complete waste of time, so I removed my TV from the wall, called someone and asked him to pay anything he has and take it.

Within 3 weeks, I realized I had so much time to think, which is something I prefer to do.

Within a month I started writing a book.

I enrolled in an online university and studied hard. Within that period I thought deeply about Christianity and religions, I researched the history of Christianity and I stopped believing in Jesus.

That's when I became free indeed and my third eyes opened.

I take it you're not married yet?

what if shes a broke virgin

gigabyte13:

I tell myself say
Any girl wey no get work, we no go ever be friend talk of relationship.....
That decision changed my relationship with every female around.
Parasitic ones around me flew away, l give you, you give. No be me be una Papa.
Enough of father Christmas

Vinnie2000:


This is another Money Leakage Avenue.

I Had one Female Bestie. She has Boyfriend(s) but will Always be Disturbing me for Money every time.

I Recently TURN DOWN her Financial request.

You should do same. Pick only 2 persons to give Your money to.
Your Mother and your Girlfriend or any Urgent 2K Girl that you Fcvk.
@Least you are Getting something Back.

Every other Person, DON'T GIVE them. Let them Goan Hustle.

your mother and your gf...what of your father? To think this is coming from a guy is disturbing.