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blowjohn(m): 4:00pm On Apr 22, 2022
Are u saying u were not aware of ur genotypes before u got married in this age?
Keniwit(m): 4:01pm On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.
Nothing like dat...God isn't magician

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
Though the probability of you both with AS & AS genotype having a child with SS is 2/4 and it isn't medically advised for u to "breed"
BUT
How did you know that the child is SS?
Was any medical examination carried out on the feotus to determine it's genotype?
seglabsy(m): 4:03pm On Apr 22, 2022
mrvitalis:

And the same God never change Nigeria
when last did you go to church or mosque ni?
Jchi9876: 4:03pm On Apr 22, 2022
When you dey do kerewawa with person whey you and am get same genotype you no shout Help me!
.na after I chook finish without condom your eye clear.
Oh girl get out jooor and commot for hia
Ghostrye: 4:05pm On Apr 22, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
if you did CVS and it is confirmed that the genotype of the unborn child is SS then my sister, ABORT!!

You will suffer alone o!! You will regret and gnash your teeth.
Don't use your two legs to enter wahala.

I am tired of writing about this issue.

Better abort and get a divorce, then look for an AA guy to marry. That your partner is not a good person. He is irresponsible!!The lord is showing you red flags and you are asking stupid question
The partner is irresponsible? Did you gloss over the part where he didn't want to have further children after they got lucky with the first one?

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Jchi9876: 4:05pm On Apr 22, 2022
blowjohn:
Are u saying u were not aware of ur genotypes before u got married in this age?

Who told you she is married?

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad


This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin


May you never ever birth a male child..so you don't abuse him to death. Amen
mrvitalis(m): 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
seglabsy:
when last did you go to church or mosque ni?
Is your prayer not enough ? So na my prayer go change Nigeria ?
funkmrflexx(m): 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

I'm AS And my wife too is AS . We both new our genotype before getting married because we agreed on pregnancy testing as a way to find out the genotype of the unborn baby. And if the baby was SS we would abort it . That's what you should do . Abort the pregnancy. Thank God you already have a non SS baby.
Since he gave you money abort it and move on with your life

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oluwaseyi0: 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.

God to change AS to SS or what do you say?

Stop giving people false hope

Why did god create SS in the first place


Abortion is the only viable option

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omoadeleye(m): 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME


Y'all want to make the new guy to come and live a life full of pain on earth.

Y'all crazy asf

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IamV: 4:06pm On Apr 22, 2022
Wisfem:
Seek medical advice from a specialist not social advise from online forum okay

What medical advice is she going to seek exactly ? Bone marrow transplant ? Does she have the money to fund it ?

She claimed to be catholic,and I'm left wondering if the church knew about her genotype & that of her partner before ing them both in holy matrimony ?

Or is it a case of two adults fornicating ,and now she's playing the religion card of her faith being against abortion ?

I have a girl who is a SS in my compound,and I know the hell she goes through.
I won't wish anyone such experience,truth be told.

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janvier27(m): 4:07pm On Apr 22, 2022
Abort and pray for God's forgiveness

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Jchi9876: 4:08pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

But you can chook your "partner" aka bf whey never marry you.?
These naija girls ahh their brain na correct isi azu

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OkwuruOKARISIA(m): 4:08pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing
so why are you wasting everyone's time when you know you cannot do it?

I only pity the innocent baby you're planning to bring into suffering.

It may be a painful decision to take, but that's the best decision for you and the unborn child.


Meanwhile, both you and your partner deserve better flogging.

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XTHRONE(m): 4:09pm On Apr 22, 2022
IamV:



Catholic church ed you two in holy matrimony despite knowing you're both AS ?

I have a girl who is a SS in my compound,and I know the hell she goes through.
I won't wish anyone such experience,truth be told.


Are they even married or just cohabiting, people of this days self

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Hezzyluv: 4:09pm On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.

God had saved from the first one she no go use her sense
Tell me why she would try God for the second time undecided

After the birth of baby she will now be disturbing God up and down.
rentAcock(m): 4:10pm On Apr 22, 2022
Don't listen to all these child murderers telling you to abort the fetus. Seems like you are somewhere in Europe, your child has a better chance of living a decent life for the mere fact that they have better medical services. Who knows if some groundbreaking discovery will eradicate the SS crisis in the future and probably enable SS patients live a long healthy life? I know SS patients in their 50s, don't let these people make you commit an abominable act just because they lack faith and have a myopic view of the future.

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Fantasticcc: 4:11pm On Apr 22, 2022
Wicked and selfish woman..Do you know how painful sickle cell disease is?
IamV: 4:11pm On Apr 22, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
if you did CVS and it is confirmed that the genotype of the unborn child is SS then my sister, ABORT!!

You will suffer alone o!! You will regret and gnash your teeth.
Don't use your two legs to enter wahala.

I am tired of writing about this issue.

Better abort and get a divorce, then look for an AA guy to marry. That your partner is not a good person. He is irresponsible!!The lord is showing you red flags and you are asking stupid question

A church [ she claimed to be catholic] ed two AS persons together in holy matrimony ?
Or is this a case of two adult fornicating recklessly despite knowing the risk involved [ their genotype ] ?

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blowjohn(m): 4:11pm On Apr 22, 2022
Jchi9876:


Who told you she is married?

Her story shows her pregnancies were all desired.
And she talks about her first child having genotype of AS.

Meaning she and her partner weda married or not knew about the consequences
armyofone(m): 4:12pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

Where do you live ?
Blast1: 4:13pm On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad

This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin



Scan results and lab test can also be misleading. Think twice !
Popeonah(m): 4:13pm On Apr 22, 2022
Abort it. Don’t live your life regretting why you allowed another soul to suffer
Upworkwriter007(f): 4:13pm On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad


This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin


Lol...allah and abortion in the same statement.
sylve11: 4:14pm On Apr 22, 2022
2braithe:


Family planning sef is not 100% guaranteed.

The guy told her he does not want another child with her, yet he was bleeping her raw.

Both the op and the man, I don't know what to say to them. embarassed cool
ayodejimayowa: 4:15pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
How did you know its SS when you've not given birth to the baby
juman(m): 4:16pm On Apr 22, 2022
Abort it.
MrFinbarr(m): 4:16pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:



LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

You are an idiot.
The horrific thing here is knowing you are incompatible with your ex partner and still went ahead to get pregnant after escaping the first time.

Abort that fetus now, unless you want to do more horrific thing by giving birth to that child into a life of pain and suffering. People make stupid decisions and then they have some stupid morals or whatever.

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