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Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

You are dating a narcissist, run. I am speaking from experience.

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

All these una Kids no go face una school before doing things with ladies ...

See this one asking Jamb Questions....

Grow to become a Father Figure & She won't ask you Sh.it anymore till then Go & Finish Ya School Bro !

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

sounds like she's paying u for being in a relationship with her.. if that's the case, please always apologize oh. She's your Oga.

leave her

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Don't start what you can't finish

DonroxyII:
All these una Kids no go face una school before doing things with ladies ...

See this one asking Jamb Questions....

Grow to become a Father Figure & She won't ask you Sh.it anymore till then Go & Finish Ya School Bro !

Okay Grandpa

elmagnifico411:
sounds like she's paying u for being in a relationship with her.. if that's the case, please always apologize oh. She's your Oga.

😂

Noted

falcon01:

Make it known that its her fault and she shouldn't try that again then apologise to make her happy.
I'm sorry I shouldn't have reacted that way, it's clearly your fault you shouldn't have done that either way I'm sorry, sorry for making you feel that way but you shouldn't have done this.
The problem is not you apologising, does she apologise too? Or does she expect you to keep apologising all the time? And it should be minor issues. For serious issues raise your voice scold her for doing nonsense if she likes let her cry and if she apologises for been wrong then you apologise for making her cry, at the end of the day love conquers all

Just what I needed. Thanks.
And yes, she do apologize when she's at fault
She just like hearing the "I'm sorry" thing. Even for unnecessary reasons and will still want to make issues out of it if I don't

Deenillah:

Okay Grandpa

... How u Go Be My Grandson... My Grandson no go dey do Fvckaside ...

DonroxyII:
... How u Go Be My Grandson... My Grandson no go dey do Fvckaside ...

Okay Grandpa

placeofallure:


I'm a woman and I'll be candid with you. It's nonsensical if a woman wants you to apologise always even if she's the one at fault.

If she's somebody you want to share your future with, theń don't condone that rubbish. We take care that people we care for turn out well. If you envision her as your children's mum, you'd want to ensure her morality is top notch. You can still school her if she's willing to learn and change. My husband did that for me when we were still dating, he had more experience about life issues and he ed it down.

However, if she's not anything important to you, you know the code already. Let her have her way if you are still interested in shinning her Congo. That's not nice anyway, if you won't eat it, don't smell it. So, let her go.

Gisos Christ .... Hmmm .... Chaiiii !
It was a Good Advise I Enjoyed Though ... But The Bolded ... Jesu Oba Iye ooo

DonroxyII:
Gisos Christ .... Hmmm .... Chaiiii !
It was a Good Advise I Enjoyed Though ... But The Bolded ... Jesu Oba Iye ooo

You see Don, all those foolish girls that parade the streets as slay queens but with empty heads should be taught a lesson. Pikin wey no take home lesson go chop am overload from outside

placeofallure:


You see Don, all those foolish girls that parade the streets as slay queens but with empty heads should be taught a lesson. Pikin wey no take home lesson go chop am overload from outside

Hiaannn, I know u tough but Common don't be Vawulence nahhh ....

Majority of them na cuz of Dilapidated Home fronts Sha... Most of dem their papa don run comot for house ....

In this Kinda economy, Many Homes go become separated, Divorce & Transfer of Aggressions due to economic hardship ....

Once parents can't can & those niggas hand touch am for their daughters ... Her IQ shall be formatted & Rewired to slut it out for Penny

Once she become adapted to these menace, Oti lor Niyen ... Street go take over her empty head ...

I believe everyone should be given a chance for Redemptions sha ... Father should be forced to pay child (Mental & Financial) While Critical Attentions should be placed on Girl-Child ....

All of Us are Guilty of the menace!

placeofallure:


I'm a woman and I'll be candid with you. It's nonsensical if a woman wants you to apologise always even if she's the one at fault.

If she's somebody you want to share your future with, theń don't condone that rubbish. We take care that people we care for turn out well. If you envision her as your children's mum, you'd want to ensure her morality is top notch. You can still school her if she's willing to learn and change. My husband did that for me when we were still dating, he had more experience about life issues and he ed it down.

However, if she's not anything important to you, you know the code already. Let her have her way if you are still interested in shinning her Congo. That's not nice anyway, if you won't eat it, don't smell it. So, let her go.

Boss, sorry to be the one to break this to you but you are dating a childish narcissist. She's possibly a daddy's girl and maybe the last child

DonroxyII:
Hiaannn, I know u tough but Common don't be Vawulence nahhh ....

Majority of them na cuz of Dilapidated Home fronts Sha... Most of dem their papa don run comot for house ....

In this Kinda economy, Many Homes go become separated, Divorce & Transfer of Aggressions due to economic hardship ....

Once parents can't can & those niggas hand touch am for their daughters ... Her IQ shall be formatted & Rewired to slut it out for Penny

Once she become adapted to these menace, Oti lor Niyen ... Street go take over her empty head ...

I believe everyone should be given a chance for Redemptions sha ... Father should be forced to pay child (Mental & Financial) While Critical Attentions should be placed on Girl-Child ....

All of Us are Guilty of the menace!

You are right.

On the radio, about two days ago, the presenter was saying some men don runaway from the house, I thought it was a joke. The times are really traumatising. Anyway, my husband still dey sha.

placeofallure:


You are right.

On the radio, about two days ago, the presenter was saying some men don runaway from the house, I thought it was a joke. The times are really traumatising. Anyway, my husband still dey sha.

Kudos to Him Jhare for keeping you in one piece .. Cuz U be like Lion ooo

DonroxyII:
Kudos to Him Jhare for keeping you in one piece .. Cuz U be like Lion ooo

Ah! Lion bawo!!! I'm an angel o, I don't bite

placeofallure:


Ah! Lion bawo!!! I'm an angel o, I don't bite

... You are really cool until dem bite you

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

That's what makes u a man, u are to pamper your wife and make her happy always.

I'm sorry is part of marriage, if you're too pride then, marriage is not for you

Then apologize.

Una no get work

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Ya dating a narcissist. Your life ain't yours again

No love here. She's a manipulator and will mess up your emotions in the long run.


Sit her down and tell her straight up, if she cannot be responsible and sorry for her actions ( regardless of who's feeling what), then the relationship can't continue.

Relationship should no longer be based on feelings. It should be more intentional and practical for it to work.

Jennyclay:
Just apologize for peace to reign.

Will you die if you apologize . Even you too, you have pride

Is not as if you have money . Broke men and pride and like 5 & 6

Shior!!!

why can't she apologies,broke girls and pride!

Dont be a SIMPle man bro

Something is missing here.

Sizzy everywhere.... You are being manipulated and you dont know it. Better free your self.

If your GF is worrisomely making demands, she doesn't have respect for you, and consequently it means she is not in love with you because any lady who doesn't respect you will never love you for real..

Jennyclay:
Just apologize for peace to reign.

Will you die if you apologize . Even you too, you have pride

Is not as if you have money . Broke men and pride and like 5 & 6

Shior!!!

No naaaa don't talk to him like that.
Life is unfair atimes

We are in this together bro…. Make I just the read comment