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kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

STOP TELLING STORIES MY GOOD FRIEND. GO TO CHRIST...SEEK HIM FOR THE CHANGE OF LIFE U NEED SO BADLY, ATTEND DEEPER LIFE EASTER RETREAT IN UR STATE...Christ will Change Ur Life FOR THE BETTER...SUICIDE is not an Option in this Life,God Freely Gave You,Pls.

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Make up your mind...

And start a job on your own

kenzysmith:
i dont ve their number on my phone but anytime i take ahchol d ist thing on my mind is sex

then stop taking alcohol, stay away from friends that visit brothels, is there anything you can do as a hobby? Cooking, dancing, teaching?

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Guy pray for yourself

Nothing do you ! It’s youthful lust taken to far !
I have been in this situation too !
You have to go to prayer mountain( ori oke ikoyi) in Osun state precisely and abstain from people for like one week

Now I feed nations

I was like the stone left in a corner that became the pillars …
It’s been years now !
Happily married now with kids
Even tho I married late too
Living in my dream country
Guy
There is hope for you
Erase the suicide thought pls because me never feel that for one day

Since you can diagnose your problem, you get hope, the solution is still yourself. Deliberately start giving the alternate thought whenever you are going to the brothel a chance, otherwise, forced restriction might need to be applied on you.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Relocate temporarily to North where ashawo t rare. Take it as rehab

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Brother whatever u do to make money please do it without remorse, you can do away from brothel by making up your mind not to go there, don't rush to enter relationship, just be confident that u can do better.. God's mercies on you

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I can see you are a real nigga

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God bless U for the advice u gv him.

Daniel7543:
Quite unfortunate that many people are battling with brothel addiction. I was once like you op. I never had a girlfriend back then, I was always visiting a brothel.

But since when I met my girlfriend, everything changed. She was like a divine therapist assigned to me by God. It wasn't easy but I fought my way out of my addiction.

Fighting such an addiction is not a day job, you need someone to guide you through. Do you have a girlfriend? If No, then look for a decent girl who truly loves you.

She will do all her best to get you out of the addiction. You can't do it alone, you need someone to guide you.

First of all, get a sensible girlfriend that truly loves you and then double your hustle, look for a better job and once you gather reasonable amount of money.
Get married and start having kids.
Sometimes everything in life isn't about fire, fire, village people.
All you need is to make a decision and stick by it.
Believe me bro, only a good girlfriend and a job can change your life forever.
Most people underestimate the power of a good woman.

Ummmm..what a life...

You alone will carry your cross yourself, but you need a made up mind to do this.

ItsGoodToBeGood:
Hmmmm

Start Blogging Business and thank Me later

YeyeGbami:
Na free you dey knack there?

Yes na free ole
U wan league

Congrats you now have a topic on FP.

Your next topic could be help I am in 8m debt to loan apps

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

there are people that are sex addicts and yet they are successful. You are just being silly
Do you spend 24hrs in thr brothel. Cant you go and leave in 39min to go and attend to other things in your life? I dont get it. Even if you spend 5k a day in brothel, if you know what you are doing you can still live a normal life. I dont understand what you are complaining about

As a first son too, it's impossible I become foolish. The responsibilities keep me in check.

Responsibilities na your mate?

If you listen to people like Joshua Selman...you will know that the first fruit of anything, the first to emerge in any place will always come under the enemies attack. It's not a coincidence you're going thru this.

Make decision to turn away from your past ask the Lord Jesus to take your wheel... God will surprise you ! Amen

There is only one Man that will help you if you can come to Him with open heart. He is Jesus Christ, the Saviour of the world. Look out for a Bible believing church and start worshipping with them. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal Saviour and begin to walk with Him in sincerity and He change your life. All those people avoiding you will come back and ask you for forgiveness. Happy cheers!

Brothel addiction is a terrible thing but say no to suicide.

At least you know you have a problem.

That's a good start. Na will power remain, think of prostitutes has dirty bad luck disease ridden elements , this will begin to turn you off.

Get into something productive , like acquiring a skill and working out. Perhaps get a girlfriend , make sure she's not another olosho oh.

Na the people wey get issues wey no dey acknowledge am I dey despise but you, I still get small hope.

Also don't forget your creator, he gets the power to fix it.

kenzysmith:
I stop masturbation 2yrs ago after 9yrs in bondage u asking me to go back to it

Seek professional counselling or tell your parents about your ordeal,the shame will Force you to change

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Is this real?? Or a joke?

I tell people once ure an adult u have to take responsibility for urself and ur actions thses includes ur habits good and bad.

Stopping ur addiction is same way u stop a strong bad habbit. U have to not only pray bt do the physical, emotional and psychological work to stop it. There must be a high level of determination and awareness.

The 1st thing u should know is ur problem is simple. Very simple. It's not even hard at all.

Once u believe that u can begin to work towards it by making deliberate and hard decisions and reversal behaviours.

You simply need Jesus.

Bigredmachine:
I was partly just like you OP... But the day I started diverting my time and attention to things that are productive (though another type of addiction entirely) the urge to visit brothel died of totally...

Also ashawo girls no matter how much you pay them won't give u that satisfaction you need, for example... Can u kiss, become an head master to an ashawo... I Believe ur answer is no... Since this ashawo girls don't give me that satisfaction I need, I lost interest in visiting them, cos money spent on them is a waste...

I rather use that money to play bet, e enter good, e no enter good...

I would advice u get urself a girl with whom both of u can plan marriage together.....

someone is telling you he has no good job you're talking of marriage to him to further worsen his situation with a Nigerian leech, watin dey worry una sef for this forum. U nor get sense

I have only one suggestion for you, if you can do it, you will have a renewed mind.

Take out one day and visit a university teaching hospital close to you. Spend 6 hours there going from ward to ward, interact with patients and make sure you visit emergency unit, when you come back, your views about life will change.

As for brothel, do this first, nobody will tell you to take your life more serious.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Same way you stopped masturbation, apply same energy in trying to stop nacking ashawo

kenzysmith:
I stop masturbation 2yrs ago after 9yrs in bondage u asking me to go back to it

Just shut up pls
I also disvirgined in a brothel in my early days
That was the last day I slept with a bit*h

I asked myself, why would a handsome looking guy like me be doing with overused girls when I can easily reframe myself and go for the good girls and eat them and even make them fight over me
But who never bleeped up hands in the air, I was young so what do you expect from me

You lack self control guy, you don’t respect your body enough to change from what you do

Go to the barbing salon today and have a nice haircut and shave off your beards, have a cold bath
Then get someone to teach you how to make money online , if konji worry you , get babes in another area where no one knows you

Sleeping with bitch*s you should know how to woo girls already and get them to bed even if you’re ugly

Ask yourself, is this how I’ll end my life wretched ?

Follow your answer, if yes … then take my advise
If NO …. Then I have more ashawo for you

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DoctorOlasDesk:



First get engaged with work that demands your time plentifully. Where will the time for brothel avail itself if you only have time for work and rest?


The root cause is too much spare time and idleness

And you can make it in 30s

Joseph became prime minister in 30s

Jesus began public ministry in 30s


30s is a period God does a lot of repairs to damaged lives

NasoLifeBe!!!


U have commented well

kenzysmith:
u think God still ve plan for me?

two things you should never do.
1: never go into betting
2: don't think it's too late.

Find a way out of your current situation.
1: find a girlfriend who loves sex more than you do, she'll drain all the urge and energy you feel for sex anytime you're drunk.
2: If you can't find the above then stay away from alcohol from the time being.

Learn to be responsible, do things that will make your parents proud of you again. Let them see that truly you're a changed person. And when you're finally out, stay away from all those places no matter what.

Lastly before I forget, Don't ever believe that you'll find your salvation in a church or any religious groups, you'll end up being more frustrated that you are currently.