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See the way people are rushing to advice,if na boy now..u go see insults upon insults..hmm this life eh

See the way people are rushing to advice..if na boy wey post this now..come see insults upon insults..hmm this life eh

Starz825:

You sef know na
Que sera sera

Seriously speaking, You need to talk to your creator actually...
You need to pray for direction Stargurl20

Hmmm words. Thanks

Stargurl20:
Is it advisable for a lady of maybe 25 years to leave home immediately after NYSC just to save her self from foreseen pressures? I'm still an undergraduate. Will be round off in less than a year by the grace of God and may ASUU not embark on another strike. I've been thinking a lot these days, and I'm just not confident enough to face any pressure from families especially after NYSC.

To those who left home after NYSC, with no hope of where to go, how to start or what to do, were you able to scale through? Did you regret your decision?


Pls, share your experiences, especially if you are a lady who has experienced this. Thank you

I left home at 20years to be hustling, you better find your way and delete your age from your brain, focus on success,thats the only way to survive this cruel world. If you are successful, you will easily find man no matter your age. What the society says about old women not getting husband is a lie, even younger guys wont allow you to rest

When it’s not as if they are chasing you away from home, why leave home…

Lamanii22:
When it’s not as if they are chasing you away from home, why leave home…

I can foresee it. I don't have the courage to face that

Stargurl20:

I guess that's why. But make I no lie, I feel bad at times, coz I feel I should be the most loved as her first and only daughter, but unfortunately, we do not always get what we want

jealousy jealousy... see you. You should be happy. technically so. You may not be what you're today or be as sound as you're today if you were treated maybe more specially. Most children that were overly treated special and were not allowed to do anything can hardly survive on their own, imagine a girl in such situation. Your mom is a good mother, you really need to thank her for not spoiling you. Today you may not be Able to cook, take care of your house or do anything. you may not even have the least of courtesy for others, so you should be grateful and not feel jealous.
Also try to train your children in such way too, the only difference should be that you don't show them that any of them is special. Most parents that do that do it unconsciously so you have to be meticulous about it.

culf:


jealousy jealousy... see you. You should be happy. technically so. You may not be what you're today or be as sound as you're today if you were treated maybe more specially. Most children that were overly treated special and were not allowed to do anything can hardly survive on their own, imagine a girl in such situation. Your mom is a good mother, you really need to thank her for not spoiling you. Today you may not be Able to cook, take care of your house or do anything. you may not even have the least of courtesy for others, so you should be grateful and not feel jealous.
Also try to train your children in such way too, the only difference should be that you don't show them that any of them is special. Most parents that do that do it unconsciously so you have to be meticulous about it.

Well, maybe you're right. Thank do much for your advice so far.

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Life life and life

Ficus on your skills and your financial independence for now. And consistency work in that till then.

Nothing like pressure.


Just that moment after NYSC is the most challenging moment in one's life.
You go wan even consider becoming a pastor at a point sef.

Stargurl20:
Is it advisable for a lady of maybe 25 years to leave home immediately after NYSC just to save her self from foreseen pressures? I'm still an undergraduate. Will be round off in less than a year by the grace of God and may ASUU not embark on another strike. I've been thinking a lot these days, and I'm just not confident enough to face any pressure from families especially after NYSC.

To those who left home after NYSC, with no hope of where to go, how to start or what to do, were you able to scale through? Did you regret your decision?


Pls, share your experiences, especially if you are a lady who has experienced this. Thank you

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It's all grace o. Person wey go help you no go stress you. My pop is next month and i've already secured a job at a government hospital and i'm paying all of my bills at that same age of 25. It's as if God already prepared this place for me. What more can i ask for? God dey o.

fman:
Start saving money...
So that after your NYSC, you can rent an apartment while u look for jobs..
Or better still, you meant be posted to a good establishment, that pays well.
Then u can retain and plan your future.

Places like Bayelsa you won’t be able to save ooo cos things are very expensive most especially brass...

FalseProphet1:
I see you getting pregnant before the end of this year, I you giving birth to 3plets.

This I have seen.

I see you being the father of her triplets
Ishi!

If you are leaving home, you have to know where to go.

Where you will leave to isn’t something you will just decide on the go. It's something you have to be serious about.

If not, you will just rush back home.

Is better you think about what you can be doing to sustain yourself after the service year, because you might not luckily to get employment elsewhere, its one of the reasons why they compulsory SEAD for every corps to development in skill acquisition program to be self employed.

Starz825:

You sef know na
Que sera sera

Seriously speaking, You need to talk to your creator actually...
You need to pray for direction Stargurl20

Que sera fit no sera ooo

So you have given up on finding husband while you are still in school.. shey na when you finish school you wan get your on husband.. you better find husband in school before you graduate.. the pressure is necessary.. you are no more a kid

Stargurl20:
Is it advisable for a lady of maybe 25 years to leave home immediately after NYSC just to save her self from foreseen pressures? I'm still an undergraduate. Will be round off in less than a year by the grace of God and may ASUU not embark on another strike. I've been thinking a lot these days, and I'm just not confident enough to face any pressure from families especially after NYSC.

To those who left home after NYSC, with no hope of where to go, how to start or what to do, were you able to scale through? Did you regret your decision?


Pls, share your experiences, especially if you are a lady who has experienced this. Thank you

After NYSC my elder sibling moved straight to her husband’s house .Lols. Printing wedding cards, doing wedding shopping, etc based on say the husband don set already
A lot of female friends posted to Lag and Abuja after NYSC just rented apartments there & started looking for jobs straight . A friend met her husband at her place of work , & got married soon after. Another started an eatery, met her husband in church, got married , and JAPA -ed with her hubby few months after.

@mi sha, after NYSC, l just booked the next available flight to a new life in Australia immediately to begin my masters , having secured ission & processed visa months earlier. I do not regret my decision.

I still dey where I serve since April. Have not seen work but God have not disgrace me since I finish NYSC. I believe one day my my story will change like Benzema own �

How are you going to pay the house rent and other bills except you get job first.

Fff

Alright