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Married And Clubbing (71420 Views)
udemzyudex(m): 8:42pm On May 10, 2023 |
westlius: The probably dey high abeg. |
Jungpablo: 8:43pm On May 10, 2023 |
ahnie:pessimist |
Wawelexy(m): 8:44pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I'm beginning to sense some rhetorics in your question, I already answered you in my previous comment... Well, if you can't even see the immorality in regular clubbing as a parent, then how do I explain or answer your question the way you can understand it.... 1 Like |
mayowascholar(m): 8:48pm On May 10, 2023 |
@op you don give some of us expo to spice up our marriage....Nice update
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davidtemi(m): 8:48pm On May 10, 2023 |
jedaii:Dem tell u say dem get work?? |
Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wawelexy:The only immorality here is that stacked up in your mind. There is nothing "holy" about being a parent that they would need to consider clubbing immorality. Parents who socialize by clubbing are able to teach their kids that when they too become adults, it is ok for them to go dancing, drinking in clubs, in bars, or even at parties. Nothing wrong with that at all. ![]() |
Wawelexy(m): 8:50pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Maybe I need to let you know that actions, places, words, music, gesture and even look can trigger your feelings, thereby making you do somethings you don't even intend doing or won't do on a normal circumstances... |
Wawelexy(m): 8:55pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Different strokes for different folks.... To me, it's not proper, i will be an hypocrites if I should rebuke my 16 y/o son for clubbing, knowing fully well that they probably learnt it from me.... There are other places I and my wife can go have a nice time, but certainly not a club house |
Kobojunkie: 9:01pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wawelexy:When it comes to what is proper, each man, woman, and married couple gets to decide for themselves. 2. There is nothing hypocritical about a married couple rebuking their 16-year-old for clubbing if they made it clear that only adults are allowed to club and a 16-year-old is not an adult. Also, because the parents club doesn't mean the kids would automatically wish to club at 16 years of age. 3. Interesting! Are you OK then with your 16-year-old going to those same places for instance to also have a nice time? Is that why you choose such places? ![]() 2 Likes |
dangermouse(m): 9:09pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If you know , you know. Everything that glitters is not gold. Many things are going on underground in clubs. Moreover you pick up vices you never dream of in your life time. The way the op iis painting clubs makes me laugh. Frequently going there will make her start seeing prostitution as a norm, drinking and smoking all sought of legal and illegal smokes etc. You become used to all these vices and must one day be tempted to give in. Talking from experience. No sane man takes his truely loved and wedded wife to a club. There are other recreational centers he can take her to. 4 Likes |
bigiyaro(m): 9:11pm On May 10, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:you are right, it's the character and behavior of the person that matters, and that is why you will never find oyedepo clubbing. So am telling you that fonicators and drunks often go to the club cos that is the character and behavior of a fonicator/drunk. |
Streetmovement(m): 9:12pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wotoporiously ![]() Make una kill una self with drinks o, I this post with 5 cartons of beer afterall man shall not live by bread alone ![]() |
Figger(m): 9:12pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Have u forgotten that it was inside that same club that burna boy ordered his bodyguards to beat up a married man who came to club with his wife after he objected and reacted over the advances he made to his wife? They even shot a gun in the process. |
Divoc19(f): 9:15pm On May 10, 2023 |
Qui sera, sera Kobojunkie: |
Kobojunkie: 9:17pm On May 10, 2023 |
dangermouse:1. Sometimes the way you folks talk of your partners, it leads me to wonder if you even consider them as equally capable adults such as yourselves. Can an adult be cajoled into doing what he/she does not already want to or desire to do — without a gun to the head of course? 2 From the way you talk, I can tell you have never in fact been clubbing at all in your life. I used to do it a lot in my young years and I never picked up any thing I didn't want to pick up, why? because of the person I am. Everyone is like that. We only pick up what we already have and loose disciple. And these things you can pick up pretty much anywhere really. So, if you want to shackle a person because you are afraid the person does not have the same disciplines you have then it is better you don't even engage that person at all because whether the person clubs or does not, he/she is bound to pick up that which he or she already have loose ideas of. ![]() 3. So are you saying it is OK for a man can go clubbing with his side chicks but not his own wife? It is ok for a man to pick up on the vices you listed but not his wife? Or what exactly am I reading here? ![]() 1 Like |
Kobojunkie: 9:19pm On May 10, 2023 |
Figger:I don't follow! So burna boy literally committed what amounts to a felony and so the man who went clubbing with his wife is to blame for this? ![]() 2 Likes |
Wawelexy(m): 9:20pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: @ Q3, it's not actually about the place, it's about how noble and responsible you will still be even if you decide to go along with your kids.... 1 Like |
Auto58(m): 9:22pm On May 10, 2023 |
Married couple clubbing is very nice.
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McLizbae: 9:22pm On May 10, 2023 |
OP is the she, babe is a man.
Wawelexy: 2 Likes |
Wawelexy(m): 9:24pm On May 10, 2023 |
McLizbae: They are both on Nairaland, both of them are following up with the thread.... Ask OP, she will confirm that to you 4 Likes |
Kobojunkie: 9:25pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wawelexy:Ok, so what noble and responsible place do you and your wife go that you would not mind your 16-year-old running off to as well and what do you do there? ![]() |
dreamxhaser: 9:29pm On May 10, 2023 |
Akalia: U no see how she dress go the club? The woman no dey exposed at all 1 Like |
Wawelexy(m): 9:34pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: At that same budget and with the same mode of enjoyment they had, I, my wife and kid(s) can opt for an Amusement park, while the kids stay in their section, I and wifey can decide to see a movie... There are numerous options we could choose from... You know all these things, maybe your wokeness is what is inspiring your argument 2 Likes |
Clinghton: 9:35pm On May 10, 2023 |
Abeg make una leave them, every story doesn't have a tragic ending.
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Figger(m): 9:35pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:There other places to go as married couples to have fun, shopping malls(bars dey inside malls where alcohols are served with better dj playing) amusement parks, cinemas etc, clubbing is way too Xtreme. |
OdefaGirl(f): 9:35pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wawelexy: You guys know how to mess people up.... Very sickening |
dreamxhaser: 9:35pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: People like you are very annoying and you know why? It's simply because una too dey form woke. Even for the Yankee you dey try emulate, how many couples dey go club? Almost zero |
Kobojunkie: 9:36pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wawelexy:1. Wait a minute, so you are telling me that when you and your wife want to socialize, you go to an amusement park? And you are OK with your 16-year-old kid frequenting the adult section of the same amusement park in your absence? ![]() |
Kobojunkie: 9:37pm On May 10, 2023 |
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DCONE1(m): 9:39pm On May 10, 2023 |
RevenuesBoost:And the rest of us are fake for advising you ? 1 Like |
Kobojunkie: 9:39pm On May 10, 2023 |
Figger:1. Clubbing is worse than a bar where alcohol and music are equally played? Is it me or am I talking to people who assume all clubs are the same as that they experienced at age 18 or what? ![]() |
dreamxhaser: 9:39pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Have you been to a clubhouse before Do you know the amount of bad stuffs going on there. We dey tell una from experience, una no wan hear Continue |
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